Leggysandy Stepping Out

[fitz_f]

Sorry if I’ve missed you talking about this, but do the two of you see this heading in more of a poly direction? I only ask because I’m wondering if that’s where we’re heading.

My wife has been hotwifing for around five years now, and it’s been NSA with a few (increasingly unreliable) regulars. I’m starting to feel it would be easier and safer (and I would be happier) if she had a regular boyfriend she actually cared about as well as enjoyed sex with.

This is a big turnaround for us as we both very clear about no emotions or feelings at any point and it was the thing I most feared at the start. But now the thought of my wife having a boyfriend feels pretty exciting and saucy.

I suppose maybe in this case, you could say it's more in that direction. But I don't see us ever wanting to go too far in that direction, like a triad or something, where he and I are equals. Call me selfish, but I just don't want to give up that much of my gorgeous, amazing leggysandy. And I hope she never feels as strongly about Ethan as she does about me. I want to be her number one, and know it.

With her first guy a couple of years ago, Anthony, it was more than just sex. He was her first, and the NRE was strong. They were in contact all day long, and well into the night. He wanted a girlfriend, and she wasn't resisting too much. It did lead to some discomfort, and some heated discussions between us. We questioned whether we should continue with this. Neither of us handled it perfectly. I certainly wasn't ready for that level of engagement with another man, at the time. But we kept talking, and we did smooth things out relatively quickly.

With a bit more experience, I think we are evolving. Hookups are fun - and I'm sure there will be more of them along the way - but she's been looking for more of a 'regular'. One regular. And then Ethan popped up again.

I've teased her that she wants Ethan to be her boyfriend, which seemed to turn her on, and which she repeated to him. He liked that too. She responds as though she's excited by the notion of the two of us 'sharing' her body and her pussy. Of being a woman with a husband and a boyfriend. Personally, I think I am more relaxed now. And I trust her. So, that seems like the way this could go, and it seems like a fun thing to try ... within reason .

So yeah. Maybe a little bit.

(if he ever gets around to having sex with my hot little wife)

(without pissing her off too much first - which is always a distinct possibility )

That sounds v much like where we’re heading. I have no desire or expectation of being replaced as the primary partner, but would like my wife to be enjoying sex with someone she actually cared about (as well as myself).

It’s been a weird old journey. I think the most jealous I’ve felt was when she and a semi-regular paused between fucking to watch TV together (a show my wife and I both like.)

We haven’t dealt with the NRE thing yet but I don’t mind the idea of her getting to experience that (we’ve been together a v long time, despite being in our 40s). It makes my happy to see her happy. And it’s a weirdly saucy thought too, getting to share that with her.

I think the big change along the way has been coming to realise her feelings for me won’t necessarily change if she also cares about another lover. But it can feel very counter intuitive.

[fitz_f]

I think Sandy will really enjoy having 2 men who care for her in her life. My wife was dating a guy and she told me she wanted me to be open if she falls in love with him. It took time to get use to but she and he have dated now over a year and he makes her very happy and it’s nice to see her happy with him and to buy her nice outfits for her to wear for him Ect . I’ve accepted more of the Cuckold role in our relationship as he’s her primary sexual partner and i do get the added benefit of getting to enjoy licking her creampies as often as she lets me The dynamic can work and I dint think my wife and I would have it any other way. I’m sure Sandy already knows she can develop feelings for him, just communicate with each other as she deepened her feelings for him. I’m sure as they start having sex it will grow more too

It is nice that you and your wife found what makes you happy and enjoying it.

However, this is not where we are going. My primary sexual partner will always be Leggysman and that will never change. I love him, sex is great and I like to do it often - with him. Ethan can add an extra session a week which I believe I will enjoy more than with random strangers assuming he's got the right equipment

This all sounds very sane and sensible to me – good luck tonight (?)!

[Jamesparistoo]

Incredibly exciting to know that gorgeous Leggysandy is now with Ethan, probably (hopefully) doing naughty things and making Leggysman proud!! As always, thank you for taking us with you on your journey!

[leggysman]

Incredibly exciting to know that gorgeous Leggysandy is now with Ethan, probably (hopefully) doing naughty things and making Leggysman proud!! As always, thank you for taking us with you on your journey!

She is at his place right now, in fact. She's been there for a couple of hours.

