Bar Experience for Feedback

[Reprobate]

Recently, i was in a neighborhood bar. When I sit at a bar by myself, I usually ignore everyone around me. This time was no different. I sat there, eyes glued to a basketball game. A very pretty blonde woman, who appeared to be approximately 40, sat to the right of me. Her husband, who appeared to be much older than her, stood behind her.

I could see out of the corner of my eye that she kept glancing in my direction. Finally, she literally turned facing me and stared at me. I pretended not to notice. Finally, she touched my arm and asked who I was routing for. I told her that a friend used to play for one of the teams. He died recently, so I was routing for his old team in his honor.

So far, none of this is remarkable. What was remarkable was that when she talked to me, her husband appeared to have a reaction. Why? I'm not sure. There was nothing sexual about our conversation at all. As she talked to me he started rubbing her back and shoulders more and more.

The things that occur to me are:

1. The guy was jealous. If so, why didn't he jump into the conversation? Why did he let his wife sit next to me?
2. I was inadvertently part of the start of their journey into hotwifing. Maybe he was turned on watching his wife talk to another guy.
3. They were husband and wife serial killers and I narrowly dodged a bullet.

I've seen them in that bar a couple of times and they always try to sit near me.

What do you folks think?

Chris

[D+D]

She wanted you to come on to her. He is her cuckold. I’m a cuckold and it turns me on for my wife to flirt with men and especially if they flirt back. That might be all they wanted but then again she might have been willing to go to a room or let you take her home for sex and letting him watch or possibly do things like cleaning your cum from her. Next time you see them look at her right ankle to see if she has an anklet on. If she does it is highly likely that she is a hotwife who wants more than just flirting. Either way her cuckold is just that, a cuckold. There is always a risk of someone being dangerous if they are strangers but it’s not likely in your scenario.

[Reprobate]

D+D:

Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I agree with you. They probably just wanted something light, like watching her flirt. If I knew that was where we were headed, I would have helped out. I'd be happy to flirt.

I think the problems occurs when we don't speak up about what we want. It's a dangerous, unpredictable world.

Thanks again,

Chris

[discreetlys husband]

Serial killer, you dodged a bullet………maybe…… but don’t think so.

I think she was flirting with her husbands approval. Not all guys are cuckolds, some just love seeing their woman happy and having safe male/female fun. Engage her in conversation, don’t forget to include husband for some just to gauge his interest and her response. My sense is they will appreciate the banter and maybe feel some chemistry. They were playing, having fun, hoping you would join in.

[MarknSusan]

Chris, based on your comments it sounds to me like she’s attracted to you. They may be playing a game with limits, or they may want to get to know you better.

Why not just begin by casually speaking up like you mentioned? If they want more, it sounds like the wife is confident enough to say something. If she does look at the husband and consider asking him if he’s ok with it.

If you get creeped out game over. If it develops and the three of you trust each other and become FWB’s game on.

Just my opinions…

[BrunetteLover]

She was trying to lure you to your death.

Anytime you sit in a public place, be sure to have your back to a wall.

Be sure you can see the front door from where you are sitting.

Your carry piece should be against a wall so no one can grab it. Never sit on a bar stool, only a booth.

EDIT TO ADD: forget what I said above. On second thought, you were a few minutes from getting laid.

[Cdncuck]

I think you could get laid. Why not talk to them a bit more when you see them. Ask her questions about her and her husband. See what happens.

[coastalkid]

I agree with D+D. Next time look for signs like the anklet he mentioned or any visible tattoos or how revealing her outfit is. Most likely she's just more outgoing than her husband. Next time make more small talk. See if the husband/bf joins in on the conversation.

[Bryce 69]

When Hannah and I go out looking for a new Bull she will wear a cute outfit that shows off her curves and her anklet we will most often sit in a booth, if she is interested in a guy she will introduce herself by herself
I am straight and enjoy MfM with her she also has 1-1 sexual relationships with other men
It can be intimidating to a guy your meeting for the first time to have a couple approach you
She can get a good read on the guy she is interested and visit with him. if he is interested she will be honest with him , she is in an open Hotwife relationship, she is attracted to him , would he like to sit with us and visit
This helps avoid confusion,gives him a safe way to move forward or graceful way to not move forward
Hannah is very submissive and only interested in Dominating men so she can get a good idea if he fits what she looking for pretty quickly

Don