Just watch out for NRE and if he starts to get ideas.ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Sun Apr 27, 2025 12:02 pmOh yeah, we’ve been married for 15 years in about 2 weeks and we’ve been together 20 years… we’re still in love, we still have a ‘normal’ life too, just this has grown and grown.
Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
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Good advice! And that sounds like a dream anniversary.
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Well, this is fascinating.
Think of how she must have finally decided to have the affair, and get fucked. Think of that moment this weekend when she called you. And bit the bullet and said that she wouldn’t be home till the morning. There it’s said.
She called you so she could judge your reaction better. Think of her hearing your agreement. No hysteria from you.
Her thought bubble: wow this is really going to happen.
10 years ago, after childbirth yes she accepted denial from you/ pussy free for you. But that’s not a great endorsement by a husband for his wife. But she didn’t want to break the marital bond. So her pussy was cock-free all that time? And she lets you have gay sex and become a gay bottom. Which explains why you dropped straight sex.. At least it assures her that you aren’t screwing other women. But she herself is getting nothing.
Now, with daughter older, she is ready for some action and the right guy turns up.
The sex with him will be explosive: like the first cigarette for a non-smoker, the first drink for the teetotaller. The NRE will be profound and unsettling for you.
Hold onto your seat. It will be rollercoaster ride.
Think of how she must have finally decided to have the affair, and get fucked. Think of that moment this weekend when she called you. And bit the bullet and said that she wouldn’t be home till the morning. There it’s said.
She called you so she could judge your reaction better. Think of her hearing your agreement. No hysteria from you.
Her thought bubble: wow this is really going to happen.
10 years ago, after childbirth yes she accepted denial from you/ pussy free for you. But that’s not a great endorsement by a husband for his wife. But she didn’t want to break the marital bond. So her pussy was cock-free all that time? And she lets you have gay sex and become a gay bottom. Which explains why you dropped straight sex.. At least it assures her that you aren’t screwing other women. But she herself is getting nothing.
Now, with daughter older, she is ready for some action and the right guy turns up.
The sex with him will be explosive: like the first cigarette for a non-smoker, the first drink for the teetotaller. The NRE will be profound and unsettling for you.
Hold onto your seat. It will be rollercoaster ride.
Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Congratulation, and respect for remaining faithful while waiting anxiously all those years
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Thanks guys, much appreciated!
Wannabe - yeah, it’s been a weird one for sure. It was certainly hard to get across my reasons and wants for it all without seeming like I’d lost interest in her or that I was just fascinated by the idea of ‘serving’ men instead. She knows that I would never cheat on her and that if she’d have turned around at any point and just said ‘no, this isn’t happening, come upstairs and fuck me senseless’ (or words to that effect!) I’d have done it. A part of the reason it came to be anyway is that after having our child, she just wasn’t in a position for a long time to have or enjoy sex and I was never ever pushy and would have understood why she wouldn’t want to have a physical relationship, but by doing the denial stuff, it made for a nice, kinky bit of our lives that kept things intimate without her having to be worried about thinking she was pushing me away or that if she still felt it was too early, she’d not be the one always pushing things back and having that on her shoulders.
Ultimately my relationship with her non-sexually is still more important to me than any of this stuff, but I knew that things were at least ok enough with us both doing the role-playing / denial and CBT (which, funnily enough was the happiest she’s ever been in our sexual relationship - she started out worried about hurting me and not keen and within a month she’d be specifically initiating a ‘session’ with me and she got harder and harder and she was so happy doing it - she’d literally be beaming, smile from ear to ear from start to finish
- and I loved the pain aspect of it all equally) and that we were both comfortable enough that, while slow to happen, everything that we have done has had plenty of time for her to feel happy and that things weren’t out of control.
She’s always been happy to use her toys during this time too, so it’s not like she was unfulfilled - and I made one of those dildos for her that is cast on your own cock, which we both loved too because it was like her still getting to enjoy ‘me’ and I was getting nothing out of it except for the mental aspect of it all, which I loved too.
