Cuck Humiliation

[NSEW1]

The above post is an example. Not common. In lots of hotwife/cuckold relations the bull is not allowed to do that. Only the wife decides this! Plus.... lots of hotwifes want their cuck to be arroused all the time.

Totally agree. Humiliation is not necessary or desirable for all.

There is another scenario in which the wife is not trying to humiliate her husband but the husband wants her to be sexually satisfied so she accepts the gift of being allowed a lover to take care of those needs while also taking care of the husband. Similarly the bull is respectful to both and stays focused on just sexing the wife without desire to replace the husband. In this more “cooperative” scenario, the husband retains the respect in the relationship, but willingly empowers the bull to stand in for him out of his strength of character and as a tribute to his love for the wife. The wife appreciates this sacrifice and rewards the husband in her own ways.

[Fallenone38]

The above post is an example. Not common. In lots of hotwife/cuckold relations the bull is not allowed to do that. Only the wife decides this! Plus.... lots of hotwifes want their cuck to be arroused all the time.

Totally agree. Humiliation is not necessary or desirable for all.

There is another scenario in which the wife is not trying to humiliate her husband but the husband wants her to be sexually satisfied so she accepts the gift of being allowed a lover to take care of those needs while also taking care of the husband. Similarly the bull is respectful to both and stays focused on just sexing the wife without desire to replace the husband. In this more “cooperative” scenario, the husband retains the respect in the relationship, but willingly empowers the bull to stand in for him out of his strength of character and as a tribute to his love for the wife. The wife appreciates this sacrifice and rewards the husband in her own ways.

There are many ways to go about Cuckolding.
One size does not fit all. I understand Humiliation is not Your cup of tea. This way works for You. I have been into this Lifestyle for awhile. I am here to tell You there are Couples are very submissive (for whatever reason) and crave submission. Maybe I am attracted to these Submissive Couple. Now on the other hand They are attracted to My style.

I have two couples right now. Both have been with Me for 3 and 5 years. Now They must get something out of it. I will take Them as far as They want to go.

Any true Dom will tell You, The sub is the one truly in control. By that I mean I as the Dom feed the sub what the are looking for, and yes what they need to be fulfilled within this Lifestyle. It's Ying Yang relationship. Each side has to get something out of this. I have walked away from Couples that wanted something that does nothing for Me. An example. I have run into a couples where the Husband was telling Me how the fuck the wife. Like He is directing a Porno Movie. Others just want to watch. I know other Bulls can relate. If I don't give Couples what they a looking for, They just don't stay.

I have seen many post on this site where the Cuckold tells how They practice this lifestyle and like its the only way. There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to this. We practice in the way We get the most out of it.

[Tryagain]

Elina,

thx for the advice ! Yes...I am always there :-)

try

[AZPainter]

I have experienced humiliation with my passed wife and a few of her lovers as well as some of the men I orally service over the past 25+ years. But it has only been verbal, dirty talk and name calling, and only during the sexual activities and with my consent. I do enjoy it at those times, but cannot say why. I am sure it touches some deep emotional feeling, and would like to know what that is, but so far I have not figured out what that emption is, but I do enjoy it.

I've never worn women's underwear or clothing of any kind and never been caged. That has zero appeal to me.

[harryjones1]

I've had many over the years, some of which I've enjoyed, others I have not.

Most for me has involved some form of feminization. I've worn a number of humiliating outfits at her bull's suggestion.

I started eating creampies in the last year and found that I actually loved this "humiliation", but it is nonetheless somewhat shameful to me when I stop and think about it Intellectually.

yes fully concur with that feeling after the event a mix of shame and waiting it to happen again

[Wifesharing]

I don't feel humiliation in anything we have done, My wife does not try to humiliate me and We are not into a demanding control other man. Now even though I don't get humiliated doesn't mean that things like being out at a bar and her kissing another man is not something that others would defiantly look at me in way that should be humiliating. So the lines are not black and white and often blur.

[Dream Weaver]

A lot of it for us has been organic, not forced. Humiliation isn't a huge kink for us, but it is bound to happen on some level when your wife sleeps with or dates other guys.

Some of it has involved being exposed. She's outed our situation to a friend and to her mom. But the humiliation tends to wane after a while once it's just normal for them to know. I'll still get a tinge of it when she and her mom openly discuss things in front of me.

She's had a couple guys into the dominant position they have over me so I've been willing to go with the flow in those situations, but never into anything that got crazy or made us uncomfortable.

She's not comfortable being mean to anyone, especially me. I've overheard her make comments comparing me to guys when she's with them and I'm out of the room. One time I came home when she was with a guy and they didn't hear me. I could overhear their conversation and I heard her tell him about a time I came fast and ruined the moment. So little stuff like that can present a bit of a thrill. But if it was forced, it would feel off.

I agree 100%. So much of this is humiliating by default, even if you consider yourself a “stag”.

There’s the little leaks that occur as you try to keep it a secret from others. There’s the 3rd wheel aspect when you’re all in the same group. There’s the oddness of watching a relationship subtly (or not so subtly) metamorphosize into something else that’s no longer sweet and innocent.

