Bareback

[jw_kk]

We started out bareback (an in the moment, opportunistic experience). After the first several partners, Krista started feeling a combination of guilt and shame (something internal), and we started using condoms. She didn't favor the condom experience for several reasons, but bore it out.

At a point, several months into the condom experience, we had an encounter with a guy who offered test results that were clean, and Krista really, really fancied his cock - she she went bareback with him. After that, things reverted to bareback, unless the guy used a condom for his own reasons.

That was followed by an STD scare, during Krista's "cock crazy" interval (she was fucking multiple men in a day, several times a week). Fortunately it was not severe, and we used to time to experiment with better condoms that didn't produce irritation for her.

Eventually we developed our own screening process for the bareback / condom decision.

These days, it's all bareback, because we live in a mostly poly situation with a more stable set of partners.

[LouiseQ]

I can’t help wondering if, and how many, women have ended up pregnant as a result of the no condom practice. I suspect that many women - those who have affairs and not just hotwives - have children and the husbands never guess they’re not the fathers! I’ll probably get into trouble over this, but I can’t help wondering where Prince Harry’s ginger hair came from!

[Bryce 69]

Bareback is not limited to this LS
i'm sure many women on or off birth control with or without husbands become pregnant
The difference would be filling a hot wife with cum is a risk her and her husband take together

[BritishCuckCpl]

Bareback is not limited to this LS
i'm sure many women on or off birth control with or without husbands become pregnant
The difference would be filling a hot wife with cum is a risk her and her husband take together

That's the key difference I think. Many men and women prefer it bareback even when fertile, it just feels better and when in the moment people don't really think straight about the results. But in this lifestyle it tends to be more planned, a decision that a bull would make better breeding stock or is just someone the wife feels deserves to be the father. Or even if the couple have been trying for a while without success and a bull become an alternative for starting or growing the family.

[Bryce 69]

i agree look at some of the terms
Bull , Breeding , submission , good girl
Raising children is the love work and effort
the fertilization of a willing Vixen is just the smallest part in the beginning
if a Bull is being used to produced offspring He and the couple should have terms and conditions more so for the children
it would be deceitful to use his seed with the intention to reproduce without his consent

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, LouiseQ, from Kelly Hotwife married to Wesley. Your statement, “ I suspect that many women - those who have affairs and not just hotwives- have children and the husbands never guess they’re not the fathers! Two of my married friends fall into this category each wife had a child by another man and their husband is clueless that the child is not biologically theirs but love the child dearly. Kelly

[BritishCuckCpl]

i agree look at some of the terms
Bull , Breeding , submission , good girl
Raising children is the love work and effort
the fertilization of a willing Vixen is just the smallest part in the beginning
if a Bull is being used to produced offspring He and the couple should have terms and conditions more so for the children
it would be deceitful to use his seed with the intention to reproduce without his consent

Sadly I'm sure that must happen but it should't. Consent is super important, whether it's to have unprotected sex or to knowingly have sex while fertile. Bulls have as much right as anyone, it really needs the full consent of the bull and couple. That includes how much involvement or responsibility the bull will have after if any. I suspect most bulls wouldn't want any involvement or responsibility but they still have a right to know and choose.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello from Kelly, Hotwife married to Wesley

There are many reasons and variables that might lead to a wife having a child by another man, with both the husband and wife being totally committed to doing so. Yes, the man who is impregnating the wife should be involved in the decision from the very beginning with all three in full agreement prior to “starting the process”. Many wives have at bare minimum have considered the what if another man gets her pregnant, should my husband and I have and raise the baby as our own ? Kelly

[namitha157]

I always have sex without a condom.
But its always anal, so I donT have the pregnancy risk.

From what ive seen.. men dont like to pull out. I dont mind if I dont orgasm but for me, sex feels incomplete if they pull out.

I have this massive fantasy. My bf has never got to touch me with his penis. Other men have fucked me in the ass, he only gets to jerk off to me.
I am still a virgin. But i want a man to take it one day. Just make my pussy his and ravage my baby tunnel.
And the next part... I want him to get me pregnant.

I just feel so sexy knowing im carrying another mans baby, and my bf not having a clue. it feels like the ultimate female sexuality.

Do other girls have fantasy like this?

[namitha157]

How common is it with wives getting pregnant by other men.?
It sounds mostly unplanned? But the women know, and their husbands dont?

[BritishCuckCpl]

How common is it with wives getting pregnant by other men.?
It sounds mostly unplanned? But the women know, and their husbands dont?

I don't think it's super common but I do know one woman, a good friend, who had a baby from a lover and her husband doesn't know.
He'd flip out if he knew, they're not in the lifestyle, it was just an affair with one of his friends.

