It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[FLR_fan]

I hear that this is a good time of the year to visit Austin. Anything to get away from this freezing madness right now.

[w770]

It is nice that Lana has relaxed her apprehensions and is having sexy conversations with Tyler ...
Who knows, maybe she'll go cowboy riding in Texas sometime soon. Maybe for a weekend, a nice mini break from being all-mom.

Well it's been a fantasy for the both of us for the last week or so, but realistically, it doesn't look like it will happen, mostly because of the logistics of safety concerns. When she was with Shawn, I was a flight of stairs away. When she was with Adam, we had a lot of friends in the city that could be where they were in a matter of minutes. In Texas, we don't know anyone and so it's a bit more difficult.

Glad to see he is playing the long game and isn't being a prick about it. Hopefully he continues to play well - he just might get another chance (though hopefully not until she is safely knocked up).

He really is. I've gone over their conversations and he's not overbearing whatsoever like Adam, and seems to legitimately want to get to know her better.

sn't that all the more reason to be careful?.
Not just his long game... but the way he is positioning himself. He isn't coming across as a super sex provider who caters to kinks.
He is branding himself as a "whole man".. getting Lana to drop her guilt for cheating, has expressed displeasure that he didn't knock Lana up.
Generally trying to get Lana interested in a classic "affair".. where she falls for him in toto..not just for kinky sex.

From all we've got to know of w770, I think that's sorta the point - being on the edge of that cliff is a powerful thrill and Lana has always kept her balance at the last moment. The nearer the edge, the stronger the thrill. The more she practises, the better she gets at holding her balance.

Lana has NEVER kept her balance. On the contrary Lana always gets disbalanced when the chips are down, in the moment.
Circumstances, fate and the other party's life factors, bailed this couple out every time in the past.

With Shawn, Lana fell in love, travelled the distance to the west coast and decided to make their thing a formal BF-GF affair. Fate intervened after that.

With Adam, he of all people withdrew from the relationship because he fell hard for a girl and wanted an honest relationship! Imagine, even Adam!

With Tyler, Lana tried her best to get pregnant and failed due to natural causes.

Lana is only "balanced" when away from the arms of whatever wonderful lover she has at the moment.

Hypothetically, the ONLY balanced LS play probable in Lana's case is with a bull who is himself in a committed relationship which he doesn't wanna quit. So he is either playing with his cuck queen's consent or he is cheating.

Given Lana's preference for much younger men who are energetic and hung (this bit cant be predicted with any man beforehand) and going by her latest crush, the man is cool and suave (like Tyler), one would say that a younger professional male, who, she knows through work, will be the best bet.

She would know whether he is married/attached or not. He would be kinda awed with her power and maturity at work.. kinda under her thumb.. maybe she is mentoring him? She can control the direction of the relationship, while he controls her in bed.

Safe binge. NO male in present day US will do lose talking, over drinks, about a workplace affair. If something goes wrong, it will be his fault. And his incentive to behave is 100% solid.. he gets to have an affair with a beautiful, desirable, successful - senior woman. .

W770 will get his thrill out of seeing the seduction and the sizzling off work stuff.

Everyone wins, no harm - no foul.

I can see how you are both right, given your perspective. Lana has admittingly moved the goal posts, to put it nicely, and has done things that she's regretted. However, in a lot of ways, she has her main priorities straight and our marriage and now family are still tightly bonded and we don't feel like anything can really shake that.

In terms of a hypothetical guy that is her colleague to be her bf, I suppose that that dynamic would be ideal, but not realistic, as she works remotely. We tend to only see her colleagues once a year at the Christmas party, and most of the people she works with are much older than her and whom she's never once expressed any interest in.

It might be a slow game, but it was honestly pretty refreshing and unexpected that he was really just curious as to her life and wanted to talk to her again. He also seemed genuinely curious about how she was and if she was still feeling guilty. He mentioned that he would feel horrible if she was still carrying that weight of "cheating" on me, but that it was understandable that a beautiful woman like her needed to let loose and have a night of fun, especially considering my inadequacies.

