Hi all. I am hoping for some advice on moving things forward with my wife.
We have been married for 10 years and have 2 young children. Before we had kids, i admitted my fantasies about her being a hotwife. She reacted pretty okay but didn't say yes or no to the idea. She did make an account on here but has never browsed the site. Shortly after, we had our first child. Our sex life was basically non existent for a few years after that. Now our intimacy has returned and our relationship is pretty strong. I'm finding myself wanting to move things forward again but am unsure how to proceed. I really want this to happen and think it might be possible if I play my cards right.
Help moving things forward
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bbarnsworth
- Experienced
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Re: Help moving things forward
Have a conversation 
Be truly honest and open with her, and encourage her to be the same. Do it without judgment; don't make fun of anything she says, even in jest. You are in a place where you know there is a possibility with her. Nurture that; see where her fantasies go. Explore them together, maybe fantasize together with a dildo playing the part of another man, etc. Most importantly, do it together as a team; it's your adventure together, not independent of each other.
Be truly honest and open with her, and encourage her to be the same. Do it without judgment; don't make fun of anything she says, even in jest. You are in a place where you know there is a possibility with her. Nurture that; see where her fantasies go. Explore them together, maybe fantasize together with a dildo playing the part of another man, etc. Most importantly, do it together as a team; it's your adventure together, not independent of each other.
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JanesHubby
- Prepubescent
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Re: Help moving things forward
That's good advice! I agree being open and honest is the way to go. I think timing will be key too. I'm hoping to bring up the topic again this Saturday if the mood is right.