Figuring it out

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

And just like that...she's back.

[jsteel]

Wwow ... Did he have the creampie at home?

[Late]

LFA:
I am so glad you guys are back at it. I think I understand what is going on; please correct me or clarify if I'm on the right track. Since "G" is still in the picture I am assuming the difference bow is more emphasis on the physical aspects of sex and less emphasis on the emotional aspects. So planning get togethers would be more about how you play and "interact" rather than why you play. If that is the case we can help you with that because you can spend more time sharing with us the physical "interactions" of your encounters and less time sharing with us all that "touchy-feely" crap us guys are supposed to care about. The more I think about it, the more I hope I am correct in my assumptions. I am still a wanna=be, but I think what you guys are doing would definitely take me one step closer to changing that if you guys are successful in your journey.

Again, correction or clarification would be appreciated. It would not be the first time my bubble has been burst if I am incorrect.

Good luck in your journey. As I have been following your journey, I have really been trying to see it through Adventurer's eyes. Through his eyes I could understand the pause that occurred. I struggled a little bit with the first restart (what corrections were made?). At least in my mind I see the corrections that have been made now and am more comfortable with the idea that your journey is just going to get even more awesome.

Late

Yes. That is sort of it. The difference is in the level of emotional connection. In the past, G and I talked daily. We'd have sexy exchanges but also talk about work, life, what our evening plans were, what chores we were up to, etc. It was a friendship that meant we got to know a lot about each other after 5 years of chatting and playing. We also had decided to be "boyfriend/girlfriend" a couple years in, and we spent Valentine's day together, and went on overnight dates around our birthdays. In the new iteration, there will still be a friendship but not that daily kind of intimacy, and we will probable avoid terms and activities that seem too "couple-y", if that makes sense.

It is funny because Adventure is allowed to play with other women, and has (although he says he prefers sex with me). I have told him that I am not jealous if he has sex with other women, but I wouldn't want him to have the type of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that G and I had. I knew that would cross a line for me. When he explained that it now crossed a line for him too, I totally understood.

The challenge will be to see if we can all stay in the friend zone appropriately in a way that feels good to everyone involved. I think we can.

Maybe we can help with the challenge. As you have interactions with people other than Adventure, focus on experiencing things you want to share with Adventure and us. For instance; how the cock made your pussy feel, how deep it went, how many orgasms you had, as opposed to how you felt about the intimacy, how comfortable you felt in his/her presence. You have already explained the need for some kind of emotional connection, and I do understand that, but once you have that connection maybe we can "help" you focus on the physical enjoyment you are getting from the relationship; which is what it sounds like you are wanting to do. The "help' will come from you sharing with us. I think that is called a win-win. And if Adventure is happy then it will be a win-win-win. Most importantly, we're just glad you are back at it and we want only the best for you.

Late

[boing469]

What a wonderful return to adult-fun-sharing for all of you!!
Thanks for those amazing details of your sexy fun LFA,

[Restarting]

Glad you're on the same page. A great success story!

[Adventurer]

First a general update that the return to hotwifing is going very well, as is the FWB relationship with G.

And a couple teases.....one is that we have our first post- break hotel threesome date tomorrow - I am very excited....second we discovered some older pictures of LFA and they are about to be posted in the Hotties section.

[Long Lurker 34]

A
- Awesome to know things are going well and looking forward to those pictures in the Hotties!
- Hope you all have a great, though humid Dominion Day.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thanks for the update LFA. Looks like y'all started off the right note!

So far so good....and I mean, sooooooooo good

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA
- Well I have to say seeing you posting that you have reentered HWing, somewhat modified, with A's approval is an unexpected pleasure to learn of. Bonus for the three of you and huge one for all your followers here!
- Your hiking adventure was easily visualized with all the trails around the GTA. If it hadn't been too busy, the thought of you heading back to the car park with G dripping would have been a sight. You, with a huge smile on your face and two guys! Oh would that have played with minds of any who happened across you. Messy I know, ah but the thought of it.
- A cemetery. At night, once the sun is down!? To find a nice secluded spot, just far enough away from passers by that you can be out of sight, yet on the edge of earshot so you can be quite vocal enough to almost be heard indistinctly. Teasing people with semi-screams cumming from a dark graveyard.

You speak my language so well!! Now I have #summerGoals. Lol

And did you see the cum face photo in the hotties section? We didn't see anyone while I was messy, but it would have been fun.

[Lookingforadventure]

And just like that...she's back.

Yup. Although "just like that" was nearly 3 months, and lots of conversations. But still.....I'm back

[Lookingforadventure]

Wwow ... Did he have the creampie at home?

