"Not Really"

[snoogaloo82]

She got jealous instantly when I told her of his offer to me to fuck Brittany. I assured her that I declined in the most clear and definitive way.

The rest of the evening Jen seemed on guard. I avoided any interaction with Brittany that I could without being rude.

You have to see the funny side!

Best wishes as always,

54321

You're absolutely priceless!! Thank you for showing the humor in everything possible!

[54321]

This milestone put a damper on our extramarital activities. The allure of it all was dulled for a time. It was just the two of us the next three months. No flirting, no looking. Just a married couple focused on each other. We reset our lives in a way. We questioned whether it was time to put a stop to it and think about a family maybe. Did we want that? Time all of a sudden was not on our side.

Such a thoughtful post. Thank you so much for sharing it with us.

54321

[WatchinginNJ]

This milestone put a damper on our extramarital activities. The allure of it all was dulled for a time. It was just the two of us the next three months. No flirting, no looking. Just a married couple focused on each other. We reset our lives in a way. We questioned whether it was time to put a stop to it and think about a family maybe. Did we want that? Time all of a sudden was not on our side.

Over the years, and especially when I first got divorced, I indulged in some less than ethical behaviors. This statement hits home, and I get it. I think unless you're actually a psychopath, that it gets hard to compartmentalize that you maybe affecting other peoples lives in ways you didn't intend.

I made a commitment to be ethical to myself. Even when you are ethical, sometimes people's feelings and objectives don't line up with yours. At least you can take pride in yourself for knowing you walked that path. Good for you for recognizing that. It doesn't change the pain, but at least it makes dealing with it easier.

[54321]

Merry Christmas, guys! You two are such an inspiration. I know you are having something of a break right now so trust that this Christmas holiday will be a great opportunity for you both to rest, regroup and renew your relationship while reminiscing about your extraordinary adventures.

We love you!

54321

[Oneillfranko]

We miss you Ray-Man. Hope 2025 is off to a good start for you. Hope you will come back here soon!

[Ray-Man]

Reset…

For the month of September we refocused on us. Got back into some of our old routines, the gym, her running and frankly just regular vanilla sex. There was some lingering guilt over the way things imploded with Tory.

As September morphed into October we started to miss the excitement of having a third in our sex life. We began to discuss how we would approach it going forward. Organic connections or a more concerted effort to find someone in the ‘lifestyle” that understood what we were and were not looking for. However there was no sense of urgency to find someone. We were having a relatively good time just having each other. Having a lot to relive in the bedroom based on our experiences. Discussing what we liked, what we did not. We also did a lot of reading on hotwifing and ethical non monogamy. Mostly on Reddit. Brett and Jon were by far our best and most fulfilling experiences. Although the others had their high points. We also reassessed our risky behavior and decided that we needed to be more selective in our choices for a third.

By the end of October Jen was getting restless. We had been back to the gym with some regularity but she got no significant attention. No one flirting with her. It was kind of a let down really. She was dressing to advertise but nothing. It was such a change for her. I was hopeful as well that we would find someone organically but things seemed dull. We did not hear from Tory at all and that still bothered her.

November rolls around and all we have is our fantasies. With all that we were reading, hotwifing seemed to fit our model of play. I still had no desire to play with other women and she had no desire for me to either. But my desire to see her get fucked by other guys was stronger than ever. And she was wanting the excitement of some new dick.

Although I was still reluctant to admit that I had any cuck tendencies the more we researched the more it became evident that I did. I began to accept it and as I did she embraced it and actually wanted to move in that direction, although with respect to any apprehensions that I may have had. After all, I did eat other guys cum out of her pussy and had sucked a cock for her. The more we discussed it the more she liked the concept of me submitting to another guy and potentially letting him have more authority over her and me giving way.

This is where we started to dirty talk more about cuckolding. One of her biggest turn ons still was me going down on her after some other guy filled her pussy with sperm. Having this break set a new course for us. We now just had to find someone suitable for our desires. And I began to gravitate towards stories on reddit where the husband/boyfriend yielded to a side boyfriend.

[Ray-Man]

Sorry for the absence. I was on some sort of spam black list that was preventing me from posting. Seemed to have resolved it

[citms2022]

Sorry for the absence. I was on some sort of spam black list that was preventing me from posting. Seemed to have resolved it

I've run into the same issue a number of times. It's weird, unpredictable and annoying. Glad you made it thru.

