I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

[mundyman]

Bump….

[starman2]

Ky its been an amzing read of your journey, i can't imagine how you cope with the highs and lows,but thanks for sharing such a insight into you cuckold life i wish you all the best and hope things work out for all of you

[txrockdog]

Ky, I am sure this is the longest of shots, but there are a bunch of folks here that appreciate your skills as a writer, respect you for the way you and Jaimee have handled your extreme adventures in the lifestyle, and have come to care about both of you. I respect your desire to step away and “do better”, but suspect this will always linger at the fringes of the sexuality in your relationship with Jaimee. For better or worse, please come back and let us know how things are going with you two. Even if you never tell another story about your adventures together or lack thereof, please let us know that you are ok and how things are going with your wife and kids. The “foe” tool exists so that you can mute the voices that disrespect you or your wife…please use it liberally.

On the other hand, if we never hear from you again, I suspect you (and Jaimee) will still look in here from time to time, so best of luck to both of you and I hope you have a really long and happy life together.

[path22]

I completely agree with txrockdog. Use the tool and don't deprive us of your story, which I've been following for years because of people who are incapable of expressing an opinion without attacking or insulting.

[Trickydicky69]

Sadly, the only tool Ky will be using is a shovel to dig himself out of the hole he’s in. I really hope he can pull it back and will be able to update us with the happy news that he and Jaimie have a new, more together path, going forward together.
Sippho is too addictive though and will need to detox from that. But I can’t see either of them completely getting away from the hotwife dynamic

[scdiver]

bump

[Rogueuser1]

Sadly, the only tool Ky will be using is a shovel to dig himself out of the hole he’s in. I really hope he can pull it back and will be able to update us with the happy news that he and Jaimie have a new, more together path, going forward together.
Sippho is too addictive though and will need to detox from that. But I can’t see either of them completely getting away from the hotwife dynamic

This sort of nonsense is exactly why he no longer posts. Feel free to keep your anger and negativity to yourself.

[David52]

Ky, I hope you are well and checking in from time to time.

I’m sure many here realize your ”contract” period with Sipho and Jaimee must be about to expire and the June family trip back to the States is coming up. I hope you are looking forward to the time to reconnect.

You have been in a difficult place but with resolve,love and care you will find a way forward. David

[veub]

Sadly, the only tool Ky will be using is a shovel to dig himself out of the hole he’s in. I really hope he can pull it back and will be able to update us with the happy news that he and Jaimie have a new, more together path, going forward together.
Sippho is too addictive though and will need to detox from that. But I can’t see either of them completely getting away from the hotwife dynamic

This sort of nonsense is exactly why he no longer posts. Feel free to keep your anger and negativity to yourself.

I'm one you would probably classify as negative and angry - I'm not.
But as to his disappearance, in the past he has disappeared for long periods when the situation became too intense.

[Fred_Garvin]

I would really like to know how things are going for Ky and Jaimee. They have done things that I have fantasized about, and I have fantasized about doing some of the things they have done that I had never thought of.

Viewing their journey from a distance, they have done so many things that I think are unwise, and I don't know if a marriage can survive all of it.

However, following their journey from the beginning, I realize that I would have made the same decisions that Ky did in each incremental advancement. The cuckold desire is so strong for me, and the only thing that has kept me from doing what he did is an unwilling wife. If my wife were like Jaimee, we would go as far as they did.

That's why this is so compelling to me. I want to know if it's possible to survive the cuckold lifestyle in such an extreme form and remain sane and healthy.

Of course, following this for so many years has made me want this to have a happy ending, and I want both Ky and Jaimee to have a great life, and I want their family to thrive.

Anyway, I'm assuming that we won't hear back from Ky, which makes me sad. But if staying away from this forum is what is needed for he and Jaimee, that is what he should do.

[michey]

Bump

[txrockdog]

Well, it is the end of May. By now, either Ky used his safe word and bailed out early, Jaimee stopped with their agreed upon pause for the upcoming family trip, or Ky was unable to get her away from whatever it was Sipho was using to enhance her addiction to him (voodoo magic, drugs, oxytocin, etc.]. Sure would be nice to get to read the end of the story, but I guess there is a reason we can’t have nice things around here. I really wish more of the posters would use the ignore/foe function to mute the folks annoying them instead of letting them run them off the site. But oh well. Ky, I hope you and Jaimee and more importantly your kids are doing well. Enjoy the upcoming trip to Florida if it is still on.

[Freemans892]

I have a real issue of Sipho using drugs to get Jamiee addicted to him. Sipho is no better than a pimp.

[dnic]

Well, it is the end of May. By now, either Ky used his safe word and bailed out early, Jaimee stopped with their agreed upon pause for the upcoming family trip, or Ky was unable to get her away from whatever it was Sipho was using to enhance her addiction to him (voodoo magic, drugs, oxytocin, etc.]. Sure would be nice to get to read the end of the story, but I guess there is a reason we can’t have nice things around here. I really wish more of the posters would use the ignore/foe function to mute the folks annoying them instead of letting them run them off the site. But oh well. Ky, I hope you and Jaimee and more importantly your kids are doing well. Enjoy the upcoming trip to Florida if it is still on.

