Young married guy here

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Luvelixer.

[Jujube]

For whatever reason, I think the more it escalated the less informative he got. He mentioned he didn’t want to be repetitive, rehashing the sex that became “routine”. But that’s not what interests us more than the cuck dynamic between Danny and Lauren. That’s a lot harder to write about, for many reasons. While we love to hear about the sex(which though hot, is pretty perfunctory), the real deal is behind the scenes, which Danny chooses not to address. I imagine it’s a pain in the ass to get on here and peel back the veil, and for whatever reason, Danny’s keeping all that to himself.

[setv4]

I totally agree. The thing is Danny is not interested in anyone's opinion, he seldom responds to posts and his updates aren't telling us very much about his and Lauren's feelings. Danny seems reluctant to ask her about her feelings for Adam .. we don't really know how Lauren even really feels about Danny, how committed is she to their marriage. For me, the worst part of Danny's update was when he said Lauren's priority is to fix things between Adam & Danny. She's still holding on to Adam and the Florida trip is just postponed. And Danny, as usual, will go along with it all. So many of us are hoping Lauren would show her love for Danny by telling Adam to F/off "you insult my husband, you're out".

Time to move on, away from Adam as Lauren's in home stud and find someone more suited ad more respectful of your Relationship with Lauren.

[cpmici+]

Danny's justified silence fuels the most varied hypotheses of what is going on in the D&L house.
Lauren has mended the rift between Danny and Adam who has taken possession of the guest room without charges; she continues to ignore Danny and regularly fucks Lauren who leaves the door closed so that Danny can listen and kill himself with wanks.
In the morning she tells how many orgasms she has received and will give Danny the pleasure of licking her fucked pussy.
Danny will take care of the housework for all three of them.
Basically everything is back to normal,
Besides, regardless of the fact that he is not allowed to watch, this is what Danny has been hoping for since last June.

[viking53]

Give the guy a break. Its less than 48 hours since Lauren returned home and they have a lot to discuss and process. Giving us updates here is not a priority or a right to expect but a privilege and a generosity from his side. When the time is right and he feels the need, then he will be back.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

I agree viking. Danny isn't here to provide stimulation for these perverts jerkoff sessions. He'll post when he's ready. Until then we should be patient.

[Gulfcpl]

Give the guy a break. Its less than 48 hours since Lauren returned home and they have a lot to discuss and process. Giving us updates here is not a priority or a right to expect but a privilege and a generosity from his side. When the time is right and he feels the need, then he will be back.

Exactly. It’s funny how little in all these pages is actually from the OP. Others just fill it with speculation, what ifs, psychoanalysis and ridiculous predictions. I’ve never seen anything like it. Danny could stop responding for a month and some would still keep it going.

[venus-can99]

Exactly. It’s funny how little in all these pages is actually from the OP. Others just fill it with speculation, what ifs, psychoanalysis and ridiculous predictions. I’ve never seen anything like it. Danny could stop responding for a month and some would still keep it going.

Actually there will be also a lot of name calling - Lauren is a "slut", Adam is a horrible person, man up Danny and so on, Can we please let the couple reconcile and move on with their lives? The decisions they make on how they live their lives is theirs alone.

[3532734dreamer]

For whatever reason, I think the more it escalated the less informative he got. He mentioned he didn’t want to be repetitive, rehashing the sex that became “routine”. But that’s not what interests us more than the cuck dynamic between Danny and Lauren. That’s a lot harder to write about, for many reasons. While we love to hear about the sex(which though hot, is pretty perfunctory), the real deal is behind the scenes, which Danny chooses not to address. I imagine it’s a pain in the ass to get on here and peel back the veil, and for whatever reason, Danny’s keeping all that to himself.

Here I couldn't agree with you more, Jujube.

[Coolcalm]

Well, “pervert jerk off sessions” sounds a bit harsh, maybe?? This is a forum. A place where people VOLUNTARILY come here to write their experiences and thoughts out (and most have been a part of those “pervert jerk off sessions” before adding their own experiences on here) and, in true forum tradition, get feedback. I would hope that forums and the like aren’t just places meant for readers to just agree to what is going and give no opinion. I do agree that hostility and bullying have no place but thought out opinions (whether in agreement or disagreement) are a good thing. Danny and others aren’t forced to read the opinions and can easily scroll past. As a matter of fact I feel that’s probably what Danny has been doing, hence his lack of updates or comments. For me I personally don’t like when some readers ,even when faced with what appears to be the breakup of a marriage or coupling, urge the poster to continue on with whatever destructive course they may be on because they do want to jerk off to it. But again it is a forum and those responses are easy to scroll past.
I also agree that nobody on here, posting their stories, owes us readers ANYTHING.
I wish Danny and Lauren the best and hope they can work out whatever needs to be worked out. I’m concerned because it appears they may have started this without too much thought or planning or communication. And while , yes, one cannot “control” another human being (even a spouse), one does have control of what they will accept in a relationship and definitely what they will accept in their own house.

