Another get-together for New Years

[FNQLivin]

A Cuckold Summer. It is a bit full on, which might turn you off, but it might give you ideas as well!

[nostringsorworries]

We started to get back to normal more this past weekend, which was great. Not quite the same as previously, but better really. She opened up more about what she liked etc. I asked her why she let him go down on her and she said she didn't really know, but he has a way of getting what he wants and that makes easier for her to be "naughty" to use her term. She said he must be an expert at that. He nibbled her lips just enough to make her crazy but not be painful.

I also finally got to ask if they'd done anal. There was a point where he was on top of her and she was face down, but I couldn't tell. She said it was just regular sex but from behind, but she liked feeling vulnerable to him when he took her like that. She said she didn't think she'd ever do anal though.

And she talked about how she enjoyed just playing with his cock between innings especially since he's not circumcised and that was a first for her. She liked playing with it soft until it came back to life. And she is relieved he doesn't shave himself like all the guys in porn do. She's more into natural.

[thinman]

This situation sounds quite promising. He seems to be an accomplished lover and he also made clear how he wants to date “the two of you” in a manner that doesn’t get in the way of his profession.

Have you setup any further dates? I hope that all three of you are happy with the way things have been going.

I was also wondering if you would mind sharing some of the back story about how you got to this point. If you’ve already done that in another thread and I missed it, my apologies. Did you suggest hotwifing first, or did your wife? You said above that the two of you have “started to get back to normal”. Can you elaborate on that? How do you think her experiences with him will affect the sex life that the two of you share?

Thanks for sharing your situation with us!

[nostringsorworries]

This situation sounds quite promising. He seems to be an accomplished lover and he also made clear how he wants to date “the two of you” in a manner that doesn’t get in the way of his profession.

Have you setup any further dates? I hope that all three of you are happy with the way things have been going.

I was also wondering if you would mind sharing some of the back story about how you got to this point. If you’ve already done that in another thread and I missed it, my apologies. Did you suggest hotwifing first, or did your wife? You said above that the two of you have “started to get back to normal”. Can you elaborate on that? How do you think her experiences with him will affect the sex life that the two of you share?

Thanks for sharing your situation with us!

I suppose it's started to feel more natural, less threatening to me now. We won't get very many opportunities to play with him with his work schedule. But that has also made it more thrilling in its own way and she's relaxed quite a bit with me talking about things more, which is great. I feel included, which is important to me.

Honestly, I'm not 100% sure how we really got headed down this path. I guess it's been a long-term fantasy for me for reasons that I don't understand at all. I was able to bring up the topic once when we were just watching a soft-core porn movie on cable TV that involved a hot wife and she smiled and jokingly said "do you want to share me baby?" I wasn't really prepared for that question, but I laughed and said "sure, as long as you don't leave me" or something like that. So we'd kind of play with that fantasy from time to time. Then I started really wanting it to happen. She has a job at the desk of a gym that we both use and I had seen a guy flirting with her from time to time that I'd run into when I was working out. We were alone in the sauna and I said I noticed that he seemed interested in her. He had no idea that that was my wife until I told him after he said he'd really like to know her better. He said to me "don't worry". He likes to flirt with married women, but he'd not do anything further. I told him how we'd fantasized about it and said if he could seduce her, as long as he kept in the loop about what was going on, I'd be okay with it. I said I didn't think she'd really cheat, but maybe. At that point I was just imagining getting the inside scoop from him, but also not really thinking it would happen. It didn't happen. I posted about it on here and somebody reminded me that that was deceptive and not a good idea, which made sense. I did eventually bring up to her that I'd noticed that guy taking a special interest in her and she smiled and said he was okay but harmless. I said I'd see him in the locker room and she teased me asking for physical descriptions of him and it just became part of our playing around. It was very hot to fantasize like that about a person we both knew and she delighted in having me describe his private parts to her and get even hornier while we fucked. But nothing came of it.

