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Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by KevKevKev » Mon Jun 09, 2025 6:51 am

I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

A few months ago we bought a girthy dildo and we use it a lot. My wife came hard and fast the first time we used it and I've been hooked ever since then. I love watching it go inside her. I love asking her if she wants to fuck her "boyfriend" and hearing her say she wants to get fucked by big cock.

I know the big cock thing tends to be a bigger deal for the husbands rather than the wives and I'm trying to figure out why. I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Wantsomefunto » Mon Jun 09, 2025 7:29 am

A lot of us share your addiction for a big cock in your wife. I guessing you are average or below like me? Using a big dildo is a good way to let her achieve a better orgasm and if you incorporate a vibe on her clit at the same time she will explode.

Maybe as you slide the big dildo in and out of her, ask if she likes the feeling and being stretched and see if she fantasizes about having a real cock that big in her. Even ask her about her past experiences and see if she ever had a big one and wants it again.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by MartasBoy » Mon Jun 09, 2025 8:41 am

KevKevKev wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 6:51 am
I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?
I do enjoy small penis humiliation, so I relate to it through that. For me, I think that it is related to fantasies I have of what I call "fantasies of inadequacy or insignificance."

I spent many many years, my entire twenties, on a large university campus, as a single guy, taking forever to finish my degrees. I've never had the kind of looks that would cause women to drop at my feet, and I had to work for all the girlfriends I got. I never had success picking up girls in college pickup bars. I found that I had my greatest success with the women I got to know more long-term, through work settings and college classes.

I had some wonderful long-term relationships with some wonderful young women, but I also got turned down a lot when asking girls out on the fly. Taking chances and asking out all different kinds of women, even at the risk of rejection, became kind of a fun challenge for me.

I went out to the college pick up bars or parties, and would brazenly go up to women who would be considered way out of my league, and asked them out. I found out that I started to get aroused by the rejection. I would go home later and masturbate, imagining various fantasies with the women who turned me down that evening.

I had been in so many situations, where I got rejected, when I asked some girl if I could buy her a drink or get her phone number, only to see her later walk out with some guy who would be considered much better looking than me. I would later go home and weave some fantasy around her, and that rejection.

I developed some fantasies about the various reasons why I might be rejected over these other guys. The thought of being rejected because a guy appears more manly, or maybe has a larger cock, are things that are beyond my control. I cannot be taller or bigger than I am, and I cannot have a bigger cock than the one I have.

I developed some fantasies about having to compete with guys who had attributes I did not have.

But, I enjoy it when my wife teases me with small penis humiliation, and tells me that her other lovers are bigger and can please her in ways that I can't. You have already indicated that you do not have any small penis humiliation fantasies, so we may be motivated by different things.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Drakebelg » Mon Jun 09, 2025 12:10 pm

You definitely have to go to the subreddit penissleeves and buy a good quality one.

I've always been facinated by huge cock porn. In my mind, if a woman loves that then she is hypersexual. It's purely physical.

I introduced sleeves 10 years ago and gradually went bigger and bigger because my wife turned into a different woman and took them so easily.

Im a decent 7x5.5 but seeing her turn into a crazy woman from a monster cock pounding is insane.
Hopefully she'll find what she wants in her search.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Gmor » Mon Jun 09, 2025 2:19 pm

For me started when my first love and HS girlfriend cheated on me with an alpha jock 'known' to have the biggest cock around. I also pretty small and definitely not 'alpha' or any type of a jock. While it was humiliating and broke my heart at the time we did remain together for another year (when I found out she continued to periodically sleep with him) .
In my two other most significant relationships (including my now marriage) I have also been cheated on and in both cases with guys specially 'selected' because of their size. Both these women would definitely be considered 'size queens' although they dont like that term and would never use it. Im just a Wannabe with my wife (we have reconciled) but I was effectively a cuckold in the other relationship as she insisted we have an open relationship.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by KevKevKev » Mon Jun 09, 2025 3:23 pm

Wantsomefunto wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 7:29 am
A lot of us share your addiction for a big cock in your wife. I guessing you are average or below like me? Using a big dildo is a good way to let her achieve a better orgasm and if you incorporate a vibe on her clit at the same time she will explode.

