Watching Wife Have Sex

[BT2]

I've seen many tales on this site over the years. Many share their genuine feelings and adventures, and some, quite frankly, don't sound genuine at all.

So. my question is, how many of you have actually seen your wife go from beginning to end, that is from fully dressed through the various stages to complete nakedness, then intercourse, with another man?

If you did, did you really enjoy it?

[Janes Husband]

Really have only done that once or twice. It's never been my thing to watch. It feels particularly conspicuous , to me, to just be there to the side watching. It also feels too intense, at least for me, as i said.

[HWCarol]

Hubby has sat and watched me with two different gentlemen on two different occasions. He loved watching almost as much as I loved knowing he was watching me. We've both watched each other while swapping with other couples. We both love that.

[Kays Cuck]

Yes I have watched my wife about a dozen times all the way from beginning to intercourse and through the end. It's amazing. Enjoy everything about it. And she loves it too. Shes gone out and has sex on her own a few times and said she prefers it when I am there watching.

[Her number1]

Kind of like Janes Husband said above, I've only watched one time. It was the complete beginning to end. I found out, after thinking I wanted to watch forever, that it just seemed to me that I was intruding into something that belonged to them.
Just before we went to meet him at a pub for the first meet, she asked what part did I want, if I wanted to join, watch, etc. I replied that I wanted her to enjoy herself and pretend I wasn't there. I wanted to see it, but I didn't want her to perform for me, rather just ignore me and enjoy herself.
I did enjoy seeing her with him, but I also found that while it was very special, I still felt I was intruding. Therefore, I decided the best way for us was for her to play solo and to tell me about it afterward.
That is the most rewarding for me and her.
I love it when she sees her boyfriend alone, and it's a tiny bit more special when he comes to our house while I go out to my shop.

[luvwives999]

yes I have and yes I did enjoy it very much.

[Bryce 69]

yes I have when the three of us have had a play date
Sometime it's a turn on to just watch
Hannah will most often excuse herself and transition from clothes to a sexy nighty
but she has been stripped and fucked
just depends on her mood

[allways]

I love to watch and wank. Just wish they would laugh and tease me

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Watching the wife have sex, did you enjoy it?

We all enjoyed it my wife, the other man, and myself absolutely loved the experience countless times over the years of our loving marriage.

My wife having sex with other men makes her:

Happy
More confident
Sexual satisfied
Appreciates me and our marriage more
Makes her feel younger
Keeps her in shape and extremely sexy
More vibrant and flirtatious
A pleasure to be around.

The other men in her life she has sex with trear her extremely well which she loves their admiration

Wesley and Kelly

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Many dozens of times with her boyfriend.

I don’t know what to tell you.

As unbelievable as it may seem, it happens.

I actually started writing a response to this thread that explained how we stumbled into this lifestyle, but I felt it was ultimately not responding to what I think you’re getting at in your original post: Is this shit really happening?

For decades, I have told our real story here, through various threads on OHW.

And for all of those years, OHW has stood by its rule that says members ought not call “bullshit” on other members

I get what you’re saying, though….why you might be questioning the veracity of these stories.

The poster who starts off with a “Well….My virgin bride and I just got married the other day and we’re very excited by what we’re reading here” and then moves to (the next week) “Well….My virgin bride is no longer a virgin because she’s letting six well-hung Black dudes fuck her in the ass almost every night while I’m caged and forced to watch and clean her holes when they’ve finished with her” leads us ALL to roll our eyes.

But there are many of us who ARE seeking truth (and maybe a little therapy?) with our very true, but seemingly unbelievable, stories.

I don’t know how much of my past posts members have access to. (I’ve never looked because I don’t care.) But if you read them as a whole…one after another, you will see nothing but consistency in them. It is because they are true that they are consistent. (The best way to avoid getting caught in a lie is to tell the truth!)

Still, there are people so incredulous out there that they will call people like me a liar.

Whatever! (I know it to be real.)

So, yes.

My wife and I stumbled into this lifestyle.

