Trying to open her up to being shared.

[johnnyrico104]

Hi guys, thank you for letting me join the group and for sharing your thoughts.

I've been thinking about sharing her for a while but she has a limited sex drive. The major issue is that she is overweight and doesn't feel sexy because she is carrying the extra weight. She has lost a lot of weight in the past and our sex life picked up but then she gained it back and more so the bedroom is almost dormant at this point. We have just moved again and she is definitely happier than before and our sex life is improving, which is nice. The issue now is that it is just boring.

I've been thinking about this for years now and I'm comfortable in saying that I think sharing her could be a fantastic opportunity to get her to become more sexual with me but also for her to enjoy herself more in the bedroom. I'm barely average in the cock department and often have trouble getting an erection but when I think about her getting fucked I get hard and stay hard.

So how do I get her interested in this topic and open up the rabbit hole for us to go down? We've never talked about this before so it would come out of left field if I told her that I'd like to watch her get fucked by another guy so any ideas are appreciated.

Thanks for your time,

JR

[Busboy]

Welcome to the forum you've definitely came to the right place. I would just start asking her alot of questions about her past boyfriends, her 1st time and what it was like (if with someone other than yourself), biggest cock she's ever had, fantasies, etc. Once you've got a conversation like that going on it and she starts to ask you questions just be honest and tell her. It takes alot of vulnerability to do so but you'll feel alot better to get it off your chest even if it doesn't go anywhere.
Good luck my friend!

[smarles]

You both should be open and talk about your fantasies, no judgement.
You never know what that may bring.

[Swanilla]

As others have said, you two need to talk! A tool that I have found helpful for couples is mojoupgrade.com. Basically a free site that you answer questions on what you want and your partner answers questions on what they want. The site will then show you where you both match. It covers much more than just hotwifing and can be helpful. Good luck a keep the post updated with your progress!

[Bogdan]

There are like these erotic question games you can play on your phone or app? It might help you get some fun and perhaps the conversation going?