Maybe as you slide the big dildo in and out of her, ask if she likes the feeling and being stretched and see if she fantasizes about having a real cock that big in her. Even ask her about her past experiences and see if she ever had a big one and wants it again.
I'm of average girth, but a bit longer than average. It's what my wife calls a husband dick. It's a dick that doesn't leave you too sore while still being satisfying. She used to fuck a guy with a huge dick and she said they're fun, but leave her sore and she doesn't want to fuck one full time. I asked if she would want to fuck a big dick on occasion and she said she would be. I think she was on the fence about it before the dildo.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by bbarnsworth » Mon Jun 09, 2025 5:24 pm

For me it's not a larger cock for my wife that is exciting, per se. Let me explain...

My wife got to play with a guy who had an absolutely enormous cock. I got to see it too, as this was an MFM. She had fun, to be sure. She got to have sex with him on and off for an entire afternoon. She really enjoyed it. I still have memories of him fucking her. But, it's not among my favorite memories of times I've seen her have sex with other men.

My favorite memories of her fucking other men are her favorite memories. A few are at the top;
  • There was the guy who was the third guy she had sex with after we opened our marriage. She just couldn't get enough sex with him. She absolutely loved him fucking her. They got to play together three times (once solo) and every time she was just over the moon happy about it. The first time convinced her that being a hotwife/swinger was worth it.
  • There was another guy who she actually fell in love with. Their sex became very intimate, very close, very fulfilling sex. I got to participate in a couple of MFMs with this guy and my wife. It was a very different feeling than other MFMs. He's still the only guy she's done overnights with. They were more like a couple than other guys she's played with, by far. She had sex with him for years, before he unfortunately got a monogamous girlfriend.
  • The third was a guy who my wife got to play with many times. One of the times was an MFM. She achieved an incredible level of hyper arousal that I've never seen her in before or since. Eventually, she was begging him to cum inside her.
None of these men had particularly large cocks. In fact, I'm larger than two of them and equal of the third. What made it special and what excites me so much is how much she enjoyed it. I feed off of her enjoyment, and the more she enjoys it the more I am aroused about it. I still fantasize about all three of these times. I don't really ever fantasize about the larger cock guy. Now that she's had such a cock, both for her and I it's kind of a 'check that off the bucket list' sort of thing. Fun, but been there done that now.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Flint » Wed Jun 11, 2025 4:09 pm

KevKevKev wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 3:23 pm
Wantsomefunto wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 7:29 am
A lot of us share your addiction for a big cock in your wife. I guessing you are average or below like me? Using a big dildo is a good way to let her achieve a better orgasm and if you incorporate a vibe on her clit at the same time she will explode.

Maybe as you slide the big dildo in and out of her, ask if she likes the feeling and being stretched and see if she fantasizes about having a real cock that big in her. Even ask her about her past experiences and see if she ever had a big one and wants it again.
I'm of average girth, but a bit longer than average. It's what my wife calls a husband dick. It's a dick that doesn't leave you too sore while still being satisfying. She used to fuck a guy with a huge dick and she said they're fun, but leave her sore and she doesn't want to fuck one full time. I asked if she would want to fuck a big dick on occasion and she said she would be. I think she was on the fence about it before the dildo.
I love her description of a 'Husband Dick', must run that one by my wife; I suspect she would classify mine as the same :D

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by KevKevKev » Wed Jun 11, 2025 5:52 pm

bbarnsworth wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 5:24 pm

None of these men had particularly large cocks. In fact, I'm larger than two of them and equal of the third. What made it special and what excites me so much is how much she enjoyed it. I feed off of her enjoyment, and the more she enjoys it the more I am aroused about it. I still fantasize about all three of these times. I don't really ever fantasize about the larger cock guy. Now that she's had such a cock, both for her and I it's kind of a 'check that off the bucket list' sort of thing. Fun, but been there done that now.
I think this is where the difference between fantasy and reality comes in. The fantasy is that the other man will have a huge cock and make the wife cum over and over, but the reality is what you said in that average dick fellas can fuck just as well and become your wife's favorite.

