Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

[jratt85]

I wonder if S has her nipples or hood pierced and might end up showing your wife at some point. Also sounds like if they're good enough friends, and end up drunk enough, who knows what they might end up trying together.

[drstrangelove]

I wonder if S has her nipples or hood pierced and might end up showing your wife at some point. Also sounds like if they're good enough friends, and end up drunk enough, who knows what they might end up trying together.

For sure—I get the impression that S’s sexual openness is being received well by my wife. She is that way too, but reins it in around more conservative people—with S she feels at home. I think S finding out about my wife’s hall pass would be a perfect scenario.

[Bomerang43]

I hope it goes to the way you want.

[jratt85]

I wonder if S has her nipples or hood pierced and might end up showing your wife at some point. Also sounds like if they're good enough friends, and end up drunk enough, who knows what they might end up trying together.

For sure—I get the impression that S’s sexual openness is being received well by my wife. She is that way too, but reins it in around more conservative people—with S she feels at home. I think S finding out about my wife’s hall pass would be a perfect scenario.

Here's a thought, would it get you off in the same way if she was taking a huge strapon from S instead of hooking up with another guy? (I mean most guys have a lesbian fetish but..) Might be even more emasculating if she started raving about how she pounds her better than you do, eats her pussy better, and possibly even gets her fist in her.

Longshot fantasy: Your wife ends up with piercings and a tattoo of her own and you start noticing marks on her wrists, ankles, neck, chest from where she was tied up and used and her pussy is noticably gaping and she's walking weird from being so sore from being used hard and long with toys FAR larger than any guy would have and anything she'd even have been willing to try without being forced to take it.

Could you imagine walking in on her as she's getting ready for a "girl's night out" and she's putting on a leather body harness and a collar and attaching chains to her nipples that are connected to the collar and getting ready for a night of submissive fun with her new Mistress?

(sorry if that's too much, I kind of have a thing for the BDSM world, blame the Scorpio part of me being a Libra-Scorpio cusper )

[mf2hd82]

Any updates? Hope all is well.

[Small]

I finally caught up with this thread. Oh boy, it has been interesting to say the least. It seems to me that the wife is generally not interested in vanilla sex and so when the good Dr. wants intimacy, she gets bored very fast. At the same time, she doesn't seem to want more experimental sex with him, as she also seems to look at the marriage itself in a very traditional, maybe even romantic, way and any extremeties does not fit with that image. That's a pretty impossible situation for the Dr. to navigate within. Especially as it is clear that she also has a very different side to her, where she is very slutty and wants to be used and humiliated. At one point she said that she would fuck F in front of his wife, if he wanted her to, and that she likes public sex. This goes totally against the way she would picture herself with the Dr and the family. I hope that she finds another lover since she seems to need that and we know that the Dr misses that part as well.
Yesterday I heard a well-known song that made me think of this thread and the two main persons involved. I know that the topic of the song most likely is not hotwife/cuckold but rather a person leaving for good, but it could easily be interpreted as the former and seems to describe the relations between the two pretty good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHsN9d4FTVI

[drstrangelove]

Any updates? Hope all is well.

Sorry, fellas. No updates on my end. The cuckold stuff has all but stopped—no opportunities have arisen and my wife still feels bad about how F dumped her. And she still has to see F and R at school events, which just compounds how bad she feels.

And in the other stress of life (work. Kids, family) and my cuckold fetish is on the back burner. I’m sticking tried to my plan to keep this thread an honest reflection of the journey and I hope I’m not chasing the highs from earlier this year the rest of my life. I’ll be back when I have something worth sharing; I promise.

[ResponsibullCummings]

Thanks for the update. Are you back to having sex with her again or is she not in the mood for that?

[drstrangelove]

Thanks for the update. Are you back to having sex with her again or is she not in the mood for that?

Overall, it has been a downswing since F called things off in early April. It affected her. And her anxieties and inner-stresses have become worse, forcing conflicts and anger that I can’t avoid. It hasn’t been a great few months.

Our sex life has suffered as a result, so I try to focus on the good. I still get the sense she is up for continuing the lifestyle if the right situation arises though.

[jratt85]

Thanks for the update. Are you back to having sex with her again or is she not in the mood for that?

Overall, it has been a downswing since F called things off in early April. It affected her. And her anxieties and inner-stresses have become worse, forcing conflicts and anger that I can’t avoid. It hasn’t been a great few months.

Our sex life has suffered as a result, so I try to focus on the good. I still get the sense she is up for continuing the lifestyle if the right situation arises though.

and I'm sure she's probably blaming you for all of it too.. Sorry dude, your chick has serious issues.

[Rogueuser1]

I miss your updates - I hope all is well with you and your wife!