[wannabecUKold]

Time to move on, away from Adam as Lauren's in home stud and find someone more suited and more respectful of your Relationship with Lauren.

Or maybe you should have said
“ Time to move on, and find someone more suited and more respectful of their marital relationship with you.”

[setv4]

Time to move on, away from Adam as Lauren's in home stud and find someone more suited and more respectful of your Relationship with Lauren.

Or maybe you should have said
“ Time to move on, and find someone more suited and more respectful of their marital relationship with you.”

Very reasonable

[Mkliny442015]

Well, “pervert jerk off sessions” sounds a bit harsh, maybe?? This is a forum. A place where people VOLUNTARILY come here to write their experiences and thoughts out (and most have been a part of those “pervert jerk off sessions” before adding their own experiences on here) and, in true forum tradition, get feedback. I would hope that forums and the like aren’t just places meant for readers to just agree to what is going and give no opinion. I do agree that hostility and bullying have no place but thought out opinions (whether in agreement or disagreement) are a good thing. Danny and others aren’t forced to read the opinions and can easily scroll past. As a matter of fact I feel that’s probably what Danny has been doing, hence his lack of updates or comments. For me I personally don’t like when some readers ,even when faced with what appears to be the breakup of a marriage or coupling, urge the poster to continue on with whatever destructive course they may be on because they do want to jerk off to it. But again it is a forum and those responses are easy to scroll past.
I also agree that nobody on here, posting their stories, owes us readers ANYTHING.
I wish Danny and Lauren the best and hope they can work out whatever needs to be worked out. I’m concerned because it appears they may have started this without too much thought or planning or communication. And while , yes, one cannot “control” another human being (even a spouse), one does have control of what they will accept in a relationship and definitely what they will accept in their own house.

Thank you and i agree, most of us who
Are seasoned in this lifestyle and ethical would agree.

[Coolcalm]

Well, “pervert jerk off sessions” sounds a bit harsh, maybe?? This is a forum. A place where people VOLUNTARILY come here to write their experiences and thoughts out (and most have been a part of those “pervert jerk off sessions” before adding their own experiences on here) and, in true forum tradition, get feedback. I would hope that forums and the like aren’t just places meant for readers to just agree to what is going and give no opinion. I do agree that hostility and bullying have no place but thought out opinions (whether in agreement or disagreement) are a good thing. Danny and others aren’t forced to read the opinions and can easily scroll past. As a matter of fact I feel that’s probably what Danny has been doing, hence his lack of updates or comments. For me I personally don’t like when some readers ,even when faced with what appears to be the breakup of a marriage or coupling, urge the poster to continue on with whatever destructive course they may be on because they do want to jerk off to it. But again it is a forum and those responses are easy to scroll past.
I also agree that nobody on here, posting their stories, owes us readers ANYTHING.
I wish Danny and Lauren the best and hope they can work out whatever needs to be worked out. I’m concerned because it appears they may have started this without too much thought or planning or communication. And while , yes, one cannot “control” another human being (even a spouse), one does have control of what they will accept in a relationship and definitely what they will accept in their own house.

Thank you and i agree, most of us who
Are seasoned in this lifestyle and ethical would agree.

Thank you. Appreciate that!

[Buitenman]

Danny will be an oldsn nu the home he read everything posted since he last wrote here.
Most of you insist he sets boundaries at home, while ignoring the boundaries he set for this forum.
He was very clear about what he did and did not want to discuss. You may disagree, you may need to think he needs to hear things or be told stuff. It doesn't matter. He did not want s discussion on that part of his life and that should be respected. No matter the good intentions.
We only hear his side of the story and yes, there are some general things that apply, that is not what he is here for.

[Buitenman]

Danny will be an old man before he read everything posted since he last wrote here.
Most of you insist he sets boundaries at home, while ignoring the boundaries he set for this forum.
He was very clear about what he did and did not want to discuss. You may disagree, you may need to think he needs to hear things or be told stuff. It doesn't matter. He did not want a discussion on that part of his life and that should be respected. No matter the good intentions.
We only hear his side of the story and yes, there are some general red flags that apply, but that is not what he is here for.

[DLD]

Even if nothing is happening, hope Danny comes back and keeps us posted.

[joel68]

It’s been close to a week since he posted. Whether he has been here or not we can’t tell as he has kept his activity on here private. He didn’t at first if I recall but he now does.