She’s not the type to sleep around with strangers (as some hotwives are), so she took a boyfriend. We had a previous encounter that gave her the impression that I would not be averse to her playing around as long as we were honest with each other and willing to stop it if either of us felt too uneasy.

Her boyfriend always knew that I knew about them, then. It was an open secret among the three of us.

At some point about a year or so into their relationship, she admitted to him that she’d be turned on if I could watch. By that time he was comfortable enough with her (and me, as we had become friends because of her) that he was more than happy to fuck my wife in front of me.

Aside from giving ME a rush, it COMPLETELY changed my wife. She became POWERFULLY confident. She loved me soooooo much better than what we had ever felt before. We were “reborn” in a way. And as Wesley and Kelly have said above, she was much happier and generally a much more pleasant presence in any place she happened to be.

Yes. As unbelievable as it seems, it happens.

[wordlover2000]

Oh my, on several different occasions. And yes, I loved them all.

One of the aspects of this that I believe is sometimes underrated is the simple subject of the nudity. My wife was completely, 100% comfortable with the clothes coming off rather quickly, and then after that staying unabashedly nude for hours on end. Running around naked in front of other guys, never bothering to cover herself, proud of and happy with her natural body. It felt hotly...intimate to me that she would share these moments with other men.

Don't get me wrong...watching the sex was in a category all by itself. But some of my hottest memories are the simple recollections what occurred in between the sex...her sharing the sight of tits, ass, and pussy, to the hungry and appreciative gazes of those other men.

[MrPepeLePew]

My wife and I have done a lot of both, me there watching and also waiting for her to return. She prefers me watching but it's a lot harder to set up so we just go with the flow these days.

And yes a lot of what you read about online is just fantasy, mostly from frustrated husbands who haven't talked her into it yet.

Are you having issues starting?

[OhioFun]

Yes, I really have. We started a little over a year ago. We have had a number of encounters since (some hotwife and some swinger foursomes). I never just watch, but I watch a lot. And it's....complicated. It is incredibly hot and sexy and wild and exciting. But it can also be emotional, anxiety-provoking, and...just complicated.

[slenderfish]

Yes, SW and I went from vanilla life to her actually having sex with two different men, to try it out. She may have tried it out on a third (would have been the "first"), but not told me, before going forward with full conversation/hotwife dynamic.

And there is some speculation as to whether she played around with her workout/private trainer after that, until she stopped training with him around a year and a half ago.

I didn't watch but the agreement was for her to call me immediately after, and to leave a voicemail, while she was still fresh from the encounter(s). I committed not to pick up the phone, but would see the call come through and know it would go to the recording. I could then enjoy almost "in the moment" while she continued privately with her energy and momentum with her guy. I knew each of these guys from before, not really friends of mine but I've crossed paths with them over the years. All this is here on this site, in my storyline.

And I still retain the voicemails of her encounters with Mr. S and Mr. M.

On a side note, and as an interesting but not unexpected development, Mr. M and Mr. B both privately reached out to SW last month (March 2025), after many months of silence (at least as far as I know).

[D_Lited_HubWife]

Many many many times. From naked, to clothed, to naked and fucking, back to clothed.

So much fun.

[Johnann2227]

In the 30 years we have been together I have watched her fuck other men, and women, hundreds if not thousands of times. The only times I don't watch is if I am not there eg. She has picked up a one night stand or is out with a boyfriend and staying at his place. At swinger parties we are always same room as we love to watch each other enjoying different lovers.

[tailchasers]

She's my favorite porn star. So yes, I've watched her more times than I care to count. Can't wait until the next time.

[MarknSusan]

Re: “So. my question is, how many of you have actually seen your wife go from beginning to end, that is from fully dressed through the various stages to complete nakedness, then intercourse, with another man?”

We have been doing that for more than 30 years. Mostly it has been with good friends of ours. Here are some examples.

Sometimes Susan goes after the guy, or he goes after her, or both he and I go after Susan. She loves getting naked which is often how it begins.

We both enjoy MFM (Susans favorite) which really means I am really watching and playing at the same time. But if it really gets heated with Susan and the guy I just may step back and watch them go at it.