[Luigical1931]

Would love to hear an update on this, even if there’s nothing major. That recording she did was one of the hottest, most real audios I’ve heard.

[jratt85]

Would love to hear an update on this, even if there’s nothing major. That recording she did was one of the hottest, most real audios I’ve heard.

Even if, or maybe because, what she told him about where it was etc wasn't 100% true.. How it kept getting louder and obviously moved around when she said it was in the hallway... bullshit, as someone that's messed with cameras and recording devices I know for a fact that microphones of any kind don't record sound that way, it was very obviously being moved around throughout the call..

[jratt85]

It'd definitely be nice to hear what's going on, even if you've decided to get divorced or something. I have a feeling that either way the cuckold life with your wife is obviously over for good.. That said, I'd definitely love to hear what's going on with her and "S" the slutty hot friend.

[Rogueuser1]

He hasn't logged in since October and I don't remember his reddit handle to see if he is active there. Unfortunately the links he posted are sadly dead. Hope all is well though.

[jratt85]

He hasn't logged in since October and I don't remember his reddit handle to see if he is active there. Unfortunately the links he posted are sadly dead. Hope all is well though.

Yeah, I was wondering if anyone remembered what his handle was.. I remember he was talking about sharing more on a group there related to surviving infidelity or something.

[residueS]

bump

[Sucidar802]

Bum.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Susidar802.

[coastalkid]

Thanks for the update. Are you back to having sex with her again or is she not in the mood for that?

Overall, it has been a downswing since F called things off in early April. It affected her. And her anxieties and inner-stresses have become worse, forcing conflicts and anger that I can’t avoid. It hasn’t been a great few months.

Our sex life has suffered as a result, so I try to focus on the good. I still get the sense she is up for continuing the lifestyle if the right situation arises though.

This is one of the regularly unmentioned intangibles that husbands face, when wives have an attachment to their lover and want it to go on but for whatever reason the lover moves on. Almost every time I read about this, the wives go into an emotional tailspin that cannot be consoled by their spouse. The wives question their involvement in the lifestyle altogether. The wives flash through a rotation of waves of depression and anger and apathy. The husband suffers the consequences of a situation that he had no direct impact or influence on and he has no solution other than to ride it out.

Initially, most (not always of course) of these "lovers" are not people that the couples have had a long history with. They are exciting because they are different, or new. You don't really know their tendencies like you do with a spouse. To put all your eggs in the basket of a man that you have relatively little experience with is inherently risky. But then again, it is a high risk, high reward scenario to begin with. The question is how much do you want to risk?

I know this will come across as harsh but this is why I believe not all wives/gfs are cut out for being a hot wife or wife of a cuckold husband. If a man who is a relative stranger can affect a wife so much that she is emotionally fragile or worse, fragile and volatile, then she may not have the right mental makeup to handle this lifestyle. A husband has to trust that his wife's fun doesn't make him miserable whether it's from her neglect or if he has to suffer along with her because she's miserable. A lot of stuff in life looks good on paper. It's these unanticipated issues that get glossed over while living in the moment.

[wannabecUKold]

A thoughtful post by coastalkid as ever. Useful reminder.

[Shauncuckold]

Thanks for the update. Are you back to having sex with her again or is she not in the mood for that?

Overall, it has been a downswing since F called things off in early April. It affected her. And her anxieties and inner-stresses have become worse, forcing conflicts and anger that I can’t avoid. It hasn’t been a great few months.

Our sex life has suffered as a result, so I try to focus on the good. I still get the sense she is up for continuing the lifestyle if the right situation arises though.

This is one of the regularly unmentioned intangibles that husbands face, when wives have an attachment to their lover and want it to go on but for whatever reason the lover moves on. Almost every time I read about this, the wives go into an emotional tailspin that cannot be consoled by their spouse. The wives question their involvement in the lifestyle altogether. The wives flash through a rotation of waves of depression and anger and apathy. The husband suffers the consequences of a situation that he had no direct impact or influence on and he has no solution other than to ride it out.

Initially, most (not always of course) of these "lovers" are not people that the couples have had a long history with. They are exciting because they are different, or new. You don't really know their tendencies like you do with a spouse. To put all your eggs in the basket of a man that you have relatively little experience with is inherently risky. But then again, it is a high risk, high reward scenario to begin with. The question is how much do you want to risk?

I know this will come across as harsh but this is why I believe not all wives/gfs are cut out for being a hot wife or wife of a cuckold husband. If a man who is a relative stranger can affect a wife so much that she is emotionally fragile or worse, fragile and volatile, then she may not have the right mental makeup to handle this lifestyle. A husband has to trust that his wife's fun doesn't make him miserable whether it's from her neglect or if he has to suffer along with her because she's miserable. A lot of stuff in life looks good on paper. It's these unanticipated issues that get glossed over while living in the moment.