All of the porn that really stresses big cock has really got men messed up because they will begin to believe that they can't satisfy a woman if their cock is average or below, but that kind of porn sells, so it ends up being a vicious cycle. I have to wonder how much of my big cock desire comes from porn.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by nks » Fri Jun 13, 2025 9:02 am

Hi! I can relate too. I love the idea, but for me the cock in my wife does not have to be huge, just bigger than mine to feel exciting. Though if my wife wants a smaller cock or a very big cock, it is entirely up to her. Black cock instantly makes her wet, so... who knows. If it is bigger tha mine... so humiliating. And it is good to be humiliated.

I am average or slightly below average. My wife likes my cock. But it is a husband cock. And I feel like this: there are men with much thicker cocks. Would I want my wife to enjoy the thrill of really amazing sex? Yes. Would I love to know that she enjoys sex a lot? Yes. Would I want a strong man to fuck her with his huge cock? Yes.

She still being with me after that and still giving me attention is the ultimate feeling of love. I am not good in bed so humiliation is something I deserve. Also it is clear that sex will be better with the lover, so it is fine if she only wants to do it with him. But if she still wants me then that is something great.

I had an ex who was very conservative but got wild at parties and she loved to make me jealous to feel loved. I would get jealous, but then she would come to me and I had this renewed love for her. She was the first woman I wanted to cheat on me (not communicated open relationship, but cheating). That feeling of jealousy and then reassuring me of her love was pretty much like a roller coaster ride.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by King_Mr » Fri Jun 13, 2025 5:21 pm

MartasBoy wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 8:41 am
KevKevKev wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 6:51 am
I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?
I do enjoy small penis humiliation, so I relate to it through that. For me, I think that it is related to fantasies I have of what I call "fantasies of inadequacy or insignificance."

I spent many many years, my entire twenties, on a large university campus, as a single guy, taking forever to finish my degrees. I've never had the kind of looks that would cause women to drop at my feet, and I had to work for all the girlfriends I got. I never had success picking up girls in college pickup bars. I found that I had my greatest success with the women I got to know more long-term, through work settings and college classes.

I had some wonderful long-term relationships with some wonderful young women, but I also got turned down a lot when asking girls out on the fly. Taking chances and asking out all different kinds of women, even at the risk of rejection, became kind of a fun challenge for me.

I went out to the college pick up bars or parties, and would brazenly go up to women who would be considered way out of my league, and asked them out. I found out that I started to get aroused by the rejection. I would go home later and masturbate, imagining various fantasies with the women who turned me down that evening.

I had been in so many situations, where I got rejected, when I asked some girl if I could buy her a drink or get her phone number, only to see her later walk out with some guy who would be considered much better looking than me. I would later go home and weave some fantasy around her, and that rejection.

I developed some fantasies about the various reasons why I might be rejected over these other guys. The thought of being rejected because a guy appears more manly, or maybe has a larger cock, are things that are beyond my control. I cannot be taller or bigger than I am, and I cannot have a bigger cock than the one I have.

I developed some fantasies about having to compete with guys who had attributes I did not have.

But, I enjoy it when my wife teases me with small penis humiliation, and tells me that her other lovers are bigger and can please her in ways that I can't. You have already indicated that you do not have any small penis humiliation fantasies, so we may be motivated by different things.
This is fascinating. Do you think you were actively seeking rejection in order to feel some control over it? Did you get more of a high from a rejection or an acceptance?

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Woodscrew » Wed Jun 25, 2025 4:27 am

bbarnsworth wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 5:24 pm
For me it's not a larger cock for my wife that is exciting, per se. Let me explain...

