Ever had someone hit on your wife right in front of you?

[SoBayCuck]

Have you ever been so lucky as to be out with your wife on a regular outing or date night and had an alpha type start flirting with and hitting on your wife right in front of you? I started thinking about this and am now totally fixated. I’m finding it incredibly arousing to think about what I would do or feel especially if it was an unsuspecting kind of night(not on the prowl) to just have someone be totally brazen and practically ignore the fact I’m there because the chance to get with my wife is worth the risk of any confrontation with me. I know if we were in a playful mood that I would almost encourage it but I wonder how it would feel if we weren’t looking for it. Would I keep my ego in check and just let it happen. All I want now is to find out and I can’t stop wishing it would happen. Anyone ever have a situation like this happen to them? What did you do?

[troilusand]

Of course it's happened to me. By strangers, acquaintances, AND friends! Everyone hit on Cressida! She was a natural flirt and drew men to her like flies to cunny. I guess they figured if I allowed her to behave that way, I wasn't going to complain. And they were right.

"Would I keep my ego in check and just let it happen."

Yep. Many times I didn't care...or was even turned on by it. But even when I was VERY uncomfortable with the man who was hitting on her I just allowed it to happen. I wasn't man enough to put a stop to it. And, BTW, these weren't usually alpha males since Cress wasn't attracted to them. But even if SHE wasn't appreciating the attention, I did nothing. VERY humiliating.

But, for the most part I LOVED IT! I always encouraged Cress to dress sexy and flirt. I loved that so many men desired my wife, and learned to enjoy the fact that they didn't care about my presence. They saw they had a chance to get in Cressida's pants and her husband being there observing their efforts just didn't matter to them.

Troilus

[CucktoOlderGf]

I remember it happening to me. There was a young guy at a bar hitting on my girlfriend, I think he thought I was with one of the other girls to be honest. She ended up telling him she's with me and he asked her why I wasn't doing anything about it. Instead of saying that I'm ok with it, she told him I was probably too scared of him to do anything. They only ended up flirting and chatting online after, but it ended up being a lot of fun

[Janes Husband]

Quite a few times. She doesn't pick up on it as well as i do when it's in a 'vanilla' setting.

[hornedhubby]

I'll bite.

A couple times in our 44-year marriage, I've experienced this with unusual intensity.

First time was on my wife's birthday in 1983. She had helped a younger woman from our hometown, whose parents were close friends with my parents, land a job where she worked. (Turned out to be a nut case and a bad hire). Her husband was striving to be a stand-up comic. And he had a buddy with similar ambitions.

Somehow, my wife was partying for an hour or so with this trio after work on her birthday. The comic buddy, an unfiltered and obnoxious lout, was doing his damndest to charm my wife, as was obvious as soon as I arrived on the scene. To his credit, he radiated enormous animal energy. And she seemed totally turned on by his advances. Laughing at his jokes. Touching his arm. At least a little bit enraptured.

I hated his fucking guts immediately. I was 25, still in the best shape of my life, ready and certain that I could kick his ass if given any further provocation.

Recognizing that my wife was three-sheets-to-the-wind, I somehow disengaged her and got her out of there. She was extra horny when we got home, and I ate her pussy and fucked her extra well. Did not mention the extreme jealousy I'd felt earlier. Let it go. Avoided further social engagement with the odd trio.

In stark contrast, my reaction was vastly different the next time I watched her get hit on.

It was at a party, hosted by her workplace in 1996. She looked gorgeous, wearing an awesome LBD with a low and straight neckline that exposed her collarbones and lots of cleavage. As I watched from across the room, this very good looking guy with long hair in a pony tale and a charismatic bad boy vibe began chatting up my wife. It was so fucking obvious. She was smiling, drawing him in before realizing that she was in a workplace environment, not a play pen. As I watched, she pulled back and lit a cigarette in an effort, I think, to tease him while also pushing him back.

He seemed to get her message. Not here. Not now. He let the moment fade out. They disengaged.

She acknowledged all of this on the way home from the party. Suggested that in different circumstances, she'd have fucked his brains out.

In contrast to the earlier story, this revelation was pure turn on for me. As I demonstrated when we got home.

[MartasBoy]

Have you ever been so lucky as to be out with your wife on a regular outing or date night and had an alpha type start flirting with and hitting on your wife right in front of you? Anyone ever have a situation like this happen to them? What did you do?

Not exactly right in front of me, but many times when I go to the bathroom, or I'm late meeting her somewhere for a drink. I've gone to the restroom before, and come back to find some guy leaning in close to her chatting her up. Usually they will politely excuse themselves and leave, sometimes they will continue to chat and I am intrusive enough that they usually take off. That is, unless my wife gives me an indication that she's interested in the guy.

[surry]

This was always my weakness. To watch another man make my wife smile.

