Hey there. Since February also officially "cucked"

[MaybesoonACuck]

(posted already in the "New Member" thread)
Hey from Europe.

We are a married couple (me early 40; she is mid 30s) and since the end of February also into these lifestyle.

She had known about my kink to share her for almost a year, but was long time like "Nice imagination, but... no, never darling."
But as weeks went by, she was getting more and more open to this.
A coincidance helped us, as a sportspartner of her flirted heavily with her, even touched her several times lightly on her arms, tights and back.
So, it went a few weeks like this, as "the day" came.
The words she said to me in this evening, when she arrived home, I will never forget:
"Your fantasie had become reality." ... and gave me a big smile.
...
She had much reservations after that, about her feelings and what I was thinking about her now.
But, I was possible to make her feel fine, with lots of cuddling and kissing, and no pressure to her.

Now, more than a month later, she is with him whenever it is possible, which is a huge turn on for me, but I am also highly frustrated because of very less sexual interactions with her in these past weeks.
But, her lover pleases her in a very good way, as far as she is telling me.
I am proud of her... because she tried it and love it now, and because of how sexy she is. And, of course, that she found a lover who is able to satisfy her in every way.

But I think I have to speak with somewone about this, cause of the rolercoaster inside my head.

It feels good to write this down, and to be here in this community.
cu

[Dream Weaver]

I just went back and saw some of those responses.

Holy fuck this is hot. Man, I know she "says" certain things about her feelings, but obviously she has feelings.

In America we have this weird sport called bull riding (rodeo). Do a quick youtube video to see what I mean. I think you're in for quite the experience, and you're riding and it's your job to stay on, be nice with her, because it's getting crazy! She's getting pleasured by a real man, really being made to feel alive, like a woman.

[canadianwittol]

You take me right back to November 4th, 2009 when my wife came home from work and told me the exact same, although she was a little more blunt. She simply told me that I was now a cuckold.

[MaybesoonACuck]

I just went back and saw some of those responses.

Holy fuck this is hot. Man, I know she "says" certain things about her feelings, but obviously she has feelings.

In America we have this weird sport called bull riding (rodeo). Do a quick youtube video to see what I mean. I think you're in for quite the experience, and you're riding and it's your job to stay on, be nice with her, because it's getting crazy! She's getting pleasured by a real man, really being made to feel alive, like a woman.

Hey Dreams Weaver.

Thank you very much.

Yes, I'll stay "on". It is a very powerfull exitement for me.
She is much more relaxed now, since she's aktive with him.
We are also more touchy with each other and also like fresh in love like teenagers.
Except the sexlife, what makes me crazy like shit, because of what "he" gets now... in a way I never thought it could happen.
But it is also a big satisfaction for me to put my arms around her fit body an hold her tight until she fall asleep.
---> rolercoaster

[MaybesoonACuck]

You take me right back to November 4th, 2009 when my wife came home from work and told me the exact same, although she was a little more blunt. She simply told me that I was now a cuckold.

Wow. Thats hot.

[Imherman]

I found texts in my girl’s phone confirming an affair on Sundays.


The texts indicate no protection is being used and it doesn’t sound like he’s pulling out

[MaybesoonACuck]

Hey one more time.

On thursday we made love, the first time since the Saturday two weeks ago.
In this two weeks, she was with him seven times (on two days multiple fucks, wich we didn't since our first month of relationship 9years ago).

We had a talk that day, and she saw me shiver, heard about my Feelings and couldn't understand that I was that turned on.
In the evening she said strictly "I ll wait in the bed... follow me in 5min. (She's traying to be more dominant to me).
When I arrived, I striped naked and went under the blanked.
She was fully clothed, looked me in the eyes and said again strictly, "I only want to be fondeled and cuddling with you. Is this a problem for you?"
I said "no", but was disapointet. I did as she wanted. Massaged her back a bit, and cuddled with her.

