Pussyfree from day 1: pushing the limits in my new relationship

[dek]

Dear Dek,

I find your situation incredibly hot.

Going forward, do you think Emma will become more directly dominant towards you as well?
I suspect you would really want Her to?

I would like it if she did but she isn't a dominant woman. I think she prefers to encourage Jerome to dominate me which I like too.

Are you going to propose to Emma soon? Maybe he is the first one to enter her after you are married? Jerome seems like he knows the deal and makes sure to check in with you

We won't get married soon but if we ever do it won't be me having sex with her that night or any night

[dek]

What an exciting experience.
They teased you with having the taste of his cock on her lips, is fluffing her bull next?

Yes, I think so. I almost told him I wanted to suck it last time when he was slapping me and I was feeling extra submissive. And I thought he might tell me to when he was making Emma suck him and kiss me. Actually that's when I realized I was hoping he would tell me to.

I want it to happen. I don't know if other cucks can relate but even though I'm not sexually attracted to Jerome I am feeling more attracted to his cock after last time.

It's big and has a nice ridge around the head that I watched Emma lick. I feel like I should suck his cock because it's completely replaced mine or not even replaced since I've always been pussyfree with Emma.

I talked to Emma and she wants me to suck Jerome's cock too but we think it's hotter if he forces me to. So I think she'll just tell him that and we'll see what happens next time.

Also for the first time tonight Emma is going to meet Jerome solo. In other cuckold relationships I've had maybe I would have worried about losing her or been too jealous for something like this. But with Emma we've decided the sexual part of our relationship just works very differently. We're both choosing for me not to be her sexual partner at all so of course her sex life with Jerome or other men should include going solo. In a way going pussyfree has made cuckolding easier. I have absolutely no claim to my girlfriend's pussy or mouth and never will. I accept that and I want that so I never get jealous about anything so far. I hope I can get some pictures or videos from them though.

[Ghalilaeus]

You are doing great!

[elina]

Dear Dek,

I find your situation incredibly hot.

Going forward, do you think Emma will become more directly dominant towards you as well?
I suspect you would really want Her to?

I would like it if she did but she isn't a dominant woman. I think she prefers to encourage Jerome to dominate me which I like too.

Dear Dek,

I think that there are very few people who are 100% submissive or 100% Dominant.
Most of us fall somewhere in between. Also, Women in particular may have latent dominant desires, but since they have been raised to be a "good girl", it is not something that is expressed itself at first.

If You want Emma to dominate you, you should try to seduce Her dominant desires by acting more submissively around Her.
You will probably enjoy this and you may find that Emma truly will as well.

What you do is simply to start threating Emma as Your Queen.
Never say No to anything She asks, if She asks you to do something, or merely suggests that something should be done, whether it is fetching Her a cup of coffee or washing the floor in the kitchen, just do it right away. And do it with a smile. When You are done, tell Her how much You love Her and ask Her if there is anything else you can do for Her.

What many of us have experienced is that if we threat our wives with this kind of reverence and respect, the Wife will gradually start to think it is natural for You to make Her coffee, no reason for Her to get out of Her chair. She will gradually start to threath you more as Her submissive servant. You can enhance this by asking if you can massage Her feet while She is reading, massage and caress Her and tell Her how much you love Her and how you love to see Her experiencing sexual fulfillment from Her lover, then ask Her if you can please be allowed to orally whorship Her pussy. Maybe Emma will soon come to see this as the natural way for Her to threat you?

Just a suggestion for you to consider, maybe this would even be fun for you?

Sincerely
elina

[dek]

Emma came over after she left Jerome's. She arrived already wearing her pajamas since she showered at his. I asked about their sex but she was very shy. She would giggle or smile or if I was lucky shake her head yes or no when I asked her questions. I asked about positions he fucked her or how long she sucked his dick or where he came or if they used condoms or how many times. Sometimes she'd just playfully tell me to ask him.

She was still very horny so I licked her and made her cum a few times. Then she gave me the best handjob ever.

I was laying on my back and she was sitting naked beside me on the bed, using lotion and very slowly rubbing my dick and saying the hottest things.