[Trvlman7]

Really great to have you back. Hopefully things really heat up for you two soon!

[john jasson]

Yes. That spam thing is inexplicable and a real bind. Never had it anywhere other than on ohw. Nice to see you back.

[PeterG]

Hi Rayman, loving the post, thanks so much for sharing. I know you mentioned it several months ago, but can you remind us all the September and October you just mentioned in your last post - how many years ago was this? I think I recall you saying that was quite some time / years of events still to share, thanks, P

[54321]

Happy New Year, Ray=Man and Jen!

It's always lovely to hear from you. Thank you for posting.

54321

[1hottxcpl4fun]

Gawd I missed your and Jens adventures! Please continue to at least the current day.

[1hottxcpl4fun]

The good old dbl post striks again!

[Lensman2000]

I agree! Happy to see you posting again and would love to hear more.

[Ray-Man]

Sorry for the long delay. We had a life event that derailed our fun for a long while. But we are back on the horse so to speak. I will catch up soon.

[joel68]

Cool. Looking forward to hearing the rest of your story.

[54321]

Lovely!

So great to learn you guys are well and happy.

54321

[Ray-Man]

Feeld…

We began to incorporate some of our kinky desires into dirty talk in the bedroom. Jen certainly was getting itchy to fine a new play partner. All of November was a bust. No organic prospects at all. We decided to join the Feeld app and put up a profile. We emphasized MFM and hotwifing as out primary interests. We activated our subscription the last week of November, 2023.

The interest was immediate. We live in an area saturated with Universities so we expected some activity. However, the crowd was a mix in age range and mostly my age or above. This was not really that big of an issue, but her play partners had all been younger and I suppose we had become conditioned to that. We contemplated going with people in our age group or even older in our discussions. It just was a new realization that on this particular app the age group was different than what we had physically experienced up to that point.

We had a lot of requests for swaps and swinging, a few for threesomes. There was also interest for the hotwife option. Me being involved with another woman was not an option for Jen at all and frankly I wasn’t interested in that. She connected with a guy who was 36 and seemed to fit what we were looking for. She began a dialogue with him.

For me the hotwife angle was the most interesting although we had established I had cuck tendencies as well, or had developed them. Jen was interested in this dynamic although she did not want me to be humiliated, at least not to an extreme degree. In any case I was ready for her to fool around again and so was she.

We met this new prospect in his town about 20 minutes from where we lived. In a little pub. He was good looking and seemed in good shape. He was divorced and had been a “bull” for another couple but that had ended. He was tested. Seemed chill enough. I let Jen do most of the talking. He asked a lot of questions. Mainly about us and what we were looking for.

It was odd though. Too planned maybe? Our past experiences were more spontaneous or organic. This time it seemed more transactional. There was nothing wrong with this fellow. He seemed to fit the bill so to speak. But I just wasn’t feeling a vibe between Jen and him. The meeting was always intended to be a meet and greet, nothing more.

On the ride home Jen communicated that she had the same feelings as I. We couldn’t quite put our finger on it. In the end, since he checked all the boxes, at least relatively so, she decided to move forward with him just to see if we were over thinking it.

[Ray-Man]

Rob…

Saturday, December 16th was a date night for her and Rob. He had asked if they could do dinner, like a date. He felt it was a bigger turn on to actually take my wife on a date. It was universally understood that at the conclusion of this date there would likely be sex. But the fact that he was actually taking my wife on a date definitely played to the cuck side of the equation. He seemed to know this and that was the intent.

Jen prepared herself for a “date”. She was excited and played with my emotions a bit for fun while she got ready. This was new territory for me. With all we had been through it was definitely different for me to watch her prepare herself and she was definitely dressing for the part. I really wasn’t going to be a part of it. I was aroused and jealous. The jealousy was unexpected.

I sent her off to go on her date and I then settled in to wait for her return. We agreed, to make it more exciting, that she would not update me until she got home. This in hindsight was tougher on me than I expected. She left at 6:00. She returned at 12:00. A long time to leave me with only my thoughts.