He did. And he liked it.

[Lookingforadventure]

Maybe we can help with the challenge. As you have interactions with people other than Adventure, focus on experiencing things you want to share with Adventure and us. For instance; how the cock made your pussy feel, how deep it went, how many orgasms you had, as opposed to how you felt about the intimacy, how comfortable you felt in his/her presence. You have already explained the need for some kind of emotional connection, and I do understand that, but once you have that connection maybe we can "help" you focus on the physical enjoyment you are getting from the relationship; which is what it sounds like you are wanting to do. The "help' will come from you sharing with us. I think that is called a win-win. And if Adventure is happy then it will be a win-win-win. Most importantly, we're just glad you are back at it and we want only the best for you.

Late

Thanks Late. So far the physical feelings have been great. I enjoy being flirty and sexy. I like sneaking around and being naughty. And I love the feel of Gs hard cock (in me, near me, in my mouth, in my pussy...all of it).

[Lookingforadventure]

What a wonderful return to adult-fun-sharing for all of you!!
Thanks for those amazing details of your sexy fun LFA,

Thank you Boing. More fun to share soon

[Lookingforadventure]

Glad you're on the same page. A great success story!

Thank you. And a great love story. No one said ethical non monogamy was easy (or that marriage was easy), but i am feeling really good about where we are at. My husband is amazing.

[Restarting]

Glad you're on the same page. A great success story!

Thank you. And a great love story. No one said ethical non monogamy was easy (or that marriage was easy), but i am feeling really good about where we are at. My husband is amazing.

Yes. Success = Love. It's a great world when you have it!
M and I have been at it a long time. I see your relationship as a model of cooperation, understanding and love.
Thanks for making me feel good about you both.

[jsteel]

Wwow ... Did he have the creampie at home?

He did. And he liked it.

He is living my dream. Lucky three of you. I hope you make the balance work for all of you to enjoy...

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA
- Well I have to say seeing you posting that you have reentered HWing, somewhat modified, with A's approval is an unexpected pleasure to learn of. Bonus for the three of you and huge one for all your followers here!
- Your hiking adventure was easily visualized with all the trails around the GTA. If it hadn't been too busy, the thought of you heading back to the car park with G dripping would have been a sight. You, with a huge smile on your face and two guys! Oh would that have played with minds of any who happened across you. Messy I know, ah but the thought of it.
- A cemetery. At night, once the sun is down!? To find a nice secluded spot, just far enough away from passers by that you can be out of sight, yet on the edge of earshot so you can be quite vocal enough to almost be heard indistinctly. Teasing people with semi-screams cumming from a dark graveyard.

You speak my language so well!! Now I have #summerGoals. Lol

And did you see the cum face photo in the hotties section? We didn't see anyone while I was messy, but it would have been fun.

LFA
- I have a vivid imagination some times. Just wish, over the years, I would have had a partner that was of equal mind set. Alas.
- I have and highly approve.
- Oh and now you have restarted posting + pics, we need a new, first, pic of your smile!!

[Seekingmore12]

Lfa’s smile is intoxicating….looks like adventurer posted one….well more than one !

G

[venus-can99]

Lfa’s smile is intoxicating….looks like adventurer posted one….well more than one !

G

It is.. thanks for the picture alert

[Lookingforadventure]

He is living my dream. Lucky three of you. I hope you make the balance work for all of you to enjoy...

Thanks Jsteel. And I hope you get to live the dream one day too.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA
- I have a vivid imagination some times. Just wish, over the years, I would have had a partner that was of equal mind set. Alas.
- I have and highly approve.
- Oh and now you have restarted posting + pics, we need a new, first, pic of your smile!!

Thanks Long Lurker. I agree, having the right partner who matches your sexual interests is key. I'm lucky to have Adventurer (and now also G) to help me explore all my weird kinks.

[Lookingforadventure]

Lfa’s smile is intoxicating….looks like adventurer posted one….well more than one !

G

He DID post pictures

And I'll do a write up of our day below. Thanks again for making it a great experience. The smile was due, at least in part, to you being amazing.

[Lookingforadventure]

We had a rather epic date earlier this week. Adventurer posted some pics, so the keeners among you will have already had a sneak peek, but I thought I'd do a write up as well for those who prefer mental images and extra details.