She teased me about having sex with Jerome and how she felt so slutty with him but not with me. I came the first time when she revealed some of what happened. He choked her while they fucked and he also spanked her with his belt. She turned to show me her butt was red and swollen in places and said it still hurt. I asked if they did other rough stuff but she got too shy to talk about it so I think they did. Even though I already came she just kept slowly stroking and it was so hot I remained hard.

Then she started asking me questions that made me think about what her and Jerome are planning. She asked if I liked that she kept sucking his cock while he slapped me. I told her I did. She asked what she should do next time Jerome is mean to me. I said she should suck his cock or do whatever he wants. She looked at me still slowly stroking my dick and said "it makes me so horny when he's mean to you. I'd let him do anything to me"

I told her I wanted her to do that and we went back and forth like that. She'd ask what if he slaps me and I'd tell her to please keep sucking him or fucking him. She'd ask what if he calls me a loser or kicks me out of the room or makes me wear panties or a cage, should she stop fucking him? And I'd say please no or fuck him even more or stuff like that. I came again. My dick was feeling tender from masturbating constantly when she was at his place and it was a very intense orgasm even though I didn't cum very much. She kept going with this kind of teasing and made me cum one more time.

While she was giving me the handjob she told me to text Jerome and thank him for fucking her so good so I did.

[elina]

Dear Dek,

Wonderful update,
and sounds to me like Emma at least enjoys seeing you humiliated and dominated....

She is a gem, take good care of Her

Sincerely
elina

[dek]

We've become very comfortable having Jerome in our relationship. He's started just hanging out with us and this last week the three of us all slept at my place twice.

Emma and I don't live together officially but she's been spending more time at my place than at home so that's probably coming soon that she'll just move in.

I have a spare room where Jerome sleeps when he stays the night. We talked about it and decided Emma and I would sleep together in the same bed like normal but at any time if Jerome wanted her he could just come in and take her. He takes advantage of this right in the morning and even the middle of the night. When he comes in he puts his hands on me and walks me out of the bedroom and closes the door. I still haven't seen them have sex for more than a few seconds but once Jerome told me to hold his cock and guide it into Emma. As soon as I did he told me to leave the room. Their sex sounds incredible. More like there is real passion now.

I've submitted to Jerome much more. I wear panties everytime he is here and I suck him everytime now too. He slaps me in the face with his hands and dick while I suck him and sometimes he calls me into the room while he's having sex with Emma to slap me and spit on me and then kick me out. The first time I sucked him I was very nervous but as soon as I started it seemed like not a big deal lol. I felt so humiliated calling him Sir the first time which seems funny now because for some reason sucking his cock in front of Emma just felt natural.

Actually there is a natural feeling to the dynamic now. It's surprising how normal it feels with her and with the three of us. There are moments that are extremely intense but mostly with him spending more time here we just chill and play games or watch Netflix. They cuddle on the couch together and she sucks his cock often. Last time we watched a movie together she laid with her head in his lap and just sucked him and licked him for most of the movie.

When they want drinks or something I get them. I always call him Sir but when we're just hanging out we don't do other verbal abuse. We do lots of it though when he is taking her away for sex or when he's humiliating me for being weaker in some way. He calls me a cuckold, a faggot, a bitch and tells me I have no dick and can't please my girl. And I agree with all of it and thank him for fucking my girlfriend properly.

They still use condoms but he came on her tits and told me to lick it off. And he sometimes has me clean his dick after they have sex or I lick Emma's pussy or ass. I know they're using butt plugs sometimes but they won't tell me if they're having anal sex. I think they are though.

[dek]

What you do is simply to start threating Emma as Your Queen.
Never say No to anything She asks, if She asks you to do something, or merely suggests that something should be done, whether it is fetching Her a cup of coffee or washing the floor in the kitchen, just do it right away. And do it with a smile. When You are done, tell Her how much You love Her and ask Her if there is anything else you can do for Her.

I didn't plan to do this but it is happening naturally. Now I practically worship the air Emma breathes. She looks more beautiful to me everyday and I do think of her as my Queen. There is something about being kept pussyfree in our relationship that makes me a better boyfriend.

