Wife Got Approached

[wifelver]

Positive reinforcement is the way to go.
If you think it would help, I suggest something that I heard a long time ago about boudoir photography. Some photographers insist that a model not wear any foundation garments before a shoot. It seems the marks that are left from wearing a bra, or tight panties take quite a while to go away. Something that can ruin the fine lines of a beautiful woman's body.
Maybe you can suggest she go commando, sans bra and panties, when she goes for the appointment with the explanation I've given. Maybe she can text with Mark and ask him what he thinks?

I agree. Positive reinforcement and complimenting her on how she looks.
Nothing worse than tight panties and bra lines, etc... when you're trying to photograph. Of course, that's when the photo shoot is nude.

I don't know that I would suggest that she go braless and pantyless at this early stage though. That could be construed as you sexualizing the session. If this first shoot goes well and she gets comfortable in front of a camera then there will be other times and perhaps that's when you can mention the body lines.

[luxwife]

Positive reinforcement is the way to go.
If you think it would help, I suggest something that I heard a long time ago about boudoir photography. Some photographers insist that a model not wear any foundation garments before a shoot. It seems the marks that are left from wearing a bra, or tight panties take quite a while to go away. Something that can ruin the fine lines of a beautiful woman's body.
Maybe you can suggest she go commando, sans bra and panties, when she goes for the appointment with the explanation I've given. Maybe she can text with Mark and ask him what he thinks?

That’s actually a great point about the foundation garments. I’ve heard the same thing . Lines from bras and panties can take hours to fade, and it’s a nightmare to edit out in post-production. Maybe casually mention it to her like, ‘Hey, I read that some photographers prefer no underwear lines for shoots—even for non-boudoir stuff. Might be worth asking Mark if he has a preference?’

However I had text exchange with Mark yesterday:

Me: Hey Mark, just wanted to say thanks for being so professional with my wife. She’s usually shy, but she won’t stop talking about the shoot. Think you unlocked something
Mark: Haha, glad to hear it! She’s got a great look, super photogenic. Should be a fun session
Me: Oh, it’s already fun. She spent an hour picking outfits and just asked me if photographers mind stretch marks. I told her you’d probably find them sexy. Hope that wasn’t too forward
Mark: Lol, definitely not. Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear… but I won’t complain if she wears less
Me: Careful, man. She’s blushing hard enough as it is. If you tell her that in person, we might need a private gallery
Mark: Noted. Speaking of… any off-limits shots? Or is she open to pushing boundaries a little
Me: Her words: Maybe something sexier if I’m comfortable. My words? Make her comfortable. Slowly. I’ll handle the aftercare
Mark: You’re a lucky guy. Saturday can’t come fast enough
Me: Tell me about it. I’m already hard thinking about her trying to act natural while you’re adjusting her poses. Just don’t break her too much… I still need her functional

[Gearup]

Lux
This is a new thread and nothing has actually happened yet, but I love how you are telling your story and where this is heading. I read your posts and get that tingling feeling in all the right places. Here’s hoping this evolves as you want it to.

Time to make Elena an appointment for a Brazilian wax!

[Wantsomefunto]

Lux
Maybe get her to try on outfits and let you text pics of her wearing them to Mark so he can guide her as to what looks best for her upcoming shoot. See how she acts when you ask her to send mark pics

[luxwife]

Lux
This is a new thread and nothing has actually happened yet, but I love how you are telling your story and where this is heading. I read your posts and get that tingling feeling in all the right places. Here’s hoping this evolves as you want it to.

Time to make Elena an appointment for a Brazilian wax!

You’re right—Elena needs that wax. I’m torn. Part of me wants to be there to see her come undone in real time watch her cheeks flush when Mark adjusts her strap for the lighting. But the other part knows she’ll hold back if I’m in the room. I’m prepared for it. My plan? Zero pressure. If she backs out, I’ll play it cool—Totally get it, babe. But hey, you’d still look fire in those shots if you change your mind.

[wittol]

Does Elena know about your text exchange with the photographer? If so, I wonder what her reaction was.

