How important is a cock size to a woman?

[leo-cpl]

We recently had a first of a kind experience. Played with a guy who uses Magnum condoms!! He was easily 8"+ but around 6" thick I think. My wife really enjoyed while he fucked her missionary (her fav) and she came hard while he fucked her but the guy doesn't climax easily or soon so they continued.
Here comes the part which was shocking to me but maybe familiar to other woman who have fucked a hung guy. After the first round whenever he got on top with my wife's legs in the air she thought she would end up farting or shitting and this made her hugely uncomfortable and she did not enjoy the evening thereafter. She said riding him wasn't as fun and she was very conscious to enjoy anything further.

Anyone else experienced something similar?

[Tank Turner]

Not as important as you guys think. My bf is 7.5. And still some wastage of dick.
I think around 7 is good.

My wife has assured me that a 6-to-7" thick cock is ideal for most women. Other women have told me the same thing.

[sana9889]

Most women can only really take about 6" long. Its a physical limitation. So its a turn on seeing a long long monster. But beyond 7 does not really help much any more.

Less than 5 is too small. Especially if she has been opened up by a longer on before.

Btw. Most girls actually do not know how long their partners cocks are. Guys tend to give a more accurate measurement. And even they make it sound longer!

Not as important as you guys think. My bf is 7.5. And still some wastage of dick.
I think around 7 is good.

My wife has assured me that a 6-to-7" thick cock is ideal for most women. Other women have told me the same thing.

[wildrollercoaster]

Most women can only really take about 6" long. Its a physical limitation. So its a turn on seeing a long long monster. But beyond 7 does not really help much any more.

Less than 5 is too small. Especially if she has been opened up by a longer on before.

Btw. Most girls actually do not know how long their partners cocks are. Guys tend to give a more accurate measurement. And even they make it sound longer!

Not as important as you guys think. My bf is 7.5. And still some wastage of dick.
I think around 7 is good.

My wife has assured me that a 6-to-7" thick cock is ideal for most women. Other women have told me the same thing.

I generally agree with this — except for the first sentence. My cock is slightly longer than 7 inches, and I can't recall any woman who had a problem taking my full length — although width (>6" around) was very uncomfortable for a few, but only during initial penetration, requiring very gradual entry.

Among women I've known and/or overheard (particularly with female friends), a lover with a large cock is pretty consistently an obvious matter of excitement and pride. And I don't recall hearing a woman, when playfully reflecting on her own experience, uttering the well worn platitude that size doesn't matter. Aside from preferences either for or against the sensation of feeling particularly full or occupied, the psychological effect of taking a well-endowed man is clearly a turn-on for many women — not least the visual impact of his cock opening and entering her, and associated depth of connection.

Two of the many men my wife has ever slept with are notably more endowed than me — one whom she dated before me, and one since becoming my fiancée (I think >8"). She characterizes the latter as "huge". She takes all of him without complaint, although has to be careful to avoid discomfort in certain positions — and to the question of whether she'd take him in her ass, says "that'll never happen".

[Tank Turner]

Hi Sana,

Superb and enlightening analysis.

I've had old girlfriends tell me that when women say that size doesn't matter, they're lying.

Within reason, women prefer girth to length. They want their pussies stretched to the point of pleasurable pain. But they don't want to fuck tuna cans either. There has to be sufficient length to complement girth.

During my wife's promiscuous college years, she fucked a dude who had, according to her memory, a slim 3". She said she could not feel his cock inside or her pussy. She might have exaggerated, but she knew she could never have a boyfriend who was cock-sized challenged. She told me either right after we married or around that time that she knew she could never marry a dude with a small cock, which was her rationale for women knowing what they want in a man before marriage.

I remember my wife BS'ing with other women at a party. She was drunk. Women talk about sex as often as dudes. I vividly remember my wife adorably saying to the other women to the effect of, "Small dicks are only good for blowjobs and anal sex."

There seems to be a common myth that dudes with 10" cocks are a dime a dozen. Assuredly, that is a porn-created myth. About 1% of all men on the planet have 10" hanging. My wife had many sexual partners before I met her. It took until her mid-40s for her to experience her first legit thick 8.5" cock.

My wife has experienced a couple unpleasant experiences with former boyfriends who had above average size cocks. She knew that it was innate biological instinct for dudes to thrust as deeply as possible while they came. She did not appreciate guys who suddenly and aggressively thrust cocks inside of her mouth when they came. She excused them because they were young college dudes cumming off of biological instinct. But she quickly learned to prevent it.