My wife got to play with a guy who had an absolutely enormous cock. I got to see it too, as this was an MFM. She had fun, to be sure. She got to have sex with him on and off for an entire afternoon. She really enjoyed it. I still have memories of him fucking her. But, it's not among my favorite memories of times I've seen her have sex with other men.

My favorite memories of her fucking other men are her favorite memories. A few are at the top;
  • There was the guy who was the third guy she had sex with after we opened our marriage. She just couldn't get enough sex with him. She absolutely loved him fucking her. They got to play together three times (once solo) and every time she was just over the moon happy about it. The first time convinced her that being a hotwife/swinger was worth it.
  • There was another guy who she actually fell in love with. Their sex became very intimate, very close, very fulfilling sex. I got to participate in a couple of MFMs with this guy and my wife. It was a very different feeling than other MFMs. He's still the only guy she's done overnights with. They were more like a couple than other guys she's played with, by far. She had sex with him for years, before he unfortunately got a monogamous girlfriend.
  • The third was a guy who my wife got to play with many times. One of the times was an MFM. She achieved an incredible level of hyper arousal that I've never seen her in before or since. Eventually, she was begging him to cum inside her.
None of these men had particularly large cocks. In fact, I'm larger than two of them and equal of the third. What made it special and what excites me so much is how much she enjoyed it. I feed off of her enjoyment, and the more she enjoys it the more I am aroused about it. I still fantasize about all three of these times. I don't really ever fantasize about the larger cock guy. Now that she's had such a cock, both for her and I it's kind of a 'check that off the bucket list' sort of thing. Fun, but been there done that now.
You’ve nailed it for me here. This is exactly how I feel too. Whatever gets my wife going is good for me. If she happens to want a bigger cock (she hasn’t yet expressed that desire), then I’d like her to experience it but it’s not an essential goal otherwise.

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Unread post by parklife » Wed Jun 25, 2025 5:39 am

I enjoy hearing and thinking about my wife being worh a bigger cock but it’s not necessarily essential to our real life experience. I’m smaller than average although my wife will never admit it or discuss (much to my chagrin) but she does go o about how much she loves being ducked deep and stretched to feel full. Early in our marriage we had a very in large dildo (almost comically so) that was kind of a gag gift but turned into one she enjoyed using in the bedroom. That was pre-hotwife times and she named it after her largest lover from her late teens/early 20s. Turns out, they reconnected and he was her first hot wife experience. He was long and THICK, which she loved. Flash forward a decade and she’s been with a few FWB and she claims one was even smaller than I am but he was her most intense physical relationship where the passion more than made up for his lack of size. Still, she prefers large.

For me. I’ve see videos with her former fling we named the disk after, and I’ve heard her live while we use her large toys on hed. She 100% reacts differently and sounds differently during those sexual escapades and one that is entirely more animated and outwardly enjoyable. As someone that really gets off in compersion, it’s undeniable how much she’s enjoying it and that’s the part that really turns me on.

Psychologically, I also think there is an element in play selfishly that sees the experience of her having such a good time with larger cocks but then always returning to me professing her love that’s reassuring and a boost to my own ego. Sure, she may enjoy (or even prefer) fucking them, but she freelt chooses to spend a life with me. There’s something empowering in that dynamic that I think adds to the desire to have her experience larger cocks. It’s confidently saying, “go ahead, have a great time with the 8” dick, but you’ll be back in my arms loving me when you’re done”.

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Unread post by Drakebelg » Sat Jun 28, 2025 5:45 am

It makes her in my mind that she's super sexual.

We've been using large sleeves for a decade and her difference in reactions, arousal, sounds, intensity and orgasms is totally at another level.

She has a huge pussy, depth and width, and it's so hot that she just needs more than me.

I love the humiliation that I can’t satisfy her eventhough I'm above average.

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Unread post by BisexualJamie » Thu Jul 03, 2025 8:34 am

MartasBoy wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 8:41 am
KevKevKev wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 6:51 am
I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?
I do enjoy small penis humiliation, so I relate to it through that. For me, I think that it is related to fantasies I have of what I call "fantasies of inadequacy or insignificance."