So all any of us can do is speculate. A lot of posts since he was here last. To me, he seems to have lost interest a little bit.

Whatever happened in the last week since Lauren got back home, and where their relationship is now we all would like to know. A lot of guys, including me, have asked Danny a whole bunch of questions about what happened to Lauren when she was away, not to mention the conversations they must have had since Sunday evening.

If he comes back I don’t believe we should get our hopes up for some answers . But let’s hope the post last Saturday wasn’t his last.

[Watchinu69]

Let it go- the guys not reading or caring about well
Wishes from horny strangers..... give it a break, enjoy your weekend already

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Yeah I agree let's put this thread on the back burner for a while. If he posts anything you get a notification if you have it bookmarked.

[RunDannyRun]

Folks,

I initially wrote an apology on my notes app but I realized that I had nothing to apologize for. I have the right to not update what is happening in my life.

One of my firsts forays into cuckolding was reading some erotica with cuckold themes and I was ecstatic when I got share my life as an erotica. But following some of the advice here has just resulted in more grief. I am also not happy with the way people talk about Lauren. She is still my wife and one of the best things that happened in my life.

Lauren and Adam are meeting for lunch today. They had exchanged a handful of texts here and there but this is the first time they are meeting IRL in sometime. I will definitely update what happened later in the day.

As far as things between Lauren and I are concerned, we tried to have sex a couple of times, I couldn’t get hard the first time and I cam way too soon the second time (when I tried with Cialis’s help). I went to a doctor yesterday and he told me that most of my issues are psychosomatic and asked me not to jerk off. I feel pathetic writing this but it seems that I can only maintain sustained erection if Lauren is actually fucking someone other than me.

I was also asked to come to California during May for a 2 week work assignment. I mentioned this to Lauren and she asked me if she could join too. I was actually assuming that she would like to stay back and have sex with Adam and hence my first question to her was “Are you sure?”, to which she replied, “You don’t want me to come?”. I was more than happy and we decided to spend an additional week there.

So I will be missing in May. i also slowly started running again and my ankle seems to have healed very well. I did a zone-2 6 miler with Lauren on Thursday and it was very refreshing. Something seems to be going my way, finally!

[Wannabee]

Hi Danny. Thanks for your update and.you are correct, you don't owe any of us an apology. Please continue to update us when you can. Good to hear you're back exercising and your ankle is healing.

[onceacuck]

One of my firsts forays into cuckolding was reading some erotica with cuckold themes and I was ecstatic when I got share my life as an erotica. But following some of the advice here has just resulted in more grief.

Both the cheerleaders and the doomsayers can be a little over the top around here. What do you think you should have done differently? Was there advice that you should have followed but didn't?

Glad to hear that things are going better with Lauren, and that your ankle is healing well. I appreciate the updates when they come.

[wannabecUKold]

Many thanks Danny for coming back to us and letting us know what is happening in your life. You are absolutely right that you do not owe us anything. I’m sorry also that we have made adverse remarks about Lauren. We do recognize that she is one of the best things that has ever happened to you. A beautiful girl, who has much in common with you, and she can be your life partner. I am delighted that the pair of you will be going off to California to spend time together. It is helpful that Lauren has clearly put some distance between her and Adam.

Many of us on this site will recognize your erectile problem, where you only feel really aroused by your wife being fucked by another man. That arousal is so strong. Nothing else cuts the mustard.

Nevertheless, for your long-term marital health, you do need to get back to having sex with Lauren effectively. For me, the answer has been not to worry about whether I am aroused. What I must do is to make love to my wife, even if it feels artificial at first. Kiss her passionately. Strip her naked. Kiss her breasts. Head down to her pussy. Give her a massage from head to toe. Show her how much you adore her body. If your cock is not aroused, use a vibrator to arouse her pussy along with your tongue.

And let her do the same to you, touching your body, sucking your pretty cock.

If necessary for a proper ejaculation, you can still say to her that you want her fucked by another man. She may be thinking the same. It is likely to be still true.

Even if this sex doesn’t work to give her an orgasm, you have rediscovered her glorious body. Over the next few days you will continue to remember touching and looking at it. And you will want to touch it again yourself. Eventually, the pleasure of worshipping her body may outweigh the pleasure of being cuckolded. You won’t forget that latter pleasure and you may need to be cuckolded on occasion but you hopefully may find that routinely you prefer the erotic pleasure of making love to your wife yourself.
And you will have got rid of that sense of failure and anxiety that wrecks good sex.

[Watchinu69]

Great update Dan- that will allow others that constant in need of gratification to slow down and look elsewhere awhile