Asking GF to watch porn went wrong!
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Welcome to the forum HopefulInTx .
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Without pushing it (as others have said, I agree take it slow, prioritize her needs...), take a look at this one and see if it would be of interest to your GF. I like this one, it's focused on the women's pleasure, and is v sexy but as some tender moments/hand holding with husband (from about 11 mins in shorter version) that might resonate with your GF, or possibly be a talking point about both being involved, loving relationship...Fapster69 wrote: ↑Sat Feb 08, 2025 3:59 amIt took a while to get her here but I’m loving it! Every time we watch one I’m in disbelief that I’ve actually got my innocent vanilla GF to watch my favourite porn movies!![]()
A few days ago we had a session and she has actually taken charge and clicks through the playlist herself to find a movie she likes!
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The next day we did it again and she stopped on a HotYogaWife video....
She commented straight away that she liked this one as the wife had a natural body.
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Last year we actually made an account on another hotwife website when we were drunk. We got verified (made a short video confirming we were real) and posted some pictures of her (no face). She has been mortified ever since and never went back on the site but she still allows me to keep the account.
Maybe in the future when she’s feeling up for it I could ask to post more pictures or ask her to strike up a conversation with a guy just for fun (not to fuck at this point it’s too early)? Something to get the ball rolling? What do you guys think?
Shorter version https://xhamster.com/videos/wifes-first ... e-12556182
Full 43min version https://wonporn.com/to/2930667-our_firs ... films.html
Also - you mentioned some pics of your GF - would love the link to them (so long as you don't need to create more profiles to view), or perhaps share some in the hotties forum?
Good luck on the journey
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It’s loads of different videos I’ve downloaded over the years. There are probably similar playlists on spankbang if you search for BBC hotwife/cuckold.HopefulInTx wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2025 3:45 pmYou mind sharing the playlist? Would like to do this with my girl.
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Plus, I think the best part is watching all these videos and personalizing your own custom playlist, with the videos that get you the horniest. You know what gets you off the mostFapster69 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 26, 2025 3:46 amIt’s loads of different videos I’ve downloaded over the years. There are probably similar playlists on spankbang if you search for BBC hotwife/cuckold.HopefulInTx wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2025 3:45 pmYou mind sharing the playlist? Would like to do this with my girl.
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Exactly this!sharedfantasy wrote: ↑Wed Feb 26, 2025 5:25 amPlus, I think the best part is watching all these videos and personalizing your own custom playlist, with the videos that get you the horniest. You know what gets you off the most![]()
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When I was first planning to introduce her to porn, I made a playlist of some of my favorite BBC/Hotwife videos.
When we watch the playlist she will vibe with some videos and not others.
When I have free time I remove the videos she wasn’t into and add some new ones to keep it fresh for her!
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Out of curiosity, would you be interested in sharing your top favorites off that list?
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Yesterday we tried to have normal sex like she asked for previously.
She was taking longer than usual to get wet, she said I was touching her differently, but I was doing my usual technique!
My spidey sense tingled and a thought came to my mind!
I said "I know how we can get you wet!
" She knew immediately what I meant!
She still denies it’s the porn that gets her wet so I made a game of it and said, “Okay, I won’t touch you while we watch and I bet you will get wet!” She rolled her eyes.
I put a HotYogaWife video on and a few minutes in she said it was boring and skipped it. I then put a video of a BBC fucking a white girl while wearing a condom....
https://www.eporner.com/video-jyHG1QCLx ... a-johnson/
There was a lot of kissing in this video which I think is hot, I made a point of saying it was hot but would be hotter without the condom. I know she hates condoms and would be in agreement!
The next video was this one...
https://www.eporner.com/video-HKWPzJ38J ... -in-vegas/
FitAndFlirtyHotwife getting fucked by a BBC while her husband jerks off next to her. The bull creampies her and her husband makes a comment at 44:06 about her getting pregnant and all three of them start talking about pregnancy!
