My girlfriend and her interest in other men

[Tolliver]

So we're going out with another one of Mark's friend's tonight. This one is also a student. Rie told me this morning Mark may be pushing for a threesome with her and his friend. When I asked about Tony from last week, she told me yes she really liked him but she never got his number and Mark won't give it to her, so that might make things difficult to make contact with him again. Maybe we can try looking him up on the school directory or something.

Last night Big Mark had me record himself with Rie in the bedroom. He's started kissing her very sexually a few weeks ago and I realized it's been bothering me because of how intimate it is. I haven't had sex with her since Mark moved in although she has given me a few handjobs and blowjob/handjob combos on the down low, one time even letting me cum in her mouth. Anyway I took a bunch of shorter vids on his instruction but I have to say he has amazing stamina. He must have switched positions with her 10 times between fucking and sucking positions, finally cumming in her in a Doggystyle position. When he fucked her missionary and she opened her legs, wrapped around him, and he was thrusting her hard and deep, but also could tell she was very tight for him, I was a little jealous but also impressed with his abilities. I was turned on but also trying my best not to screw up the recording.

As usual, when he finally got up to go to shower, I was very careful not to make eye contact with him, feeling very embarrassed that I'm sitting there filming another guy have my fiance so fully and erotically.

[Jeremie11231]

With all those different positions going on, I'm curious if you are aware of her doing any specific things for him that she's never done for you. Like anal, or licking his ass. You mentioned early on that she had never licked your balls or swallowed your cum before and it made you jealous to find out she was doing that for him.

[Jeremie11231]

Also - when you say "Big Mark had me record", I'm curious if it seems like that was his idea and whether he was the one directing you -- when to record, from where in the room, how close, etc. And even when not recording, is it him telling you what to do or when it's time for you to leave? or Rie? or both?

[Tolliver]

She has licked my balls briefly although she will sit there sucking and licking on Big Mark's balls almost on a daily basis. He has a running joke that she has swallowed at least a gallon of his cum. Not sure if this is technically true but feels like it.

As far as anal she doesn't normally go for it but she told me a few months ago he wanted to cum in her ass and she let him because that made him feel like she was his.

[Tolliver]

Sorry, didn't see the second question. I have recorded them using Rie's phone at times, because I think that gets her hot and I know she also trades notes with her coworker Renee at times (also a cuckoldress). She's even requested shorter vids for this purpose. But also a few times Mark has given me his phone to record them, like last week. I stayed the whole time, starting multiple short vids while they did their thing.

Another time he handed me his phone and told me to record. She was on her hands and knees sucking him on the bed. After a minute he told me that was good and I could close the door on the way out. Which I did.

At other times he has openly told me her sexual assets are for him and anyone else he says, and that I'm not on the list. It was a bit much tbh, but she has still fooled around with me over the last few months, at least with blowjobs and handjobs.

[Jeremie11231]

Thanks for elaborating on that!
So intense.

It's really remarkable how incredibly much she has got you to accept, looking back to the beginning when you balked at her making out with a guy at a concert. And even after she started having actual sex with Big Mark, a mutual friend and neighbor, you were not okay with her spending the whole night with him. And when she brought up the possibility of taking him into the bedroom in your apartment, you were not okay with that, either. But she kept pushing a little bit more amd a little bit more, and now she spends every night with him, in your bedroom while you sleep on the couch and you get occasional handjobs for being good. That is so hot.

Since you have been so restricted from sex, I wonder if the topic of locking you in a chastity device has come up?
I'm guessing you would not agree to that, but I wonder if Renee does that with her husband and might be encouraging Rie to get you there.
Since it's now out in the open how much of an influence Renee is, I wonder if Renee was coaching her all the way back when those concert incidents happened on how to get you into the position you're in now.

[Tolliver]

Yes, the fantasy of her with another guy became very foreign to me once she started doing it in front of me. Luckily I adjusted rather quickly imo.

She hasn't mentioned chastity and I don't think that's for me. She did put a pair of her panties into my underwear drawer a month or so ago, and then another pair a few weeks after that. The first was white and green striped cotton and the second a lacey black pair, and she now refers to all my underwear in general as "panties". Maybe Renee coached her on that. I doubt she was telling her to make out with other guys in front of me at concerts when we first met though.

[Jeremie11231]

Oh wow - have put them on? (her panties)
Seems like leaving them in there is her way of planting the seed in your mind to prepare for the day she tells you she wants to see you in them. Or to gauge your reaction -- like with the concert incidents, anything less than total outrage or otherwise really negative reaction means you're workable. I wouldn't be surprised if Renee helps her see things in that way.

[Tolliver]

The panties aren't really my thing. I doubt I'll be going further with it. Guess I'm more of a voyeur than some of the more hardcore folks in the kink.

Also, Big Mark leaves in 5 days. Can't wait.