We had agreed to meet at a hotel around 9 am. Adventurer asked that it be a cuckold kind of threesome. He comes and goes with his cuck desires, but has been enjoying that kind of play lately, so I did my best to lean into it. This included almost a week of denial and teasing before the date. I still orgasmed frequently (either with him going down on me, or me playing with toys in front of him), but he wasn't allowed to cum. I did enjoy teasing him and bringing him right to the edge....so I did that frequently, at least daily, in the lead up to our date.

Adventurer also asked me to lean into verbal teasing. He specifically wanted to hear things about how G fucks me better than him, how I like his cock more, etc. This is hard for me because it feels disloyal or hurtful, but I'm learning that Adventurer actually really enjoys it, so I've been trying my best to grow in this area. I still sometimes resort to simply complimenting G's skills and equipment (rather than negatively comparing to Adventurer's) but I'm getting better.

In any case, the big day finally arrived. I showered, lotioned my legs and skin, put on some new lingerie that G hadn't seen before (black and sheer with a lot of butt cheek exposed) and a simple dress over top. A and I drove to the hotel and checked in. We had booked the room through dayuse.com and the front desk person wasn't familiar with it. Regular check in isn't until 3, and we were checking in at 8:30...but she looked it up in her computer, found the reservation, and figured it out. This is notable only because she had to spend some time chatting with us and telling us that check out was at 2 that afternoon, so I know she will have remembered me when I walked out with a different man a few hours later

A and I got to the room and kissed for a bit. I texted G the room number, and we waited. G said he arrived and sent a text that said "be there in 2 minutes." I kissed A again and went to look out the hotel door peep hole. I proceeded to pace back and forth a few times waiting for G to get there. I guess I was a little impatient, LOL. Adventure thought it was funny. I was beginning to worry that the lady at the front desk had stopped him, but then G finally knocked on the door.

The men shook hands. I kissed G. And we got down to business!! LOL

I asked Adventurer to undress me for my lover. He did. Kissing and caressing me from behind as he pulled my dress over my head. G liked the lingerie. I told Adventurer to fold my dress nicely and then sit in a chair. I climbed on the bed to straddle G and kiss him. I felt his cock straining against his pants and pushing into me as I ground against him.

G slid a hand between my legs and began to play with y clit. He got his fingers under my panties and slid one inside. It really didn't take long for me to cum. Then we decided he had too many clothes on.

G stood up and began to undress. When he undid his pants, I crawled to the edge of the bed, smiled at Adventurer and told him that I was going to get what I wanted. I kissed G's cock through his boxer briefs, then pulled it out and slid it into my mouth. It was great to feel it press against the back of my throat.

Around that time, G told me to get my panties off. I did and tossed them in A's direction. G dove down between my legs and made me cum hard again. First with just his tongue, then he slid a finger inside while he continued to lick me. At this point I was getting desperate. I begged him to fuck me.

And he did!!

Along the way, I tried to remind A not to stroke himself too much. We didn't want him cumming too early. Sometimes he was invited onto the bed for a close up look. And once, while I was riding G cowgirl style, I leaned forward and invited A to lick my butthole. He did and even slid a finger inside. I do love some DP play I also gave A the occassional stroke or quick kiss on his cock. I wanted him throbbing and ready, but not going over the edge. He seemed to think it hit just the right spot.

I feel like this story is getting a bit long, so I'll wrap it up by saying that G came inside me, A cleaned me up, G fucked me a second time, and then we finally let A participate more fully. He asked if he could fuck me. I said that i'd love that. I lay on the edge of the bed and he stood between my legs. He slid his cock in me. I asked if my pussy felt well used. He groaned. I said that it was certainly very wet and messy after I was such a slut. That did it. Adventurer fucked me a few hard times and came inside me. It was A LOT of cum!

Afterwards we chatted a bit and then A left to go to work. G and I stayed at the hotel for two more rounds and then he drove me home. All in all, I'd say it was a good foray back into being a hot wife.

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA
- I have a vivid imagination some times. Just wish, over the years, I would have had a partner that was of equal mind set. Alas.
- I have and highly approve.
- Oh and now you have restarted posting + pics, we need a new, first, pic of your smile!!

Thanks Long Lurker. I agree, having the right partner who matches your sexual interests is key. I'm lucky to have Adventurer (and now also G) to help me explore all my weird kinks.

LFA
- Dear girl, kinks you may have, but not overly weird. All considered.

[regular3]

We always get the best gf both worlds with you and your adventures. The pics, especially with your dazzling smile and the imagery from your writing fills in the blanks oh so well.
Don't ever feel your writing too much (unless you have something better to do).
How were the other two rounds without A there? This would be the first alone time since the reunion?
And how was A with your alone time too?
Hopefully you got a smile from reception when you left with a different man ha ha.