[surry]

We were at Sam's Club and I went to look at something. When I looked up, a smaller man approached her and asked her something. I stood by and noticed he was flirting with my wife, and my wife was smiling, then laughing. I walked over, and my wife spoke up to introduce me. He glanced up at me and told me to go away. My wife laughed. I got embarrassed but turned on. I said "Yes, Sir" and left them. An hour later, she texted me. My wife was teasing me about the man flirting with her and bossing me. When we got in the truck, she showed me he phone with his number. She asked me if she should delete it. I took her phone and noticed it was a Mexican name. My wife stated, "He did not care that I had a husband." I gave her the phone back with the number still on it. My wife smiled and stated, "Aww, my husband isn't man enough to delete another man's phone number.
Driving home, they were texting each other. She texted him, I would not delete his number. He replied because I was a pussy and she needed a strong man.
When we went home, we had hot sex with her teasing me about how a little man put me in my place, and she loved it. They did meet up.

[luvwives999]

Quite a few times. She doesn't pick up on it as well as i do when it's in a 'vanilla' setting.

Same with my wife. 3 years ago we moved to Florida. About 2 years ago we started to go out to dinner with 2 other couples on our block once a month. As some of the snowbirds joined us it got up to 7 couples. One night we came home and I mentioned to my wife that T wants to fuck you. She said you are crazy, he's one of the snowbirds. A few months ago, T and his wife decided to have our monthly dinner at their house. I left because I had to get home to walk our 2 dogs, one of them is 15 and I don't like leaving him for that many hours, plus I don't like walking him if it's dark because of cane toads. An hour later my wife came home and said listen to this, after you left T pulled me aside and asked if I wanted to have a 3-some. He didn't specify ffm or mmf, I guess either one worked for him, because he'd get to fuck my wife. I think I deserve a lot of credit for not saying, I told you so.

[truesub]

My wife and I were at a bar, clearly together and not even 'in the mood', and some man walked right up to her. He started flirting with her very straightforwardly, demonstratively not noticing my presence. And the dude was tall and much bigger than me, so I think it was his attempt to go all alpha style.

It should be noted here that I am a pretty decent brawler and can easily beat 9 out of 10 men my age, regardless of weight. So this dude, from the way he moved, I could see that although he was larger, he's poorly trained, if at all. And I flinched to get up off the bar stool to give the jerk some sense, and then my wife looked at me. She had this look on her face, like, complete amusement. And suddenly I started laughing, and she laughed too, and the two of us sat there laughing like mentals.

The jerk tried to say something else, but we laughed at him so openly, he somehow hunched over and just walked away, his tail between his legs. I suppose he was a tad wasted or something. Knowing my wife, he had zero chance anyway.

But that was fun.

[avid fan]

There is something bizarrely intoxicating with that situation and the complete loss of power that comes with it; something about the way your faithful wife suddenly deserts you on the spot, attention drawn to the more desirable alternative.... and the guy giving you so little regard as to flirt away even when you're there as there's an unspoken understanding between you all of your place...

[4incheslong]

Yes, I have had it happen a number of times. My wife had the hots for a neighbor and we had some hot sex talking about them getting it on with different scenarios. So I was encouraging it to some degree. We went to a few parties and he was there. My wife would always spend most of the night talking to him and he would kind of separate her from the herd. She was standing too close to him and looking up at him. I am short so that dynamic of her looking up into the eyes of a tall guy like she was sucking him hit me. I was embarrassed and turned on that others could see it and know what was going on and I was sure eyes were on me as I did nothing.

[Bobs52]

My wife and I were out to dinner one night at a small place that was closer to a dive than a fancy restaurant. We’re sitting at a high top and this guy walks by our table on the way to the restroom and takes a good look at my wife as he passes. My back was to him, but it was obvious enough that we both noticed.

I should point out that my wife is officially a hotwife, but she has only had one encounter and that was some time ago. Still, she has absolutely no doubt that she has permission and encouragement to fuck anyone she wants. Sadly, this is more my kink than hers. But back to the story.

When the guy comes out of the restroom, he comes right up to our table and surprisingly addresses me telling me what a good job I’ve done by snagging my wife. Novel approach I suppose, but the message was clear. He was into my wife. He proceeds to tell us his background and that he was an early investor in a local company that we were familiar with that went public. He was able to buy a big house nearby and he had nice cars etc. Just outright bragging to impress my wife I’m sure. After a conversation that went on a little longer than we wanted, he told our waitress that our next round of drinks was on him. I of course protested, but he insisted. He then left to join his friends.

My wife can be a bit naive at times but she got the signal loud and clear. She looks at me and says “why do all the weird ones hit on me?” I told her because the normal ones probably think they have no chance. Confirming she knew what was going on she continued “if I had shown him even the slightest interest, he’d be inviting us back to his place with the intention of fucking me, and right in front of you to boot”. I of course asked if she did have any interest and unfortunately she did not.