When she walked through our front door I knew right away that she had sex with him. I never doubted that she wouldn’t. It had been a while and I knew she was keen to get back at it. She gave me a brief assessment of the night. They had dinner, went to his place, got naked, fucked twice. He was good at everything but she was not blown away. She had two loads of his sperm inside her.

At that point my arousal won out over my anxiety and we went to the bedroom where I ate her out and I actually felt good about it. She came intensely and I reclaimed her. Our sex was fantastic. Even though she was not overwhelmed by him he ended up being a catalyst for us having some intense love making. And for the next few days she and I could not keep our hands off one another.

But Rob would not see her again. The vibe just was not there for her. We didn’t know why. It just wasn’t.

[joel68]

Glad to have you posting again!

[Trvlman7]

Great to hear getting back to the fun, but know you have to miss the seeing it and fresh cleanup opportunities

[54321]

At that point my arousal won out over my anxiety and we went to the bedroom where I ate her out and I actually felt good about it. She came intensely and I reclaimed her. Our sex was fantastic. Even though she was not overwhelmed by him he ended up being a catalyst for us having some intense love making. And for the next few days she and I could not keep our hands off one another.

Ooh! Fabulous!

54321

[Ray-Man]

Another try…

We took our time fielding connections on the app. It became a chore. We just were not finding what we were looking for. Our interest seemed to start to lean towards MFM threesomes. Thats where our focus started to center. I was very much wanting to be there when she was getting fucked by someone else. It started to dominate my thoughts. Jen was onboard.

However this too seemed difficult to achieve.

Then she made a connection with Austin. He was 26, single and seemed sane. He was out of a long term relationship and wanted to try being a Bull for a couple. He was articulate, more in line with her historical age range and was willing to play up the hotwife/cuckold fantasy with us. He asked as many questions about me as he did about her.

He was definitely focused on particulars. Rules. What rules did we have? Not many really. When we let him know that if he was tested he would be allowed to go bare with her he got very excited. And pushed to meet us. He lived 40 minutes from us and he suggested we introduce ourselves at our home, instead of a public place. We were not expecting this request.

All pictures that he exchanged with us were respectful. No dick pics, not even a shirtless pic. We shared a picture of her in her green bikini. That was the riskiest picture of her we shared with him. So while he looked good in his PG photos we really could not assess him totally. The prospect of having him come to meet us at our home was both concerning and exciting at the same time. We thought it over.

In the end we agreed. And with that we set a time on Thursday the 28th, in between Christmas and New Years. 6:00 pm. I made some appetizers and set them out on our table. He arrived promptly on time.

[Ray-Man]

Under Sold…

Austin under sold himself. Not sure if it was by design or modesty. He walked through the door with confidence. Introduced himself without any semblance of nervousness. He focused immediately on both of us, showing no inequality in his attention. And, he was a stud. Good looking and in great shape. The look on Jen’s face showed all to me, she very much approved. His calm demeanor was almost unnerving.

We began our conversations with general queries about our vanilla interests. Nothing sexual or related to why he was there. We all had a beer and nibbled on the appetizers. It was very chill, relaxed.

Without warning, he switched to the subject at hand. His first question was to me. Was I 100% ok with him fucking my wife. Affirmative. Have we done this before. Here is where I began the tell all. I don’t know why, but I felt I needed to give him a full and detailed history of our previous escapades. I was dragging on about them in detail and he cut me off. He got the picture.

He told Jen he was impressed. Then he turned back to me and asked me how often he could fuck my wife. Just like that. Both Jen and I just had to chuckle. We did not chuckle to offend him but it was just such a direct question it took us both by surprise. He chuckled as well acknowledging the humor in his directness. I simply replied “as often as you can”. The grin on his face was priceless.

He then said “Ok, I’m good”. After which there was an awkward moment of indecision with Jen and I. We looked at each other searching for some form of common response. Finally I asked her if she was cool with everything. She said yes, although with a very slight hesitation. I could see that I needed to take the lead. It was clear to me that she wanted him and him her. However it was too spontaneous for him and he wanted to set up a date with her first.

This was torturous for Jen. She was ready and now he was going to delay the act of having sex with her until after their first “date”. It became confusing as we had built ourselves up for a sexual encounter. All we could do was agree with him in this atmosphere of confusion. Then he left.