Than, she striped naked and ordered me to lick her, something that I love to do on her.
While she lightly stroked me, I was licking her a long time, while teasing her nippels and fingering her. She moaned like I never heard it that way.
She pushed me away, down on my back and want riding me. She stopped her wet pussy close to my twiching cock, and asked me: "honey, I am so close cumming on your cock now. PLEASE... do you can handle it that long?" (She can't orgasm when there is a condom on a dick. And isn't on the Pille cause she has problems with it)
I was confused and knows that I can't handle it, cause of not have a release in two weeks.
I told her "no, sorry love".
She than was twisting her eyes, grabed a condom, put it on my dick really rough, and inserted it in her hot, tight pussy.
I was so close as she began the ride and watched her, but she looked icecold down on me, no sexual feelings shown.
I came really fast and hard and my girl... jumped down and layed next to me, looking in my eyes... I was still coming but it was no longer with a good feeling.

It was a little bit crazy, this situation.
We talked a bit after that, but not about her lover or our lovemaking.

[elina]

Thanks for updating.

Wonderful to hear that your Wife is obviously enjoying Herself with Her lover,
and at the same time that She is starting to be more dominant with you.

I have one suggestion for you if you want to encourage Her in this regard;

1) Always threath Her like a Queen, never say no to Her,
frequently ask if there is anyting you can do for Her,
and when She gives you a task complete it immedeately and thank Her for it
and ask if there is something else you can do for Her.
2) In particular before She is leaving to be with Her lover,
Ask if there is any tasks around the house She wants you to complete before She returns.

Most Ladies threated in this way will begin to see it as the natural order of things that Her cuck-husband is supposed to be there to please Her, and will find that they enjoy this more and more....

Good luck and please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

[MaybesoonACuck]

Thanks for updating.

Wonderful to hear that your Wife is obviously enjoying Herself with Her lover,
and at the same time that She is starting to be more dominant with you.

I have one suggestion for you if you want to encourage Her in this regard;

1) Always threath Her like a Queen, never say no to Her,
frequently ask if there is anyting you can do for Her,
and when She gives you a task complete it immedeately and thank Her for it
and ask if there is something else you can do for Her.
2) In particular before She is leaving to be with Her lover,
Ask if there is any tasks around the house She wants you to complete before She returns.

Most Ladies threated in this way will begin to see it as the natural order of things that Her cuck-husband is supposed to be there to please Her, and will find that they enjoy this more and more....

Good luck and please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

Thanks a lot for your suggestion, elina.

I am treating her like my Queen, really.
But sometimes it seems she is not comfortable with it. But I'll do so further.

I am thankfull to her in some things she do for me, or I have to do. But, she didn't want it that much.
She don't want a husband that is so much devoted in everyday-life.
But sexually, she will give it a try. She orders me sometimes to do something (lick her good, come to bed and massage her well...) but there is a light jiggeling on her face.
Except one time... we spoke about the domination thing, and out of the blue, she slapped my face. I was surprised because of it, and it hurts a bit. But... there were a big high powerfull flash in her eyes after doing this.
"Is this you want me to do for you? Really?"
I nodded... "You can't be serious. You're pervert, I can't believe it." she shouted out to me. After that she lought at me and told me, how she can't believe it, I do like this all.

But, I was ok with It. It was out now.

Maybe I'll give it a try.

[MaybesoonACuck]

On Saturday we went to bed after lunch for a siesta.
She "ordered" me down with a light smile. My head on her stomach, I stroked her tights and down to her feet, and back around her very hot pussy.
After some time I entered her with one finger, she was so wet.
I lubricated her clit and sliped again in it, fingering her.
She moaned lightly... srewed her back and I felt her getting wetter and wetter.

After some time, stroking her body, teasing her nippels, fingering her, she was close to cumming.
She jumped on top of me, and guidet my penis in her hot, wet pussy.
I had no condom on and was a bit scared about it.
"Please... just hold back this time honey... I am so close" she beged.
She moved up and down, and it felt so amazing to be in her tight, hot and wet pussy.
But within seconds I saw she lost the exitement. I did what I could, stroked her body, kissed her deeply, and teased her hard nippels... She began riding me again and I felt her getting close.
I watched her intense, her trembling body, her face... She closed her eyes and came long and intense. I have to pull out because of the danger to cum in her.