Right after I met my wife she used to go full deep throat on me. She did it during the first blowjob she gave me. I told her that deep throat was overrated because dudes ejaculations glands were on the heads of their cocks, not on their shafts. She asked by dudes insisted that she take them deep. The only answer I could come up with was it was psychologically erotic to watch their cocks disappear inside of her mouth.

Our friend, Brad, has the biggest cock she's ever taken. He has a thick 8.5" hanging. She has no problem taking him balls deep inside of her pussy. She has assured me that she loves his big cock, and it's never hurt her except the one time when she let him do balls deep anal sex penetration. After he came, she immediately stood up, faced him, and told him to never again ask her for anal sex. She has deep throated him at least once, but it took her forever her to take his cock balls deep inside of her mouth.

Porn gets boring after the first 15 minutes. The only porn I'll go out or my way to watch is monster cock porn. I'm sure those massive cocks were edited on software editing programs. I'm still amazed and mystified by petite porn stars taking cocks bigger than cocks on thoroughbreds.

Years ago, while my wife and I were watching monster cock porn, I asked her if she could fuck a monster cock. She said all women could fuck the biggest cock on the planet, but they would not want to. I knew long before I met my wife that the vagina was a magnificent muscle. It's the strongest muscle on the human body. My wife explained that if a baby can pass through a vagina, a woman could fuck monster cocks. Just as child birth is the most painful of pain human beings can bear, women would not want a 14 x 14 incher penetrating their vaginas causing unbearable pain.

My wife assured me that she could fuck a monster cock, but she would not want to.

The happy median is a thick 6-to-7 inch cock. My guess is if were possible to query all sexually active women on the planet, the mean would be a thick 6 incher.

[masculinecuck]

My wife had never had a big cock before and it's what initially got us into the lifestyle. As a petite woman 5'4" 115 lbs it surprised the hell out of me when she got her first a thick nine (no kidding). He ROCKED her world, I"ve been her cuck ever since.......

[masculinecuck]

I must add she's a TOTAL size queen anything less that a thick 8 she's not interested.

[rogerg]

My wife doesn’t have a preference although I have noticed that she seems to climax more quickly and repeatedly when the guy is thick.
As a watcher, I enjoy watching when her petite little body takes a long fat cock. For such a small woman I am amazed at how big of a cock she can easily handle.

[BT2]

I'm not a woman, so can only speak as the hubby of a hotwife. She was married before to her high school sweetheart. She told me in the past that she likes a long cock (her ex') because she likes the feel that a longer stroke gives her.

There was also a time when she had intercourse with a date who had a cock which was both long and thick. She enjoys intercourse with her knees up high close to her breasts so she can enjoy the (idea of) the depth inside her. This time she had her legs planted firmly on the bed, no bend in the knees. When I asked her "how come", she replied that "I was afraid he would hurt me".

She has had a regular fb whom she has seen for years. About two-thirds of the time she dates alone. Frequently her labia and cunt are sore and swollen after a date. Since I've had a number of threesomes with them, I assume it has more to do with length of time enjoying each other than with cock size.

[Dutch cuckold]

My wife has a preference for big but the man attached to it and the way he works his magic is equally important. She has turned down men for being too small in the penis department and also has slept with men that weren't that nice or hot but had a perfectly sized dick.

[Thebestdays1]

My ex wife says her best lover's penis is a little fatter than mine but, at 6'', a little bit smaller. Because she loved it and him, she's taken the time to teach him how to please her over the years; something she never did with me. She cheated on me to see this man and, over 25 years later, she's cheating on her current partner on the rare occasions they can get together.
She's been with quite a few well endowed men in the past but she thinks, in hindsight that they thought just fucking her with their big dicks would be enough to satisfy her. They were often wrong.
Size isn't as important to her as the feelings she shares with a person.

[Tryagain]

My wife positively loves big cocks. She has told a boyfriend in front of me that she loves being "impaled" on his cock. That's quite a word to use and
sure conveys her love of deep penetration.

On occasion she has also said she is loving the fucking because she can "feel it in my stomach".

The day after she fucks her current lover, with a very, very thick cock, I fuck her but she says "my pussy lips are sore" and feels that when i enter her with my thin dick. And when i push my 5.5 inches in her all the way, she feels sore "deep inside".