The husband then starts eating her out. I’m not into cleanup at all but I thought I’d gauge my GF's reaction. To my surprise she wasn’t phased by it! She made a comment about how he was eating her out straight after the bull had just came inside her, but that was it! I was super surprised by this, cleanup is extreme to me but clearly not to her!
The husband started fucking her after eating her out and the wife said that she couldn’t feel him, at 46:25 in the video, and my GF and I both started laughing then fucked afterwards!
Anyway, a little tangent here...
My girlfriend is going on holiday with her friends soon, they are all married with kids so not that kind of holiday unfortunately!
Tonight she was trying out holiday bikinis in front of me and I was in heaven! We haven't been abroad for a few years so the bikinis were a lot tighter than before!
A few times in the past I've made jokes about how she should get a G-String bikini the next time her and I go abroad, so now was the perfect time to bring it up again! I said, "Where is your G-String bikini that you said you would get?" She laughed and said, "Could you imagine me in a bikini like that?! Look at this!" and gave herself a wedgie with the bikini bottoms! My dick was diamond and I said, "Damn right I could!
" I was imagining us walking down the beach, her fat ass jiggling for all of the men on the beach to see!
She kept saying how she was fat and I kept telling her she was crazy! I pointed to my pants and she could see I was rock hard through the material! For someone who thinks she's fat (she absolutely isn't, she is thicc as hell and an absolute PAWG) I could tell she was secretly enjoying showing off her fat ass in her undersized bikinis, she seemed like a new woman, a confident side I haven't seen in her in a long while!
She was taking longer than usual to get wet, she said I was touching her differently, but I was doing my usual technique!
She still denies it’s the porn that gets her wet so I made a game of it and said, “Okay, I won’t touch you while we watch and I bet you will get wet!” She rolled her eyes.
I put a HotYogaWife video on and a few minutes in she said it was boring and skipped it. I then put a video of a BBC fucking a white girl while wearing a condom....
https://www.eporner.com/video-jyHG1QCLx ... a-johnson/
There was a lot of kissing in this video which I think is hot, I made a point of saying it was hot but would be hotter without the condom. I know she hates condoms and would be in agreement!
The next video was this one...
https://www.eporner.com/video-HKWPzJ38J ... -in-vegas/
FitAndFlirtyHotwife getting fucked by a BBC while her husband jerks off next to her. The bull creampies her and her husband makes a comment at 44:06 about her getting pregnant and all three of them start talking about pregnancy!
The husband then starts eating her out. I’m not into cleanup at all but I thought I’d gauge my GF's reaction. To my surprise she wasn’t phased by it! She made a comment about how he was eating her out straight after the bull had just came inside her, but that was it! I was super surprised by this, cleanup is extreme to me but clearly not to her!
The husband started fucking her after eating her out and the wife said that she couldn’t feel him, at 46:25 in the video, and my GF and I both started laughing then fucked afterwards!
Anyway, a little tangent here...
My girlfriend is going on holiday with her friends soon, they are all married with kids so not that kind of holiday unfortunately!
A few times in the past I've made jokes about how she should get a G-String bikini the next time her and I go abroad, so now was the perfect time to bring it up again! I said, "Where is your G-String bikini that you said you would get?" She laughed and said, "Could you imagine me in a bikini like that?! Look at this!" and gave herself a wedgie with the bikini bottoms! My dick was diamond and I said, "Damn right I could!
She kept saying how she was fat and I kept telling her she was crazy! I pointed to my pants and she could see I was rock hard through the material! For someone who thinks she's fat (she absolutely isn't, she is thicc as hell and an absolute PAWG) I could tell she was secretly enjoying showing off her fat ass in her undersized bikinis, she seemed like a new woman, a confident side I haven't seen in her in a long while!
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Does your GF know of this forum. Would she be up for your posting pics of her in the hotties section and getting positive feedback from the guys ob here? Thick Pawg sounds beautiful to me. Might help build her confidence in her body?
