Wife's first solo experience

[rohan094]

I'm new here and this is my first "real" post. I'll start off by saying I'm pretty bad at expressing my thoughts through writing, so please bear with me and let me know if something doesn't make sense.

First things first, my wife is 25, came here to the UK from India as a student and we got married about two years ago, shortly after she graduated. I'm 29, I have some Indian and other South Asian in me, but I grew up in the UK from a very young age, so I'm culturally British. She is absolutely gorgeous and I can still stare at her for minutes without getting tired, whereas I'm pretty mid so it's bonkers that I ended up with her in the first place.

Long story short, I became turned on at the idea of her having sex with other men after she joined a fitness club and I went through a short jealousy phase, which sounds weird when I think about it. Basically started with casual conversation and jokes about the physiques of other men at her gym, which led to some jealousy on my part, which led to "ah, what if...". Which led to the situation of me being exceedingly turned on at the thought of her having sex with a stud, and her wondering if I had gone barking mad lol...

It took a bit of probing before she revealed that a couple of guys had been low key flirting with her. Bear in mind in her culture, when a woman admits something like that it opens her up to the very real possibility of domestic violence, so it took a lot of reassurance on my part to convince that I actually found it a major turn on. And even more reassurance to get her to tell me if she found any of them attractive.

Eventually she got comfortable for the 3 of us to meet up for drinks. He seemed like a decent bloke with a decent career, and well, MORE than decent looks and physique (I have zero in men, but if I were gay I'd probably do him lol). So I let them meet up without me for the next couple of dates. I really wanted to know how the sexual tension between them developed on those dates, but when I asked my wife she preferred that I ask him instead. So WITH HER CONSENT I asked him over text how it went in detail and, well, I was already hugely turned on. They didn't have sex as expected, but there was plenty of flirty conversation, light touching, hand holding etc, and other indications that she was into him. I think I can safely say that this was the point of no return for me and I knew what I/we wanted to happen.

Long story short, a hotel room was arranged and I dropped her off and picked her up about 4 hours later. I'm pretty sure it would've been awkward to record the whole thing, so we all agreed on audio recordings, which I think was the perfect compromise because I'm pretty sure she forgot that it was recording at some point. What happened was an almost unbearable turn on to the point that my hands are trembling and sweating as I type this. I got to hear an entirely different side of her. She was beautifully loud, louder than she'd ever been with me in bed, and the giggles, his dirty talk and her reactions to it, the sounds of him taking her hard, the sounds and words she managed to get out of her. It felt like I was getting to know her all over again for the first time and I have jerked off dozens of loads to this audio.

Suffice to say I can't wait for this to happen again.

[snoogaloo82]

I can't wait for it to happen again, too! It sounds like the perfect evening for the two of them! Did she have him go bareback, or covered? Did you hear her cum? Is she a screamer or groaner? Please let us know more when you can!

[rohan094]

I can't wait for it to happen again, too! It sounds like the perfect evening for the two of them! Did she have him go bareback, or covered? Did you hear her cum? Is she a screamer or groaner? Please let us know more when you can!

Bareback, she's on BC and we took precautions since I really wanted them to let loose. Yes, several times. She's more of a groaner but my god I've never heard her groan like that before. Let me know what else, I've been practically dying to get this off my chest lol

[sandy691196]

No ass fucking or ass play? He came inside her pussy?
Any ass spanking?

Postures? BJs? Cuddling after or in between sex?

[rohan094]

No ass fucking or ass play? He came inside her pussy?
Any ass spanking?

Postures? BJs? Cuddling after or in between sex?

Anal is a no-go for her so none of that. Spanking yes, just a bit.

Yeah he did a few times.

Positions were missionary, prone and lotus. She hasn't done lotus with me for a VERY long time but she's clearly very much into him so I shouldn't be surprised....

Cuddling... since there's just audio I didn't see it, but I asked him extensive questions and he says she couldn't keep her hands off him the entire time.

[sandy691196]

Well .. you have started her off on the path.
Now I guess she will take speed.
There will be other men. Take her to a pub and see!

[snoogaloo82]

I can't wait for it to happen again, too! It sounds like the perfect evening for the two of them! Did she have him go bareback, or covered? Did you hear her cum? Is she a screamer or groaner? Please let us know more when you can!

Bareback, she's on BC and we took precautions since I really wanted them to let loose. Yes, several times. She's more of a groaner but my god I've never heard her groan like that before. Let me know what else, I've been practically dying to get this off my chest lol

Yeah to the bareback!! Does he cum multiple times inside her? Have you had her creampie? Did they do anything kinky besides being together?

[venus-can99]

Thanks for your post Rohan. Extremely delightful that you made her comfortable in her desires. Do you think he will be a long term prospect- I.e., a boyfriend or just a stunt cock ? How did she feel after the “deed” was done ? Perhaps you should get her to open up about her desires and wants so you can get her perspective on the LS
Are you planning another meet up with the same guy or are you both planning to explore the waters?

[rooster444]

Did she tell you about how well hung he is? Details?

[ugcp]

Sounds like a very successful first time. If she enjoyed it and feels good and positive, and you don't feel any jealousy, resentment, animosity, or malice, then I'd say you couldn't really ask for more. Btw, you may want to really reassure her that you find her more beautiful and desirable than ever - women can feel uncertain and uneasy, even negative about themselves, after a first time.

You gonna share that audio with the class lol (with her permission ofc) ? I think audio can be posted over in the hotties section (though maybe a mod can give guidance on that). Great call on the audio recording option... sounds alone can be particularly mentally erotic in non-monogamy situations, and as you suggested, it's easier to forget about than a camera pointed at you, so you get more genuine, authentic results. Way sexier than an awkward, distracted, half-performance on video.