I guess it's not super uncommon, I mean I only know about her because she's a close friend who needed to confide but most women I know are unlikely to tell me.

I also know another woman who isn't in the scene either but has had a few affairs simply because her husband has a very low sex drive, and she's told me she is quite lapse with birth control, but she's never told me if any of her family were from other men, so I assume not.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

It does happen in this lifestyle, where a married couple has a child by another man, sometimes planned, sometimes not. Usually works out well for everyone. Kelly

[Tank Turner]

I don't think it's super common but I do know one woman, a good friend, who had a baby from a lover and her husband doesn't know.


I guess it's not super uncommon, I mean I only know about her because she's a close friend who needed to confide but most women I know are unlikely to tell me.

I've read studies that indicated that as many as 10% of married men are raising kids they did not father, yet believe they're the biological fathers. One involved a father who submitted to a DNA test prior to a biological transfer to save his daughter's life. The DNA test revealed he wasn't the biological father of his daughter.

You're right. Women carrying another man's child is likely to take that secret to her gave. It's not a secret women would want to divulge.

Because women who are carrying another man's child and women who are raising other men's children with their husbands believing they're their children's fathers will not admit the truth, the best researchers have been able to provide is inferential probability based on scant known facts. That's a 50 cent way of writing they're SWAGs.

Years ago, my wife and I watched a documentary on infidelity and housewives who worked as prostitutes while their husbands were working and without knowledge of their wives secret profession. I asked my wife how a husband would know whether his wife fucked other men before he returned home from work. She said he wouldn't.

My wife and I know a woman (an acquaintance, not a friend) who had a long term affair. She conceived her lover's child. Her husband never knew about the affair, nor did he know that he was raising another man's child. For all we knew, it could have been rumor. Too often, rumors are true.

[Tank Turner]

How common is it with wives getting pregnant by other men.?
It sounds mostly unplanned? But the women know, and their husbands dont?

I'd guess that it's not uncommon.

Women know the father of the child they're carrying. Women know when they're ovulating. Husbands want to believe their wives. Many wives are motivated to keep secrets from their husbands.

How would a husband know that his wife is carrying another man's child?

[Tank Turner]

Hello from Kelly, Hotwife married to Wesley

There are many reasons and variables that might lead to a wife having a child by another man, with both the husband and wife being totally committed to doing so. Yes, the man who is impregnating the wife should be involved in the decision from the very beginning with all three in full agreement prior to “starting the process”. Many wives have at bare minimum have considered the what if another man gets her pregnant, should my husband and I have and raise the baby as our own ? Kelly

I complete agree with you, Kelly. A sperm donor is the biological father of a child born to a couple with an infertile husband.

If I was infertile and could not impregnate my wife and we wanted children, I would have almost assuredly assisted my wife in search for a man whose baby she wanted to carry. I would have wanted her to conceive via the traditional method. After she conceived, we would have wanted to say adios to him and hopefully never hear from him again. Thankfully, I wasn't shooting blanks. My wife's tubes are tied, so she doesn't have to worry about carrying another man's child. She's in her mid-40s, so if her tubes were tied, probability of her conceiving is close to nil. However, her sister easily conceived at 42. She's back to talking about trying for another baby. Based on what my wife has told me, they started trying a week ago, and their newborn is a month old.

[D+D]

Condoms only when it’s the man’s preference. Otherwise bareback.

[PANTIES]

Always bareback

[namitha157]

How common is it with wives getting pregnant by other men.?
It sounds mostly unplanned? But the women know, and their husbands dont?

I'd guess that it's not uncommon.

Women know the father of the child they're carrying. Women know when they're ovulating. Husbands want to believe their wives. Many wives are motivated to keep secrets from their husbands.

How would a husband know that his wife is carrying another man's child?

I guess the women would generally know.
Does it generally happen a lot?

I know I have a dark fantasy for this kind of thing. But I still think Id kind of freak out if it really happened.
I could keep a lid on it. But be guilty as f seeing my child knowing its not my husbands. But like i said. There is a sexy side to it. It turns me on thinking about the possibility.

[BritishCuckCpl]

How common is it with wives getting pregnant by other men.?
It sounds mostly unplanned? But the women know, and their husbands dont?

I'd guess that it's not uncommon.

Women know the father of the child they're carrying. Women know when they're ovulating. Husbands want to believe their wives. Many wives are motivated to keep secrets from their husbands.

How would a husband know that his wife is carrying another man's child?

I guess the women would generally know.
Does it generally happen a lot?

