When my wife and Jake were friends-with-benefits, this topic came up between them and the later she shared it with me. While both were married, the fantasized about how their lives would be different had they met before my wife and I did and my wife admitted that she likely would have married him first. Now, she caveated that by saying it’s not technically choosing him over me because the premise would be that they met before she met me. So, she just met that she would have chosen to be with him and thus, we never would have met.Tryagain wrote: ↑Sat Feb 08, 2025 7:27 amThe other night we were talking about him and sex with him as well. For the first time, she confided in me that if she had met him when we were much younger, she may not have married me because the differences in her enjoyment of fucking him versus me was so great.
Of course, I was astonished at this revelation that fucking had become that important to her.
Has anyone’s wife ever said anything like this to them? Has anyone’s wife grown to love fucking so much as compared to their past?
They had an extremely passionate relationship and I’ve had to remind her that she we stated dating, ours was similarly passionate. It’s just that having been together 25 years has given time for the shine to come off…. That and the fact that when she’s with him, they don’t talk about the kids or the budget or the next big purchase, etc etc etc… so, she gets to just focus on the thrill and excitement.
Now, 2 1/2 years later, they’ve split apart and I’m still here proving her everything I always have. Ultimately she cherishes what we have despite REALLY enjoying what she can have with others when she chooses to do so.