[Jeremie11231]

I hope the final couple of days go smoothly for you. And hope you post an update about how it went down with the moving and all those details. And then a whole new chapter of the journey awaits once he's not living there anymore.

[Tolliver]

Here here. Tonight is his last night. They are going to spend the night in his apartment next door. He's being hush hush about it but she has told me he has another guy from school and they're going to have a threesome. I am not invited and will not meet the guy. According to her he has been told I'm out of town and this is all on the down low. I might try to listen through the noise cancelling walls and see if I can hear anything.

Tomorrow I will get up and wait until the movers leave to take his big stuff to storage, then I will be moving small things to his car or the dumpster, and then I will be cleaning his apartment to the standards given by the apartment complex while he spends time with Rie in my apartment.

[Tolliver]

Last night I had some time with Rie alone. After a few drinks we started talking about what would happen after Mark left. She hinted that he would definitely be wanting to get back with her in the fall when he returns. I told her I hope she has someone else by then. She didn't commit to anything but smiled and said she probably would.

I asked her if she thought if we'd ever be monogamous with her being faithful. I was actually turned on and asking leading questions but not sure if she knew it. Her exact words, said in earnest, were "I'm sure you've seen how big Mark is. I'm going to need a guy who is hung and knows what he's doing".

Then I asked if she's ever cheated on me. She laughed and said no, she's been too busy getting busy in front of me to have any time to cheat. So I asked if she would ever cheat without me knowing. She just smirked and said it's possible. Then went on to explain she has cheated in relationships before, had a good time but always felt bad afterwards. Then continued to say if she does wander she'll always come back to me. I thought it was hot but a little worried she might go completely on her own without my knowledge, which is not really hot for me if I know nothing about it. So I told her I had a fantasy where we're at a bar and she sneaks off with a guy to suck him off then comes back. Just to kind of make my point I'd like to be involved in some way, and she said "oh yeah. that's something we could get into", with a good amount of enthusiasm.

Then I told her I was getting hot and would she like to fool around. I ended up getting a good handjob and cumming on her very capable fingers.

[TomG]

Hey Tolliver, I just found this thread a couple of days ago and have enjoyed reading through it in its entirety. I think you have the girlfriend many if not most of us would love to have. Good luck going forward, and I really hope Rie is able to find someone to make her lose all interest in Big Mark. Looking forward to more of your posts!

[Jeremie11231]

Definitely want to hear what happened over the weekend.
That's amazing she basically told you her stance is that even though she's committed to you, your cock isn't big enough for her ever to agree to give up what she gets from a guy like Big Mark. I would be so curious to here what she (or both of them) says about that in their private dirty talk while having sex.
Also I'm curious if Big Mark has ever seen you naked or seen your cock.

[Tolliver]

Thanks Tom. I hope she does too. I know she enjoys sex with him quite a bit but he is way too overbearing in other respects.

Saturday night Rie stayed with Big Mark. They went out to dinner with Mark's friend Alan, who was underage for drinking and apparently pretty young in general. She guestimated 18. I saw them return around 9, as I was sitting at the computer with the blinds open enough to see the parking lot below. The three of them walked up and into Mark's apt. I will confess I went over to the peep hole to spy as they walked by. They all seemed to be in a good mood.

According to Rie later, they had threesome sex twice. Once after returning, and then again a few hours later. I asked her twice for pictures of the affair but she said they didn't take any. She told me they were on the bed both times. Mark behind her doing her doggystyle and Alan sitting at the headboard with Rie sucking him. When they were both done cumming in her, she took a shower, and they went at it again a bit later, this time Alan fucking her and Mark getting sucked. Alan wore a condom this time, obviously Mark did not. She said she had a good time but dealing with two personalities instead of one was a bit more than she was used to and might not be doing that again.

Sunday went well. Mark was gone before dinner and I was relieved to see him go. Rie hasn't done anything sexual since then. Most normal time I've had with her like a regular couple in a long time. It was refreshing. We are going to hit a nearby bar at some point this week to see if any guys hit in her, but we haven't decided what night yet.

[TomG]

We are going to hit a nearby bar at some point this week to see if any guys hit in her, but we haven't decided what night yet.

I'm looking forward to hearing how that goes. I'm sure many others are, too.

[Rogueuser1]

Glad you guys have some time to reconnect - it seemed like things were getting a bit tough for you. Glad she enjoyed the threesome too even if it was a bit difficult to manage. Hopefully you two have a nice time together the next few weeks.

[Tolliver]

Well we went to a bar last night. Rie actually got to talking to 2 guys sitting next to us who were watching sports. The conversation was lively and I was wondering if it might go somewhere but in the end it seemed like they knew the bartenders and so probably didn't want to start picking up another man's girl being known there. We left around 10 and she confessed in the car that she was in the mood to make a new friend. So we went to 2 more bars nearby, and neither one went anywhere. I might need to research bars in other areas that more easily lend themselves to this sort of thing.