Sorry, but what inadequacies do you refer to with yourself?

I mean, you both sound like you’ve got a pretty solid relationship and a good sex life.

Remember, this is all exciting and will probably always peak her interest above the mundane day to day life you might have at times (the word mundane isn’t an insult, just a word to describe doing the same routines that life forces us to do).

Your relationship sounds more exciting than 99% of the worlds and is something you should be proud of.

That said, don’t hope they get on cam again and do a bit more? Maybe time to setup that hidden camera again?

Be careful with the long game, sounds like he could want more than just her pussy (and I don’t mean her ass as well!)

Well she had mentioned to Tyler that I was unable to make her cum, last very long in bed, and also that I lacked the size that he had. She knows it turns me on to revel in that sort of humiliation, so it wasn't a case of her sharing details that I wanted her to keep private.

And no offense taken, of you using the word "mundane." We really do have a routine based life and in a way, sex with other men had started to feel almost "expected" for Lana, as she told me that Shawn and Adam would basically be the same sort of lover, obsessed with dominating her, whereas she truly felt liberated to have fun sex with Tyler. I'll give an example - when she was on top, Tyler had said something to the effect of, "look at you, a natural cowgirl riding her cowboy. Ride that cock, girl!" - which allowed her to open up a side of her where she was able to be more playful as she bounced up and down on his cock. In fact, while I listened to them interact on the phone last night, I would say that they do have a very playful dynamic, not in the sense that Tyler is immature, bur rather, very innocent and carefree.

How do you feel about that different dynamic? A different kind of humiliation compared to the dominant type she has had previously?

It's interesting as it's new for me just as much as it is for her. In a way, it's almost more humiliating, as she seems really drawn to Tyler's carefree personality and the fact that she says that he's really "fun" in bed. With Shawn and Adam, it was almost like she was taking pare in a role where they were actors in a dominant alpha male role and she was their submissive cheating wife. With Tyler, it's very different, and almost feels more "real" for lack of a better word.

I know it’s best all around that Tyler didn’t fuck a baby into your wife that night, but is there some part of you - and Lana, too - that was turned on by the thought of her body changing as her pregnancy from another man progressed before your eyes - her breasts slowly growing as they filled with milk, her facing starting to glow, etc?

You're right in that it would have been hot in a fantastical way, but once real life kicks in and we're focused on work and being parents, the reality of her being pregnant with his child would be a bit of a nightmare.

I hear that this is a good time of the year to visit Austin. Anything to get away from this freezing madness right now.

And to make it worse, because of our proximity to the ocean, it's always windy by us too, making the temp feel closer to 0 degrees oftentimes.

Update: So Tyler and Lana continue their texting, but it hasn't crossed over into anything overly sexual, unlike anything that would have been very much expected with Shawn, and definitely Adam. At Tyler's request, Lana sent a picture of herself to him this last weekend, and in the picture, she was wearing the same dress that she was wearing the night at the restaurant in Florida. He called her stunning, but didn't go further in telling her to take it off for him. Rather, he asked her to text him once we got back home so he would know that she was safe, considering that the roads were icy. We made love that night and Lana teased me, of course, telling me that she was thinking of Tyler's cock being deeper inside of her than mine.

Otherwise, not much is new. Wake up, gym, work, dinner, parenting, sleep. To some, it might be boring, but for us, it's great.

[Regit]

His texts may not be sexual, but it seems to improve both your libido.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update W. Hope you and Lana stay warm and safe in the cold temps. Spring isnt too far away

[Coolcalm]

This is the kind of thing that can slow roll into a “love” situation.

[sandy691196]

This is the kind of thing that can slow roll into a “love” situation.

Word..

[Coolcalm]

Thank you Sandy!
This is fraught with doom. Now it’s not just sex; they want to get to know each other and learn about each other and that is the first step to falling in love. Keep it impersonal; at least that’s a good way to keep feelings out of it. This site is filled with posts where the guy (cuck) feel (felt) that the marriage was indestructible only to find that their wife fell in love with the new guy. That being said it is their life. I have always felt that those were the ultimate tests for those cucks-will their wife really fall for someone and leave them? To each their own, I suppose!

