Do you prefer to watch or to hear about it?

[Massage4Wife72]

Why choose only one. I would think both would be absolutely amazing!!! Waiting and hearing about the detail later adds so much excitement!! The imagination is such a wonderful thing!
Watching provides so many visuals and sounds for one to enjoy!!!

[Deppi]

More often than not I overhear her in another room.
She feels like she can’t open up and be wild when I am around. Feels ashamed at what she does for others. But she has no problem being in another room and being loud if anything she plays it up and becomes louder.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I’ve always preferred to watch and was fortunate to do so hundreds of (maybe 1,000+?) times in her 16.5-year relationship with boyfriend #1.

I’ve seen it all!

Then, she decided she was ready to move on from boyfriend #1 and took on a slightly younger boyfriend #2.

We decided to “cum clean” with him and tell him that I’m aware of their relationship AND that I’m okay with it. He was blown away, of course, but he was immediately defensive and said he wouldn’t be able to handle an MFM threesome. “It’s just not my thing, man. I don’t think I could handle another guy watchin’ my junk. Y’know what I mean?!?”

(“No. I don’t! It’s about her pleasure!)

I knew how much this guy meant for my wife, so I demurred with the “We’ll see!” response.

Well…..Long story short:
It’s been over two years. He plows my wife on weekends and she’s STILL coming home to tell me about it (and happily getting reclaimed).

It’s a different kind of experience, I was telling someone recently, but thrilling in its own way. (When you’ve seen everything, it’s not hard to imagine how it went down at all.) I’m grateful that she comes home wanting me to reclaim her, and there have even been a few occasions when he has finished in her just minutes before she has come home so I can feel some sloppy seconds and more (if she should push me to go down on her before I get to “jump in.”)

It’s been a fun ride, all these years.

I kind of laugh at the clowns who make fun of men who allow their wives to wander. If they’d put their hangups to the side, they’d become hotwife addicts just like the rest of us. In my humble opinion, there is NO sex better than sloppy seconds. It blows my mind every time I’m able to get it. They don’t know what they’re missing!

What a fantastic experience!

We’re in our early-/mid-50s, and we wonder how long our “luck” (in discovering this lifestyle) will last. Hopefully, I’ll be getting sloppy seconds well into our 80s.

Oh well. At least her boyfriend and I will die happy, satisfied men! And she is DEFINITELY a happy, satisfied woman!

[masculinecuck]

I watch/clean

[david29]

I think I would prefer to watch

[Dutchpride7]

The good thing about watching is that you're available for clean up duties, both on her and him. Being wanked off as she tells you the details of what they did together is fun too so I voted for a bit of both.

Like me.

From a Bulls Perspective:
The hotwifes I'm with regularly it was agreed on when making plans with them that hubbie was always there watching & also involved in cleanup of myself and his wife. So I've found it very thrilling & rewarding to make sure the hubbie is always there & participating in what he likes and deserves.
It is an awesome & wonderful thing to be part of when all 3 are involved but not only that all 3 are getting exactly what they want as far as their sexual desires & pleasures satisfied and met. So it becomes as a team that works together as a well oiled machine,performing their tasks to ultimately keep each one satisfied & happy.
Thee only way I prefer to enjoy is All 3 are happy & content. It's a win,win,win,across the board and such a pleasure and joy for me to carry on in this manner. Would not have it any other way!
Cheers to all...

[htwfluver_4]

We have tried all sorts of things. I haven't found one time that her being with other men has failed to turn us both on. I have watched the seduction. From one man to as many as seven men at one time. That is a thrill in itself. I have listened to her as she was being fucked and left the phone on intentionally for me to listen. I have listened as her choice or choices left the phone on without her knowledge for me to hear as she is taken. That was intense as she could be completely herself and let go without any holdups. I have watched her with single men and even with as many as seven men at one time. One of the hottest was when she went out at night then came home early in the morning showing all the signs of a full night of being fucked senseless and was telling the details as I took her back.

[safado]

She fucked around when I was working thousands of miles away. I would only come home two weeks out of every three months.
When I got the job, I coaxed her to flirt with coworkers and go out to bars with single girlfriends. She made a goodbye dinner date with a much younger coworker who was leaving town. That was her first.
She then met a guy at a singles' bar and he became a regular lover. She sent me pictures of how she dressed and then told me in detail what they did in emails and phone calls. It was very hot.