[luxwife]

Lux
Maybe get her to try on outfits and let you text pics of her wearing them to Mark so he can guide her as to what looks best for her upcoming shoot. See how she acts when you ask her to send mark pics

Omg, Now that’s a fucking genius idea. I'll test the water over dinner

[luxwife]

Does Elena know about your text exchange with the photographer? If so, I wonder what her reaction was.

she knows. At first, she’d scold me stop putting ideas in his head but then she’d peek at my phone when she thought I wasn’t looking.
She asked me hypothetically what would happen if Mark needed to adjust her straps during the shoot. I told her the truth - He’d probably get a little hands-on. She said Good.

[vrmtr]

'Some photographers insist that a model not wear any foundation garments before a shoot. It seems the marks that are left from wearing a bra, or tight panties take quite a while to go away" I've heard the same thing! stay away from tight clothes or bands because they leave marks that will show up.

[Wantsomefunto]

Did you text mark with any pics

[BrunetteLover]

If he is a professional, or at least has professional ethics, the photo shoot will be straight forward and the only thing that will happen is you will get photos.

If there is sex, he is using the photography as a way in. That makes him a creep.

I have time in the photo/modeling industry. Never full time, but to help pay for college and then as a side hustle to help pay bills.

Coming on to a model when you are supposed to be working is a good way to trash your career.

[luxwife]

If he is a professional, or at least has professional ethics, the photo shoot will be straight forward and the only thing that will happen is you will get photos.

If there is sex, he is using the photography as a way in. That makes him a creep.

I have time in the photo/modeling industry. Never full time, but to help pay for college and then as a side hustle to help pay bills.

Coming on to a model when you are supposed to be working is a good way to trash your career.

You’re absolutely right. If he’s a true professional, this stays about the photos. No blurred lines, no accidental touches, no sudden suggestions of topless shots. And if he does push for more? Then yeah, he’s a creep using a portfolio as a pickup tactic, and that’s a hard pass.

But here’s the thing: I know my wife. She’s never been the type to entertain this kind of attention before. The fact that she’s even considering it that she’s excited about it tells me this isn’t just about the photography. It’s about the thrill of being desired by someone with an artist’s eye

And let’s be real: the modeling industry is full of professionals who would never cross that line. But it’s also full of photographers who specialize in pushing boundaries with the model’s enthusiastic consent, of course.

Right now, she’s dipping a toe in. If Mark respects her limits, great we get some sexy photos and maybe a spark of confidence that leads somewhere else down the line. If he doesn’t? Then we walk away, no harm done.

But if this does escalate, if she chooses to let it then it’s not about him "trashing his career." It’s about her exploring something new. And that’s the scenario that’s got me hooked.

[luxwife]

Lux
Maybe get her to try on outfits and let you text pics of her wearing them to Mark so he can guide her as to what looks best for her upcoming shoot. See how she acts when you ask her to send mark pics

Omg, Now that’s a fucking genius idea. I'll test the water over dinner

Your idea was a fucking home run. I pitched the idea immediately . She was trying on outfits for the shoot. She was like You really think he’d want to see. I played it cool he’s the pro, babe. Might as well get his input. She bit her lip, then handed me her phone on condition " just classy ones". We sent three. A tight little black dress, a off-the-shoulder sweater with just enough cleavage, and after some teasing from me a shot of her in just the lacy thong she was wearing under her jeans, hands covering her tits but barely.

Mark reply was immediate : Jesus. You weren’t kidding. That last one… we need to explore that energy in the studio.
She blushed reading it. Then, after a long pause: "I should probably bring something… really sexy. Just in case."

While she was changing, I snapped a pic of her bending over to pick up her jeans thong stretched tight, full backshot. I was like ops accident, should we send it. She gasped then smirked and said I'm asshole but fuck it, send it. Mark's reply - Tell me she’s bringing that energy to the shoot. Tell me right now. She just bit her lip and whispered he's really into it huh.

[Gearup]

Looks like you are getting your wish and Mark is a lucky bastard.

I’ll say it again - Brazilian wax

[hornedhubby]

It's totally cool that you and your lovely wife are having fun with this.

A few observations.

One is that it sounds highly likely to me that the photographer approached your wife because she has a sweet, pretty, woman-next-door, natural look. Her best approach is to be herself coming in the door for the shoot. Let the pro handle the finishing touches. She need not, should not try to imitate the approach of a professional model. Encourage her be her unique self. It's the best one!

Two is let her go by herself. More fun for both of you. She should be safe since it's a bricks and mortar place of business.

