The thrill of being asked out by another man never loses its excitement

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello from Kelly husband of Wesley.

I have to admit after years of being in the Hotwife lifestyle, the thrill of another man asking me never ever loses it’s excitement.

From being in a gym, grocery store, happy hour, mutual acquaintances I love having a handsome man approach me with the intent having an engaging conversation leading to him asking me out,

I attribute men’s willingness to approach me due to flirtatious open personality, being attractive physically and emotionally, and dressing sexy.

I love the fact I always have my husband’s support and excitement in me dating and having sex with men I find appealing.

I was born a flirt and admit with the right man somewhat easy to agree to a date and keeps me happy, satisfied, and look forward to new hotwife opportunities going forward.

What is your prospective of you or your wife being asked out by other men? Thanks Kelly

[Long Lurker 34]

WHV -K
- Have you had that happy circumstance occur in the recent past?

[Logan]

It's a huge turn on when she shares with me that she's been hit on, or asked out. I know it must make her feel great to get that sort of attention and have those butterflies you probably get when it happens.

Men are no different, we like being flirted with too but obviously you sexy ladies get it more than we do.

[wifelver]

My wife is the same way. She never fails to turn heads and enjoys the thrill of being hit on and taken out on dates. And who knows what might follow a first date?

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello from Kelly

Although I am flirtatious some men are still hesitant and slow to ask me out even after giving them mild hints I am available for dating.

One very nice male friend of mine enjoyed very much flirting with me but seemed nervous in taking the next step and asking me out. He had dated a friend of mine and although they were not an ideal match did she recommend if I had the chance to date him I should, plus she said he was well endowed plus fairly good in bed.

One day when him and I were talking he mentioned how he had to go his seasonal lake house and have his boat put in the water. He was hinting it would be nice to have someone to do this with I took the next step and asked Steve are you asking me out? Sheepishly he said yes and I said yes of course I would love to go see your lake house for the weekend

His smile was overwhelming like he just won the lottery. Him and I had lots of great sex that weekend including on the boat in broad daylight. I the ride home he chimed in he should have asked me out years ago. Kelly. PS I do love Lake Wallenpaupack

[Dutchpride7]

Hello from Kelly husband of Wesley.

I have to admit after years of being in the Hotwife lifestyle, the thrill of another man asking me never ever loses it’s excitement.

From being in a gym, grocery store, happy hour, mutual acquaintances I love having a handsome man approach me with the intent having an engaging conversation leading to him asking me out,

I attribute men’s willingness to approach me due to flirtatious open personality, being attractive physically and emotionally, and dressing sexy.

I love the fact I always have my husband’s support and excitement in me dating and having sex with men I find appealing.

I was born a flirt and admit with the right man somewhat easy to agree to a date and keeps me happy, satisfied, and look forward to new hotwife opportunities going forward.

What is your prospective of you or your wife being asked out by other men? Thanks Kelly

From a Bull's perspective:
I can really see that in ladies very much so. It's that thrill of talking to and engaging in good conversation,weather it be at the grocery store,Starbucks,shopping for clothes. Once I've met someone in a certain circumstance and the feel of everything just.feels so natural and right after a while,then it's thinking of how or what to say to get this off the ground a bit.
So then it turns into something exciting and appealing. I can relate to what Kelly says a lot,just from the other end as far as what the man is feeling & thinking.
I grew up with 3 sisters and a mother so for all my growing up years up until I was about 19-20 years old,I'm very familiar with how ladies operate and what they like,don't like,all that.and some.
For some reason other than another,when a guy would come to our house to date or be around one of my sisters,I automatically did not like him no matter what. If he could.get by me,he still had to deal with my dad. I think about that now,and that is not very Kool thing to do,It's amazing how things and thinking really changes from.when you were younger.
So Kelley,I could see that big time because I experience different but somewhat along those lines of asking and having that right moment while engaging in conversation is always a plus. I can say a lot of times I would & the times I didn't ask were quiet a lot too,always cursed myself and tried to figure out. howcome I couldn't spring the question I really wanted to ask her. A choke,blunder,or maybe just too shy and insecure. Anyway,all good.
I would never ask a married lady out just because it's not right and my morals & principles also wouldn't.allow me. And if someone's in this lifestyle you wouldn't know unless you knew them, or they told, you so that makes it somewhat a challenge also.