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I’ll ask her if I can post some oldies that I haven’t posted before! I want to keep my identity separate from the other forum I post on.Someone2love wrote: ↑Sat Mar 01, 2025 3:23 amDoes your GF know of this forum. Would she be up for your posting pics of her in the hotties section and getting positive feedback from the guys ob here? Thick Pawg sounds beautiful to me. Might help build her confidence in her body?
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Yesterday I wanted to get her feelings on this whole situation, so I brought it up when we were sitting on the sofa watching TV.
I asked her if she was still okay with me bringing up my fantasy and she said yeah. Her only fear was that she would go along with it all, then I would break up with her and she’d feel like an idiot for doing it.
I was confused what she meant, so asked if she meant that she was worried that I would regret it if she slept with another guy and break up with her over it, but she said no…
I said, “Why else would I break up with you over this fantasy?” but she never had an answer, so I’m left wondering what she meant?
Maybe she really was meaning me getting angry about her sleeping with another guy and she didn’t want to outright say it to me?
Anyway, I told her don’t be silly, I will never break up with you for any reason! I also said this is nothing to be embarrassed about, if anyone should be embarrassed it should be me for wanting to watch her with other guys!
I also said to her that I would NEVER just spring a random guy on her and that she is entirely in charge of how far this fantasy goes!
She was happy I said that, she said she’s had nightmares of her coming home to a random guy waiting to fuck!
What do you guys think?
I asked her if she was still okay with me bringing up my fantasy and she said yeah. Her only fear was that she would go along with it all, then I would break up with her and she’d feel like an idiot for doing it.
I was confused what she meant, so asked if she meant that she was worried that I would regret it if she slept with another guy and break up with her over it, but she said no…
I said, “Why else would I break up with you over this fantasy?” but she never had an answer, so I’m left wondering what she meant?
Maybe she really was meaning me getting angry about her sleeping with another guy and she didn’t want to outright say it to me?
Anyway, I told her don’t be silly, I will never break up with you for any reason! I also said this is nothing to be embarrassed about, if anyone should be embarrassed it should be me for wanting to watch her with other guys!
I also said to her that I would NEVER just spring a random guy on her and that she is entirely in charge of how far this fantasy goes!
She was happy I said that, she said she’s had nightmares of her coming home to a random guy waiting to fuck!
What do you guys think?
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I think she loves you more than you know. Be careful she doesn’t do this just for you. Also be careful what you wish for!
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At this point I'm definitely going to pump the breaks. We'll still have our porn movie nights (she's already told me I have two normal sex nights to go then we can have a porn night again
She offered to give me a handjob two nights ago because she's on her period and of course you know what my answer was!
I asked if I could finger her ass while she jerked me off and she said yes! I was very surprised as she's usually swatting me away from her asshole!
Long story short, I was leaking precum everywhere while I fingered her ass and this turned her on majorly, to the point where she came almost immediately when I used my other hand to touch her clit!
If anything, I feel like bringing up cuckolding has opened her mind to other sexual avenues which she had previously shut down?
Last edited by Fapster69 on Mon Mar 10, 2025 12:02 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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In the meantime, get to enjoy hot sex with your girlfriend! Tough job.Fapster69 wrote: ↑Mon Mar 10, 2025 11:50 amAt this point I'm definitely going to pump the breaks. We'll still have our porn movie nights (she's already told me I have two normal sex nights to go then we can have a porn night again), but I'll try my very best not to bring up cuckolding and see if she ever does. The whole reason I'm into cuckolding is that I'd love to see her enjoying herself with another man, so if she isn't into it them I'm not into it either. I guess it's time to play the waiting game (probably indefinitely
) ... apart from our movie nights of course!
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Sounds like she loves you and values the relationship.
Perhaps she feels she needs the security of marriage in order to feel comfortable enough to take this further. And by that I mean both exploration of this fantasy (and others), as well as her potentially fucking another guy. Are you ready to marry her and provide her that additional level of trust?
Are the two of you a younger couple, neither previously married?
Best luck.