I haven't heard anything - we assume it's not going to be like with the LS guys, where she'd be taking pics or occasionally messaging with me. Not to start with, anyway. She said she'd try to update me if he went to the bathroom or something, but nothing so far.

And, the journey home is only a few minutes, so I might not know what happened until she walks in the door. When that will be, I don't know!

She left fully expecting that Ethan will give her pussy some proper attention tonight, at least. We will see!

Actually, she just drove up

[Jamesparistoo]

OMG… This is very exciting. Thanks for sharing. Hopefully Ethan did the right thing and gave Leggysandy’s pussy (and other gorgeous body parts) the attention it deserves!!

[leggysman]

She left fully expecting that Ethan will give her pussy some proper attention tonight, at least.

OMG… This is very exciting. Thanks for sharing. Hopefully Ethan did the right thing and gave Leggysandy’s pussy (and other gorgeous body parts) the attention it deserves!!

It's starting to get warmer around here... Expectations were met!

She left wearing a black above-the-knee dress, black tights, sexy black lace panties, and no bra. When she arrived, he said he was really tired, and suggested they go upstairs and lie on the bed. Until now, they've been sticking to his couch. They laid there and relaxed and talked for a few minutes, and then started touching and kissing. Following her seductive plan, she removed her tights, and then her panties. He lifted her dress to her waist, and was touching her all over, which she loves. She said she spent most of the time exposed from the waist down.

He began by fingering her (after asking permission) in a way she enjoyed - not too rough - and pinched her clit a bit, which she's never experienced before. Then he went down, and began licking her pussy. [ When you lick my girl, she's very sensitive to start with. You need to start slowly, but not too lightly; medium-firm. ] She said it was good - he was better than most guys she's dated, again not too rough, and she was very wet. She said he was quite assertive, and seemed really into it. He loved how wet she was. He pleasured her orally for a little while (he does know she can't come that way) and then I think he stopped and maybe they did some more kissing and touching.

Later, as she was on top of him, he hesitated before eventually pulling her upwards, so she was straddling his face as he gripped her bum. His hands found their way up inside her dress, and he was rubbing her bare nipples as he licked her, which she loves.

She tried to convince him to fuck her. He was tired, but she joked - as she's done before - that she expects the first time to be short. It's been a long time for him! It'll only take 3 minutes, she teased. 2, he corrected her . But he still couldn't be convinced.

Oddly, he remained fully dressed the entire time.

We had a nice, short session when she got home, and she came the "old way", lying back and getting herself off while I filled her mouth. And of course, it was very hot that I was the second man to lick her pussy tonight. I finished inside her, wishing only that Ethan had gotten there first.

We've joked (and she has been legitimately horrified by the thought) that he's so shy because he has a tiny penis. I mean, if that were the case, you'd want to build up slowly, make sure a woman is really into you, and get her out-of-her-mind horny before you do the big (little) reveal - right?!? So she'd hopefully just go: Fuck it. It'll have to do. I need to get laid.

So far, she hasn't been able to feel anything down there, though she hasn't tried to grope him. Maybe he's not getting hard? Maybe it's really little? We really hope that's not the case ! She just wouldn't be able to get into that. A bit smaller than average, but he uses it well? That could probably work.

Anyway, tonight was a big step forward. First sexytime with a guy we know IRL! Unfortunately, that will be all with Ethan for at least the next couple of weeks.

[hwlurker88]

If I'd have to guess, I think he isn't getting hard. But this is probably due to how fucking nervous he is. Does she say if he gets jittery when they are together? If he is struggling to get over his nerves and worried about being able to get erect, I could see him not wanting to get naked. Especially if he is a grower and not a shower. Maybe a viagra before hand would give him some confidence?

[leggysman]

If I'd have to guess, I think he isn't getting hard. But this is probably due to how fucking nervous he is. Does she say if he gets jittery when they are together? If he is struggling to get over his nerves and worried about being able to get erect, I could see him not wanting to get naked. Especially if he is a grower and not a shower. Maybe a viagra before hand would give him some confidence?

Nerves sounds like a very reasonable (and preferable!) explanation. He hadn't had any sort of sex or romance in years, as far as we know; she's hot, and ready to fuck; she's married, her husband knows, and this is all new - and mighty weird - to him.