[Long Lurker 34]

Hello from Kelly

Although I am flirtatious some men are still hesitant and slow to ask me out even after giving them mild hints I am available for dating.

One very nice male friend of mine enjoyed very much flirting with me but seemed nervous in taking the next step and asking me out. He had dated a friend of mine and although they were not an ideal match did she recommend if I had the chance to date him I should, plus she said he was well endowed plus fairly good in bed.

One day when him and I were talking he mentioned how he had to go his seasonal lake house and have his boat put in the water. He was hinting it would be nice to have someone to do this with I took the next step and asked Steve are you asking me out? Sheepishly he said yes and I said yes of course I would love to go see your lake house for the weekend

His smile was overwhelming like he just won the lottery. Him and I had lots of great sex that weekend including on the boat in broad daylight. I the ride home he chimed in he should have asked me out years ago. Kelly. PS I do love Lake Wallenpaupack

WHW - K
- As a guy (an old one at that) it's great when women flirt with you, but these days with people recording and documenting it seems practically every breath, even with a "go ahead" signal I think way more men are wary of getting a stick between the legs (it's a hockey thing).
- As for hints, well that might depend on the guy and how much of a hint you are giving. If you went something like "Let me have your phone, I'll put my number in there for you. We'll have to meet up again and do something fun!" Guys like direct talk, something that can't be misread or misunderstood.

[wifelver]

Hello from Kelly

Although I am flirtatious some men are still hesitant and slow to ask me out even after giving them mild hints I am available for dating.

One very nice male friend of mine enjoyed very much flirting with me but seemed nervous in taking the next step and asking me out. He had dated a friend of mine and although they were not an ideal match did she recommend if I had the chance to date him I should, plus she said he was well endowed plus fairly good in bed.

One day when him and I were talking he mentioned how he had to go his seasonal lake house and have his boat put in the water. He was hinting it would be nice to have someone to do this with I took the next step and asked Steve are you asking me out? Sheepishly he said yes and I said yes of course I would love to go see your lake house for the weekend

His smile was overwhelming like he just won the lottery. Him and I had lots of great sex that weekend including on the boat in broad daylight. I the ride home he chimed in he should have asked me out years ago. Kelly. PS I do love Lake Wallenpaupack

WHW - K
- As a guy (an old one at that) it's great when women flirt with you, but these days with people recording and documenting it seems practically every breath, even with a "go ahead" signal I think way more men are wary of getting a stick between the legs (it's a hockey thing).
- As for hints, well that might depend on the guy and how much of a hint you are giving. If you went something like "Let me have your phone, I'll put my number in there for you. We'll have to meet up again and do something fun!" Guys like direct talk, something that can't be misread or misunderstood.

Or the guy could ask directly, “Would you like to swap phone numbers?” “Would you like to have dinner with me next week?” Or, if things were getting a bit steamy, “Would you mind if I kissed you right now?” In other words the guy could ask permission. I think the OP’s point is well taken. She flirts and the guy is too shy or reserved to know what to do next. That happens.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, wifelver:

My ideal flirt session(s) with a man I am attracted to ends successfully if, the man asks me out to lunch or dinner combined with the exchange of phone numbers.

A win win situation for both the man and I. Then I get all giddy and happy he asks me out and can’t wait to share I was asked out by another man with my husband. We both take pride in this and leads to a good love making session with hubby. Thanks Kelly

[wifelver]

Hello, wifelver:

My ideal flirt session(s) with a man I am attracted to ends successfully if, the man asks me out to lunch or dinner combined with the exchange of phone numbers.

A win win situation for both the man and I. Then I get all giddy and happy he asks me out and can’t wait to share I was asked out by another man with my husband. We both take pride in this and leads to a good love making session with hubby. Thanks Kelly

A win-win for sure, Kelly. How exactly do you go about flirting with other men? Is it planned, like setting up a meeting with someone online, or mostly spontaneous?