Perhaps she feels she needs the security of marriage in order to feel comfortable enough to take this further. And by that I mean both exploration of this fantasy (and others), as well as her potentially fucking another guy. Are you ready to marry her and provide her that additional level of trust?
Are the two of you a younger couple, neither previously married?
Best luck.
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She literally told you it’s her nightmare. I mean… I don’t think you will get very far.
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Possibly so, we can hope! But do remember, a gentleman signals before changing lanes.Fapster69 wrote: ↑Mon Mar 10, 2025 11:50 amLong story short, I was leaking precum everywhere while I fingered her ass and this turned her on majorly, to the point where she came almost immediately when I used my other hand to touch her clit!![]()
If anything, I feel like bringing up cuckolding has opened her mind to other sexual avenues which she had previously shut down?
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Any updates?
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Not much just been watching lots of porn!
I try and ask her questions to see what she thinks, for example, I would say, “My dick is about the same size as that guys.” Then the dude has a monster cock and I’m clearly joking and she’ll say stuff like, “You wish!
In one scene the woman got lifted in the air and DP’d by two black guys and she was shocked and said “Oh my god!
I then said you would definitely enjoy that but you would have came way before this anyway and she said, “Yeah that’s true!
Music to my ears!
While the woman was getting DP’d my GF said, “Okay let’s have sex now… nope it’s too late!
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A little update.
My girlfriend was out meeting her girl friend this weekend for afternoon drinks and she came home a little tipsy. I was watching random videos on youtube when she came home, so she started shopping for clothes on her phone while she was sitting next to me.
I glanced across to see what she was looking at and then I made a joke saying, “That doesn’t look like sexy underwear!
”
She laughed at my joke, smirked, and then immediately clicked on the underwear section and started looking at g-strings! (She knows how much I love a g-string) She could see how excited I was, I had a boner pretty much immediately at the thought of her wearing them!
So she picked out few g-strings that we both liked and then I said, “What about a mini skirt? I’d love to see your booty hanging out of one!
” Without hesitating she then started searching for mini skirts!
She told me that she was getting turned on seeing me like a kid in a candy store and that she likes the idea of dressing up in skimpy outfits for me! I’ve never heard these words come out of her mouth till now! She finally admitted that she likes wearing skimpy outfits for me to ogle her in!
She laughed and said,"As long as you don't post the photos on those sites that you visit!
" and I said ,"Not unless you give me permission!
"
I thought I'd strike while the iron was hot, so I asked her if I could add a few other things to the shopping basket and she gave me permission!
I got her some tight booty shorts with the Jamaican flag on them (I had to get the BBC fetish in somehow) and she just laughed, no complaints whatsoever!
Anyway here is the list of things we've bought! I can't wait to get some sexy photos of her!! If she allows me I will post some of the photos on here!
https://i.imgur.com/JbAVSEv.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/zaAa5ng.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/dWk16T3.jpg
My girlfriend was out meeting her girl friend this weekend for afternoon drinks and she came home a little tipsy. I was watching random videos on youtube when she came home, so she started shopping for clothes on her phone while she was sitting next to me.
I glanced across to see what she was looking at and then I made a joke saying, “That doesn’t look like sexy underwear!
She laughed at my joke, smirked, and then immediately clicked on the underwear section and started looking at g-strings! (She knows how much I love a g-string) She could see how excited I was, I had a boner pretty much immediately at the thought of her wearing them!
So she picked out few g-strings that we both liked and then I said, “What about a mini skirt? I’d love to see your booty hanging out of one!
She told me that she was getting turned on seeing me like a kid in a candy store and that she likes the idea of dressing up in skimpy outfits for me! I’ve never heard these words come out of her mouth till now! She finally admitted that she likes wearing skimpy outfits for me to ogle her in!
I thought I'd strike while the iron was hot, so I asked her if I could add a few other things to the shopping basket and she gave me permission!
I got her some tight booty shorts with the Jamaican flag on them (I had to get the BBC fetish in somehow) and she just laughed, no complaints whatsoever!