She said he talks confidently about how good the sex is going to be. So hopefully, yeah, he just needs to relax and get into it.

We were talking about it last night, and remembering how all this started. He definitely always seems to be flirting with the prettiest mummies, and they appear to gravitate towards him. The village "mean girl" who has it out for S is clearly smitten with him, but this is one competition she is definitely going to lose !

He initiated the flirtation with leggysandy, and once they started messaging he began to compliment her talent, brains, and beauty. He hedged it coyly with an "I shouldn't be saying this..." before she told him "Well, actually you can". Naturally, he was curious about why it was Ok to hit on her He was probably hoping our marriage was on the rocks, until she dropped the hotwife bomb on him .

[newUK]

I'm loving where this is going. Such an intense build up.

But crikey he has some real self control, I wouldnt be able to resist LS's advances.

Such a shame we are going to have to sit tight and wait for the next developments.

[leggysandy]

I'm loving where this is going. Such an intense build up.

But crikey he has some real self control, I wouldnt be able to resist LS's advances.

Such a shame we are going to have to sit tight and wait for the next developments.

Yes, there I am, half naked, wet, rubbing my naked bum against him while he's touching me all over... I can see he is all excited, but still says a firm NO. Like, wtf??

He is very proud of his self control, I think it's just dumb.

He either firmly decided that this is how it's going to go, or he's really afraid of something. Either attaching even more (though he said he doesn't want to avoid having sex with me), or disappointing me in some way. I do hope there is no reason for disappointment.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

What's wrong with this guy?

[FNQLivin]

I'm loving where this is going. Such an intense build up.

But crikey he has some real self control, I wouldnt be able to resist LS's advances.

Such a shame we are going to have to sit tight and wait for the next developments.

Yes, there I am, half naked, wet, rubbing my naked bum against him while he's touching me all over... I can see he is all excited, but still says a firm NO. Like, wtf??

He is very proud of his self control, I think it's just dumb.

He either firmly decided that this is how it's going to go, or he's really afraid of something. Either attaching even more (though he said he doesn't want to avoid having sex with me), or disappointing me in some way. I do hope there is no reason for disappointment.

I can understand why he is so reticent. He clearly likes you way more than as just a friend. He’s been hurt in a previous relationship and doesn’t want to get hurt again. Sure, he loves sex, would love to have sex with you, but that means you’re no longer just a friend. But in his eyes, that means relationship, going out with each other, PDA, you know, normal boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. None of which you can give him, at least not in the way he wants or expects. He doesn’t see you as a FWB, he sees you as a potential girlfriend or partner. I’d argue he is showing you a huge amount of respect, because the sex is clearly there for the taking, but he’s sees you as way more than just a release. I’m positive he’s going to make the move, but it’ll require a complete mind shift for him. And he’ll be hoping that your talk about your husband and how you’re never going to leave him is just that, talk.

[FNQLivin]

Lastly, he’s the single one. When he’s had sex with you, you go home to your husband, you cuddle, talk, fuck. He’s home. Alone. That would make me sad. Sure, I’ve just had sex with a beautiful woman, but she’s not here anymore.

[leggysandy]

Lastly, he’s the single one. When he’s had sex with you, you go home to your husband, you cuddle, talk, fuck. He’s home. Alone. That would make me sad. Sure, I’ve just had sex with a beautiful woman, but she’s not here anymore.

Spot on. Everything. He even told me himself quite a few of same stuff (except that he doesn't really hope I will leave Leggysman, in fact, he doesn't want to destroy my family, as he went through it knows how horrible it is). That's why he says he doesn't see this go very long term, but he likes me too much to let this go now, even if he's working against himself. However, we are both willing to give it a go and see how it goes at least for a while. There is slight chance he will just get used to situation, so hoping for that really.

[subtoall]

Have you checked to see if he's wearing a purity ring? Maybe Daddy has forbidden him to have sex until he gets married.

[sandy691196]

I'm loving where this is going. Such an intense build up.

But crikey he has some real self control, I wouldnt be able to resist LS's advances.

Such a shame we are going to have to sit tight and wait for the next developments.

Yes, there I am, half naked, wet, rubbing my naked bum against him while he's touching me all over... I can see he is all excited, but still says a firm NO. Like, wtf??

He is very proud of his self control, I think it's just dumb.