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hi wifelver from Kelly

One of my best ways to meet men is I am a member of a health club / gym and my agreement with my husband is he can’t be a member of that club nor workout with me there. Therefore when I workout there men find it to be more comfortable to approach me without a husband around me.

I love wearing form fitting, clingy yoga pants that easily puts my cameltoe on public display then I walk around nonchalantly acting like my cameltoe is not very noticeable.

Great way to meet in shape men

[Tryagain]

My wife has always been a very attractive women with a really good shape. But she was never one to flirt with strangers nor was looking to pick a guy up.

We both marvel at the idea that no one ever has tried to pick her up. it is not like they were obvious and she cut it off. So it seems to prove that you must a vibe that gives forth "I am available."

[masculinecuck]

Hi wifelver from Kelly

One of my best ways to meet men is I am a member of a health club / gym and my agreement with my husband is he can’t be a member of that club nor workout with me there. Therefore when I workout there men find it to be more comfortable to approach me without a husband around me.

I love wearing form fitting, clingy yoga pants that easily puts my cameltoe on public display then I walk around nonchalantly acting like my cameltoe is not very noticeable.

Great way to meet in shape men

My wife feels the same she's met a few guys and has had them home for some fun. She still sees one now for 5 years. She agrees you can find a in shape guy, she's a bulge watcher and that turns her on immensely when a guy has a "BIG" bulge.

[chard]

My wife Hannah was never a one man guy, apart from myself of course. She always said that if she was going to fuck other men she wanted variety. If a guy pleased her she would probably keep him around for a while, but, she was always on the lookout for new flesh. I loved the excitement she exuded when she was preparing herself to go out on a date with someone new. She was so giddy with anticipation, I could feel the excitement rubbing off on me. I couldn't wait for her to come home with my sloppy seconds and tell me all about her date whilst I fucked her. Not every date was a success story though, she sometimes dated a gentleman who wouldn't fuck her on their first date and there was the occasional guy who just couldn't get it up.

[Parsifal]

Hello from Kelly husband of Wesley.

I have to admit after years of being in the Hotwife lifestyle, the thrill of another man asking me never ever loses it’s excitement.

From being in a gym, grocery store, happy hour, mutual acquaintances I love having a handsome man approach me with the intent having an engaging conversation leading to him asking me out,

I attribute men’s willingness to approach me due to flirtatious open personality, being attractive physically and emotionally, and dressing sexy.

I love the fact I always have my husband’s support and excitement in me dating and having sex with men I find appealing.

I was born a flirt and admit with the right man somewhat easy to agree to a date and keeps me happy, satisfied, and look forward to new hotwife opportunities going forward.

What is your prospective of you or your wife being asked out by other men? Thanks Kelly

From a Bull's perspective:
I can really see that in ladies very much so. It's that thrill of talking to and engaging in good conversation,weather it be at the grocery store,Starbucks,shopping for clothes. Once I've met someone in a certain circumstance and the feel of everything just.feels so natural and right after a while,then it's thinking of how or what to say to get this off the ground a bit.
So then it turns into something exciting and appealing. I can relate to what Kelly says a lot,just from the other end as far as what the man is feeling & thinking.
I grew up with 3 sisters and a mother so for all my growing up years up until I was about 19-20 years old,I'm very familiar with how ladies operate and what they like,don't like,all that.and some.
For some reason other than another,when a guy would come to our house to date or be around one of my sisters,I automatically did not like him no matter what. If he could.get by me,he still had to deal with my dad. I think about that now,and that is not very Kool thing to do,It's amazing how things and thinking really changes from.when you were younger.
So Kelley,I could see that big time because I experience different but somewhat along those lines of asking and having that right moment while engaging in conversation is always a plus. I can say a lot of times I would & the times I didn't ask were quiet a lot too,always cursed myself and tried to figure out. howcome I couldn't spring the question I really wanted to ask her. A choke,blunder,or maybe just too shy and insecure. Anyway,all good.
I would never ask a married lady out just because it's not right and my morals & principles also wouldn't.allow me. And if someone's in this lifestyle you wouldn't know unless you knew them, or they told, you so that makes it somewhat a challenge also.