Three is take a cautionary approach. I think what BrunetteLover said is helpful and relevant. The photographer should keep his hands to himself and not be making passes during the shoot. If friendship blossoms down the road, and she ultimately wants to fuck him, that's your home run.

Four is beware the con. If he tries to pitch her on "you, too, can be a famous model" and tries to sell her a portfolio package for her to take to a modeling agency, watch your wallet. Or if he takes nude candid pix and sells them without compensating her, that would suck, too. Who is going to be the owner of the pix?

Why do I mention this?

When our daughter was about 18 months old we got a letter from a local agency telling us that someone had seen her and brought her to their attention as an especially lovely toddler (she was). We bit the hook and took her to the audition day offered. There were lots and lots of toddlers there. It was a con. Give us money and we'll find modeling jobs for her. Fool us once, we left the agency and went home.

Also, my best friend's wife had model aspirations (and aptitude - 5-11, blonde, leggy, beautiful, photogenic and fit as a fiddle). They shelled out maybe $3000 in 1988 dollars for her portfolio. She never got a modeling gig.

YMMV and I hope so very much. I hate being Debbie Downer.

Best luck and thanks for sharing your excitement.

[luxwife]

Thanks for the thoughtful response. I really appreciate the real-talk perspective. My wife’s definitely got that "girl-next-door" vibe. I’ll make sure she knows she doesn’t need to force anything. The whole point is for her to feel confident and sexy in her own skin.

The scam warning is legit, too. I did my homework on Mark but I’ll keep an eye out for any upsells or weirdness. And yeah, if things do escalate down the line, I’d much rather it happen organically than because some dude pressured her mid-shoot.

And hey, no Debbie Downer vibes at all. practical advice is gold. I’ll keep you all posted on how the shoot goes.

[setv4]

Thanks for the thoughtful response. I really appreciate the real-talk perspective. My wife’s definitely got that "girl-next-door" vibe. I’ll make sure she knows she doesn’t need to force anything. The whole point is for her to feel confident and sexy in her own skin.

The scam warning is legit, too. I did my homework on Mark but I’ll keep an eye out for any upsells or weirdness. And yeah, if things do escalate down the line, I’d much rather it happen organically than because some dude pressured her mid-shoot.

And hey, no Debbie Downer vibes at all. practical advice is gold. I’ll keep you all posted on how the shoot goes.

It looks like her upcoming photo shoot is going to be a very Erotic, Hot and Sexy experience for both You and Her and a Very Enjoyable time for All of you.
If all goes well, your Wife could morph into a more Sensual woman with a more Daring, (more Naughty), attitude. Have Fun and the Best of Luck, with your changed, in a good way, Hot Honey.
Looking forward to You continuing to update her journey! I also hope you both can, in the near future, "share" a few with us, in the Hotties Section soon!

[Happyjohnson]

Hi Luxwife,
I hope the photo shoot goes very well for your wife.
I have done quite a lot of photography, unfortunately only 1 glamour shoot for a friend's daughter that was very all above board. All the rest were industrial or wedding shoots.
A few comments if I may :- 1) What medium for the photo's will be used? Video or still photo's?
2) Presumably the format will be stills with a digital camera - What is to be done with the original and any other modified shots? Will the photographer keep them for his own use and how will they be used? If he is going to on sell them, what protection does your wife have from being exploited by him.
3) Where I come from, the photographer owns the original images and or negatives if transparency or negative film is used (old school I know) How do you and wife stand in this regard.
I hope you both enjoy the experience.
All the best.

[luxwife]

Hi Luxwife,
I hope the photo shoot goes very well for your wife.
I have done quite a lot of photography, unfortunately only 1 glamour shoot for a friend's daughter that was very all above board. All the rest were industrial or wedding shoots.
A few comments if I may :- 1) What medium for the photo's will be used? Video or still photo's?
2) Presumably the format will be stills with a digital camera - What is to be done with the original and any other modified shots? Will the photographer keep them for his own use and how will they be used? If he is going to on sell them, what protection does your wife have from being exploited by him.
3) Where I come from, the photographer owns the original images and or negatives if transparency or negative film is used (old school I know) How do you and wife stand in this regard.
I hope you both enjoy the experience.
All the best.

Thanks for your post.

