Cuckold Crying…

[bradisalpha]

One of the hottest moments I have as a BF is seeing a cuckold crying.. tears on his cheeks seeing his wife orgasm having sex, or sucking a cock deep into her throat, while he sits helpless, filled with extreme emotions, his dickie hard while at the same time crying.

Sometimes he will cry while waiting at home for his wife to return.. or listening to her describing her time with her BF. It seems the tears and a hard dickie are both involuntarily reactions and for both to happen at the same time is very exciting to me.

It is also very exciting for a hotwife to see her cuckold husband crying and hard. It shows her his deep love and commitment to her while also showing her how she sexually excites him.

I see it as the height of submission and, although common, is something a cuckold rarely will reveal as it is a very emotional and personal situation that is normally only discussed in the privacy of the Private Messaging area of the forum. I have had several discussions concerning crying in my PM.

However, last night I was reading 4 or 5 threads in the forum and in 3 of them crying was mentioned !!! I was very surprised at the sudden outburst of these admissions and all were in very intense moments of being cuckolded. It was refreshing to see them come out so openly and so emotionally.

How do cuckolds feel about exposing crying in the forum ?? Is it becoming a way to express the intensity of their cuckolding ?? A way to emphasize their emotions ??

Just curious….

Brad

[little sissy Benita]

It's been a while since I was allowed to watch, but it's deeply moving to see your wife orgasm with another man – especially when he fully satisfies her – perhaps without a condom.

The fear of loss is coming to the surface – what if she falls in love with him?
Nevertheless, you become addicted to it and wish for such situations

little Benita

[NSEW1]

For sensitive cuckolds, the emotional release of crying is a healthy thing, but it comes with deep angst due to cultural conditioning against men crying.

I believe it happens when cucks are pushed past the limits of their prior experiences and limits they had not been forced to cross before.

For example, when a wife tells her cuckold that her lover is going to become the man of the house (instead of just a visiting boyfriend), and that new man of the house begins to practice his authority, say by ordering the cuck to go get his car washed, or to wash his laundry. It can also happen when the wife sets up new limits such as not allowing him to see her naked, or being caged in chastity not only while the lover is visiting, but for a week before and after.

These seemingly small steps can feel very consequential for the cuckold in upping the intensity of his subjugation. Crying is a natural outcome. The wife may comfort him but continue his subjugation with the understanding that it’s for his own good.

[Dream Weaver]

My only crying is because she never cucked me again.

[_xavier_]

This is my favorite, too, although I haven't had a couple yet, so no opportunity to make it happen.

Brad, which are the 3 threads you saw crying in recently? I would like to read them.

[CTHotwifeHusband]

Hello _xavier_ (and Brad and others),

I mentioned crying in my thread about finally becoming a cuckold (last week). Briefly touched on this in my account of being present when B fucked another man for the first time. It happened again on Friday night when she hooked up with Tom again (second time), and I was again present. In each case it was after he had left and B and I were alone, and I was processing the significance of the ways in which our marriage was changing.

Emotional moments for both of us, which brought us closer together in many ways. Felt very much like a healthy response / release. Didn't realize I was bringing up a topic that hadn't gotten that much attention!

[CuckedbyNikki]

Felt like you described me. This was me when i was allowed to watch for the first time and i got so overwhelmed i ran out of the room and to this day i don't watch her fucking another guy. Even if they are doing in our home i prefer another room.

[Paulnlinda]

It is curious that whilst I craved the humiliation of being cuckold I rarely cried and would have felt uncomfortable doing so..
The exception was when he took my arse in front of her for her amusement and his size meant I couldn't take all of it.

[Cdncuck]

Crying isn't part of our dynamic. I feel all kinds wonderful emotions watching my wife fucking. None of them however bring me to tears.
There have been 2 times in our cuckold relationship I have cried.

The first time was when she bought me my first pair of panties. She came home with them and told me to take off my jeans and underpants. She got on her knees and had me step into them.

It was an incredible moment. I was overjoyed that she bought me my own panties. I was extremely excited. My dick was hard to the point it hurt. She was giggling and teasing me about being a girl as she slowly slid them up my legs. As she pulled them over my dick the silk slid across the tip of my cock I came.

At that point I was so overwhelmed with emotions. There was a sense of surrender to, deep love and affection, mad lust and devastating humiliation all at once.

I burst into tears My wife hugged me assuring me it was ok. It took me half an hour to stop shaking and weeping .

The second time was the first time I got fucked. Naturally there had been some anxiety beforehand not knowing if it would hurt. My wife had been pegging me with a fat 7 inch strap on and I could handle it fine. Still, there was some anxiety on my part.