But to keep that flame going, I started reading ads online to her about guys looking for wives and we'd talk about who was full of BS or who might be genuine and use it as a source of fantasy too, until I ran across the ad from the guy we wound up with and it seemed genuine and he was very skilled at gaining our confidence and very clear about what he was looking for. I don't think I ever expected to even meet the guy in person, to be honest, but he gently got me to meet with him in person and it carried on from there. So I guess in some fashion he seduced us both.

Going from fantasy to reality is tricky at best, but so far it's been great. Scary though, if I'm honest.

[slenderfish]

Sounds like the two of you are off to a good start. Reality is always different from fantasy, but sometimes in good ways! Keep the communication open, and take it as slow as you are able. Time and communication will allow your minds to adjust to your reality.

As for the genie and its bottle, only time will tell. Just enjoy the journey, build experiences that add to the story of your lives and relationship.

[FNQLivin]

What’s the scary part, for you?

[thinman]

It may be really good that he is not often available - keeps the excitement going over the longer term.

Also, it sounds great that she is relaxing into communicating with you about it. How has the sex been between the two of you after these two encounters?

Looking forward to hearing about the next one!

[David52]

No Strings, Have you seen the Doctor again? It seemed a good match for you.

[Wantsomefunto]

Love your progression! Hope she sees him again soon or you can get her to try another guy

[nostringsorworries]

We've seen him a couple of times now. I wouldn't call it routine, but a little more relaxed maybe? He prefers we come to his place so he can orchestrate things. It's not just sex. Usually we have dinner and sometimes watch Netflix or something, which he picks the movie. Frequently it's something that's kind of a turn on, but nothing hard core. He's great at reading her and that wouldn't do anything for her I don't think. Last time we watched that Nicole Kidman movie Baby Girl that's all about the dom/sub stuff. It was kind of thrilling to watch that knowing what was coming later. But he threw me a curve later when he insisted that this time I be an "observer". He said that's a big turn on for him to have somebody's wife in front of them. Up until then I'd could kind of watch them thru sliding glass doors from the patio. And then he kind of smiled and said "get undressed" and I realized he meant me. They were both still dressed and sitting together on the couch. I realized he was quoting the film and just laughed it off sort of and said, no, thanks. He then gave me a look and directly quoted the movie and said "but you will". She was kind of grinning at me wondering if I would. He said he meant it, so I did. I stripped down to my underwear and he said, "those too". And I was too self-conscious so he just looked at my wife and motioned for her to, so she got up and pulled shorts down to my ankles. It was bizarre, very exciting in a weird way, but totally intimidating. I had no erection, just the opposite being the only one undressed. Like a scared turtle. He then told her the same thing more or less and she quickly stripped down so we both were standing there naked in front of him. He just stared at us for a while and then got up and came over and put his arms around her and they kissed, tongues, and we were both naked and he was fully clothed. I was standing there dumbstruck I guess, I don't know. Then he had her kneel down in front of him basically following the movie scene and she unzipped him and well, whatever. You can guess the rest. It solved my turtle issue and when they went into the bedroom he told me to come too and he had a chair in the corner for me to sit and watch it.

[Wantsomefunto]

Awesome, I think he has a lot more sub things in mind for you two. Are you willing to do what he says?

[allways]

As you have been on here reading about cuckolding and the various paths that it might lead your sweet innocent wife.

Would enjoying a cream pie after her lover has made a couple of deposits interest you?

As your newby hot wife wasn't really into receiving oral sex from you prior to her lover tweaking that desire... Does the thought of her laying in his arms legs splayed kissing him with you licking their combined juices turn you on or is that too extreme?

My sense is that may be where your headed but I wouldn't be suggesting it to your wife let him lead her there.

[nostringsorworries]

That would be hot. I'm definitely the one to bring it up though. He's good about treating as a couple even though he has a commanding presence.

[Wantsomefunto]

Hopefully she can get back together with him soon to see how far he pushes you to be a cuck