How long should a wife wait before engaging in sexual intercourse with a new man?

[wildrollercoaster]

Depends on circumstances.

On one end of the spectrum, an example: My wife began dating a prominently desirable, successful and recently divorced admirer a year and a half ago. She purposefully decided to resist sleeping with him until after a handful of dates, spread over a few weeks, and made it clear to him that she wanted their first time to be just right, without distractions or time constraints. The fact that she wanted to represent to him a sense of restraint and decorum — a good girl — really intensified my perception of the circumstances and already-charged atmosphere. Undeniably hot that she seemed more concerned about dating decorum with him than the fact that she was married. Pertinent to the OP, it was perhaps their sixth date when they first had intercourse (overnight and following day at his extraordinary home) — evidently perfect under the circumstances.

And an example on the other end of the spectrum: One morning during the summer before last, she met three athletic young guys on a coffee-shop patio. They were traveling, and had done a cycling tour after a local cycling race that at least one of them, Paul, had competed in. My wife befriended them, drove them to a nearby mountain for a fast hike (2,800' vertical), and then accompanied them to a local beach. As a consequence of evident chemistry between her and Paul, they separated from the other two, went for a walk in a wilderness shorefront park, and ended up having sun-drenched sex on a secluded part of the rocky shore. They later reconnected with the other two for dinner. Paul got a separate hotel room from his friends that night, where he and my wife spent the rest of the night fucking their brains out. Pertinent to the OP, they began making love within about 4-5 hours of meeting — clearly just right.

On the other hand, a quick example of not-ideal timing: During our first several months together (about 10 years ago when she was in her 20s and I into my 30s), she went out for a glass of wine one night, on her own with a book. She knew that I was busy but might possibly join her later — a notion that evaporated when she was approached and joined by a captivating guy she'd never met before. (She texted me something about being approached by one or more aggressive guys, but seemingly dismissively, as though someone was just annoying.) Turns out he was really hot. During the hour or so that they talked, and another glass or two of wine, she became inescapably hot for him. An incendiary kiss led to an escape to privacy. She urgently invited him to her nearby condo, and diverted to the rooftop garden terrace above (evidently in case I'd show up at her place), where she ended up on her knees with his jutting cock in her mouth, and then bracing herself against patio furniture while he plunged himself into her beautiful drenched pussy from behind. Pertinent to the OP, although that serendipitous escape sounds wickedly hot — animalistic sex within a couple of hours of meeting — I know that she didn’t feel good about it afterward.

Btw, her shortest interval between meeting and coupling with someone was just minutes — a minute or two until getting french kissed between her legs in her kitchen, and a few more until getting fucked — although they'd had communication during the preceding days (after a female friend had set them up, suggesting that he should go right over to her place and fuck her against the wall).

[isinlarsa]

My wife has had sex on the first date; but she made one young man (almost half her age) wait nine months before taking him into our marital bed.

[Tank Turner]

There is no such thing as a waiting period. Women know within minutes of meeting dudes whether they'd fuck them.

People should fuck when they want to fuck, not according to a timetable.

[Bryce 69]

the intent is sex
there are no relationships being built
boundaries are discussed safety is ensured
Bulls cum and go
mouth is opened and legs are spread

[BT2]

We originally met new people with whom my wife had hotwife sex, through classifieds - originally through print, but now through the internet (e.g. not with friends nor acquaintances, nor casual hookups in bars, etc.). And she usually had intimate sex on their first get together. After a number of years doing it this way we became more aware of the possible risks health wise. So, she then specified attached men who see others with their significant other's specific, informed consent. And she always met with them first for coffee or drinks. If they liked her, and she them, then they got together at a future date for intimate sex, but with a condom. If it looked like it could turn into a long term fb relationship, then the condom was dispensed with. She likes it when she can pull her knees up and the guy cums deep inside her (and so does he).

BUT, she has had the same two fbs for at least a decade and a half, so my info' is dated. She also had sex with her best girlfriend for at least a decade, until her girlfriend remarried, so that doesn't answer your question either.

[windymiller]

I agree with Tank Turner my cuckoldress has always known when we meet up with a potencial lover i have arranged if he is suitable or not withing 10, 20 minutes.
Sometimes she has then gone onto play a bit in my car. Knowing this and liasing with him i have then booked a hotel for the next meet up, most of then go onto become her regular lovers..

What ive never understood about her is,

If a man chats her up in the normal world, at work, in a pub, supermarket or on holiday etc she politely tells them to piss off.