I spent many many years, my entire twenties, on a large university campus, as a single guy, taking forever to finish my degrees. I've never had the kind of looks that would cause women to drop at my feet, and I had to work for all the girlfriends I got. I never had success picking up girls in college pickup bars. I found that I had my greatest success with the women I got to know more long-term, through work settings and college classes.

I had some wonderful long-term relationships with some wonderful young women, but I also got turned down a lot when asking girls out on the fly. Taking chances and asking out all different kinds of women, even at the risk of rejection, became kind of a fun challenge for me.

I went out to the college pick up bars or parties, and would brazenly go up to women who would be considered way out of my league, and asked them out. I found out that I started to get aroused by the rejection. I would go home later and masturbate, imagining various fantasies with the women who turned me down that evening.

I had been in so many situations, where I got rejected, when I asked some girl if I could buy her a drink or get her phone number, only to see her later walk out with some guy who would be considered much better looking than me. I would later go home and weave some fantasy around her, and that rejection.

I developed some fantasies about the various reasons why I might be rejected over these other guys. The thought of being rejected because a guy appears more manly, or maybe has a larger cock, are things that are beyond my control. I cannot be taller or bigger than I am, and I cannot have a bigger cock than the one I have.

I developed some fantasies about having to compete with guys who had attributes I did not have.

But, I enjoy it when my wife teases me with small penis humiliation, and tells me that her other lovers are bigger and can please her in ways that I can't. You have already indicated that you do not have any small penis humiliation fantasies, so we may be motivated by different things.
I like this post because, from a psychological perspective, it's reflective... the op has questioned his history and how it may have affected his personality. "Inadequacy and insignificance" really struck me... The 'not deserving' is where it applies to me.
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Unread post by MartasBoy » Thu Jul 03, 2025 10:00 am

BisexualJamie wrote:
Thu Jul 03, 2025 8:34 am


I like this post because, from a psychological perspective, it's reflective... the op has questioned his history and how it may have affected his personality. "Inadequacy and insignificance" really struck me... The 'not deserving' is where it applies to me.
I think of The routine In Wayne's World with Wayne and Garth, when they would encounter a beautiful woman. They would drop to their knees and bow to her saying, "We're not worthy! We're not worthy!"

I found it funny, but also a little bit of a painfully honest description of what it's like when a guy who is a 6 or less, approaches a girl who is an 8 or above. They did an honest interpretation of that whole concept of the 10-point scale of attractiveness, and that silly notion of leagues of beauty.

That skit of there's always resonated with me, because it is exactly how I felt when I approached very attractive women. I eventually developed some fantasies around that, finding some excitement in the feeling of being rejected and feeling a little bit of humiliation and degradation. It came to be arousing for me.

I developed some very strong Bratty Princess Service fantasies, in which bratty entitled women, figure out that they can basically enslave me, to be their obedient houseboy, knowing that I will never get to have sex with them. They figure out that I am willing to stick around and serve them, all for the privilege of being allowed to be in their presence, and to bask in their beauty.

I eventually married one of them, and we do role plays around me being allowed to serve "her ladyship".

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Unread post by MartasBoy » Mon Aug 11, 2025 9:57 pm

I love seeing and hearing my wife with a man with a large cock. I love to hear her excitement, and the noises he can make her make that I never have been able to. One of my favorite things to do, is to sneak outside their door, with my fleshlight, and fuck my fleshlight well I listen to the sounds of them doing it. I imagine that I am causing the incredible sounds of my wife's arousal.
With my fleshlight, I can keep my penis in it, without falling out like I do when I try to be inside of my wife. It's really exciting for me, to feel that, and imagine that I'm the one making my wife make all the sounds of pleasure I always come really quickly when I do that.
When my wife is with a guy with a big cock, I have some of my best sex.
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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by BBCfan » Wed Aug 13, 2025 8:00 am

Some very hot replies...
That is certainly the case for me, nothing hotter than hearing my wife talk about how she handled monster cocks in the past  Or how she would again in the future

I'm in a very similar situation to Drakebelg,  Same size,  above average and was always very proud of it, But always had a bit of a size curiosity and fetish.

