Another young wannabe from NY

[Bluecollarwannabe]

Hey, im new here & As my profile says, im a blue collar wannabe, Mid 20’s heavy equipment operator from the good ole New York. My fiance & I met in high school & 9 years & 2 kids later were still making it work. I’ve had a liking to the Hotwife & cuckold lifestyle for quite some time, my fiancé doesn’t think she would ever be open to it so I may just be a wannabe forever which is okay.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Bluecollarwannabe.

[Wantsomefunto]

Love to help you coax her to it

[JeffCA]

bluecollar, glad you are on here. There are plenty of husbands that started as wannabes. Glad you are communicating with your wife. Plenty of couples find the lifestyle to be magic. Keep us up to date.

[sana9889]

Nice to meet you.
Hope it works out

[Bogdan]

Welcome and have fun in here. Keep communicating with your wife and who knows... one day

[Wantsomefunto]

Tell us more about your soon to be hotwife

[njcpl2005]

Hi from a Nj couple. Reach out to us to talk

[Bluecollarwannabe]

Hi from a Nj couple. Reach out to us to talk

Hey how’s it going, still trying to figure this site out

[Bluecollarwannabe]

Tell us more about your soon to be hotwife

I wouldn’t say soon to be lol, I’ve tried but she doesnt to into the idea. although there’s been a couple times where something could’ve potentially happened but nothing ended up happening

[njcpl2005]

Let us know if we can help you navigate through it all

[Wantsomefunto]

It takes lots of wins and looses before it happens

[Bluecollarwannabe]

Let us know if we can help you navigate through it all

I see your message but I don’t think I’m able to reply I have no idea lol

[Restarting]

Bluecollar,
Welcome! After 5 posts or so, the moderators enable your PM capability.

[Bluecollarwannabe]

Bluecollar,
Welcome! After 5 posts or so, the moderators enable your PM capability.

Ahh gotcha that would make sense!

[tomfromnj]

Hi from a Nj couple. Reach out to us to talk

hit us up!

[njcpl2005]

Hitting you up. good morning

Eric and Kim

[njcpl2005]

Hitting you up. good morning

Eric and Kim

[Bluecollarwannabe]

Hitting you up. good morning

Eric and Kim

Afternoon, how’s it going

[zorro]

Welcome, Bluecollar. Everyone who shares our HW values can have a home here.
It sounds like you have planted the seed, but it has not yet taken root.

What did you tell your wife, and exactly what did she say? It is cultural orthodoxy for a woman to automatically say, "Never," so her saying that doesn't necessarily mean much. My former wife said, "That will never happen" 6 weeks before she started fucking her boyfriend. It took 11 more years to break up, and lifestyle never had anything to do with it.

There seems to be an almost routine game down this road before the wife can take the possibility seriously. And in all fairness, the wives often have apprehension, especially if they fear playing would endanger the marriage and their future. Or that you are enticing her to play so you can get new pussy. Fair enough. And many women have had life experiences that have taught them to not touch the hot stove. Part of the exploratory journey is to take your wife's feelings seriously and show them respect, even while she says "No." Many noes can happen before the yeses pop up. Most important thing is to not push and to be trustworthy and believable.

Do tell us more, so the many experienced husbands on this Forum can offer their experience and their thoughts to support you in exploring this delectable world.