The actual moment it happens for the first time.

[john1616]

As I’ve yet to experience this yet, but am so close; has anyone ever witnessed their wife or partner touch, kiss, suck or fuck another guy and think “what the fuck am i doing?” Or not enjoyed it as much as the delicious and tortuous build up?

I’m not thinking that will be me for sure, but curious as I’ve not experienced it

[leggysman]

The first time seeing it in person, I described as being 'surreal'. They had been together ~3 times before I was present, and I'd seen pics and video, but this time it was happening right in front of me - very different. She wrapped her lips around his long, very thick cock, and I guess I felt a combination of intense arousal, and something like "holy fucking shit!"

All good stuff

[Synergy1995]

My wife and I had talked and fantasized about it for years, but sometimes in the moments just after my orgasm I would think maybe we shouldn’t do it. Then 10 minutes later I would be back to loving the idea, so I was a little nervous about how I would feel when we we finally found a boyfriend for her and were at the point of no return.
We finally found the right guy and I remember the whole night in vivid clarity. Watching her react as he pushed his larger cock inside my wife was amazing, i felt jealousy and relief at the same time, they had amazing sex for over an hour and I was so excited watching, it was like I was high on something, my mouth was dry and I felt euphoric. After he finished inside her I remember watching her lay there with her legs slightly spread, all pink and swollen with his cum running out, her pussy looked more beautiful than ever. I knew at that point it was part of our lives now and I never wanted to go back, there are definitely new feelings you struggle with, but if it’s something you know you want to happen it is amazing! Communication is key.

[Aussiem]

You never forget the first time you see your wife fucking another guy. 45 years ago for me and I can still see the look on her face as his cock went in and out. The juice on his shift and her moans and his grunts. Seeing her hips wiggle as she worked him up to giving her the load of cum she wanted. Then that grunt and groan from him as he pushed balls deep and started squirting inside my wife's cunt. The look of achievement on her face.
Then as they lay there his cock still in her, both flushed from their orgasms. The passionate kisses, then he slid out, cock covered in her juices, cum oozing from her. Never forget the images.

[john1616]

Thanks for those encouraging replies. I envisage this is exactly how I’m going to feel.

[vb23456]

It was an incredible experience for me and hopefully for her.

[Treat yourself girl]

There were lots of firsts, and each one was incredibly exciting in it's own right. The first sexy outfit... the first time she went out with no underwear... the first time she flirted... the first sexy dance with another guy... the first time she got hands on with a guy... the first time she kissed another guy... all these memories are still vivid in my head and make me just as horny now as I was at the time. But of all the times I've watched Amy fuck, the memory of her first is still the most vivid and the hottest. My cock is hard now as I think of her riding my buddy's throbbing shaft. She was such a honey and he was so grateful to me. Allowing him to have her was almost a charitable gesture.

[BBCfan]

Some incredible memories that are shared here, wow. I know when I first had these fantasies I wanted to be there witnessing sharing and potentially sharing her but now when I hear the stories I'm not sure if I would even want to be there and how my ego might handle it as easily as people here have. I think I would rather her do her thing alone and we share about it later together intimately.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

The first time seeing it in person, I described as being 'surreal'....

That was the exact word I used too. "Surreal".

But once the action was underway, "surreal" was quickly replaced by erotic euphoria.

[safado]

Some incredible memories that are shared here, wow. I know when I first had these fantasies I wanted to be there witnessing sharing and potentially sharing her but now when I hear the stories I'm not sure if I would even want to be there and how my ego might handle it as easily as people here have. I think I would rather her do her thing alone and we share about it later together intimately.

Even if she's hotwifing and you're not that it is very intense. The day my wife told me she's fucked another guy the night before, I jerked off four times. We weren't in the same country at the time.

[BBCfan]

Some incredible memories that are shared here, wow. I know when I first had these fantasies I wanted to be there witnessing sharing and potentially sharing her but now when I hear the stories I'm not sure if I would even want to be there and how my ego might handle it as easily as people here have. I think I would rather her do her thing alone and we share about it later together intimately.

Even if she's hotwifing and you're not that it is very intense. The day my wife told me she's fucked another guy the night before, I jerked off four times. We weren't in the same country at the time.

Crazy hot!
Now did she give you details as well or she just told you and that was that, you had to use your imagination?
I do think if it happens, that may be the way it happens with me as well because I'm away a lot.

[Dream Weaver]

As I’ve yet to experience this yet, but am so close; has anyone ever witnessed their wife or partner touch, kiss, suck or fuck another guy and think “what the fuck am i doing?” Or not enjoyed it as much as the delicious and tortuous build up?

I’m not thinking that will be me for sure, but curious as I’ve not experienced it

First time I saw her kiss him it felt like the dream was finally coming true. No regrets at all.