A more patient approach

[Lovrman53]

I've noticed some of the cuck porn involves only kissing, a hj or perhaps a bj. Gets me wondering if a reluctant wife (like mine) might be tempted by a scenario where my expectations were low. Initial foray just flirting. If she's game the next encounter some kissing with the same guy or different. Then progress to petting and maybe a hand job. The potential suitors would have to be very patient as well. Does this resonate with anyone.

[Pufferfish]

Well I mean, I can't speak for anyone else's wife but my own, or go off of what I've heard other's experience. But putting limitations on it doesn't typically go well, unless she's the one putting limitations on it herself, and even then she's likely to break her own rules. If the husband is putting a limit on it most of the time, the wife will think "why bother then?" and simply not do it, or end up wanting to sneak around to do what she wants anyway. But my wife in particular will usually have an "idea" of how far she wants to go and then stop there when first meeting a guy.

On a first meet she typically likes to flirt and kiss. Maybe grope his crotch and get an idea for how big he is. Or if he's particularly bold maybe he'll pull it out and ask her to suck it, which she either will or won't, but my wife has in the past because she liked being told to. And that's usually as far as she'll take something the first time. And I've seen many instances where there is a strict "no sex" on the first meet, and my wife will always tell a guy that before hand, but maybe a hand job or blow job in store for him if she likes him. There's nothing wrong with telling a guy that is as far as it's going and typically I'd say most guys are happy to get what they can. It's up to the wife how far she wants to take things. But as long as she's setting (or breaking) her own limits, I'd say it usually goes pretty well.

[Lovrman53]

Thanks Pufferfish for your reply. I see that I didn't communicate clearly in my post.
I wasn't thinking about putting on any limitations and in fact have stressed complete freedom to pursue and act on her desires. My only ask is there be no secrets.
Of course the wife must decide for herself with who and what will take place. My thought was simply to suggest she think about a light foray with somebody she fancies. Her shock of first being told I'd like to see her have sex with another man is something we still have to overcome. Trying to build on a few positive things she has said and done recently.