"Maybe one day", one day at a time.

[Pufferfish]

My posts can be a bit confusing at times, because our life is so backwards from most people. It's actually the graveyard shift that I desire to be on, and currently I'm working daytime banker's hours. And my work had been excited and yanking me about saying how they are going to train me and promote me and stick me on the graveyard shift I want, which currently I'm not trained to do yet. And they gave the promotion to someone else with more experience who didn't initially want it, but I guess he changed his mind. They're still talking about helping me get that spot, but we'll see how things develop. Right now, it's all just a lot of talk and no action. In the mean time, being on a completely different schedule than my wife is difficult. But we're trying to adapt as best we can.

Today I took the day off, as kind of a "F you" to my company for stringing me along so much lately and just needed a day to relax and de-stress a bit. And it was very nice. N came over yesterday and we had a wonderful routine hotwife night. I didn't mind staying up a bit late and got to sleep in a couple hours. Then they went from sleeping on the couch together back to the bedroom and snoozed a couple hours before having some morning sex before N left. And then I got to take my wife back to the bedroom and lick her again and re-claim her like I used to. It is definitely a happy and relaxing day. I'll go back to work tomorrow and then get a weekend to relax a bit more. Hopefully with a bit of a newer gameplan.

[CuriousHusband91941]

What a life. Sharing your wife is such a great routine.

[CuriousHusband91941]

What a life. Sharing your wife is such a great routine.

[Pufferfish]

Been a couple normal weeks of our new routine. My wife and N decided that they want to go camping together later this month. My wife sleeping over with another guy without me being there breaks a rule of ours, so I wasn't thrilled that she came to this conclusion without talking to me first... but I told her I was ok with it since it was N and trust that they'll be safe. But I also HATE camping, and have no desire to ever go again. So she's looking forward to that, they'll be staying 2 nights during my work week. Then she also took that weekend off, so she can spend that following weekend with me, so that'll be nice.

N and her also had a conversation about the rest of the summer. N decided that he's moving at the end of summer, but not sure where yet, either a town about an hour away or several states away. Either way, he decided that this summer will be the last they spend seeing each other. My wife took this news rather well, although I'm sure she'll be crying and stuff once the actual "break up" happens. But, she's been so grounded with keeping her feelings and expectations and all that in check so well that I'm really proud of her. I was always worried about her catching feelings for some guy and N has been in the picture for over 2 years now, but she's done really well. I know she still has feelings for him, but they are pretty reasonable and definitely different than what we share together.

Then I'm sure she'll try looking for a new guy, I just hope she finds a good one fairly quickly. But in the meantime, they'll continue enjoying the rest of the summer.

[parklife]

It’s those inbetween times that wind up being frustrating…. Really is difficult to find someone to fit any particular couples specific situation and wants/desires. It’s been amazing to follow these past couple years and hope her search is quick. My wife’s gaps have been 2-3 years though she’s never really ‘looking’, it either just happpens or it doesn’t.

Still plenty of summer to enjoy and people’s plans often change,.. heck, even an hour isn’t all that far away…. Maybe for weekly visits, but for a monthly get together it’s completely plausible,

Good luck on the multi-night thing… my wife has stayed overnight but just one evening at a time. She had plans to spent two nights at n Arizona with her last FWBs but plans changed and she never had the opportunity.

[sandy691196]

Puffer-
Have you ever thought of the oldie-goldie - bar scene?
Or vacation hotwifing?
Or other forms of organic pick ups?

This N thing- though nice otherwise- got to be more of a BF thing over 2 years.

All the nights spent spooning.. the post coital sweet nothings..
The dates.. now the camping..

When your wife gets to taste the thrill of the new hunt - all mushiness towards N will dissipate.

This forum has a rich collection of "how to" narratives where organic pick ups are converted..

[Pufferfish]

Puffer-
Have you ever thought of the oldie-goldie - bar scene?
Or vacation hotwifing?
Or other forms of organic pick ups?

Well of course I'm into whatever idea she has. But my wife is extremely shy and she hates being put "on the spot" so any encounter where she's randomly approached she shuts down rather than embraces it. I've tried many times to get her to have a hotwife adventure when on vacation, and she likes the idea, but in practice it's just too uncomfortable for her. One day hopefully she's more open to that meet a guy and fuck him idea, but for now that doesn't really work out.

She likes the internet dating thing. Gives her a few nights of talking/flirting etc to get somewhat comfortable with him first, then meets him at a bar and flirts, kisses, gropes, etc. But yes, I'm sure when she's back searching there will be quite a few exciting meet ups for her, but there will be far more disappointments if history has been any kind of teacher.