[sandy691196]

W770 is well aware of the pitfalls. He has discussed them in several posts. He feels that things are under control.

[GuruTravelMonkey]

Curious- is three the # of men she’s been with in any 24hr period (threesome then return to hubby?). With her various bf’s, that could be a fun record to try and break.

[MnJSanDiego]

Bump for the best thread ever..

[sandy691196]

Happened in the past too. Means the reciprocal Texas visit hasn't happened yet..

[leander99]

Bump

[venus-can99]

W - hope things are well for Lana, you and the little one as both of your families. IIRC you have mentioned that this time of the year can be pretty busy for you.

[tojanman]

Bump because W and Lana are awesome

[leander99]

Bump

[w770]

Hey everyone. Hope things are well. Just checking in as things are as mundane as possible over here. I don't know how normal it is, but Lana and I have been arguing a bit more lately, but not on anything serious. It's mostly the stress of work and parenting a young child and all of that materializing in the handful of hours we have for each other by the end of the day. My job recently promoted me, but as a condition to that, they want me in the office a bit more than they've been requiring of me, so I don't know if that's a good thing or not, but it looks like I'll be out of the house up to 4 days a week. But I'm hoping that the whole "absence makes the heart grow fonder" thing is true.

We also haven't really been making love too often. Instead, when she's made it clear that it's likely not going to happen for the night, I'll watch some of the videos of her and Shawn, or even the ones that Adam has sent me in his effort to humiliate me. I can't blame it entirely on Lana either as I have to admit that my libido hasn't been the strongest either lately. Anyone else fall into a similar rut after having kids?

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Yes it is common that having kids is the death knell for your sex life pre-kid. Seems that women have enough to worry about before children come into the picture. Now starting a family only adds more worry to her already full plate, and it increases exponentially with kids. You have to carve out special times for her to decompress from all of life's worries. Small vacations, date nights, etc. Maybe a lover?

[tojanman]

Yeah. Parents become “touched-out” with babies and toddlers. Especially moms. The sex life seems to start rebounding right when then kids reach 4 yo. But it takes dedicated effort and, in my personal experience, smut novels for the wife .

Good to hear from you by the way. I was just about to bump your thread.

[parmaham55]

We all know how secretive Lana can be... do you think it's possible she has contact with man in Texas? Or Adam?

[Rogueuser1]

Absolutely normal rut after having kids for sure. There were some dark days back then, it's a miracle we managed to have more than one. I second the notion that she is probably reading some romance novels to get off.
We ended up going to a sex schedule so we would keep doing it. Not the most romantic thing for sure but it made sure we had sexual activity at least twice a week which was a big help in keeping our connection. Tuesday and Saturday worked best for us

[Midnight Joker]

Recommend you concentrate on marriage and family. Maintaining the house and raising kids sucks the energy out of most women. You'll want any energy she has to go towards you to keep both of you bonded together. Cuckolding can resume later, or maybe something on a vacation for a one-off situation.

[BoBatty]

You may want to talk to her about post partum depression. My wife had it bad and I was clueless. It's a medical condition and in my experience my wife was too deep into depression to be able to verbalize it. Another thing that helped was her joining a Mom's club with other first child moms. They were able to commiserate as only women can. Many of them have turned into life long friends.

[edgedndenied]

Maybe you should check her phone. Remember in the past when she denied you sex and seemed uninterested only to find out she was having vidieo sex with Adam and he was telling her to deny you.

[sandy691196]

W770..
you need to have love making with Lana sometime without bringing in fantasies or the kinky talk for a change.
Relationships go through phases..

[coastalkid]

You may want to talk to her about post partum depression. My wife had it bad and I was clueless. It's a medical condition and in my experience my wife was too deep into depression to be able to verbalize it. Another thing that helped was her joining a Mom's club with other first child moms. They were able to commiserate as only women can. Many of them have turned into life long friends.

Post-partum depression is a real thing! I know it was for us and I too was clueless. It was a major struggle for us both.