[Thebestdays1]

My ex mostly had sex with a man on or around their second date, although many were lucky enough to get a blowjob from her on the first date. She has fucked some smooth talking guests at the hotel where she used to work, within minutes of talking to them. Despite our agreement to be honest about our sexual relationships, she hid those encounters from me for many years, because she didn't want me to think she was a slut!
She used to suck off a young colleague of hers whose girlfriend refused to go down on him but she never fucked him. When she started sucking off her nephew she also wouldn't fuck him because she thought he should lose his virginity to a girl his own age. Personally, I think I'd put her off fucking virgins. They did fuck a few years later, once he'd moved in with a girlfriend and gained experience.
She's made out with a few men that she could tell she wouldn't fuck but she enjoyed being fondled by them and kissing them, even if they weren't good kissers. It was actually by kissing them that she could tell if she was ever going to fuck them.
Women were luckier with her. She's never kissed a woman that she didn't have sex with almost immediately.

[superb101]

How long? At least 45 seconds to a min max!

[hotfreaks]

My wife has had dates and never fucked the bull. She has also had dates where within an hour they were fucking. It all depends on connection and vibes. She does not impose rules when it comes to that.

[funkyfitter]

It doesn't take Miss Sue very long to determine whether she would fuck a guy. She's fucked plenty of guys in their truck or car after flirting with them for a little while. There's nothing like watching her ride off on the back of a motorcycle as I wait at the bar for her text.

[Elgeeseuk]

As a rule for our dynamic: We always have a social as a 3 first. And then we have to play as a 3 when we are all happy and diaries match (if it doesn’t happen at the social). Then El is free to play as 2 if we are all happy to go forwards

[BT2]

I think the question is open to interpretation. I first interpreted it as "after she breaks it off with a lover, how long should she wait before becoming an active hotwife again?" Now, based on several previous posts, I take the question as "how long should a hotwife take before she has intimate sex (fucks) a new guy?"

When we started out, we would make contact with a guy on a dating site, or an internet classified, and she would have intercourse with him that evening. Then we became a little more cautious and we would meet the guy for coffee first, and if they felt comfortable with each other, they would arrange a get together for a future sex date. And he would have to wear a condom the first time unless/until it was determined he would become a regular. The latest was she asked for attached men who "played" with their significant other's informed consent. This last certainly cut down on the number of sexual contacts, but she in time found two guys and has had these same two lovers for over a decade. One even became a personal friend.

[Mgcouplemn]

There are rules? how about we just do what we want depending at the time.

[Dutchpride7]

From.a Bulls perspective:
See this is 1 of those questions that there is no set right answer and just depends on how you or the couples feel comfortable with.
As for myself when or if just meeting a hotwife & hubbie,havent had to meet new couple in quite sometime. But I do remember for me it takes a while and definately not in a hurry at all. I myself like to talk and get to know the both of them & go out on outings too be around and getva feel of how tgey both are. The biggest thing for me and I know for them too is I have to feel comfortable & relaxed and definately take time to really get to know them. Definately not one to jump right in the sack with ANYONE. I mean just because I might entertain and have possibility of enjoying some greeeeat fun enjoying sexual desires & pleasures doesnt mean I dont want to be discreet & modest about it. Plus to me and the way I operate its much more important and valuable to me to work on a friendship 1st. When my heart & mind are in a place where I desire and want,genuine friendship anf really getting to know both of them to a point where you feel comfortable & respect them and they feel the same towards you,You'd be surprised how everything works out so good when your intentions are solid and righteous. At least that is what Ive always noticed. Now as far as a time- could be anywhere from 1 -2 months. Its hard to put a exact time on it because I go by the natural feeling of when I have that comfortability & trust,and for me Ill know that I know when I feel that,but couple must also have that feeling also.
The reason I kinda like to take my time and in no hurry and make sure that friendship,then comfortability & trust is there because that is thee only way I know how to do,and know that it works out in the most unique & awesome way when achieved like this. At least for me it has & does.
But everyone is different and we all have our own preferences. I know that,and know that just because it works for me this way doesnt mean it will work with others.
That being said its best to find the ones where you have the same ideas and ways are similiar. I do know its never good to be in a hurrry. No reason to be in a hurry and just doesnt go right if it was done in a big hurry.
Plus the Icing On the cake ive ALWAYS noticed is whwlen its done proper and right in planning it just feels so much better for everyone & the vibe is vibrant & right- thats the key! And upon getting the key- it becomes golden.

[AmyRich]

My wife is not shy at all, and is not into waiting. I tease her about the number of guys that have gone from being introduced to her to balls deep bareback fucking in less than an hour.

These are not bar pickups but pre-arranged sex dates from swinger websites, or a friend of a current/past lover.

[Bryce 69]

as long as it takes to strip her

[MillStMan]

My wife had a long-term BF, but when we go out on vacation and she finds someone that she finds some chemistry, well she'll get it on.
How it usually goes is that we'll be staying at a motel. The wife is a smoker, and she'll sit out in the smoking area and if she is lucky, she'll meet someone that interests her.
What's is sort of humorous is that she'll came back to the room and tell me that she has found someone, and of course she gives all the needed information. She really doesn't tell them that she is married but that she is on vacation with her mother, and they need to stay at his room. Has led to some funny situations at breakfast.