[sandy691196]

Puffer-
Have you ever thought of the oldie-goldie - bar scene?
Or vacation hotwifing?
Or other forms of organic pick ups?

Well of course I'm into whatever idea she has. But my wife is extremely shy and she hates being put "on the spot" so any encounter where she's randomly approached she shuts down rather than embraces it. I've tried many times to get her to have a hotwife adventure when on vacation, and she likes the idea, but in practice it's just too uncomfortable for her. One day hopefully she's more open to that meet a guy and fuck him idea, but for now that doesn't really work out.

She likes the internet dating thing. Gives her a few nights of talking/flirting etc to get somewhat comfortable with him first, then meets him at a bar and flirts, kisses, gropes, etc. But yes, I'm sure when she's back searching there will be quite a few exciting meet ups for her, but there will be far more disappointments if history has been any kind of teacher.

Internet dating can be frustrating and infuriating at worst.. But then random hook ups can be dangerous and full of uncertainties, if one cares to think of worst case scenarios..

All I am suggesting is that trying a new form of dating, approach and chase can break the N monopoly..

Ever though of any colleague or work place associate with whom a cheating game can be played.
The upside of that is "cheating", particularly if the other guy is married, can be controlled and regulated, as per her pace and convenience..

[sandy691196]

Puffer-
Have you ever thought of the oldie-goldie - bar scene?
Or vacation hotwifing?
Or other forms of organic pick ups?

Well of course I'm into whatever idea she has. But my wife is extremely shy and she hates being put "on the spot" so any encounter where she's randomly approached she shuts down rather than embraces it. I've tried many times to get her to have a hotwife adventure when on vacation, and she likes the idea, but in practice it's just too uncomfortable for her. One day hopefully she's more open to that meet a guy and fuck him idea, but for now that doesn't really work out.

She likes the internet dating thing. Gives her a few nights of talking/flirting etc to get somewhat comfortable with him first, then meets him at a bar and flirts, kisses, gropes, etc. But yes, I'm sure when she's back searching there will be quite a few exciting meet ups for her, but there will be far more disappointments if history has been any kind of teacher.

Internet dating can be frustrating and infuriating at worst.. But then random hook ups can be dangerous and full of uncertainties, if one cares to think of worst case scenarios..

All I am suggesting is that trying a new form of dating, approach and chase can break the N monopoly..

Ever though of any colleague or work place associate with whom a cheating game can be played?
The upside of that is "cheating", particularly if the other guy is married, can be controlled and regulated, as per her pace and convenience..

[ajgarcia69]

I always enjoy reading your updates- although I enjoy the picture updates more

[Pufferfish]

My wife and N had their camping trip. And they had fun, which is the main thing. There wasn't as much sex as I was expecting, but they did have sex, my wife got her "sex outside in semi-public" that she's been wanting from him for a while, and she was very happy they went. She bought a 2 person hammock to use on her trip, and ended up using it as a sex swing for her outside "semi-public" sex. And the rest of the time they just had sex in the tent a few times I guess.

That being said, I'm happy she's happy, but that's about it from my perspective. I expected that there probably wouldn't be any videos or pictures although she said she would try, and there were none. I expected that my wife would suck at the story-telling and details about what happened, and that was also as I expected. And I wasn't all too happy with my wife's communication with me throughout the whole adventure. Basically I heard from her that they were leaving, and a text that they were on their way back 2 days later, and that was pretty much it. I didn't expect constant updates, but I guess I did expect a "good morning" or some such thing now and again, and was vastly disappointed.

But they went, they had fun, and that's the main thing.

[Late]

For the life of me, I cannot visualize what having sex on a hammock would look like. My back started hurting just thinking about it. Maybe she will share with you, and you with us how that worked. Not that I think I want to try it. Just curious.

Thanks
Late

[GenerallySpeaking]

My wife and N had their camping trip. And they had fun, which is the main thing. There wasn't as much sex as I was expecting, but they did have sex, my wife got her "sex outside in semi-public" that she's been wanting from him for a while, and she was very happy they went. She bought a 2 person hammock to use on her trip, and ended up using it as a sex swing for her outside "semi-public" sex. And the rest of the time they just had sex in the tent a few times I guess.

That being said, I'm happy she's happy, but that's about it from my perspective. I expected that there probably wouldn't be any videos or pictures although she said she would try, and there were none. I expected that my wife would suck at the story-telling and details about what happened, and that was also as I expected. And I wasn't all too happy with my wife's communication with me throughout the whole adventure. Basically I heard from her that they were leaving, and a text that they were on their way back 2 days later, and that was pretty much it. I didn't expect constant updates, but I guess I did expect a "good morning" or some such thing now and again, and was vastly disappointed.