When he got behind me, my wife guided him to me. There was no pain. It felt very pleasant. After a few slow strokes he began fucking me vigorously. It was feeling great, I was hard as hell and suddenly he came in me. It was another overwhelming moment. There was lust,humiliation, deep pleasure. There was a strange sense of something ending and something beginning. There was definitely a sense of deep satisfaction and joy at being able to provide him with such pleasure.

Those were the only times I've cried..

[canadianwittol]

I’ve cried a few times, usually out of fear and exasperation over a humiliation which it has been made clear to me I would be expected to perform and which I didn’t think I could bear.

Five years ago I’d been wearing this “Oktoberfest” type of dress at our cabin with my wife and her bull. When it was time to head home he said leave it on, we’ll be in the car anyway no one will see you.

So I did - but two hours later as we approached the ferry terminal for the ferry that we were taking home, and seeing long long lines, he abruptly decided we would stop at a brewery and wait it out a bit.

I assumed I’d be allowed to change but bull said, nope, you’re perfect the way you are. Well I’m ashamed of it but I did throw a tantrum. I cried. I couldn’t bear the humiliation that awaited me.

But you know how it goes with bulls. And my wife spent some time reassuring me that everything would be OK. And before you knew it, there I was sitting in the brewery in my frilly, flouncy “German beer maiden” costume.

In the end he was right; nothing bad happened, the sky did not fall. But I cried and I was humiliated.

[bradisalpha]

Thank you to the replies that hopefully assure cuckolds that have cried they are not alone.. they are simply overcome with emotions and need that release. His wife will hold him and assure him it is ok. She will tell him how happy he has made her and how far he has come as her cuckold. And as NSEW1 suggested, she will make him understand it is for his own good… he has emotionally progressed as her cuckold !!

I am sure there are many more experiences.

Brad

[NSEW1]

I’ve cried a few times, usually out of fear and exasperation over a humiliation which it has been made clear to me I would be expected to perform and which I didn’t think I could bear.

Five years ago I’d been wearing this “Oktoberfest” type of dress at our cabin with my wife and her bull. When it was time to head home he said leave it on, we’ll be in the car anyway no one will see you.

So I did - but two hours later as we approached the ferry terminal for the ferry that we were taking home, and seeing long long lines, he abruptly decided we would stop at a brewery and wait it out a bit.

I assumed I’d be allowed to change but bull said, nope, you’re perfect the way you are. Well I’m ashamed of it but I did throw a tantrum. I cried. I couldn’t bear the humiliation that awaited me.

But you know how it goes with bulls. And my wife spent some time reassuring me that everything would be OK. And before you knew it, there I was sitting in the brewery in my frilly, flouncy “German beer maiden” costume.

In the end he was right; nothing bad happened, the sky did not fall. But I cried and I was humiliated.

Wow, that’s intense to be outed in a public setting, in a beer drinkers’ venue to boot! If there was even the slightest doubt about the hierarchy of masculinity in the relationship, this incident must surely have cemented your role as the sissy cuckold.

I don’t mean to speak for your experience but it it were me in your shoes, it would have been even better had the bull ordered a Shirley temple with a pink umbrella for me, or if the wife took me aside to put lipstick on me to help me come to terms with the situation.

Probably everyone at that brewery knew with certainty which man was in charge and regularly fucking the woman by his side, and which man was the beta male relegated to wearing panties under his dress, having surrendered his masculinity to his rival.

I fantasize that the wife must have wetted her panties watching the utter domination of her husband by a superior lover. She must have enjoyed the ride home, smirking at me in the back seat, anticipating when she would relieve the aching in her pussy by impaling herself on her lover’s cock.

[ticklemang]

One time I was talking to a cuck on Reddit and he told me about this cuckold support group he was in where they would meet up and talk. And I think they all went to the same swingers club or something to find people.

Anyway, he told me there was a bull they were all afraid of but that their gfs liked because he had a huge cock and in order for any of the girls to fuck him, their cuck had to be locked up for 2 weeks straight first, and on an ongoing basis with no releases allowed if they wanted to keep fucking him.

He told me one guy at the group literally cried because his wife kept convincing him to extend his lockup so she could fuck again and it had been a month straight and he was so horny and emasculated he couldn’t take it.

he explained how the guy was like super subservient to his girlfriend and would do anything she wanted which resulted in a super long lockup time with the bull controlling his releases and only unlocking him one time during the month so he could feel a single thrust into his wife’s pussy and otherwise he was caged the entire time just because his wife wanted to fuck

[Cgb29]

I'm not a bigger crier, so I can't imagine this happening to me. My wife has cried a few times after very intense sessions and intense orgasms, but it's just an emotional response.