[SammySigns]

After a lot of trial and error, my favorite is when I am at home getting texts and pics and vids.

[A and L 48]

Love to hear her tell me about it, while I'm fucking her slippery pussy. Plus the excitement of waiting for her to get home

[shorebird]

Being right outside the bedroom door listening to them make love is extremely hot!

[SRKnight]

always preferred to hear about it or listen in on a cellphone that has been "accidentally" left on you

[Parsifal]

It's funny how my wife is more turned on making vids for me than by me watching in real time and space. One reason is that live performances are unpredictable, which adds angst. Relatedly, angst from me watching is a distraction. However every time I watch she does reach orgasm.

[windymiller]

Over a period of 30 years i have done all permutations and enjoy all, watching, listening or not being present and giving them time together.

I would like her to take a lover, a man i would never directly meet so would know little if anything about him other than being presented as i have for many years with her cum filled panties to wear afterwards.

It is still easier to get a lover if he assumes that she a married women is simply cheating rather than knowing her 6ft 3 17st alpha dominant husband is aware and approves.

[petej55]

The good thing about watching is that you're available for clean up duties, both on her and him. Being wanked off as she tells you the details of what they did together is fun too so I voted for a bit of both.

there it is! Clean Up Duties!!! Shirley expects Clean up!!!!

[petej55]

It is not allowed to watch since i am in regression into babyhood - but great to hear it

little Benita

Would love to hear more about the Regression!!!! I have performed regression diapered!

[Pegasus555]

I never had the option I wanted to watch and to serve, get them a towel or a drink or whatever they wanted. But she told me that was her time to be with her real man.
And I was not allowed near him. But she would tell me about it all the time.
Often comparing and belittling me, the closest I got to watching was hearing about it as I sucked t angelo's come out of her pussy in the morning, when she got home. But that is the way she wanted it, and I was only too happy.To obey

[Gentleman_jim]

I have only watched her twice. It was a huge turn on for me. She however having me watching made her nervous and uncomfortable. Over the years she has been with several men numerous time. She always shares the details with me later as I enjoy sloppy seconds.

[MillStMan]

I have never seen Irene with her lover in person. fundamental premise was that she only agreed to become a Hotwife, is that in the beginning her encounters would be solo, but she'd answer any questions.
unbeknownst to both of them I listened in the basement thru the air duct. It was informative and stimulating.
Then her lover made a short movie of them having sex

[Parsifal]

My G has had sex in my presence thrice. Each time she climaxed. But she prefers it alone, which I respect. Yet she's done several videos for me, with three separate lovers. She really likes that that. It's a fantasy from our newbee period we still practice. And those I prefer to being told about it.

[d355515]

I think both watching and hearing both have merits for me.

Being present, taking in all that is going on, participating and seeing the reactions is an amazing feeling.

Hearing about it after has the added appeal of imagining what is going on while she is out, creating a higher level of angst and desire during her play time. Even more so if it is her choice to play alone.

[MarknSusan]

The majority likes a little of both which is how I feel. If your wife is good at sharing details after she was done (we have friends that hotwife often and she does not provide good details which bothers her husband) to me it makes it really exciting by leaving a bunch of questions which adds to the excitement.

[Domingo-ITA]

A little of both. But if she is really good at sharing the details, probably hearing is better than watching for me.

[BT2]

My wife is a hotwife and I have been an fb in the past. I know when I was an fb that I felt way less inhibited about kissing and really paying attention sexually to the other woman if I was solo rather than in a threesome. My wife has had the occasional regular fb that she has preferred seeing alone, so I presume it was for the same reason.

Like the poster immediately above, I prefer a little of both. I love watching her "in action", particularly when she is being penetrated and fucking, but I also like hearing about how she was feeling, how it felt to her, what she was wanting, etc., all things you cannot get from watching. Unfortunately, my wife has always had a bit of "selective memory". particularly if (I believe) she really enjoyed the sex.

[a51anh0tw1fe]

I would choose to listen to them go at it outside the room. Their fucking sounds stimulate all kinds of imagery in the head.