[elina]

What you do is simply to start threating Emma as Your Queen.
Never say No to anything She asks, if She asks you to do something, or merely suggests that something should be done, whether it is fetching Her a cup of coffee or washing the floor in the kitchen, just do it right away. And do it with a smile. When You are done, tell Her how much You love Her and ask Her if there is anything else you can do for Her.

I didn't plan to do this but it is happening naturally. Now I practically worship the air Emma breathes. She looks more beautiful to me everyday and I do think of her as my Queen. There is something about being kept pussyfree in our relationship that makes me a better boyfriend.

Glad to hear that.
I think this goes for most of us submissive males, being kept chaste increases our devotion and the joy we derrive from serving the Wonderful Ladies we love.

Take care; stay calm and obey your Queen and everything will be fine.

Sincerely
elina

[maxbud]

Hotest thing is for the dominant alpha stud to get two women at once, whilst you stay chaste and submissive.

Imagine how hot it would be for Emma and Jerome to discuss having a fun FMF threesome with another girl...
Either emma's sexy friend (who you are attracted to, but of course, can never touch) ; or one of Jerome's hot side chicks ; whichever woman , would be amused and curious about seeing your bi-sub-cuck pussy free situation... and would be super aroused and attracted to Jerome,.. by his dominant alpha role... especially his taking your girl in front of you.

Imagine emma stroking your dick gently... whisst sensually descibing what she and the other woman would do to Jerome... deep slow french kisses turn by turn...bareback pussy creampies for both women (a luxury he deserves that you can never have) ,
having you kneel and suck his dick in front of both women... whilst they sit on either side of him, making out with him..

and when the day finally comes....


Having the other woman peg your ass with a strap-on doggy style... whilst watching Jerome deeply sensually missionary penetrating Emma.. and emma during her ecstacy... observes you on your knees, a didlo in your ass, your rock hard dick leaking pre-cum..your glazed look in your eyes as you are burning with lust... and this humilation of you, sends her over the edge, she starts cumming hard pulling jerome deeper into her.. calling herself his slut and his bitch,.. and she calls you a fag... as he cums deep inside her; the other woman whispering into your ears sexy dirty things...

Emma then scoops out Jerome's cum,. and uses it as lube to rub your dick and whisper into your earrs.... and you cum in 20 seconds.
Then they all laugh and go into the bedroom and lock the door.. leaving you out.


Any hope for this?

Emma came over after she left Jerome's. She arrived already wearing her pajamas since she showered at his. I asked about their sex but she was very shy. She would giggle or smile or if I was lucky shake her head yes or no when I asked her questions. I asked about positions he fucked her or how long she sucked his dick or where he came or if they used condoms or how many times. Sometimes she'd just playfully tell me to ask him.

She was still very horny so I licked her and made her cum a few times. Then she gave me the best handjob ever.

I was laying on my back and she was sitting naked beside me on the bed, using lotion and very slowly rubbing my dick and saying the hottest things.

She teased me about having sex with Jerome and how she felt so slutty with him but not with me. I came the first time when she revealed some of what happened. He choked her while they fucked and he also spanked her with his belt. She turned to show me her butt was red and swollen in places and said it still hurt. I asked if they did other rough stuff but she got too shy to talk about it so I think they did. Even though I already came she just kept slowly stroking and it was so hot I remained hard.

Then she started asking me questions that made me think about what her and Jerome are planning. She asked if I liked that she kept sucking his cock while he slapped me. I told her I did. She asked what she should do next time Jerome is mean to me. I said she should suck his cock or do whatever he wants. She looked at me still slowly stroking my dick and said "it makes me so horny when he's mean to you. I'd let him do anything to me"

I told her I wanted her to do that and we went back and forth like that. She'd ask what if he slaps me and I'd tell her to please keep sucking him or fucking him. She'd ask what if he calls me a loser or kicks me out of the room or makes me wear panties or a cage, should she stop fucking him? And I'd say please no or fuck him even more or stuff like that. I came again. My dick was feeling tender from masturbating constantly when she was at his place and it was a very intense orgasm even though I didn't cum very much. She kept going with this kind of teasing and made me cum one more time.