Today we went to a park, her in a short and flirty black dress. Nothing happened. We got home and went down to the apt clubhouse and even checked the pool, nothing there. So she decided to go to the grocery store solo a short while ago. Will see if she made any new friends when she gets back.

[ucaneffher]

Many of us wannabe cucks here are extremely jealous of you and wishing that our women were as on board and proactive in wanting to make new friends. As your thread title says it, your girlfriend and her interest in other men, that's the part that most wannabes like myself wish that their woman would have -interest in other men!

An observation that I've made is that for us cuckold men, for some reason I feel that we gain some weird sense of fulfillment when we reach a point where our women want and need to constantly make male friends. My ex made guy friends everywhere and it just felt right as a cuckold. It sounds like Rie is at that point where she is building up her friend group. It's probably better to have a bunch of fuck buddies over a boyfriend, based on what you've shared with us, anyhow.

[edgedndenied]

Have you and Rie had any sex including PIV since Mark left?

[Tolliver]

We have but with her being exclusive with a younger more assertive guy twice my size for months, it's a little intimidating trying to please her. I apologized to her last night after trying and she just gave a frustrating sigh and said "it's okay, I just need to go out and get laid this weekend." I asked her if I could help find her someone and she said not really, it will probably just happen on its own. They way she said it I think she really wants me not to be involved in her finding a boyfriend. It was a little depressing at the time but I'm now over it, realizing this is the relationship we have, it has been a lot of fun before and it's how things will be again, hopefully even better moving forward.

[Long Lurker 34]

We have but with her being exclusive with a younger more assertive guy twice my size for months, it's a little intimidating trying to please her. I apologized to her last night after trying and she just gave a frustrating sigh and said "it's okay, I just need to go out and get laid this weekend." I asked her if I could help find her someone and she said not really, it will probably just happen on its own. They way she said it I think she really wants me not to be involved in her finding a boyfriend. It was a little depressing at the time but I'm now over it, realizing this is the relationship we have, it has been a lot of fun before and it's how things will be again, hopefully even better moving forward.

T
- Can we infer from this she will try to find a new BF "out in the wild" as opposed to on line?

[Tolliver]

Yes probably a safe assumption. I've never known her to spend too much time online, much less look for dates that way.

[Tolliver]

Update for the week, Rie has been changing some things up. She first started going to the grocery store about a few miles off the nearby university campus last Sunday, as opposed to the closer one which is at least 5-6 miles away from campus. Tuesday this week she invited me to come with, saying it would be an adventure. So I agreed to go. She dressed up in a tight denim skirt that dropped above her knees, and a white tank top that showed a lot of cleavage and decolletage with 2 skinny straps holding up her DD's. I jokingly told her she looked like she was trying to meet a guy. She answered by saying in earnest that her mother had told her in her late teens that when she wanted to meet a man she should show lots of tits, legs, and ass. I had a favorable response, in my mind envisioning Big Mark behind her, cupping her breasts and bending her over. I was ready to run down 3 flights up steps. get in the car and go. I was ready to see my sexy fiance flirt and maybe get fucked, maybe even in front of me.

So we got to the grocery store early afternoon, go to the produce area, she sees some younger college age guys, and she immediately shoos me away, which I of course oblige. I walked around for 5 minutes then circled back, curiously. Sneaking back around slow, seeing her and then retreating back into the aisle so I could hear but not be seen. She was talking to one of the guys, clearly flirting with him. He complimented her on her outfit and she didn't hesitate to respond "Well Don you guys work and study hard, I like to give you all something nice to look at", presumably with a big smile and dimples she often uses when she's looking to progress things, not infrequently when she's drinking although it wasn't the case that day. He then asks about what her fiance thinks of that and she answers by saying he knows she likes to have a little fun and that he (meaning me) is good with it. He gave her a funny quizzical look, which she asked about, and he said that arrangement just sounded a little unusual, that's all, and to my ear he was clearly more interested than offended by it. At that point I gathered myself and walked out of the aisle and over to her.

Before I reached her she waved me over. I was immediately aware that she was likely going to humiliate me or at least put on a show for Don intimating to him that she was in charge of the relationship. Which she did. "Oh there you are. I was wondering where you ran off to. I need you to get a few things for me. This is Don by the way". He and I said hello, shook hands (his lead) and she promptly gave me a list of things to get. Telling me I may want to make a list in my phone, which I did.  Her tone of voice was authoritative, which I was not used to in public, but I took it in stride, telling her I'd be back with the groceries she wanted.

Long story short they exchanged numbers, they have been texting a bit this week, and she tells me there is a chance she's going to see him tonight. Should know before too long if they will meet up.

[scarfolamew]

Rie is such a fucking legend