It's nice to be part of this vibrant community.
After one year and three months in here, I am finally introducing myself.
I am happily married for twenty-two years with the love of my life, plus two years dating her before getting married. We live in Toronto, Canada.
We have an amazing sex life nowadays. But it was a little boring two years ago. So I took the courage to tell her about my fantasies back then.
We have had one full foursome since then, two months after I revealed my fantasies. It was a nice experience. I would say a 8/10. But as it was the first one, too much excitement, expectation and lack of experience.
We had a "minor" swinging experience with another couple.
Then we continued exploring our fantasies and trying to set up some encounters with people we met on a few lifestyle websites we were part of. They were exhausting for her. She prefers "real life". Checking there at the moment if there is chemistry or not and boom, there we go.
We both don't want "extra relationships". Just casual dates. We feel very monogamous, lol. Vanilla? Probably! With some spice to it. I guess I am writing this introductory message as an intention of becoming less vanilla.
I honestly don't know if she continued exploring these fantasies after these last two years, because she wanted to satisfy myself. I still cannot answer that. She strongly believes that these lifestyle fantasies always begin with men who are more into "physical" than women.
Are there other couples here who are married for many years, where the first initiative came from the wife? We'd love to know. My wife may or may not be here in the forum one day. Sometimes I read to her your posts, like pre-sex stories. So, thank you for inspiring us.
I look forward to meeting you and to get closer. If you are in Canada, US or if you come nearby Toronto, send us a message.
Rufus