He either firmly decided that this is how it's going to go, or he's really afraid of something. Either attaching even more (though he said he doesn't want to avoid having sex with me), or disappointing me in some way. I do hope there is no reason for disappointment.

I am a mean guy. And tend to think about the worst case scenario.
He is playing a mind game. He liked you from Day 1. He preferred you over the other moms who were throwing themselves at him.

He made the straight play at a full on affair to start with. He wanted to take you away. All that BS about not wanting you to break up your family like his- is just that- BS. If he cared about that he wouldn't have acted weird that time.. insisting on PDA, full on dating an'all.

This time around he is being devious. He is making you want him bad by withholding. This is how Femme Fatales have played their dangerous liaisons for centuries!

He knows his charm. He knows you like him more than a fast fuck. He has checked out the strength of your feelings, over the months. He knows that sex is easy for you. He can't hook you hard by giving you easy sex.

If he is to have any success in luring you away from your hubby, he has to play on something more than sex. Thus he is hanging the carrot in front of you, letting you have a nibble every time.. whetting your appetite every time.

He is trying to make you desperate to have him. He knows desperate people compromise.
So what will be the compromise? He can't straight away go for broke by insisting on exclusivity or whatever.

So perhaps he will insist on PDA or dating / dinner or spending the day together- before or after full on sex?

Instead of directly trying to alienate you from your husband he may try to compromise your marriage and your hubby's position through public cucking. In your village it will then be known that he is your lover and your hubby is a poor cuck.

That will be the first base for him to win and occupy. He will leave the rest to time and the natural progression of things.

[Jamesparistoo]

Hi Leggysandy & Leggysman,
I hope you are doing well! Been a while since the last update.
While I have to say I also have some mild mixed feelings about how this guy is threading the situation, I think the last post in the best thread in this forum should not have a negative message like the last one!!

I am sure your marriage is strong enough and you communicate about everything so, whatever man gets lucky enough to get between gorgeous Leggysandy’s legs and inside her milf pussy, is just a passer by and Leggysman will remain the luckiest gent!!

[leggysandy]

Hi Leggysandy & Leggysman,
I hope you are doing well! Been a while since the last update.
While I have to say I also have some mild mixed feelings about how this guy is threading the situation, I think the last post in the best thread in this forum should not have a negative message like the last one!!

I am sure your marriage is strong enough and you communicate about everything so, whatever man gets lucky enough to get between gorgeous Leggysandy’s legs and inside her milf pussy, is just a passer by and Leggysman will remain the luckiest gent!!

Unfortunately, things didn't go as planned. We had a fallout and I think this door is now closed for good. I need someone more simpler, who is able to enjoy the moment and let himself go when with me. The local guy just wasn't that.

[Triggershy]

I’m sorry things didn’t work out for you. I feel this is for the best for everyone involved. He couldn’t handle you or the lifestyle.

Truly wishing you all the best. You both deserve more.

[Whenwillshe]

Wish I was local....

[Jamesparistoo]

Hi Leggysandy & Leggysman,
I hope you are doing well! Been a while since the last update.
While I have to say I also have some mild mixed feelings about how this guy is threading the situation, I think the last post in the best thread in this forum should not have a negative message like the last one!!

I am sure your marriage is strong enough and you communicate about everything so, whatever man gets lucky enough to get between gorgeous Leggysandy’s legs and inside her milf pussy, is just a passer by and Leggysman will remain the luckiest gent!!

Unfortunately, things didn't go as planned. We had a fallout and I think this door is now closed for good. I need someone more simpler, who is able to enjoy the moment and let himself go when with me. The local guy just wasn't that.

Very sorry to hear that. While it would be easy to say that this guy is nuts, it is difficult/useless to judge about other people’s emotions. Perhaps this gentleman was so hurt in the past that on the one hand he really wants to take the next step with you, on the other hand his protection mechanism takes over to defend him against getting hurt once again. You and Leggysman are the ‘victims’ of said behavior which is not nice and certainly undeserved but that is all in the game and unfortunately often a given when emotions win over rationale.

One thing is sure though: this gentleman will be missing out big time on carnal pleasure with you, and memories of having amazing mindblowing NSA sex with a gorgeous neighborhood milf. Apart from that he deprives himself from the pleasure of knowing/having the naughty secret he is fucking another man’s wife, and the proud and naughty feelings that might give when meeting you and Leggysman in regular, vanilla events.