[rohan094]

Thanks for your post Rohan. Extremely delightful that you made her comfortable in her desires. Do you think he will be a long term prospect- I.e., a boyfriend or just a stunt cock ?

I think it'll become something like a FWB.

How did she feel after the “deed” was done ? Perhaps you should get her to open up about her desires and wants so you can get her perspective on the LS

Judging from her groans and laughs and responses to him I think it's safe to say it's the most satisfied she's ever been. I asked her if she would do him again and she did the thing when she nods quickly followed by a nervous laugh lol

Are you planning another meet up with the same guy or are you both planning to explore the waters?

We'll be sticking with the same guy, at least for now. Dude is a Henry Cavil lookalike, about twice her size and drives her nuts and I think it'll be hard to find and vet another one like that

[rohan094]

Did she tell you about how well hung he is? Details?

She did say he was pretty well hung, but she barely focused on that among all the other things

[rohan094]

Sounds like a very successful first time. If she enjoyed it and feels good and positive, and you don't feel any jealousy, resentment, animosity, or malice, then I'd say you couldn't really ask for more.

I mean I do feel jealousy but it's also a good kind of jealousy if it makes sense. The fact that he can get totally different sounds and words out of her in bed is a huge turn on for me at the same time.

Great call on the audio recording option...

Yeah I'm glad we went with that. If there was a camera in a room I think they'd be way too self conscious, but since it's audio it had a smaller presence and I'm pretty sure they forgot that it was recording because it really ramped up about 10 minutes in!!

[rohan094]

I've been reading a thread called "why a guy would want to sleep with another man", started writing a reply but it got a bit long, so I decided to put it in my own thread.

For me it was less about wanting her to merely bang another man, and more about giving her a second chance that girls of her age and beauty would normally have in a free society.

My wife is from India, 25, fit and gorgeous. And she might as well have been in a coma for the past 10 years. As is common with young women in her culture, she lived with her parents, couldn't enjoy nights out after 7 pm without getting interrogated by her parents, couldn't have boyfriends without her parents' approval, etc.

She came to the UK as a student and we met and got married a couple of years ago. But she's too good looking and I'm too brown for her to simply settle down and skip her sexual blossoming phase without experiencing a range of other men. I wanted her to experience the thrill of going on dates and being chased by local guys that she finds attractive, flirting, making out, getting fondled, etc. So we discussed that, and created situations that made it likely for her to organically meet the type of men that she's attracted to.

That's why we had her go on dates with the guy first, and honestly talking about the chemistry and what they did on the dates is just as much of a turn on for me as the sex they had.

[sandy691196]

When were you last in India?

[rohan094]

When were you last in India?

My parents and extended family are from there so I visit them about once a year. I apologize if my comments are over generalized and cause offence.

[sandy691196]

It gives serious offence mate and is ridiculously inaccurate..

[rohan094]

It gives serious offence mate and is ridiculously inaccurate..

Tried to be polite. But now that you've tried to invalidate my wife's own personal experience by claiming her account of her own childhood is ridiculously inaccurate, who gives a fuck if you're offended? Blocked.

[leggysman]

This is your thread, and your story to tell from your perspective, rohan094.

I agree with you, and I assumed that your perspective is informed by what you've been told by your wife, an Indian, about the community she grew up in.

Please continue to post your experiences. That first date sounds like a great start!

[rohan094]

This is your thread, and your story to tell from your perspective, rohan094.

Thank you for your understanding and for having class

[BallSpanking]

Hi Rohan,

It does sound like your lovely wife is enraptured by her lover's physique, and is eager to pursue their affair, but be mindful of rhetorical emotional attachment that can result, especially is she has limited experience and the Henry Cavill 'rocks her world' ...
Sometimes, and that is something you would need to discuss with her, it is a good thing for her to have a second or third FWB, to avoid an excessive emotional attachment to one lover, and the potential hazards that could present. In addition to that if what you wanted for her is to experience a greater variety of lovers (given the restrictive oversight in her upbringing), perhaps she should keep her dance card open for other sexy guys to approach her and chat her up. If she is as sexy and lovely as you say, the likelihood of her being approached is a real one, especially now as her sexual confidence and experience is blossoming. They will be drawn to her energy, for sure.

[venus-can99]

Looking forward to hearing all about their next date. May I also suggest that your wife can join here as well and become a Verified HotWife. This would give her access to the Ladies Lounge where she can get a woman's perspective from other hotwives.

[rohan094]

Hi Rohan,

It does sound like your lovely wife is enraptured by her lover's physique, and is eager to pursue their affair, but be mindful of rhetorical emotional attachment that can result, especially is she has limited experience and the Henry Cavill 'rocks her world' ...

Hi, thanks for the reasoned advice. Down the line there could be a second or third, who knows. It’s something we’ll end up talking about at some point. Among those who know me there is a long running joke that I was born with a genetic defect that is a missing jealousy gene. I’ve never felt romantic jealousy or heartbreak, not even as a teenager. To some this comes across as strangely secure and weirdly charming, to others as if I’m sort of unfeeling freak. One thing’s for sure, it makes me uniquely suited to the lifestyle

[venus-can99]

Very interesting about lack of jealousy… as evidenced by a number of posts who have had a successful hw lifestyle open and honest communication appears to be the key as in any relationship

[rohan094]

Looking forward to hearing all about their next date.

Me too, it's coming up this weekend!

May I also suggest that your wife can join here as well and become a Verified HotWife.

I'll ask her but she's not really into interacting with people in this way so I have a feeling she won't