I know I have a dark fantasy for this kind of thing. But I still think Id kind of freak out if it really happened.
I could keep a lid on it. But be guilty as f seeing my child knowing its not my husbands. But like i said. There is a sexy side to it. It turns me on thinking about the possibility.

It's probably a common fantasy, whenever I've been with a bull there's always part of my mind thinking "what if this time?" and it can make it more exciting and there have been bulls when part of me has secretly hoped the condom might break or something similar to happen. My problem is I can get caught up in the moment and I don't know how I'd react if in the heat of a moment while fertile a bull asked to take an extra risk. I like to think I'd have enough control to say no, but I don't know if I would.

[LouiseQ]

One issue not much discussed on this topic is the position of the guy who fathers the child. The woman will know (usually) but what are the rights of the father? Many men would want to have a role in the child’s life. Personally I feel that a woman who allows herself to become pregnant and keeps the real father ignorant of the fact is behaving atrociously. She may think that she can’t confide because of the possible damage to her marriage - in which case she shouldn’t have taken the risk with her FB’s sperm.

[Bryce 69]

No up to the Vixen
if you are in a relationship with the couple and intend on reproducing the responsibility's and custody should be established by contract
ie using your fertile Vixen bareback

if your in a relationship with your Vixen and both taking precautions and there is an accident you should be informed if she carries the child you should have the opportunity to have visitation and commit contractually to child support

no relationship good fuck your just a sperm doner if you go to a sperm bank they give you cash to jackoff if you fuck a Vixen she pays with her pussy one and done

[namitha157]

How common is it with wives getting pregnant by other men.?
It sounds mostly unplanned? But the women know, and their husbands dont?

I'd guess that it's not uncommon.

Women know the father of the child they're carrying. Women know when they're ovulating. Husbands want to believe their wives. Many wives are motivated to keep secrets from their husbands.

How would a husband know that his wife is carrying another man's child?

I guess the women would generally know.
Does it generally happen a lot?

I know I have a dark fantasy for this kind of thing. But I still think Id kind of freak out if it really happened.
I could keep a lid on it. But be guilty as f seeing my child knowing its not my husbands. But like i said. There is a sexy side to it. It turns me on thinking about the possibility.

It's probably a common fantasy, whenever I've been with a bull there's always part of my mind thinking "what if this time?" and it can make it more exciting and there have been bulls when part of me has secretly hoped the condom might break or something similar to happen. My problem is I can get caught up in the moment and I don't know how I'd react if in the heat of a moment while fertile a bull asked to take an extra risk. I like to think I'd have enough control to say no, but I don't know if I would.

Do you think you could really stop him at that moment if that happens.
I feel like I really lose control when im hot with sex. I say no pussy sex.. but if it happens, I dont think id be able to stop him.
Definately would be a mixed bag if feelings getting pregnant like this. Even though i say i fantasise about it happening, i think id breaking down to my bf if it actually did- i doubt i would be able to tell him.

I dont know any of my friends that have admitted to this kind of fantasy.

Do you have kids?
If so, did it effect your dating?

[namitha157]

One issue not much discussed on this topic is the position of the guy who fathers the child. The woman will know (usually) but what are the rights of the father? Many men would want to have a role in the child’s life. Personally I feel that a woman who allows herself to become pregnant and keeps the real father ignorant of the fact is behaving atrociously. She may think that she can’t confide because of the possible damage to her marriage - in which case she shouldn’t have taken the risk with her FB’s sperm.

In my relationship.. it would be the end of my bf and i if it happened. So i would need to keep it a secret. Doubt i would have an abortion.

Id hope the babys father is someone im close with and they stay involved without ruining my main relationship It does sound like a complicated thing to do. Id like that relationship to go beyond just casual sex by that point. Maybe im dreaming too much.

[funkyfitter]

Condoms only when it’s the man’s preference. Otherwise bareback.

In the almost nine years since my wife has been fucking other men, not many have worn a condom. My wife likes bareback and we've found that 99.999% of guys like it too. None have ever complained about blowing their load in Miss Sue's pussy !

[Tank Turner]

One issue not much discussed on this topic is the position of the guy who fathers the child. The woman will know (usually) but what are the rights of the father? Many men would want to have a role in the child’s life. Personally I feel that a woman who allows herself to become pregnant and keeps the real father ignorant of the fact is behaving atrociously. She may think that she can’t confide because of the possible damage to her marriage - in which case she shouldn’t have taken the risk with her FB’s sperm.

I agree. The biological father would have a right to develop a relationship with his biological child...assuming a father were to know that he was the father of a child.

Women tend to want to keep their nuclear families intact; hence I could understand -not to be confused with agree with- a woman's motive to keep her child's biological father a secret.