Anyway, at the risk of this post never ending, it does all feel like even though it was a long time, there’s less regret or upset so far and that includes all aspects of it, not just her now getting fucked, but me being allowed to submit to men, the no-nudity, all of it - nothing has been rushed and again, if either of us had had something we were particularly uncomfortable with, we’d have dropped it or worked around it, just the same as now - none of this is beyond dropping or including more or whatever and that’s obviously key as well.
So yeah, I remain hyped as all hell, I can’t wait to see what comes up next, but the more I have sat and analysed this past couple of weeks, I do think that the buildup, certainly for our relationship was slow and steady but hopefully pretty much perfect in getting her mentally prepped and me happy to explore new aspects of our sexlife, too.
Wannabe - yeah, it’s been a weird one for sure. It was certainly hard to get across my reasons and wants for it all without seeming like I’d lost interest in her or that I was just fascinated by the idea of ‘serving’ men instead. She knows that I would never cheat on her and that if she’d have turned around at any point and just said ‘no, this isn’t happening, come upstairs and fuck me senseless’ (or words to that effect!) I’d have done it. A part of the reason it came to be anyway is that after having our child, she just wasn’t in a position for a long time to have or enjoy sex and I was never ever pushy and would have understood why she wouldn’t want to have a physical relationship, but by doing the denial stuff, it made for a nice, kinky bit of our lives that kept things intimate without her having to be worried about thinking she was pushing me away or that if she still felt it was too early, she’d not be the one always pushing things back and having that on her shoulders.
Ultimately my relationship with her non-sexually is still more important to me than any of this stuff, but I knew that things were at least ok enough with us both doing the role-playing / denial and CBT (which, funnily enough was the happiest she’s ever been in our sexual relationship - she started out worried about hurting me and not keen and within a month she’d be specifically initiating a ‘session’ with me and she got harder and harder and she was so happy doing it - she’d literally be beaming, smile from ear to ear from start to finish
- and I loved the pain aspect of it all equally) and that we were both comfortable enough that, while slow to happen, everything that we have done has had plenty of time for her to feel happy and that things weren’t out of control.She’s always been happy to use her toys during this time too, so it’s not like she was unfulfilled - and I made one of those dildos for her that is cast on your own cock, which we both loved too because it was like her still getting to enjoy ‘me’ and I was getting nothing out of it except for the mental aspect of it all, which I loved too.
Anyway, at the risk of this post never ending, it does all feel like even though it was a long time, there’s less regret or upset so far and that includes all aspects of it, not just her now getting fucked, but me being allowed to submit to men, the no-nudity, all of it - nothing has been rushed and again, if either of us had had something we were particularly uncomfortable with, we’d have dropped it or worked around it, just the same as now - none of this is beyond dropping or including more or whatever and that’s obviously key as well.
So yeah, I remain hyped as all hell, I can’t wait to see what comes up next, but the more I have sat and analysed this past couple of weeks, I do think that the buildup, certainly for our relationship was slow and steady but hopefully pretty much perfect in getting her mentally prepped and me happy to explore new aspects of our sexlife, too.
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Love this and it sounds like you are both handling it well. Enjoy the ride!
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Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Hopefully we have found a bull straight off and in the future I may get to try him myself. That is the dream anyway.
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Thanks for this - but I’d like to say that I’d sleep with her either everyday, all day until the end of time. It’s just something that I’ve certainly grown into and she’s now coming round too.wannabecUKold wrote: ↑Sun Apr 27, 2025 11:02 pmWell, this is fascinating.
Think of how she must have finally decided to have the affair, and get fucked. Think of that moment this weekend when she called you. And bit the bullet and said that she wouldn’t be home till the morning. There it’s said.
She called you so she could judge your reaction better. Think of her hearing your agreement. No hysteria from you.