There is a term (I can't recall it, someone help me out) for when submissives have such a fulfilling and intense session that all of their endorphins, adrenaline, and other feel good chemicals have a sharp crash and it can lead to crying, depressed mood, anxiety, etc. I would bet some cucks have experienced a similar phenomenon.

[canadianwittol]

You're not wrong; it was absolutely intense and very, very deeply humiliating and thus my tears cried.

It was more of a young hipster microbrewery vibe than a bastion of masculinity, to be honest, but certainly I was nevertheless the least masculine guy there that day, and I probably spent an hour anyway either sitting with my unfaithful wife and her lover, or making trips to and from the bar to retrieve beers for us.

What I did not mention out of this incident is that by the time we took the ferry back and got back to town, in light of the success of that experiment,t our bull suggested one more stop for a "nightcap" to give me a second opportunity to be humiliated in public. By that time I was now so humiliated that I didn't even care anymore, so indeed we soon found ourselves in the fancy bar of a downtown casino where I once again made a fool of myself.

Alice was absolutely turned on by all this and he actually made up an excuse of a flat tire in order to not make it back to work the following morning on time and they spent another lust filled evening in our condo.

I’ve cried a few times, usually out of fear and exasperation over a humiliation which it has been made clear to me I would be expected to perform and which I didn’t think I could bear.

Five years ago I’d been wearing this “Oktoberfest” type of dress at our cabin with my wife and her bull. When it was time to head home he said leave it on, we’ll be in the car anyway no one will see you.

So I did - but two hours later as we approached the ferry terminal for the ferry that we were taking home, and seeing long long lines, he abruptly decided we would stop at a brewery and wait it out a bit.

I assumed I’d be allowed to change but bull said, nope, you’re perfect the way you are. Well I’m ashamed of it but I did throw a tantrum. I cried. I couldn’t bear the humiliation that awaited me.

But you know how it goes with bulls. And my wife spent some time reassuring me that everything would be OK. And before you knew it, there I was sitting in the brewery in my frilly, flouncy “German beer maiden” costume.

In the end he was right; nothing bad happened, the sky did not fall. But I cried and I was humiliated.

Wow, that’s intense to be outed in a public setting, in a beer drinkers’ venue to boot! If there was even the slightest doubt about the hierarchy of masculinity in the relationship, this incident must surely have cemented your role as the sissy cuckold.

I don’t mean to speak for your experience but it it were me in your shoes, it would have been even better had the bull ordered a Shirley temple with a pink umbrella for me, or if the wife took me aside to put lipstick on me to help me come to terms with the situation.

Probably everyone at that brewery knew with certainty which man was in charge and regularly fucking the woman by his side, and which man was the beta male relegated to wearing panties under his dress, having surrendered his masculinity to his rival.

I fantasize that the wife must have wetted her panties watching the utter domination of her husband by a superior lover. She must have enjoyed the ride home, smirking at me in the back seat, anticipating when she would relieve the aching in her pussy by impaling herself on her lover’s cock.

[Maddie_Hippychick]

Cgb29, I think you’re referring to “sub drop.”

I don’t have much personal experience with it, but from what I’ve read, a health sub/dom relationship includes plenty of aftercare to help partners recover from this drop. Which, by the way, a dom can experience also as “top drop.”

[Jujube]

I think it’s sometimes a mark of a sissy cuckold’s further feminization. He is overwhelmed with emotions, and crying about his predicament that he can’t change. I think if it’s coupled with his little dickie being hard as well, it’s very erotic.

[Cgb29]

Cgb29, I think you’re referring to “sub drop.”

I don’t have much personal experience with it, but from what I’ve read, a health sub/dom relationship includes plenty of aftercare to help partners recover from this drop. Which, by the way, a dom can experience also as “top drop.”

That's exactly it. I couldn't pull the term from whatever part of my brain was storing it earlier.

[Texas Jack]

How do you take pleasure in another person's emotional distress?

[CTHotwifeHusband]

Tears aren't necessarily a sign of distress. Could also be (and often is) relief, release, and catharsis. And intimacy.

[Teensy1]

That certainly sounds plausible to me. Nicely said.

[Dream Weaver]

Being cuckolded is in many ways a masochist desire. Sure, pleasure and thrill are the driving emotions for somebody with this kink, but for many fear, disbelief, and anguish lurk just below the surface.

So to say it’s somehow cathartic tears or tears of happiness …. Maybe…. But unlikely, in my opinion.

They are more likely the tears of defeat and anguish.