When my wife very honestly told me that I was extremely average from her experience and that she has had some Of the truly porn sized BBC  many times in her past, it was like a kick in the stomach. When I saw her reaction to a huge sheath I was using, That made it a reality that was just too obvious. She is an absolute size Queen that can handle the porn size dicks easily and with great enjoyment.   Just Another level of pleasure from what I can provide.

So I don't really consider it humiliation, although I suppose it is. It's more the fact and she's the woman I adore so it's so hot to see her at that level of pleasure.  Once that insecurity turns to cuck pleasure, it's the hottest high intensity pleasure there is for me.
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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by lickitup » Wed Aug 13, 2025 9:42 am

KevKevKev wrote:
Mon Jun 09, 2025 6:51 am
I'm sure a lot of you can relate. There's something really exciting about bigger cock.

A few months ago we bought a girthy dildo and we use it a lot. My wife came hard and fast the first time we used it and I've been hooked ever since then. I love watching it go inside her. I love asking her if she wants to fuck her "boyfriend" and hearing her say she wants to get fucked by big cock.

I know the big cock thing tends to be a bigger deal for the husbands rather than the wives and I'm trying to figure out why. I don't like small penis humiliation videos, but I do love hearing a wife talk about how much she enjoys a big cock. What are your thoughts?


My Gf told me that she loved big cocks on night when we were watching porn. She even went further. She liked seeing big cock shemales. Boy, was I turned on. It turned out she had a co-worker with a 10 inch cock that she would have lunch every once in awhile. She told me that they would talk about sex a lot. This turned me on even more. I told her if she wanted to play with his cock at lunch I was all for it. I wanted her to suck it in her car. At least jerk him off. All I wanted was to hear about it afterword's. If she would take a pic of her hand on his cock or her sucking the head of it was be amazing.

This went on for quit some time. She would meet him once or twice a month and tell me she had lunch with him and they talk about sex and the size of his dick. She even told him that I liked her talking about sex with him and that I wanted him to put his cock in her mouth. We became friends and shared fantasies with each other. She said that she never played with his cock. She just like talking about it with him. She said that me liking her talking with him and wanting her to suck it. turned her on so much. but she just wasn't attracted to him.

To answer your question, why do guys like us like the idea of our women sucking and fucking big cocks. I have no idea. But, its a fantasy that always is on my mind. It seems like giving her the green light to do it would be a big green light to get satisfied and making her fantasy come true.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Mark888 » Mon Sep 01, 2025 12:38 am

I have the same though my wife doesn't like to bring in a big didldo. But when I see a bigger fake cock sliding inside her, I hope she gets the feeling of: being well filled and feeling more like a woman. Finally (and I can speak for myself) her orgasm through a big dildo also gives me a kind of satisfaction. Just as if her intense orgasm has also been satisfied me. Because I find it so intense to see her enjoying herself.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Gmor » Tue Sep 16, 2025 5:09 am

Ive been thinking more about this and for much of it stems from my real life sexual inadequacy,

In my two most significant relationships (including my marriage) I have been unable to satisfy my partner (PIV orgasms). In both cases these women cheated on me with very well endowed men who were able to give them vaginal orgasms. I know details of both these situations and these form the foundation of my cuckold/infidelity fantasies.

However I do admit that the ‘real life’ infidelity was extraordinarily painful and nearly cost me my marriage. We have now reconciled which is good in almost every way other than in bed where our sex life has returned to its former infrequent, rushed, vanilla sex. My wife knows of my fantasies but refuses to be a hot wife (she insists on wanting a traditional marriage) so she too is sexually frustrated.