She says if he was living with us, she could not take him the next morning. And she believes that a steady diet of him fucking her every day or so would definitely impact her ability to even feel me much when fucking her.

[Pegasus555]

It was not so important until she met
A tall handsome italian guy at work. They were made for each other.
And once she went to the hotel after work she found out he had a 9 inch cock.
She really, really, really enjoyed the sex. She used to tell me all the time. How beautiful his cock was and that he had a beauty mark on it she also told me
She was going to date him more intensely and start sleeping over. She would come home. Well, fucked out. And in such a good mood, so size became very important to her, and that's the way it continued

[Tamilcuck]

My wife had never had a big cock before and it's what initially got us into the lifestyle. As a petite woman 5'4" 115 lbs it surprised the hell out of me when she got her first a thick nine (no kidding). He ROCKED her world, I"ve been her cuck ever since.......

I agree with this. My wife's bf is 8.5 and her bull is 9 plus. She's had very good sex with both and has cum many times with them. Size does matter.

[NC-hotwife-hubby]

Yes, it matters. I'm only 5 on my best day and very thin so not much use to Brenda. She likes them 7 or more.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Length is not that important for my wife, but the only dicks she’s had have been 7s, including me.

Her problem with me is my girth. I’m not “massive,” but I’m just a bit big enough to give her jaw an ache. (Asian wife. She’s petite. Everything is smaller, including her mouth and jaw.)

Her boyfriends, though, have a very “normal” girth, so she enjoys blowing them for as long as any one of them wants. I’ve seen her blow her boyfriend for 10 minutes straight before she swallowed like a champ. Of course, her boyfriends LOVE it.

With me, she’s done in 2 minutes saying, I gotta take a break. My jaw hurts!” It’s a mood killer! (If I don’t blow within those first 1.5 minutes, it’s pussy-time!)

I’m kinda jealous. I wish I could get a 10-minute blowjob!

[LongTermHubby]

My wife particularly enjoys men who can reach her g-spot.

[ferrisandrews]

Mine loves thick but not too long (she's had guys hit her cervix and it's not pleasurable). She says she likes feeling "full". In fact she tends to love the feeling of a thick cock that is inserted but not necessarily thrusting much, then she uses her massager to orgasm since vaginal orgasm hasn't been something she's ever been able to achieve. She did have one guy who was average length and thickness but had a huge mushroom head that seemed to hit her right. She didn't orgasm but she felt as though she could have if he had continued in the position they were in.

[hotfreaks]

For my wife, it is important and it isn't. If that makes sense. Sure, she enjoys bigger and thicker. Thicker more so. But for my wife, connection with a bull is most important

[Martamlg]

IN my case size is important for my eyes, not between my legs.
It's more erotic a big one, but it's not something physical.
Sorry for my english!

[rogerbaulk]

She said to me yesterday that she was disappointed in my cock size when we married. I'm 5 inches and quite thick. Obviously her six lovers have had bigger dicks!

[petej55]

My wife actually cheated on me because I am barely 5 and not very thick. After we worked through that and I found pleasure in being cucked; it seems the 6 -7 in range and above average in thickness was the best for her. She experimented with larger but much bigger than 7 was uncomfortable,

[BT2]

My cock is a bit below normal size. I had been married before. I had to be careful while having intercourse with my first wife because I easily bottomed out, and that hurt her. When in the missionary position we ALWAYS made love with her legs flat on the bed. If she raised them I would bottom out and hurt her. The few times we did it doggy style I had to be extra careful, and it wasn't so pleasurable because she was continually tense.

My current wife likes it deep with long strokes. We have a very satisfactory love life, we adapt, but I am amazed at how deep she can take a thick, long dildo. I have seen her enjoy herself on occasion with a lover (she is a hotwife), when she gets the kind of fucking she prefers.

[sconesy73]

For my wife, it is important and it isn't. If that makes sense. Sure, she enjoys bigger and thicker. Thicker more so. But for my wife, connection with a bull is most important

Exactly the same as my partner S. Likes it big enough so she can feel it stretching her without hurting so she can go again when it's ready!
But the emotional connection is more important- she wouldn't fuck a stranger she'd just met.

[BT2]

The posting immediately above expresses my wife's feeling much more eloquently than I did in a previous post. The emotional connection is the most important'