While she was giving me the handjob she told me to text Jerome and thank him for fucking her so good so I did.

Emma came over after she left Jerome's. She arrived already wearing her pajamas since she showered at his. I asked about their sex but she was very shy. She would giggle or smile or if I was lucky shake her head yes or no when I asked her questions. I asked about positions he fucked her or how long she sucked his dick or where he came or if they used condoms or how many times. Sometimes she'd just playfully tell me to ask him.

She was still very horny so I licked her and made her cum a few times. Then she gave me the best handjob ever.

I was laying on my back and she was sitting naked beside me on the bed, using lotion and very slowly rubbing my dick and saying the hottest things.

She teased me about having sex with Jerome and how she felt so slutty with him but not with me. I came the first time when she revealed some of what happened. He choked her while they fucked and he also spanked her with his belt. She turned to show me her butt was red and swollen in places and said it still hurt. I asked if they did other rough stuff but she got too shy to talk about it so I think they did. Even though I already came she just kept slowly stroking and it was so hot I remained hard.

Then she started asking me questions that made me think about what her and Jerome are planning. She asked if I liked that she kept sucking his cock while he slapped me. I told her I did. She asked what she should do next time Jerome is mean to me. I said she should suck his cock or do whatever he wants. She looked at me still slowly stroking my dick and said "it makes me so horny when he's mean to you. I'd let him do anything to me"

I told her I wanted her to do that and we went back and forth like that. She'd ask what if he slaps me and I'd tell her to please keep sucking him or fucking him. She'd ask what if he calls me a loser or kicks me out of the room or makes me wear panties or a cage, should she stop fucking him? And I'd say please no or fuck him even more or stuff like that. I came again. My dick was feeling tender from masturbating constantly when she was at his place and it was a very intense orgasm even though I didn't cum very much. She kept going with this kind of teasing and made me cum one more time.

While she was giving me the handjob she told me to text Jerome and thank him for fucking her so good so I did.

[chastity_boi]

Hi Dek. Haven’t heard anything from you in a while. Hope things are still evolving in your relationship.

[dek]

Unfortunately no, we broke up. We had our differences most of which wasn't related to cuckolding, but some of our problems were and that's more my fault than hers. I got jealous about a few things that were stupid and it changed the vibe and things got worse from there.

We still did a lot of other new kinky stuff with Jerome and a few other guys before we broke up and we ended our relationship having never had actual piv sex. She never gave me a blowjob either.

I think it's not necessarily a good idea to prioritize the kink in the way Emma and I did. But then again it was a lot of fun and gave me a lifetime of hot memories. So I don't really know.

When I'm ready I'll go back to dating. As I mentioned at the beginning of this thread I am only interested in cuckold relationships and date with that intention.

Something I learned with Emma was that permanent pussyfree from the beginning makes everything else about 100 times hotter.

In the future I'm going to slow down getting to sex with a girl I'm dating. I think it might not be so hard to meet a nice girl who will keep me permanently pussyfree again.

[venus-can99]

Good luck on your quest dek.

[FeralCat]

Good luck and please be happy, you deserve it.

[MartasBoy]

I've lurked on this board over the years, first as a wannabe and then eventually as a proud cuckold. Once I started I knew there was no way I could ever fully be

Although I've always found humiliation, sph, caging, and denial extremely hot, in my previous cuckold relationships we tried some of these things but never went very far.

I noticed in my previous cuckold relationships that the only regrets I had were not going further with more extreme aspects of this when the opportunity was there. One of my ex's had a bull that had experience dominating other couples for example. And even though one part of me wished she would humiliate me and call me a bitch or something while I sucked his cock, I was always afraid to really emphasize that I liked the humiliation and so mostly they just had vanillish sex while I watched....

Our "sex" and intimacy will come from me licking her, cuddling and making out, and maybe other things that will evolve over time. But we both agree that sex and blowjobs will be off limits to me in this relationship while very much available to other men she meets....

I'm super excited but trying to be realistic too. This is still very new and could easily go sideways. I honestly have no idea if even going this "extreme" with the fetish right away in a new relationship is wise or sustainable. But right now I'm almost trembling with excitement at the possibilities.