Her thought bubble: wow this is really going to happen.
10 years ago, after childbirth yes she accepted denial from you/ pussy free for you. But that’s not a great endorsement by a husband for his wife. But she didn’t want to break the marital bond. So her pussy was cock-free all that time? And she lets you have gay sex and become a gay bottom. Which explains why you dropped straight sex.. At least it assures her that you aren’t screwing other women. But she herself is getting nothing.
Now, with daughter older, she is ready for some action and the right guy turns up.
The sex with him will be explosive: like the first cigarette for a non-smoker, the first drink for the teetotaller. The NRE will be profound and unsettling for you.
Hold onto your seat. It will be rollercoaster ride.
I’ve always been upfront on me getting fucked by guys and she has no problem with it. I wouldn’t cheat on her anyway but like you say, it she knows I’m nowhere near other women - nor would I be.
My long term goal is to be caged ‘permanently’ (but will still allow me to clean it. We’d discussed it happening for my 40th birthday in June so hopefully now that she’s moved forward, she can happily cage me too.
Given that my plan is only to see her or her partner happy and having great sex, my penis isn’t going to need it - so staying caged and therefore really horny constantly and just serving them would he just beyond a dream for me.
I’ve held onto it for nearly 11 years, but I hope things starting coming thick and fast from now on.
Thanks for the reply
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SORRY, MY MISTAKE!!!
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Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
How do you know you weren't a cuck before you were officially conferred with cuck status?
All women have secrets.
All women have secrets.
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Yeah, I can't really - but that's fucking hot, thanks :-)
All I could say otherwise is that my wife's journey into this has been backed by me for anything she wants all these years. I love the thought of being a cuck - I absolutely love it, but I do also trust my wife because she's had a free pass for over a decade.
All I could say otherwise is that my wife's journey into this has been backed by me for anything she wants all these years. I love the thought of being a cuck - I absolutely love it, but I do also trust my wife because she's had a free pass for over a decade.
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Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Wow living a cuck live prior without the cucking part. I'm guessing that you didn't see her nude during toy time either? You don't want any clean up or reclaim time? Please tell us about what happened after she came home. You didn't spill any details.
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Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Hi MJ - I see all of the 'living like a cuck' as what has finally managed to push my wife into the lifestyle. Yeah, it was hardcore grind work, but worth it for me. Clean up I am happy to do, reclaim goes against being PF, so out for me.
We usually use one of the travel masks (ours was from a Virgin flight we found YEARS ago :-) so I'm not able to see when she does want it, but again, all this is subject to change as we go along and determine what is best for us.
As for lack of details, I really don't have much to share. He fucked her bare and dumped his load in her pussy, they showered together after (which I've NEVER done with my wife - and he did on their first date :-( so fucking hot though.
She's said that he's definitely girthier than me and that felt great, but I was probably slightly longer (I'm just under 8").
I AM expecting more info from the session they have planned this Friday coming. I've told her that it's fine to be unsure and overwhelmed at first, but if she's decided that now is the time and that she already has the second round lined up, I want to hear much, much more. The second I get updates (well, ASAP, I'm out of town for the Friday night until Saturday evening, but I'm hoping to return earlier because I'll be so fucking horny by then!
I can't wait to hear them myself, but we've just gone past the first hookup, this next one will likely decide if he's right for her and then ultimately, from my perspective, exactly what the two of them got up to.
Will update when I can!
We usually use one of the travel masks (ours was from a Virgin flight we found YEARS ago :-) so I'm not able to see when she does want it, but again, all this is subject to change as we go along and determine what is best for us.
As for lack of details, I really don't have much to share. He fucked her bare and dumped his load in her pussy, they showered together after (which I've NEVER done with my wife - and he did on their first date :-( so fucking hot though.
She's said that he's definitely girthier than me and that felt great, but I was probably slightly longer (I'm just under 8").