I put a condom on, and took her doggy and came within a minute.
We cuddled afterwards and I stroked her hot body, legs and feets. She enjoyed it and relaxed the whole time with eyes closed.

That's it so far.

[MaybesoonACuck]

Hi at all.
As it is liberating me, just some short update.
I wasn't able to publish it until now, because of the heavy impressions and feelings.

I already texted about on PM with a user (thanks).
We met this week "accidentally". I mean me, my wife and HIM.
Went to a playground with our kids, near his home, to see my wife big smiling when she saw him. He was there also with his kids, so no action were done between them. I had seen a photo, and was aware of him. She also said (since two weeks) that she wants us to meet eachother.
So here we are.
I think it was aranged, by her. I went to him, shaking hands. But it was freaky... He is so present. It was a strong grab.

He is a good looking, muscular and though guy. Sympathic ... We had some chat but nothing special about my wife or st.
I looked at him quite often, when he doesn't know, I have to admit. And to my beloved wife (tight jeans and shirt)... Saw him checking her out.
And my thougts were like; he is the man... for her. She is desiring him. And... he is the MAN who .. yes... fucked her more in the past 6 weeks than me in the past 5 months.

And since that day, I feel jealous like never before in my life.
I am OK with it, really.
But it is a new strong feeling in the ride I have since they're dating.

Little things have changed... She is denying me to touch her when naked more often, but is kissing me with high passion... and as long as never before.
Is awake long time when leaving me early for bed. Wants to be alone in the tub.

Today, in the evening they are together again. I am suffering more each hour. Hands shivering, heartbeat...
But I am OK with that. It often turns in a huge exitement.
As I wrote above... a rollercoaster.

[surry]

You should talk to your wife about inviting him into your home. Let her know that when he comes over, he is to treat your home and wife like he owns the place. You want both of them to be happy.

[masculinecuck]

You should talk to your wife about inviting him into your home. Let her know that when he comes over, he is to treat your home and wife like he owns the place. You want both of them to be happy.

GREAT idea, have him take her in the martial bed trust me it's the best. Then clean her in front of him.

[MaybesoonACuck]

You should talk to your wife about inviting him into your home. Let her know that when he comes over, he is to treat your home and wife like he owns the place. You want both of them to be happy.

I would be ok with it. And for shure, I want both of them Happy.

But because we are just starting it, my wife is not comfortable with it, so far.
She did huge steps during the last months, and it slowly went this way, that I "lost control". Hard to discribe...
She is now doing things for herself and is asking me more less if I am ok with.
So... Maybe it happens rather than expected.

[MaybesoonACuck]

You should talk to your wife about inviting him into your home. Let her know that when he comes over, he is to treat your home and wife like he owns the place. You want both of them to be happy.

GREAT idea, have him take her in the martial bed trust me it's the best. Then clean her in front of him.

Hi masculinecuck...

Of course, this is a big thrill... in our bed.
I wish it is become reality in near future.
She is aware of it, that I have no problems with it.

Also cleaning her is a step, she has to be comfortable with.
It is about to come, but still waiting for it, so far.

[masculinecuck]

Once you clean her you'll be addicted to it both of you will trust me on that one. I've eaten gallons from her...........

[MaybesoonACuck]

Once you clean her you'll be addicted to it both of you will trust me on that one. I've eaten gallons from her...........

Thanks a lot. I hope to find out as soon as possible.

[elina]

You should talk to your wife about inviting him into your home. Let her know that when he comes over, he is to treat your home and wife like he owns the place. You want both of them to be happy.

I would be ok with it. And for shure, I want both of them Happy.

But because we are just starting it, my wife is not comfortable with it, so far.
She did huge steps during the last months, and it slowly went this way, that I "lost control". Hard to discribe...
She is now doing things for herself and is asking me more less if I am ok with.
So... Maybe it happens rather than expected.