You describe a lot, the situation that I am in, in my marriage. I am presently locked in my chastity device, going on the third week, since I was last allowed a brief moment to play with my pee pee, and for her to give me a ruined orgasm, before locking me back.

We are attending a sex party event this weekend, and she likes me locked, with a long time with me not being allowed any playtime, because she says it keeps my obsequious and subservient demeanor up.

But I am likely to get to watch some very exciting activity. It always gets me hard, and causes me to have some little dribblings in my chastity cage, which is always exciting for me. Some of the best sexy time for me.

I'm small enough that my pee pee fits fine in the cage that's called the stub, in the chastity device I'm in. It's so exciting when I get a little stiffy, and can feel it pushing in my cage, with the tip pushing against the end. I always have some little dribblings that feel pretty exciting. It's some pretty hot sexy time for me.

When I see her getting railed by some Bull. I will close my eyes and imagine that I am the guy who is making her make all of those moaning and shrieking sounds. When I feel my pee pee throbbing in my little cage, I imagine that it's the feeling of me throbbing inside of her.

When my wife sees the little quarter size or half dollar size wet spot on the front of my panties, she will give me a kiss on the cheek, and a little squeeze down there, and say. "Oh, it looks like all three of this came. Was that fun for you?"

[Ghalilaeus]

I think it might not be so hard to meet a nice girl who will keep me permanently pussyfree again.

It is actually terribly hard. My advice is to try and mend things up with Emma. Or you'll miss her a lot in the next decades.

[thepen]

Sorry to read that it didn't work out. This was so hot the way it was developing. But relationships are complex, and the bedroom is only one facet. Hope compatibility is better next time!

[Ready2StartAgain]

That sucks. Great compatibility is hard to find. Any chance you two can reconcile. Problems can be resolved and people change.

[scarlettscuck]

Hang in there Dek. You have a lot going for you in that you know what you want. Stay the course but be flexible. A real gem of a woman may warm to the idea of cuckolding over time.
Btw… are you a virgin?

[dek]

Thanks for the comments everyone. Emma and I started talking again and things have been going well. We even slept together over the weekend for the first time since we broke up. No sex of course, just back to our usual "sex" of me eating her pussy while she teased me.

We both missed each other and all the stuff we did together. She said it's the most sexually satisfied she's been in any relationship and I feel the same. It's still a little rocky but we both regret what happened. I think we might be ok again. We'll see.

[Ready2StartAgain]

So great to hear you two are back together! When both sides want it to work, nothing can stop you! And I'm sure her pussy tasted better than you remembered!

[ucaneffher]

Thanks for the comments everyone. Emma and I started talking again and things have been going well. We even slept together over the weekend for the first time since we broke up. No sex of course, just back to our usual "sex" of me eating her pussy while she teased me.

We both missed each other and all the stuff we did together. She said it's the most sexually satisfied she's been in any relationship and I feel the same. It's still a little rocky but we both regret what happened. I think we might be ok again. We'll see.

That's great! Hopefully you two are on the path to establishing your relationship again and hopefully it's for all the right reasons and not just for the cuckolding.

I'll admit that in some ways you have inspired me with your past posts.

[Ready2StartAgain]

Thanks for the comments everyone. Emma and I started talking again and things have been going well. We even slept together over the weekend for the first time since we broke up. No sex of course, just back to our usual "sex" of me eating her pussy while she teased me.

We both missed each other and all the stuff we did together. She said it's the most sexually satisfied she's been in any relationship and I feel the same. It's still a little rocky but we both regret what happened. I think we might be ok again. We'll see.

That's great! Hopefully you two are on the path to establishing your relationship again and hopefully it's for all the right reasons and not just for the cuckolding.

I'll admit that in some ways you have inspired me with your past posts.

I don't think the cuckolding really works for anyone, if the core relationship isn't strong!

[LongTermHubby]

In my case, my wife became more dominant over time after she began cuckolding me. I must admit it took some getting used to.

[chastity_boi]

Hey Dek. Checking in to see how things are going with Emma. Did you guys manage a reconciliation or no? Wishing you all the best either way.