I AM expecting more info from the session they have planned this Friday coming. I've told her that it's fine to be unsure and overwhelmed at first, but if she's decided that now is the time and that she already has the second round lined up, I want to hear much, much more. The second I get updates (well, ASAP, I'm out of town for the Friday night until Saturday evening, but I'm hoping to return earlier because I'll be so fucking horny by then!
I can't wait to hear them myself, but we've just gone past the first hookup, this next one will likely decide if he's right for her and then ultimately, from my perspective, exactly what the two of them got up to.
Will update when I can!
Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Dear Oh(tobe)cucked
I just discovered this thread, thanks for sharing
First congratulations.
Both to you and especially to Your Wonderful Superior Wife and Her new lover.
I wish all the best for all of you.
I hope you have already bought flowers for your Wife and written a nice card explaining how happy you are for Her and how much deeper your love is now that She has finally found something who can give Her the sex She deserves and you are incapable of.
I am pleased to see that your focus now seems to be on fully supporting Her to ensure the transition to Her new status as not just the Dominant partner in the Marriage, but now moving into a dominant Cuckoldress fully controlling both Her own and your love life will enable Her to live Her life to the full.
SIncerely
elina
(submissive male who are still longing for my Wife to do to me what your Wife did to you)
I just discovered this thread, thanks for sharing
First congratulations.
Both to you and especially to Your Wonderful Superior Wife and Her new lover.
I wish all the best for all of you.
I hope you have already bought flowers for your Wife and written a nice card explaining how happy you are for Her and how much deeper your love is now that She has finally found something who can give Her the sex She deserves and you are incapable of.
I am pleased to see that your focus now seems to be on fully supporting Her to ensure the transition to Her new status as not just the Dominant partner in the Marriage, but now moving into a dominant Cuckoldress fully controlling both Her own and your love life will enable Her to live Her life to the full.
SIncerely
elina
(submissive male who are still longing for my Wife to do to me what your Wife did to you)
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Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Elina - thank you for the very kind words. With our 15th wedding anniversary coming up next week, I’ve been spoiling her anyway - as well as dropping LOTS of hints over whose bed she should be on the day itself! If she ends up there all night and I’m home alone, I genuinely don’t think (even though early days) that many things will top that.
And yeah, she’s been the domme in our marriage for a long time (although I did the instigating on the cuckold side) so I’m 100% on board and happy to help her go even further than this.
Next up for me is to start finding a chastity cage that is comfortable long term. I have two or three but they just won’t cut it for longterm use.
Anyway, I will keep everyone updated. Thanks again for the congrats. Love this community!
And yeah, she’s been the domme in our marriage for a long time (although I did the instigating on the cuckold side) so I’m 100% on board and happy to help her go even further than this.
Next up for me is to start finding a chastity cage that is comfortable long term. I have two or three but they just won’t cut it for longterm use.
Anyway, I will keep everyone updated. Thanks again for the congrats. Love this community!
Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Dear Oh(tobe)cucked
Since you are in the process of checking for cages;
I suggest you include the Jailbird from maturemetal.com
These are custom made devices and are therefore more expensive, but assuming you get the measurements right, they seem to be the cage of choice for a lot of cucks on this site that are locked up for longer durations due to cleanliness, security and longterm wear comfort.
I strongly advice adding the option of the special-screw locking as an alternative to a padlock.
It reduces the weight (the steel device is heavy to start with), makes the device less visible through clothing, and eliminating the sometime irritating noice of the padlock banging agains the cage when moving.
Sincerely
elina
Since you are in the process of checking for cages;
I suggest you include the Jailbird from maturemetal.com
These are custom made devices and are therefore more expensive, but assuming you get the measurements right, they seem to be the cage of choice for a lot of cucks on this site that are locked up for longer durations due to cleanliness, security and longterm wear comfort.
I strongly advice adding the option of the special-screw locking as an alternative to a padlock.