Dear MaybesoonACuck,

I think you are right.
The important thing now is to ensure that Your Wife, and now more and more Cuckoldress, remains in full control.
The important thing is that She enjoys this, and that you demonstrate that you support Her every move.
I think it is OK for you to inform Her that She should fee free to invite Her Bull home and that you will be happy to subordinate and do everything you can to ensure that She and Her Bull will be able to enjoy their time togethe, but don't push for this.

Your Cuckoldress will make it happen when She wants to do this.

Sincerely
elina

[MaybesoonACuck]

My lovely wife is now with him. Don't know where or how.

If it is possible for her, she sends me a kind of code (we both invented that, so that I know they have, or they have had fun).

Head is going crazy

[MaybesoonACuck]

Oh fuck. She messaged me the "code".
Not expected that soon.

Wow... My heart beats faster... my hands are shivering... jealousy of course... my stomach is corded up... instant erection

[allways]

Every cuckolding realationship is different. When we started our kids were also young and her lover also had young kids and was happily married. Initially he thought she like him was cheating. I like you was the one that initiated the idea and ever so carefully encouraged her. He was and still after 25 years the ongoing man for her. After all these years she still melts when he is around. I viewed him as the ideal lover for her. Why? He is besotted with his wife so there was never the danger to our relationship.
What you need to be careful of is ensuring his wife does not discover the affair. With us after a few weeks when we told him, my comment to him was I am your bird dog spotter. The meaning? With me being around when they were together and constantly reminding them text messages could make it unravel.
Until we became empty nesters the number of times they could play each year was no more than a dozen times. My concern for you is if they are meeting too much his wife may twig. Doing it a your place is better if his wife thinks you are his friend.

[MaybesoonACuck]

Every cuckolding realationship is different. When we started our kids were also young and her lover also had young kids and was happily married. Initially he thought she like him was cheating. I like you was the one that initiated the idea and ever so carefully encouraged her. He was and still after 25 years the ongoing man for her. After all these years she still melts when he is around. I viewed him as the ideal lover for her. Why? He is besotted with his wife so there was never the danger to our relationship.
What you need to be careful of is ensuring his wife does not discover the affair. With us after a few weeks when we told him, my comment to him was I am your bird dog spotter. The meaning? With me being around when they were together and constantly reminding them text messages could make it unravel.
Until we became empty nesters the number of times they could play each year was no more than a dozen times. My concern for you is if they are meeting too much his wife may twig. Doing it a your place is better if his wife thinks you are his friend.

Hey "allways"...

Thank you for your advice.
And I admire, you're together all time long.
My respect for you.

Yes, it is complicated. But they found some ways to meet with only a little risk... I agree that it would be better to meet at our place. But with the little ones it is nearly impossible.
There are possibilities, of course. But my wife didn't want it, so far.
I am OK with that, so it is up to her to start it.

I've no knowledge about his relationship, If it is worse or rock hard, IDK. He is cheating, yes.
But she was told by her kids about me beeing there, so she is fine with my wife beeing around him in "normal times".
For the early and the late dates he has good possibilities to be away from home without her thinking bad.

But... you are right with everything you pointed out.
Thanks a lot.

[Rick3066]

Hi May,
I just read your thread, I have two questions that come to mind. Does your wife’s friend know that you know that he is fucking her? And is he using condoms? If he’s not I hope he’s sniped, I feel pretty confident that he is cumming in her.

R

[realcucklife]

Hi May,
What sort of fantasies around cuckolding had you told your wife?
You mentioned the slapping incident, was denial part of this?
Did you share any sites, books with her?

[MaybesoonACuck]

Hi May,
I just read your thread, I have two questions that come to mind. Does your wife’s friend know that you know that he is fucking her? And is he using condoms? If he’s not I hope he’s sniped, I feel pretty confident that he is cumming in her.

R

Hi Rick...

1st. Yes, she told him from the beginning about me knowing. Also that it is OK for me she is with him.

2nd. No, he is fucking her bare.
And yes, he is sniped. But, it nevertheless is a big thrill for me that he is cumming deep in her.