Having said that, I truly hope you will soon find other lucky men that are willing to take his place (and/or enjoying some of your previous lovers when looking for new guys). Think of that younger, respectful 20-something fitboy with amazing stamina that gets to live out his MILF fantasy with you, or that older, classy traveling business man cheering up his business travels by treating you royally in his luxury hotel and sitting in the plane back with an empty nutsack daydreaming of the amazing night he had getting his cock sucked and balls licked, dominating you doggy style, while documenting it for Leggysman. Perhaps he will even type a write up for Leggysman from his plane ride back.

O, my fantasy is taking its own way haha. Anyway, hope you will be riding again soon while we, if we are lucky, continue to be part of your amazing journey by reading about it and enjoying some pictures or other footage every now and then!

[leggysman]

I wrote a little in the 'pub' thread, about her last meeting with Ethan after he returned from holiday

I'm literally sat in the pub while leggysandy is at her (potential) new guy's house, Ethan.

He returned from holiday this week. In theory this is just a quick catch-up visit, and no sex, but I told her to stay as long as she wants

Ooo, pub quiz

Just the as-advertised quick catch-up I'm afraid, barely more. This guy...

In the week that followed, we talked about Ethan, and S said she was becoming turned off by him; his moodiness, his apparent lack of enthusiasm, etc. She does not approve of neediness. To be sure, he was stressed about something that had happened at his business while he was on holiday. But to me, seeing leggysandy ought to have cheered him up a bit, no? Perhaps a bit of cuddling?

When you're starting a new relationship, it should be fun and mostly positive and exciting. You ought to be able to put your troubles aside for a few hours, and be good company. But he couldn't seem to be bothered, and she had to kiss him on her way out the door. If she feels mostly disappointed and frustrated by a new guy like Ethan, and like he's a lot of hard work, it's probably time to stop (or at least pause).

She tried to talk to him about all this, but he reacted negatively. So, that was that. I still suspect there's enough between the two of them, that if he's ever really ready, the door might not be fully closed to a Return of Ethan.

I truly hope you will soon find other lucky men that are willing to take his place

She has continued to audition men online, with some success - she said she has "the itch" to date - so hopefully she finds a good one soon. She had a video call last night with a new guy who's somewhat local to us, and she liked him. He's good on paper, and very enthusiastic about her. I hope she likes him in person! They were planning to get together for a social meet tonight, but she has a scheduling conflict. Hopefully soon ...

[Jamesparistoo]

I wrote a little in the 'pub' thread, about her last meeting with Ethan after he returned from holiday

I'm literally sat in the pub while leggysandy is at her (potential) new guy's house, Ethan.

He returned from holiday this week. In theory this is just a quick catch-up visit, and no sex, but I told her to stay as long as she wants

Ooo, pub quiz

Just the as-advertised quick catch-up I'm afraid, barely more. This guy...

In the week that followed, we talked about Ethan, and S said she was becoming turned off by him; his moodiness, his apparent lack of enthusiasm, etc. She does not approve of neediness. To be sure, he was stressed about something that had happened at his business while he was on holiday. But to me, seeing leggysandy ought to have cheered him up a bit, no? Perhaps a bit of cuddling?

When you're starting a new relationship, it should be fun and mostly positive and exciting. You ought to be able to put your troubles aside for a few hours, and be good company. But he couldn't seem to be bothered, and she had to kiss him on her way out the door. If she feels mostly disappointed and frustrated by a new guy like Ethan, and like he's a lot of hard work, it's probably time to stop (or at least pause).

She tried to talk to him about all this, but he reacted negatively. So, that was that. I still suspect there's enough between the two of them, that if he's ever really ready, the door might not be fully closed to a Return of Ethan.

I truly hope you will soon find other lucky men that are willing to take his place

She has continued to audition men online, with some success - she said she has "the itch" to date - so hopefully she finds a good one soon. She had a video call last night with a new guy who's somewhat local to us, and she liked him. He's good on paper, and very enthusiastic about her. I hope she likes him in person! They were planning to get together for a social meet tonight, but she has a scheduling conflict. Hopefully soon ...

AMEN!

[newUK]

Good luck Sandy!! Hope you get some fun soon x

[54321]

Mmm. I wonder why village guy's wife left...

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