But they went, they had fun, and that's the main thing.

Are things going better now?

[Pufferfish]

Things are going good. They have been enjoying the weekly routine. They are also trying to enjoy the summer with hikes and stuff, my wife is planning on taking N ziplining at the end of the month, which she's looking forward to. She enjoyed that when we went to Hawaii, but I didn't like it, so she's going to take N here on one that's local.

So far it still seems like they're calling everything off at the end of summer, but in the meantime they are certainly enjoying each other. And so we'll just enjoy that and hopefully if that happens my wife will be eager to start searching for someone new.

As for me, I still really miss my reclaim sex on Thursdays... but everything has still been great besides that. I've been stressing out about trying to find a better job, and haven't made much progress on that front yet, but working on it. But, life is good. Just working towards making it better.

[JeffB72]

When my wife and her boyfriend of 3 years broke up, she was really hurting for a month or two. All you can do is be understanding and supportive. My wife never called him a boyfriend and would never say, but I think she was in love with him.

[Pufferfish]

A little bit of a shake up in the routine this week. The previous week N was busy and couldn't come over as he was spending time with his brothers who came to visit. During that visit, he got drunk with his brothers... a lot. And when he was drunk he texted my wife... a lot. But it was all good, he was just super horny. And he was telling my wife how badly he wished he could lick her pussy, which to date has been off the table for him as it was one of her rules that he's not allowed to do that. It's not something she particularly enjoys for whatever reasons, and she's very self conscious about how her pussy looks (thinks it's ugly, which of course it isn't) and worries about her taste, smell, etc. She would let me lick it only occasionally up until the point she became a hotwife and me licking her cum filled pussy became an every time thing. She enjoys me licking her cum filled pussy as she says that's when it feels best for her because she still feels good from being fucked, still "feels him" inside of her when I do, and she likes the dominance/submission of me licking her cum filled pussy.

But she doesn't "understand" why I or any guy would like to lick pussy as she thinks it's gross. And she thinks it smells or tastes bad because she hates when she sucks a guy's dick after it's been inside her. So, getting back to the N thing, he was saying how he really wanted to, and because he's been so great for so long, she agreed that he could this week. I groomed her up extra nice. He of course had concerns... he wanted to do it first thing before he cums inside of her. And of course, wanted to be sure she was clean of my cum as well. When he got here, my wife needed some liquid courage before she was willing to let him do that. So they drank several margaritas before she dragged him into the bedroom. He wanted her to sit right on his face, and they decided that 69 would be best. She gave my camera a pretty great view of her straddling his face while she sucked his cock. And he loved it of course. She hopes he doesn't want to keep doing that, but I said that it was nice that she let him finally.

They then had a normal night/morning of several more sex sessions and I of course got to lick her clean after he came inside her the first time. And everyone had a great time.

[FNQLivin]

Women are funny aren’t they? We just love all parts of them and they’re so concerned.

[CuriousHusband91941]

she's very self conscious about how her pussy looks (thinks it's ugly, which of course it isn't) and worries about her taste, smell, etc. She would let me lick it only occasionally

But she doesn't "understand" why I or any guy would like to lick pussy as she thinks it's gross. And she thinks it smells or tastes bad because she hates when she sucks a guy's dick after it's been inside her.

He wanted her to sit right on his face, and they decided that 69 would be best. She gave my camera a pretty great view of her straddling his face while she sucked his cock.

They then had a normal night/morning of several more sex sessions and I of course got to lick her clean after he came inside her the first time. And everyone had a great time.

These bits are super hot. My wife is the same regarding her own pussy and it is encouraging to hear that a woman that turned off by a part of her own body is willing to change overtime. I love eating pussy, so should my wife one day cuck me and let me lick her then, I would be down. LIterally.
Thanks for sharing.

[CuriousHusband91941]

she's very self conscious about how her pussy looks (thinks it's ugly, which of course it isn't) and worries about her taste, smell, etc. She would let me lick it only occasionally

But she doesn't "understand" why I or any guy would like to lick pussy as she thinks it's gross. And she thinks it smells or tastes bad because she hates when she sucks a guy's dick after it's been inside her.

He wanted her to sit right on his face, and they decided that 69 would be best. She gave my camera a pretty great view of her straddling his face while she sucked his cock.