I also happen to think that despite how we “want” the world to work, many bulls would enjoy the conquest, as a sexual sadist might enjoy torturing the sexual masochist. I’ve read plenty of Brad’s threads and it doesn’t surprise me at all that he has this streak. He is a master at manipulation. He may show dominance when needed, mercy when needed, a firm hand, etc, whatever further his goals. But he has his “needs” too, and putting the cuckold firmly in his place turns him on.

[canadianwittol]

I think you are absolutely right about this. Brad falls into a very rare category of the type of "bull" who derives as much pleasure from humiliating the cuckold as he does from fucking his wife.

We have really only known one such bull but it is without doubt that the most intense experiences for both of us have been with him. It is absolutely a sadistic act on the part of the bull, and masochism whether desired or adopted would be well recommended to the cuckold who will suffer at his hands.

Having been through this I would say that once you are on the other side of it you realize that its all a kind of mental roleplay and it's not as big a deal as you think it is going to be, but make no mistake the further you go down that path the more you will surrender your dignity and self respect.

By the way - that is not an entirely bad thing. I believe very, very firmly that being cuckolded by a sadistic bull has made me a much better person. Bear in mind that the word humiliation shares the same root as humility and humble - those latter two being virtuous practices. I believe I practice humility and that I am humble, in great measure because I am a cuckold.

Being cuckolded is in many ways a masochist desire. Sure, pleasure and thrill are the driving emotions for somebody with this kink, but for many fear, disbelief, and anguish lurk just below the surface.

So to say it’s somehow cathartic tears or tears of happiness …. Maybe…. But unlikely, in my opinion.

They are more likely the tears of defeat and anguish.

I also happen to think that despite how we “want” the world to work, many bulls would enjoy the conquest, as a sexual sadist might enjoy torturing the sexual masochist. I’ve read plenty of Brad’s threads and it doesn’t surprise me at all that he has this streak. He is a master at manipulation. He may show dominance when needed, mercy when needed, a firm hand, etc, whatever further his goals. But he has his “needs” too, and putting the cuckold firmly in his place turns him on.

[bradisalpha]

SNAGGED !!! Cgb29 and Canadianwittol have exposed me .. LOL !!!

Yes, I do enjoy humiliating and Dominating the cuckold as much as fucking his wife. I enjoy guiding him down a path and teaching his wife how to keep him where I want him. I enjoy watching his wife learning my dominant ways and seeing her following that path also. They both respond sexually to this process and the cuckold will beg for more while the wife explodes with sexual arousal inside… and I am the beneficiary !!!

Sometimes I have to become very demanding keeping him from falling off the path (which heightens the wife’s arousal seeing him surrender to me) and sometimes it calls for praise and reward.. but that doesn’t last long as it is then time for another step down the path !!!!

Sadism and masochism does play parts of this lifestyle in its dominant and submissive nature. However, I do not like to delve too far into category because it becomes more the dominant forcing the submissive “for their own good”. I more prefer the psychological approach of bringing the cuckold to the brink of craving it through his mind.. desiring to do things that “make his wife happy” at his expense, if that makes sense.

Without all the big thoughts and words.. it is simply fucking hot as hell for all concerned !!!

Brad

Discussions like this can get really deep. I see it simply as guiding a couple down the path of very highly, intense, sexual arousal with each in their proper place.

[canadianwittol]

I don’t think you should ever feel you have to disguise your intentions, Brad. Just as “to the victor goes the spoils”, the bull gets the pussy, the wife gets satisfied and the cuckold gets the horns.

A place for everybody and everybody in their place, as my wife likes to say.

SNAGGED !!! Cgb29 and Canadianwittol have exposed me .. LOL !!!

Yes, I do enjoy humiliating and Dominating the cuckold as much as fucking his wife. I enjoy guiding him down a path and teaching his wife how to keep him where I want him. I enjoy watching his wife learning my dominant ways and seeing her following that path also. They both respond sexually to this process and the cuckold will beg for more while the wife explodes with sexual arousal inside… and I am the beneficiary !!!

Sometimes I have to become very demanding keeping him from falling off the path (which heightens the wife’s arousal seeing him surrender to me) and sometimes it calls for praise and reward.. but that doesn’t last long as it is then time for another step down the path !!!!

Sadism and masochism does play parts of this lifestyle in its dominant and submissive nature. However, I do not like to delve too far into category because it becomes more the dominant forcing the submissive “for their own good”. I more prefer the psychological approach of bringing the cuckold to the brink of craving it through his mind.. desiring to do things that “make his wife happy” at his expense, if that makes sense.

Without all the big thoughts and words.. it is simply fucking hot as hell for all concerned !!!

Brad

Discussions like this can get really deep. I see it simply as guiding a couple down the path of very highly, intense, sexual arousal with each in their proper place.