Anyway here is the list of things we've bought! I can't wait to get some sexy photos of her!! If she allows me I will post some of the photos on here!
https://i.imgur.com/JbAVSEv.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/zaAa5ng.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/dWk16T3.jpg
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I’m on a program to reenergize my sex life and somebody in a PM gave me some very good advice and that is you wife/gf most likely gets excited when she realizes she has the control to turn you on. Therefore don’t let those moments go wasted by not reacting positively. You handled it well!Fapster69 wrote: ↑Mon Apr 21, 2025 1:51 pmA little update.
My girlfriend was out meeting her girl friend this weekend for afternoon drinks and she came home a little tipsy. I was watching random videos on youtube when she came home, so she started shopping for clothes on her phone while she was sitting next to me.
I glanced across to see what she was looking at and then I made a joke saying, “That doesn’t look like sexy underwear!”
She laughed at my joke, smirked, and then immediately clicked on the underwear section and started looking at g-strings! (She knows how much I love a g-string) She could see how excited I was, I had a boner pretty much immediately at the thought of her wearing them!
So she picked out few g-strings that we both liked and then I said, “What about a mini skirt? I’d love to see your booty hanging out of one!” Without hesitating she then started searching for mini skirts!
She told me that she was getting turned on seeing me like a kid in a candy store and that she likes the idea of dressing up in skimpy outfits for me! I’ve never heard these words come out of her mouth till now! She finally admitted that she likes wearing skimpy outfits for me to ogle her in!She laughed and said,"As long as you don't post the photos on those sites that you visit!
" and I said ,"Not unless you give me permission!
"
I thought I'd strike while the iron was hot, so I asked her if I could add a few other things to the shopping basket and she gave me permission!
I got her some tight booty shorts with the Jamaican flag on them (I had to get the BBC fetish in somehow) and she just laughed, no complaints whatsoever!
Anyway here is the list of things we've bought! I can't wait to get some sexy photos of her!! If she allows me I will post some of the photos on here!
https://i.imgur.com/JbAVSEv.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/zaAa5ng.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/dWk16T3.jpg
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This is the best progress you have made so far. Celebrating her and building her confidence is necessary to move forward. She already knows what you want. You don’t need to sell it. Take her dancing, or out to a show in those new clothes and build up the experience for her.
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We live in a small town so we’d need to wait till we were on holiday to try something like this! That’s why I always make the joke of her wearing a g-string bikini on the beach.patw3268 wrote: ↑Mon Apr 21, 2025 6:38 pmThis is the best progress you have made so far. Celebrating her and building her confidence is necessary to move forward. She already knows what you want. You don’t need to sell it. Take her dancing, or out to a show in those new clothes and build up the experience for her.
She has dressed up in sexy outfits in the past and we’ve taken sexy photographs but she’s never outright admitted that it turned her on to see me enjoying her body!
I’ve been listening to a lot of podcasts and they mention the word compersion which is when you take pleasure in your partner receiving pleasure. That’s definitely why I’m into cuckolding, I’d love to see her in bliss bouncing on someone else's cock!
My girlfriend being turned on at me getting turned on would definitely translate well to the lifestyle, right?
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Try to work in a question about how would she feel if other guys were checking her out and thinking she’s hot, and how she would like you being turned on by it.
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I’d love to see her in bliss bouncing on someone else's cock!
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From everything I’ve read on this thread, I think you have a good chance to witness her bouncing on someone else’s cock.
She is correctly thinking of all the bad things that could happen after but if she sees you consistently positive and not pushy, I think you have a really good chance to be officially not be part of the wannabes group. Good luck.
I’d love to see her in bliss bouncing on someone else's cock!
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From everything I’ve read on this thread, I think you have a good chance to witness her bouncing on someone else’s cock.
She is correctly thinking of all the bad things that could happen after but if she sees you consistently positive and not pushy, I think you have a really good chance to be officially not be part of the wannabes group. Good luck.