Mark mentioned digital stills no video, at least for now. This is where I got cautious. His contract states he retains the originals but needs signed model releases for commercial use. My wife would have veto power before anything goes public. She’s fine with him keeping them for his book, but I made sure she knows she can say no to anything she’s not comfortable with. Legally, he owns the RAW files, but he agreed to give us high-res edits for personal use. No prints without her approval. I did some digging, and his rep is solid no shady history of leaking or reselling.

Appreciate the good wishes! I’ll report back if things get… interesting.

[BallSpanking]

The groundwork is done. Both your wife and the photographer are champing at the bit for the session. And your wife has shown she is turned on by agreeing to send the sexy pic of her in a thong bending over. She knows of the photographer's reaction, and giggled in excitement.
No ... You don't need to direct her actions in any way, she will know instinctively what to do if there is chemistry.
Instead, suggest perhaps a little 420 to relax her before the shoot, or a nice bottle of wine they can share during the shoot. Those darned boudoir shoots can be awfully thirsty.
Let her witness your excitement for her adventure, so when the fateful moments arrive of her sucking and fucking his cock, she will know without a doubt she has your encouragement and permission to take it as far as she wants. And if this session heats up without culminating in coitus, there will always be next time ...

[Wantsomefunto]

Lux
Things are going well. Small steps will help her open up. Perhaps nothing comes of this photos shoot, just some tame glamour shots, but it will be a great experience for both of you. And may open her up to meet other guys for more steps.

Any chance you will post any of the pics you took of her?

[truesub]

Not to steal the thunder, here's my little story.

Long before I got married, I commissioned a portrait of my then girlfriend. The artist (a good one, not very famous but very professional) painted her in his private studio for several days in a row, an hour or two a day. I was present most of the time, not out of jealousy or anything, I just happened to be free and interested in the process. Now, my then girlfriend was always very shy, definitely not an adventurous or teasing type. First couple of days she was posing sitting very still, her legs shut tight. And then I noticed she was spreading her thighs, more and more with time. It was a sitting portrait, facing the artist, so I'm pretty sure he was able to glimpse, even if he never gave any notice, being a professional.

She never knew I noticed until I asked. She was kind of embarrassed and had no good explanation but 'it just felt natural'. I teased her for a while in a good way but never pressed the matter further. My impression was, she wanted to look better for the portrait, more attractive or such, and somehow this was her subconscious way to.

My idea here was, it could be a good, 'natural' way to introduce some much needed chill into a lady. And if I wanted to go that particular route, I'd rather involve an artist than a photographer.

[BrunetteLover]

Forget the photographer. He is a guy who takes pictures, nothing more. And he should want it that way.

Get the pics taken. Use them as a starting point for all kinds of other pursuits.

I took a series of professional-level photos of my wife 15 years ago. It led to a 15-year (and still ongoing) career as a dancer and high class escort.

Getting photos taken are an incredible aphrodisiac for a woman, especially if you are messaging men and they react positively to them.

[luxwife]

Forget the photographer. He is a guy who takes pictures, nothing more. And he should want it that way.

Get the pics taken. Use them as a starting point for all kinds of other pursuits.

I took a series of professional-level photos of my wife 15 years ago. It led to a 15-year (and still ongoing) career as a dancer and high class escort.

Getting photos taken are an incredible aphrodisiac for a woman, especially if you are messaging men and they react positively to them.

You’re absolutely right, the photos themselves are the real power move here. Whether Mark is just a photographer or sees an opening doesn’t matter as much as what we do with this momentum. Mark might just be a guy with a camera… or he might be the first domino. Either way, we decide how far this goes

This isn’t about Mark. It’s about her and what happens when she realizes how powerful her sexuality can be.

Mark’s last text to her: Can’t wait to work with you. Bring that sundress and trust me, you’ll love what we do with it.
She hasn’t shown me the rest of their messages.
I don’t ask.

Saturday can’t come fast enough.

[BallSpanking]

You are demonstrating a respectful distance in consideration of her own comfort and privacy, allowing her to be as uninhibited as she pleases, to take this as far as she wants it to go. It is a fine line, because you want her to feel safe, but there are texts and other messaging that could be used, tracking app, etc., to ensure her safety or convey code words. But beyond that, the outcome is in her control ...
It will be interesting to learn of the dynamic of their meeting, whether she will be subservient to his instructions, or directing the action.
My guess is she will take her cues from him, but in doing so, will begin to comprehend the sexual power implied by her actions, even if these are acts of compliance, the results can be observed immediately.