One thing she will do to make up for the limited or no sex I get is to tell me stories while I masturbate. Her stories are told using anonymous persons but are obviously of her affair. She knows which parts drive me wild and will be very explicit on how big he was, how sex starved she was with her small husband and how intense her orgasms with him were.

She also has a giant dildo which she uses but almost always alone. She has done it with me a few times but it was obviously just for me and she wasn’t overly excited. She admits the orgasms she has with while alone cant compare to the real thing but are still a good in considering she cant get vaginal orgasms any other way.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Thebestdays1 » Wed Sep 17, 2025 1:41 am

Initially I just loved the idea of her getting fucked by other men. She'd been with a few that were bigger than my averaged sized penis before we met but she didn't make it sound like they were anything special. She did admit after we got engaged that her girlfriend had a 8 inch vibrator that they used on each other and I used to love imagining being allowed to see her using something similar.

A few years later she had a relationship with her mum's neighbour while I was working overseas and she told me he was 8.5 inches and she enjoyed feeling stretched by him as it made her feel naughty. A couple of years later I had to go abroad again, this time for much longer and she stayed with her mum and sister again and resumed her relationship with the neighbour. This time, they went out on actual dates and he'd fuck her on the bench we used to sit on in a nearby park. The thought of her taking his much larger penis on 'our bench' started to turn me on more and more. Her sister caught them fucking in her living room one day, when she finished work early and joined them. My SIL and I used to write to each other whilst I was overseas so hearing her tell me how good it felt to fuck such a large penis and how easily my wife could take him in her vagina and mouth really had my mind working overtime.

He and my SIL became a couple after my wife left, when I returned and the following year they came and stayed with us. Her period started on their first day of their visit so I did suggest to him that he could see if my wife would let him join her when I was on my morning run. I ate four creampies from her after my runs that week and I loved the taste.

On their last morning with us I ended up in a threesome with him and my SIL and I have to admit, his penis looked impressive. At one point she was giving him a footjob as I was sucking her toes and as he started cumming I moved my head to the side of her foot to catch any stray cum and he pushed forward and finished off in my mouth. I probably only had maybe a couple of inches in me but I remember how stretched my mouth felt and how hard it was to swallow his cum with his penis still in my mouth. After that I could barely get the image of my wife taking him out of my head.

The following year they stayed with us again and on their last night with us my SIL and I had agreed to initiate a foursome but she chickened out at the last minute and took him to bed. The following morning she caught me before I went on my run and apologised. She invited me to join them in the bedroom 'so I could persuade her to go along with it next year'. She and I ended up in a 69 and him fucking her and my mouth simultaneously. All I could do was imagine it was my wife taking that big penis as his balls bashed against my face and how humiliated I'd feel. When he started cumming he pulled out after a couple of spurts and pushed his penis as far down my throat as I could take. 10 minutes later, as she was fucking me she told me to suck him and he knelt by my mouth. I was able to take him fairly easily at first and tried to imitate the way my wife blew me and very soon he became fully erect and now the thought of how my wife would suck him really turned me on. From that moment on, the thought of me watching my wife fuck him was my constant fantasy.

A few years later my wife started a relationship with a married colleague with a penis the same size as mine and as much as I loved the thought of him fucking her, it wasn't as exciting as thinking about her and her sister's partner.

A year after her colleague moved away she started a relationship with another colleague and he had 9 inches. I did everything I could so that they could be together, I loved the thought of her taking such a huge penis and even envied her when she would mention sucking him off. After a couple of months she asked me to give him a lift home one morning, after they'd spent the night fucking downstairs in the living room. During the journey he kept talking about how much he'd enjoyed being with her and he eventually asked if I wanted to clean him as he'd fucked her about 20 minutes earlier. He became fully erect very quickly and I knew I'd have to suck him off. Although he was only 0.5 inches bigger than her sister's partner he felt much bigger in my mouth and all I could do was imagine my wife sucking this huge thing. I virtually worshipped his penis as I sucked it and thanked him when I dropped him off. When I returned home I couldn't wait to ask her how she was able to take something so big, she's only little. We compared notes about what it felt like even to hold him and that just made the whole thing even more exciting for us both.