A short time later, he leaves his friends and comes over to our table again. I can’t say he was overly aggressive about it, but he sure was trying to impress my wife. This time when the waitress comes by he tells her he is picking up our whole dinner. Again, I protest but he insists. After he left I told the waitress (who we are familiar with as we go there from time to time), NFW is he paying for our dinner and made her bring me the complete bill unbeknownst to him.

I imagine that he was probably bragging to his friends that he was making progress with my wife. I got a little cuck thrill out of all these guys knowing he was hitting on my wife right in front of me. Since my wife wasn’t interested in him, I did get her to agree to at least do one thing to enhance my cuck moment. I told her on the way out I want you to go up to him and give him a great big lingering hug which she did right in front of me and right in front of his friends lending credence to whatever story he was telling his friends!

Just a small little thrill for me!

[naivecuck2]

When I was first cucked by my wife's former high school boyfriend, she was about 35 and I was about 40. The wife and I went to a Country/Western bar that had a live band and a young good looking dude, that my wife later told me was 21, came over to our table and asked her to dance. Given I was already a cuck, I did not have a problem with her dancing with him. He was really bold and held her close by holding both her ass cheeks. She said his hard-on was pressed up against her stomach. He really wanted to fuck her but she told me that he was too young. I believe the real reason was that she did not want to cheat on her lover.

[naivecuck2]

When I was first cucked by my wife's former high school boyfriend, she was about 35 and I was about 40. The wife and I went to a Country/Western bar that had a live band and a young good looking dude, that my wife later told me was 21, came over to our table and asked her to dance. Given I was already a cuck, I did not have a problem with her dancing with him. He was really bold and held her close by holding both her ass cheeks. She said his hard-on was pressed up against her stomach. He really wanted to fuck her but she told me that he was too young. I believe the real reason was that she did not want to cheat on her lover.

[Johnann2227]

I have witnessed many men hit on my wife right in front of me and most of the time we have welcomed it. One memorable time we were in a club in Sydney and a famous West Indian cricketer was partying there. Ann was dressed hot as we were having a few drinks there and planned to head on to our favourite club.

The cricketer approached my wife and told her she was the hottest looking woman in the club and he had to dance with her. My wife smiled looked at me and I nodded. He took her by the hand and they spent the next half an hour grinding on the dancefloor. Being a cricket fan I knew immediately who he wad but my wife had no idea. All she saw was a tall, built, black guy who she wanted to fuck. After a while she led him back to me and we introduced ourselves. We shared a drink and she sat on his lap. It was interesting seeing the looks of other clubbers who recognised him.

When I offered to get another round he decided it was time for us to head to his hotel suite. Ann looked at me and I nodded. We left and spent the rest of the night fucking in his bed. Like his reputation, he was spectacular in bed. 9 inches, cut and thick. Big balls that could cover her boobs with a load. We kept in contact with him for about 5 years. When he would come to Sydney to play he would contact Ann and she would go to him for the weekend. We even had a close call of being found out when she was in a newspaper pic dancing with him and he was groping her butt in a mini skirt. Thankfully it showed his face and her from behind but we knew it was her. We cut that out and kept it.

[luvwives999]

My wife was the head of the PTA,and organized a fund raiser where a professional football team, I won't mention the team's name, played the police/fireman in a basketball game. My 8 year olds favorite player happened to have the same first name as my son, so when he was introduced, he let my son wear his jersey and go out to mid court. After the game was over, right in front of me the player said to my wife, leave your husband with the kids, come out with me and I'll show you how a real man takes care of a woman. She declined, but I kind of wish she didn't.

[weluvtoodoit]

Ours happened one night while out to a local casino. A female friend of ours introduced us to a gal who was her college friend and her husband. After a short minute of idol chit-chat, the woman asked if my wife would be interested in coming to AZ and do some interior painting at their winter home. Living in MN it would have been an extended stay for her if she took the job. The other woman then told my wife they could have 3somes with her husband if she would come down and help out. She never took the job, but it was fun talking about it for some time after that night!

[Amayzed]

There is something bizarrely intoxicating with that situation and the complete loss of power that comes with it; something about the way your faithful wife suddenly deserts you on the spot, attention drawn to the more desirable alternative.... and the guy giving you so little regard as to flirt away even when you're there as there's an unspoken understanding between you all of your place...

Great description.

[Thebestdays1]

About a year after we were married, my wife and I decided to go to a nudist beach not far from where we'd just moved to in Cornwall. She'd been topless on a few different beaches and I loved it when I saw men looking at her boobs.

We hadn't been at the beach very long when I heard a familiar voice behind us, it was a colleague of mine. He asked if he could join us then undressed and laid down next to my wife. We made small talk at first as I was trying to get used to being naked around someone I knew. It wasn't long before he started flirting with my wife and I guess, not hearing me object to this, the flirting got a little more suggestive. He even asked her to rub sun cream into his back.