It reduces the weight (the steel device is heavy to start with), makes the device less visible through clothing, and eliminating the sometime irritating noice of the padlock banging agains the cage when moving.
Sincerely
elina
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Ah, thanks! I will investigate now. Being locked longterm is my 40th birthday gift from my wife, so I want to do it right and not be having to change it constantly because of the weight or comfort, etc.
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Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Showering together is very intimate. Sounds like there is more to this than she's letting on. I assume that wasn't the first time they've met? Or, perhaps she just needed to be fucked so badly that she gave herself over to him fully. Looks like you may get all dreams to come true! Looking forward to hearing the details of this Friday's encounter.ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Wed Apr 30, 2025 1:00 pmHi MJ - I see all of the 'living like a cuck' as what has finally managed to push my wife into the lifestyle. Yeah, it was hardcore grind work, but worth it for me. Clean up I am happy to do, reclaim goes against being PF, so out for me.
We usually use one of the travel masks (ours was from a Virgin flight we found YEARS ago :-) so I'm not able to see when she does want it, but again, all this is subject to change as we go along and determine what is best for us.
As for lack of details, I really don't have much to share. He fucked her bare and dumped his load in her pussy, they showered together after (which I've NEVER done with my wife - and he did on their first date :-( so fucking hot though.
She's said that he's definitely girthier than me and that felt great, but I was probably slightly longer (I'm just under 8").
I AM expecting more info from the session they have planned this Friday coming. I've told her that it's fine to be unsure and overwhelmed at first, but if she's decided that now is the time and that she already has the second round lined up, I want to hear much, much more. The second I get updates (well, ASAP, I'm out of town for the Friday night until Saturday evening, but I'm hoping to return earlier because I'll be so fucking horny by then!
I can't wait to hear them myself, but we've just gone past the first hookup, this next one will likely decide if he's right for her and then ultimately, from my perspective, exactly what the two of them got up to.
Will update when I can!
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No, they work together, so there’s a bit of familiarity for sure. They’d both worked all day, gone out for drinks and had sex - I guess it naturally fell into place afterwards.
Does make me think he could be a keeper, though. Finding ‘the one’ on the first try would be amazing. Definitely agree that I’m now going to be the cuck I’ve always wanted to be. I am beyond excited for Friday!!
I was hinting that I’d love to come home and hear the fucking upstairs. I wouldn’t look (not allowed!) but third moans and knowing they’re in our bed - heaven!
I know I’ll never see her pussy again, never mind being inside. The fact that he has and more times than me in a week than I have in nearly 11 years.
Does it get any hotter than that!!
Does make me think he could be a keeper, though. Finding ‘the one’ on the first try would be amazing. Definitely agree that I’m now going to be the cuck I’ve always wanted to be. I am beyond excited for Friday!!
I was hinting that I’d love to come home and hear the fucking upstairs. I wouldn’t look (not allowed!) but third moans and knowing they’re in our bed - heaven!
I know I’ll never see her pussy again, never mind being inside. The fact that he has and more times than me in a week than I have in nearly 11 years.
Does it get any hotter than that!!
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Just asked my wife if I could have even a sneak side view at her breasts as she was getting changed - without missing a beat she said ‘no way, these aren’t yours anymore’.
I’m just about to burst everywhere, the sexual tension, the denial, humiliation - I love her and all those things we’ve gone through and connecting over makes me feel like the luckiest man alive.
I’m just about to burst everywhere, the sexual tension, the denial, humiliation - I love her and all those things we’ve gone through and connecting over makes me feel like the luckiest man alive.
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Cuck2929, thank you so much. Hearing congrats from fellow cucks make it all worthwhile. I'll never NOT be a cuck from now on, just seeing that 'congrats' - I know I've finally got there. So happy!
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It’s looking like ‘round 2’ will now be in my house, in our bed when I’m away (work commitments, leaving shortly…).