Watching him take her anal virginity a few months later was even more exciting.

The following year I watched her fuck her sister's partner and seeing him enter her was as exciting as I imagined. Seeing my 5'2, slim wife take a large penis inside her and with such enthusiasm was great fun.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by Cuckedbydildo » Fri Sep 26, 2025 10:40 pm

A few years in to our marriage I started introducing my wife into longer and wider dildos and soon found out she really had screaming orgasms with a thicker dildo about 6” around. Seeing her go buck wild with a big, thick cock compared to my very average 4.5 inch around cock was almost as exciting to me as it was for her!

Fast forward to her pregnancy with our second child and she started asking for long, thick dildos more and more. She was so horny during her 2nd pregnancy that she begged me to fuck her with the biggest dildo I dared to buy. Of course the biggest, thick dildos sold are almost always black so she asked me why most of our big toys were black….

My wife is easily the least racist person I have ever known and has only been with my white ass her whole life. I said something about how it was the stereotype that black men were bigger on average than white men and how it was easier to see the contrast of black cock fucking her white pussy in the dark of night. She then said something that shocked me and set in motion my crazy imagination. She said in general she found white men more attractive but there were several Hollywood black actors she found very attractive, especially if they had a big, thick black cock like the dildos she enjoyed from time to time 😮.

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by bighelmet » Wed Oct 01, 2025 3:56 am

Hey everyone, I'm new to this forum and I've been diving into the threads, especially this one about why the thought of a wife with a bigger cock gets us so worked up. I totally get where you're coming from... I'm 7.5 by 5.5 inches and circumcised, and I've always been curious about my wife's biggest past partner, but I'm a bit nervous about bringing it up (she'd think I was crazy for wanting to know that!). I met my wife after her divorce, and I know she had some wild times in the few years before we dated. She definitely didn't like sleeping alone, and I'm pretty sure she had some well-endowed guys over those years, and was often into much younger dudes (hell she's 7 years my senior :lol: ). I think it would be insane to fantasize about her taking something much bigger, especially since I know she's had her share of bigger experiences. I'm dying to know more about her wild side and how it felt for her. Has anyone else been in a similar situation, and if so, how did you bring it up with your partner? I'm all ears for your thoughts and experiences!

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Re: Why does the idea of my wife fucking larger cock excite me so?

Unread post by BBCfan » Sun Oct 05, 2025 8:34 am

bighelmet wrote:
Wed Oct 01, 2025 3:56 am
Hey everyone, I'm new to this forum and I've been diving into the threads, especially this one about why the thought of a wife with a bigger cock gets us so worked up. I totally get where you're coming from... I'm 7.5 by 5.5 inches and circumcised, and I've always been curious about my wife's biggest past partner, but I'm a bit nervous about bringing it up (she'd think I was crazy for wanting to know that!). I met my wife after her divorce, and I know she had some wild times in the few years before we dated. She definitely didn't like sleeping alone, and I'm pretty sure she had some well-endowed guys over those years, and was often into much younger dudes (hell she's 7 years my senior :lol: ). I think it would be insane to fantasize about her taking something much bigger, especially since I know she's had her share of bigger experiences. I'm dying to know more about her wild side and how it felt for her. Has anyone else been in a similar situation, and if so, how did you bring it up with your partner? I'm all ears for your thoughts and experiences!
For me it was all about getting my wife to be comfortable and honest about her past experiences as I think most Partners don't want to belittle or embarrassed their guy and so will lie about it. Once she trusted I wouldn't respond insecurely or negatively but only excited and supportive... the floodgates opened and I was shocked…it actually was difficult to hear about initially but I didn't let her know that and it quickly turned to nothing but unbelievable arousal and it's really what turned me into a cuck wannabe

I'm sure that in the right moment even something simple like… “am I your biggest” and you responding if she says no with “that's so hot,who was?”
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