This part of your comment led me to ponder - so there really are guys who pursue hotwife women but have too much of a sense of honor or integrity to pursue affairs with wives in traditional marriages. A social phenomenon of interest to me and my wife too is the tendency of the men she had sex courtship with is that men generally are more willing to have a sex with her if they think she's a cheating wife rather than a hotwife doing it in the open with my consent. Lots of tradional men regard open marriage as more deviant than an affair, because an affair is a personal transgression that upholds the traditional order of society rather than undermines social order. Your attitude, which is 90 degrees the contrary, indicates that the hotwifing culture may be gaining respectability as a norm itself and coming out of the shadows, such that ethical people like yourself who value honesty over deceit feel socially safe partaking in it.

[Dutchpride7]

Hello from Kelly husband of Wesley.

I have to admit after years of being in the Hotwife lifestyle, the thrill of another man asking me never ever loses it’s excitement.

From being in a gym, grocery store, happy hour, mutual acquaintances I love having a handsome man approach me with the intent having an engaging conversation leading to him asking me out,

I attribute men’s willingness to approach me due to flirtatious open personality, being attractive physically and emotionally, and dressing sexy.

I love the fact I always have my husband’s support and excitement in me dating and having sex with men I find appealing.

I was born a flirt and admit with the right man somewhat easy to agree to a date and keeps me happy, satisfied, and look forward to new hotwife opportunities going forward.

What is your prospective of you or your wife being asked out by other men? Thanks Kelly

From a Bull's perspective:
I can really see that in ladies very much so. It's that thrill of talking to and engaging in good conversation,weather it be at the grocery store,Starbucks,shopping for clothes. Once I've met someone in a certain circumstance and the feel of everything just.feels so natural and right after a while,then it's thinking of how or what to say to get this off the ground a bit.
So then it turns into something exciting and appealing. I can relate to what Kelly says a lot,just from the other end as far as what the man is feeling & thinking.
I grew up with 3 sisters and a mother so for all my growing up years up until I was about 19-20 years old,I'm very familiar with how ladies operate and what they like,don't like,all that.and some.
For some reason other than another,when a guy would come to our house to date or be around one of my sisters,I automatically did not like him no matter what. If he could.get by me,he still had to deal with my dad. I think about that now,and that is not very Kool thing to do,It's amazing how things and thinking really changes from.when you were younger.
So Kelley,I could see that big time because I experience different but somewhat along those lines of asking and having that right moment while engaging in conversation is always a plus. I can say a lot of times I would & the times I didn't ask were quiet a lot too,always cursed myself and tried to figure out. howcome I couldn't spring the question I really wanted to ask her. A choke,blunder,or maybe just too shy and insecure. Anyway,all good.
I would never ask a married lady out just because it's not right and my morals & principles also wouldn't.allow me. And if someone's in this lifestyle you wouldn't know unless you knew them, or they told, you so that makes it somewhat a challenge also.

This part of your comment led me to ponder - so there really are guys who pursue hotwife women but have too much of a sense of honor or integrity to pursue affairs with wives in traditional marriages. A social phenomenon of interest to me and my wife too is the tendency of the men she had sex courtship with is that men generally are more willing to have a sex with her if they think she's a cheating wife rather than a hotwife doing it in the open with my consent. Lots of tradional men regard open marriage as more deviant than an affair, because an affair is a personal transgression that upholds the traditional order of society rather than undermines social order. Your attitude, which is 90 degrees the contrary, indicates that the hotwifing culture may be gaining respectability as a norm itself and coming out of the shadows, such that ethical people like yourself who value honesty over deceit feel socially safe partaking in it.

I read your observation about the comment at the very end that I wrote & it caused you to ponder. I thought was a great observation & dead on. What you wrote.is very much how I feel about the situation.
I' don't feel consciously right at all to be with a married woman that is in what we would call a traditional marriage.
And something where men and women partake in such,then why is it that they do secretly or without consent of thee other. Now that being said how could you actually enjoy and have fun under those circumstances. Knowing your doing something behind your mates back,and for them to not find out . I know we all have a conscience. But to go that route of being with another woman when your married. Hmmm.... I could never fathom that and to actually fool myself and think it would be rewarding & fun,Wow! No way.
On thee other hand a hotwife, & your getting a green light from the hubbie to go ahead and indulge with his wife,and he might even be involved too.
That to me is hands down a very easy and win,win,win situation compared to thee other scenario. One seems totally right to me and one seems totally wrong to me.
And by the way I have never been married as of yet.
Very interesting observation and a great one at that I thought.
Cheers to you & yours...