We don’t always do the MFM experience. Some guys just don’t know how to interact in an MFM situation so he may watch us. Then Susan goes over and plays with him and it goes back and forth in that manner.

There are also times when three of us begin playing but the guy can’t perform. When that happens, I leave them alone and Susan works her magic on the guy.

[AmyRich]

I have watched my wife with quite a few men. Beginning to end.

We have an annual trip to Hedo in Jamaica. My wife usually picks up at least one guys each day. But we are also naked in the pool and on the beach. When she picks up a guy at the pool or beach, they are both already totally naked and I have found that I really miss the initial kissing, groping and removing of the clothes. I prefer to see them work their way up to sex rather than just dive right in.

[rogerg]

I have watched many times. In the beginning it was mostly because my wife wanted me there. Those first few times I felt somewhat embarrassed and was uncomfortable about it. But once I got past that stage, I found that I really enjoyed it. For me, watching the foreplay and seeing the guy cum inside her are the most erotic moments.

[Wifekeeley]

My hubby has watched me so many times I have lost count. I personally love him watching another man undress me.

I also agree with Wesley's post above, this lifestyle has had some many positive effects on me and my husband.

[SammySigns]

Definitely have a few times. But I love looking at pics of her dressed up before she got destroyed.

[The Owl]

Been there, done that, a few times.

It was intensely arousing. No humiliation... just pure animalistic eroticism.. for her, for me... and for the lucky Third who handled himself perfectly.

[bbarnsworth]

BT2, I agree; there are stories here that just reek of fake. I know some people are living fantasies in their minds, and I've no problem with that. But, leading others along on your fantasy...no, just no.

To answer your question; my wife has had sex with quite a number of men. We started doing this more than 15 years ago. When we first started, my wife always wanted me directly involved in some way, whether that was holding her while the other guy fucked her or she was giving me head, or something; some tangible way in which we were physically in touch. I'd told her I would be just as happy to enjoy watching, but I was happy to do whatever she needed me to do. The physically in touch requirement faded pretty quickly, as she realized she enjoyed me watching, knowing what it was doing to me.

We've never had an MFM encounter where I wasn't involved at all, where I just watched from beginning to end without being involved. We have had several encounters where I watched until after the other man had cum, but then I'd be inside of her quite rapidly. I especially enjoy doing this if she has taken the other man bareback. The feeling of entering her with another man's cum inside her...wow, just wow! Plus, she loves having multiple loads of cum in her, so win-win

To the question of did I enjoy it? I've always enjoyed it. At first, I was really puzzled as to why. When I was younger, I used to get quite jealous with various girlfriends. I didn't let it negatively affect relationships, but the thought of my girl being with another would have never entered my mind. So this experience of being actively, strongly aroused by another man fucking my wife was confusing to me. I tried to puzzle it out; why did I enjoy this so much? Why did I relish the thought of her having sex with another man? I couldn't figure it out. I gave up trying, and have never figured it out entirely. One thing I did settle on; if she's having a great time, I'm having a great time. I love my wife dearly. We both do a lot of things for each other to make each other's lives better. This is a permutation of that. With how much I love her, and seeing her being intensely aroused by another man; the combination of her embracing her sexual being and loving each other as much as we do is just incredibly intense. Even 15+ years in, it still arouses me.

Not every guy finds it enjoyable. Some guys are fine with their wives fucking other men, but really don't want to be involved, watch, or really hear about it. I don't understand this, but neither do some guys understand how a husband can enjoy their wives with other men. For my wife's part, she's seen me having sex with other women. She's happy for me that I'm enjoying myself, but it doesn't do anything to arouse her. If I go on a solo date, she wants to hear about it, but again it doesn't arouse her.

[lesajima1]

I have done this once. She had a massage then we both took turns eating her and being sucked. We started fucking her trading off and I came first so I ended up watching him penetrate her and fuck her till he came. When he came so did she to the point of her screaming. She said she could feel him swell and cum inside her. It was ambiguous. On one hand I loved watching feel pleasure but on the other hand it was hard it being someone else.