They then had a normal night/morning of several more sex sessions and I of course got to lick her clean after he came inside her the first time. And everyone had a great time.

These bits are super hot. My wife is the same regarding her own pussy and it is encouraging to hear that a woman that turned off by a part of her own body is willing to change overtime. I love eating pussy, so should my wife one day cuck me and let me lick her then, I would be down. LIterally.
Thanks for sharing.

[Pufferfish]

This week started off as fairly routine. First my wife was excited to go zip-lining since she had so much fun when we did it in Hawaii last year... But I don't like it. So she wanted to take N. So they went zip-lining and had fun. Then they came home and we had a routine evening. After I went to bed the 2 of them had sex doggy style on the couch and she said it was hot. Unfortunately, she had turned the lights off and so any footage of said hot sex wasn't very visible to me... but it is what it is. The next day I asked her how her morning sex was, and she said it was fine, but there was no morning sex because N had to leave early. But during the day they were texting each other, and he apologized for not having morning sex with her. She said he shouldn't apologize for it, he should just come back and finish the job... So he did.

Later that evening he came back over again and we had another nice night together. This time I didn't sit out on the couch with them to watch I just let them enjoy their movie and evening together. And they had a pretty aggressive session because of it. He fucked her in multiple positions on the couch again and finished by bending her over the coffee table and unloading into her. He went to the guest bath to clean up and I went to the bedroom with her to clean her up. Later that night they ended up fucking on the floor in a little pile of blankets and pillows they made... but again too dark and too low for the camera to see much of anything. And today I messaged my wife and said I hoped they had a good morning. I also said "I hope you feel satisfied and very full after being filled with cum for 2 hotwife nights in a row!" To which she replied: "Hell yeah!!! I feel sooo full and happy."

And so that was amazing. Really amazing... but, all that being said, I do feel a little sad that I won't be allowed to reclaim my wife for several more days. And although she's usually too sore to enjoy sex with me the next day, I don't understand how she couldn't have been sore fucking N 2 times the next day and once the morning after. Not to mention the bit of jealousy I felt last night as he got to grope, suck, and motorboat my wife's tits for over a half hour straight last night... which I rarely get to enjoy for more than 2 minutes before she makes me stop. So I am struggling with a few mental gymnastics on this one too. But I am extremely happy with just how horny and sexy my wife was the last couple days. It was definitely a great time.

[Pufferfish]

Well, N came over last night. My wife was a little moody. I could tell she was dreading the end of the summer and the end to N. But she seemed optimistic about enjoying the last few weeks with N. He came over and they had sex on the couch and I cleaned her up. Then we made a bunch of ribs and watched a decent movie. Then I went to bed and left them alone for the night. Waking up the next day I met my wife as I was getting ready for work. She said they didn't have sex again last night because they were so tired. But after about 2 or 3 am my wife woke up and couldn't sleep any more and she was sad. I said I hoped they had a good morning and I went to work.

A couple hours into work and I was hoping they were about to have some good morning sex. Instead I got a text from my wife saying that she was so sad about N that every time she looks at him it hurts. She said she was going to break up with him this morning and just stop delaying the encroaching end. So instead of some hot morning sex, she instead broke down into tears as soon as he woke up and broke up with him. And she's spent the rest of the day as an emotional wreck and napping.

So, I imagine it will be fairly quiet around this thread for a little bit while she pulls herself together. Hopefully she ventures back onto the dating sites and stuff soon and begins looking for a new guy. But it'll probably be a little bit before she's ready.

[KevKevKev]

It seems like it was easier to break up with N rather than continue dreading and counting down the days until he leaves. That really sucks for everyone involved and I'm sorry you're all going through it. Hopefully she'll be ready for someone new soon. Perhaps she needs a rebound type of thing?

[venus-can99]

Sorry to hear her sadness in breaking up with N out of necessity. I am sure you will be her rock in dealing with the emotional ups and downs and perhaps someone new.

[CuriousHusband91941]

Your lifestyle seems enjoyable but it seems your lady has feelings for her lovers. Like a poly relationship. Is that something you guys expected in the beginning?
I tease my wife about having a boyfriend, but it's really just a FWB type of thing and not a whole relationship.
Always on the lookout for more pics of your lady here. I hope things get better.

[CuriousHusband91941]

Your lifestyle seems enjoyable but it seems your lady has feelings for her lovers. Like a poly relationship. Is that something you guys expected in the beginning?
I tease my wife about having a boyfriend, but it's really just a FWB type of thing and not a whole relationship.
Always on the lookout for more pics of your lady here. I hope things get better.