[Cgi69]

Well, it is the end of May. By now, either Ky used his safe word and bailed out early, Jaimee stopped with their agreed upon pause for the upcoming family trip, or Ky was unable to get her away from whatever it was Sipho was using to enhance her addiction to him (voodoo magic, drugs, oxytocin, etc.]. Sure would be nice to get to read the end of the story, but I guess there is a reason we can’t have nice things around here. I really wish more of the posters would use the ignore/foe function to mute the folks annoying them instead of letting them run them off the site. But oh well. Ky, I hope you and Jaimee and more importantly your kids are doing well. Enjoy the upcoming trip to Florida if it is still on.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Ky hasn't logged in since March, the day he made his last post. He's holding to his promise to vacate this site and never come back. I hope he changes his mind. I hope time will soften his stance. Too good of a story to leave unfinished. It's a waste of such a good writer. I hope he has created another profile here and can read these comments. One can only hope.

[txrockdog]

I have a real issue of Sipho using drugs to get Jamiee addicted to him. Sipho is no better than a pimp.

Well to be fair, we don’t know for sure that he did use drugs, but I have my suspicions. If he was using drugs to enhance her addiction, particularly without her knowledge of consent, the trip to Florida could get real interesting if she starts detoxing while she is away from him.

[txrockdog]

Ky hasn't logged in since March, the day he made his last post. He's holding to his promise to vacate this site and never come back. I hope he changes his mind. I hope time will soften his stance. Too good of a story to leave unfinished. It's a waste of such a good writer. I hope he has created another profile here and can read these comments. One can only hope.

He doesn’t need a new profile to read them since you don’t have to be logged in to read this particular forum. I honestly care less about hearing the rest of whatever Jaimee and Sipho got up to than how Ky and Jaimee are approaching their life and relationship potentially post-Sipho if Ky is determined to stop the game for good. I would still love to see images of her body art and piercings though. A proper mum out with her kids with exposed QOS tats and visible nipple rings kind of drives me crazy to think about.

[coastalkid]

This isn't the first time Ky-Da has gotten in over his head. This thread started with him seemingly understanding the issues he had from his first attempt. This time things became much more complicated. His obsession and Jaimee's willingness grew out of control for either of them.I get the feeling Ky-Da is done and he won't come back.

The mixture of his highs and lows will torture his mind. He'll be "Monday morning quarterbacking" every decision he made along the way, kicking himself for every wrong move he made. He's gotten every kind of conflicting advice from posters here, from the extremely supportive to the extremely critical. Apparently he sees no point in continuing to post here (or most likely anywhere). I'm certain he feels that none of his answers are "here" and that his world has crashed once again. My heart goes out to him!

[path22]

Well, it is the end of May. By now, either Ky used his safe word and bailed out early, Jaimee stopped with their agreed upon pause for the upcoming family trip, or Ky was unable to get her away from whatever it was Sipho was using to enhance her addiction to him (voodoo magic, drugs, oxytocin, etc.]. Sure would be nice to get to read the end of the story, but I guess there is a reason we can’t have nice things around here. I really wish more of the posters would use the ignore/foe function to mute the folks annoying them instead of letting them run them off the site. But oh well. Ky, I hope you and Jaimee and more importantly your kids are doing well. Enjoy the upcoming trip to Florida if it is still on.

totaty accord

[scdiver]

Bump

[michey]

Bump

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Good luck. Ky is still pissed at us.

[BigHotMess]

He’s pissed at the reflection of his thoughts mirrored here.

[mick_flow]

For many of us the pull of the lifestyle is the thought of loosing our wives. To see her captured by another, to fall in love with another. To prefer another to us. To watch her pleasure with another. These thoughts and desires drive us.

There are some, I know, that would love, and have enjoyed in the past actually loosing their wives. However, for must of us, we actually don't want that. But we do love the thrill of the possibility. Like a moth circling a flame.

This community is a real mix of thrill seekers who take pleasure in the stories that are shared and often share themselves. And those offering advice and caution. Both are awesome.

Ky's journey is amazing and he is a beautiful writer, capturing a lot of what we enjoy as thrill seekers. However that fear of loss, turned into a bit of reality for Ky. the distance between him and Jaimee grew while she was with Sipho. In his last detailed posts Jaimee was starting to push him toward Joanna. While erotic and fun, you could understand that it felt to Ky like this was increasing his distance from Jaimee.

It's a hard place to be for a poster. If the community leans into the erotic thrill, we're effectively encouraging him to continue down a path he seems uncomfortable with. I think Ky felt that too. If we caution or give warnings, then we're telling Ky to think again, and the normal positive reinforcement he previously received is not there.

I am sure he is going "cold turkey" at the moment. I would, if I were him. I'd be trying hard to repair everything. I honestly hope he does. He clearly loves Jaimee deeply, after all it was the distance from her which hurt him the most. We obliviously don't know what Jaimee's thoughts are. We only see her through Ky's eyes and what he chose to share. She obviously has an emotional attachment to Sipho, and breaking that will be hard for her too. We've all to remember that the wives in this story are have a lot of emotion too, even if we don't see it all. As for Joanna and Ky, well they have a connection too, Joanna appears smitten with Ky, and I'm sure he's feelings for her - even if they make him feel distant from Joanna.

In my experience, when things went too far in our adventure as a couple I felt terribly guilty. All the other people including my wife and I that were hurt. Sipho, joanna, they are people too.... and well, one of things I've found is that my wife and she picks nice people, as I'm sure Jaimee has. They all end up getting hurt too.

I don't wan to loose Ky's amazing writing. But I also want to wish him, if he ever comes back, all the very best of luck. That his family is safe, and his relationship with Jaimee secure - even if he chooses not to comment, just to know that even after all this time, we are still thinking of him and wishing him the best.