Grandparent asked to look after my daughter, so the house is empty…
Holy fuck! I hope to god they’re still at it when I get home, but even the smell of their fucking in the air would probably make me explode.
This is more than I ever could have hoped for. Updates if and when…
Thought I’d ask her what she was looking forward to most about tonight - she said her first taste of cum in 10 years and then walked out to head to work…
I love this woman!!
Grandparent asked to look after my daughter, so the house is empty…
Holy fuck! I hope to god they’re still at it when I get home, but even the smell of their fucking in the air would probably make me explode.
This is more than I ever could have hoped for. Updates if and when…
Thought I’d ask her what she was looking forward to most about tonight - she said her first taste of cum in 10 years and then walked out to head to work…
I love this woman!!
Re: Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!
Thanks for sharing,
Remember to be super focused on Your Cuckoldress when you get home,
Focus on Her needs and emotions, submit and clean up and serve Her (or them if Her lover is still there)
Really looking forward to your next post...
Sincerely
elina
Remember to be super focused on Your Cuckoldress when you get home,
Focus on Her needs and emotions, submit and clean up and serve Her (or them if Her lover is still there)
Really looking forward to your next post...
Sincerely
elina
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Thanks Elina - great advice. I really don’t feel like I have much to be down about at the moment, but the fact he’ll be gone when I return, because my daughter will be dropped back off in the morning and that’d make things a bit awkward 
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If things go well for them tonight, I’ll set something up so that we (or at least I) will go for a drink or something and get to know each other and go through boundaries that everyone feels comfortable with.
I don’t want to take the fun out of things or the spontaneity, but as we do have a daughter, who will be hitting 10 in the next month, she’s far too savvy to just ignore the situation and think nothing of him being there and in our bedroom.
So we’ll sort that soon - but being so soon / early in how things are going (and bearing in mind that my wife and I met when we were 17, we’ve been together sexually for over half our lives and neither of us have cheated on the other, so I just want her to enjoy feeling these things fresh and I’ll get involved more probably in the coming weeks (if I’m allowed!!!!).
But yeah, they finish work in 26 minutes (not that I’ve been clock-watching
and then it’s out for a drink or two then to my place.
Emotionally I am all over the place but the absolute front runner is excited! Been such a long time and from getting over telling her to begin with and making sure she understood my reasons and that it wasn’t a case of me not loving or no longet finding her attractive (absolutely NOT the case, either of them. I fancy her as much now as I did the day I met her, and after a terrible experience during child birth that she had absolutely no pressure to even consider any sex or sexual stuff with me - and this is was a way that turned me on and could run and run).
Anyway, more as I get it!
. If things go well for them tonight, I’ll set something up so that we (or at least I) will go for a drink or something and get to know each other and go through boundaries that everyone feels comfortable with.
I don’t want to take the fun out of things or the spontaneity, but as we do have a daughter, who will be hitting 10 in the next month, she’s far too savvy to just ignore the situation and think nothing of him being there and in our bedroom.
So we’ll sort that soon - but being so soon / early in how things are going (and bearing in mind that my wife and I met when we were 17, we’ve been together sexually for over half our lives and neither of us have cheated on the other, so I just want her to enjoy feeling these things fresh and I’ll get involved more probably in the coming weeks (if I’m allowed!!!!).
But yeah, they finish work in 26 minutes (not that I’ve been clock-watching
and then it’s out for a drink or two then to my place. Emotionally I am all over the place but the absolute front runner is excited! Been such a long time and from getting over telling her to begin with and making sure she understood my reasons and that it wasn’t a case of me not loving or no longet finding her attractive (absolutely NOT the case, either of them. I fancy her as much now as I did the day I met her, and after a terrible experience during child birth that she had absolutely no pressure to even consider any sex or sexual stuff with me - and this is was a way that turned me on and could run and run).
Anyway, more as I get it!