He was a bit of a smooth talker at work and I started tiring of the sound of his voice so I decided to go for a swim in the sea. As I got up, I noticed his penis was semi-erect but headed off towards the water. I looked up towards them occasionally and at one point they were lying close to each other, whereas she'd spent the whole time sitting up, looking at the naked women on the beach. After about 20 minutes I'd had enough of the cold water and walked back to join them. They were both sitting upright again and I noticed he wasn't as erect as he'd been before but didn't think anything of it.

After hearing his voice for another half hour or so, I said the sun was getting too hot for me and suggested to my wife that we got dressed and head into town for something to eat, to which she agreed. In the car, I admitted he'd been getting on my nerves, especially the way he'd been talking to her. She admitted that whilst I'd been in the water, they'd laid down on their fronts and she'd snuck her hand under him and wanked him off. She hadn't fancied him and she also thought he was too full of himself but his penis had become fully erect after I'd gone swimming and she wanted to touch it as much as he wanted her to.

When we got home later that afternoon we had sex as she told me about how she'd tossed him off. I was slightly put off, knowing it was him that she'd bought off but I was also turned on that he'd seen her naked and needed to cum.

[avid fan]

Very hot... what was the vibe like at work after that?!...did things evolve to further situations with him?

[Thebestdays1]

Very hot... what was the vibe like at work after that?!...did things evolve to further situations with him?

I didn't let on that I knew what had happened. The next time we saw each other was at work and he said he hoped that I didn't mind that he'd joined us on the beach. I told him I didn't and he said my wife had a beautiful body. We worked on opposite shifts so we didn't say anything more on the subject but I did enjoy knowing that my wife had turned him on and I felt very proud of her whenever I remembered that day.

[coastalkid]

One time, years ago, we were traveling and in Dublin on a Saturday night. We went out to the Temple Bar and it was PACKED with people. It was shoulder to shoulder all the way to the bar. I took the lead, my wife and I squeezed through the crowd to the bar to order a drink. When we got to the bar my wife told me that someone in the crowd along the way had groped her. Instantly my mind shot to, "Awesome! Someone sees my wife the way I do!" Fortunately I didn't say anything at first. I could tell she was upset that it had happened. Being perceptive I said, "Oh my gosh honey! I'm so sorry! Did you see who it was?" I knew there was no possible way to of known who it was in this crowded room. It only took a second and she was back to being cheerful. I told her she could walk in front of me on the way out and I would protect her from the gropers.

It's not exactly being hit on but I always laugh when I recollect on the idea that my initial reaction was, "Right on!" instead of outrage.

[Long Lurker 34]

We were at Sam's Club and I went to look at something. When I looked up, a smaller man approached her and asked her something. I stood by and noticed he was flirting with my wife, and my wife was smiling, then laughing. I walked over, and my wife spoke up to introduce me. He glanced up at me and told me to go away. My wife laughed. I got embarrassed but turned on. I said "Yes, Sir" and left them. An hour later, she texted me. My wife was teasing me about the man flirting with her and bossing me. When we got in the truck, she showed me he phone with his number. She asked me if she should delete it. I took her phone and noticed it was a Mexican name. My wife stated, "He did not care that I had a husband." I gave her the phone back with the number still on it. My wife smiled and stated, "Aww, my husband isn't man enough to delete another man's phone number.
Driving home, they were texting each other. She texted him, I would not delete his number. He replied because I was a pussy and she needed a strong man.
When we went home, we had hot sex with her teasing me about how a little man put me in my place, and she loved it. They did meet up.

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[AZguy425]

Not a wife, but a girl I was interested in and friends with was approached by a guy asking if we were together at a restaurant in the early 1990s. I always felt she was flirting with me but she acted like that with others too so I never really knew. When the guy asked us she said we were just friends and gave him her number.

A couple of days later she comes to my work asking if I can take off with her and one of her friends, but I couldn't. She was wearing a black skirt, heels, black thigh highs (because I caught a glimpse of the stocking tops). It wasn't unusual for her to dress that way but she looked hot. She said maybe we'd meet after work but it didn't end up happening. I thought about that for years but never actually dated her.

Years later, I reconnected with her. She'd made a date with that guy but didn't want to go so she planned to have her friend drop her off with me because she was actually interested in me. I couldn't leave work so he friend dropped her off at the date. She wasn't super interested in him but once he saw that outfit and probably the thigh highs like I saw, he promptly made his move. She felt like a tease dressing that way and then saying no so she let him pull her panties off, spread her legs, and fuck her. She didn't meet me because she let him fuck her bare and he came in her pussy and she was a mess.

So I got cucked even though I didn't actually find out until many years later.