[Johnann2227]

My wife went for after work drinks with colleagues and came home with a creamy g-string. I discovered her panties while I was doing the laundry. She told me that a guy had come over and bought her a drink and chatted her up. She said he was handsome, charming and made her laugh.

She said after chatting for about 30 minutes he was getting touchy and she enjoyed the attention. When she was leaving he walked her to her car and they made out for a bit. She she her panties were wet before she even walked outside.

[mychubbyhotwife]

Hello from Kelly husband of Wesley.

What is your prospective of you or your wife being asked out by other men? Thanks Kelly

Flirting is fun!

My wife knows that it's ok with me if she has sex with other men. I am surprised sometimes by the men she gets turned on to and is willing to have sex with.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, from Kelly Hotwife married to Wesley

Not only the thrill of being asked out by another man, the thrill knowing I can say yes to the date offer if I so choose. Kelly

[Angela Plays]

There is a lot to unpack here and as with most things in life and in this lifestyle, a wide variance of thoughts and viewpoints.
A few of my thoughts..I’m by nature an extrovert, spent a career in sales, and I’m generally open, welcoming and friendly with everyone. I’ve found that many men aren’t really comfortable when a woman with a ring in her finger acts this way in a social setting as opposed to work. It’s like it momentarily scrambles their brain and they’re trying to process…”is she just friendly or is she flirting?” Societal norms and expectations are not undone easily. This is why I’m always attracted to confident men that are not thrown off by a little flirting and respond appropriately. I also think it’s important for women to be more direct. Not in the form of saying “hey, wanna fuck?” but if you want a certain result then don’t leave him guessing. As someone said earlier…I’m a fan of the “hand me your phone and I’ll give you my info. Maybe we can get together for lunch sometime.” If there has been some light flirting or banter back and forth, this is a good way to let him know you’re interested. As a more mature woman, it’s imperative that a more direct approach is used with younger men. Regardless of how the may be acting on the outside…they’re not as confident as they seem and fear failure more so than a mature man with life experience.

All that aside…..YES! I still get the warm fuzzies when a man ask me out! lol

[Long Lurker 34]

There is a lot to unpack here and as with most things in life and in this lifestyle, a wide variance of thoughts and viewpoints.
A few of my thoughts..I’m by nature an extrovert, spent a career in sales, and I’m generally open, welcoming and friendly with everyone. I’ve found that many men aren’t really comfortable when a woman with a ring in her finger acts this way in a social setting as opposed to work. It’s like it momentarily scrambles their brain and they’re trying to process…”is she just friendly or is she flirting?” Societal norms and expectations are not undone easily. This is why I’m always attracted to confident men that are not thrown off by a little flirting and respond appropriately. I also think it’s important for women to be more direct. Not in the form of saying “hey, wanna fuck?” but if you want a certain result then don’t leave him guessing. As someone said earlier…I’m a fan of the “hand me your phone and I’ll give you my info. Maybe we can get together for lunch sometime.” If there has been some light flirting or banter back and forth, this is a good way to let him know you’re interested. As a more mature woman, it’s imperative that a more direct approach is used with younger men. Regardless of how the may be acting on the outside…they’re not as confident as they seem and fear failure more so than a mature man with life experience.

All that aside…..YES! I still get the warm fuzzies when a man ask me out! lol

AP
- Yup can always be a puzzle and for men 'overstepping' these days can be way worse than a slap across the face. what with social media posting and shaming.
- So true and on the money. As much, here with encouraging women to shake off the 'norms' and 'be free', as it were, men too are subject to normal boundaries even if they have been somewhat looser.
- It's like anything for either M/W with this type of circumstance one has to be able to sense the approach to get the desired outcome.