In a sense it’s plenty emasculating without having to do anything at all. That’s more or less where I stand.

I suppose the exception would be people who are so comfortable with it that they feel no “shame” on any level but I can’t relate to that at all.

[Cgb29]

A lot of it for us has been organic, not forced. Humiliation isn't a huge kink for us, but it is bound to happen on some level when your wife sleeps with or dates other guys.

Some of it has involved being exposed. She's outed our situation to a friend and to her mom. But the humiliation tends to wane after a while once it's just normal for them to know. I'll still get a tinge of it when she and her mom openly discuss things in front of me.

She's had a couple guys into the dominant position they have over me so I've been willing to go with the flow in those situations, but never into anything that got crazy or made us uncomfortable.

She's not comfortable being mean to anyone, especially me. I've overheard her make comments comparing me to guys when she's with them and I'm out of the room. One time I came home when she was with a guy and they didn't hear me. I could overhear their conversation and I heard her tell him about a time I came fast and ruined the moment. So little stuff like that can present a bit of a thrill. But if it was forced, it would feel off.

I agree 100%. So much of this is humiliating by default, even if you consider yourself a “stag”.

There’s the little leaks that occur as you try to keep it a secret from others. There’s the 3rd wheel aspect when you’re all in the same group. There’s the oddness of watching a relationship subtly (or not so subtly) metamorphosize into something else that’s no longer sweet and innocent.

In a sense it’s plenty emasculating without having to do anything at all. That’s more or less where I stand.

I suppose the exception would be people who are so comfortable with it that they feel no “shame” on any level but I can’t relate to that at all.

And that's a great example of why labels are so difficult for some of us. A lot of it is situational. I have experiences that fit into the hotwife, cuckold, stag, and poly forums. I can relate to people in each of those forums.

Desire is a fluid thing. Not many of us like exactly the same things we've always liked. And it can also depend heavily on my wife's desires at the time and who her partner is in that moment. Like you mentioned, when I'm the 3rd wheel, it's hard not to feel like a cuck. Then there are the times that she just goes off and plays on her own. That's a totally different dynamic.

Sometimes I may be a little hesitant to push some boundary, then other times I may happily push it in the moment and then afterward, I feel that it went too far.

As for the people who never feel any shame, I have too much anxiety to even consider what that must be like. Lol

[Sheownsme]

I love when we are on dates together with her lovers. I enjoy PDA. We have to be far enough away from home before she’s comfortable with any, but when she is comfortable, she is game. I love when she holds his hand when we’re walking down the street. I feel the need to walk a step or two behind. I love when they kiss in public and I’m forced to watch awkwardly. Bonus points if somebody is watching and doing the math for why there’s this other guy standing there. I remember one time being out at a bar with her and her boyfriend at the time. We had seats at the bar. She had a few glasses of wine and was quite flirtatious and handsy with her two men. Especially her boyfriend. There was a very chatty bartender who seemed to have things figured out before too long. She didn’t seem too concerned about being outed for being on a date with two guys. I remember being pretty red in the face when I knew that he knew she was fucking both of these guys. It was awesome.

It’s amazing how a door closing can be so humiliating. We would stay together at her boyfriend’s from time to time. He had a guest room where we could stay. After the relationship became comfortable, she would almost always sleep in his room. The guest room was across the hall. He preferred to keep the door closed after they got settled in and made sure I could hear him do it. She knew I preferred it open, but would defer to him on this. It always hurt hearing the door close. It would usually leave me with a hard cock.

[ticklemang]

I have to share this. Wife and I tied the cuck to a comfortable chair. (We were being Charitable). Wife then edged Him till He was dripping pre cum. Then We made love. When We finished, She went back to edging. We cuddle for a while. Then she started in on Him again. He was really dripping now. He started to beg as We laughed. This went on for hours. By the end I never heard anyone beg so much. As i was about to leave. I told the Wife to finish Him. Two strokes, He came so hard spurting rope after rope.

Super hot id love to hear more cuck edging torment

[Fallenone38]

How would You feel if I tied You to a chair? Your arms and legs bound. In able to move. I put lotion on Your cock. Then very slowly stroke You. You get very hard. I know You get closer to cumming, Now I stroke You very lightly. I love seeing You squirm. I see Your cock start to leak pre cum. I know You are very close to cumming. I just stop. Maybe I take Your wife in front of You. You watch. Still tied. Now maybe I take a Hitachi to Your cock. Running it up and down Your cock. Swirl it along the head of Your cock. I can do this for long time without You cumming. keeping You on the edge. Again I stop. Iwould repeat this for over an hour or more. One time I did this to a cuck over a whole weekend. By the end He was begging, even crying pleading to be allowed to cum. Telling Me He would do anything. Just let Him cum.

Think this may appeal to You? What would You do, just to cum?

[NSEW1]

How would You feel if I tied You to a chair? Your arms and legs bound. In able to move. I put lotion on Your cock. Then very slowly stroke You. You get very hard. I know You get closer to cumming, Now I stroke You very lightly. I love seeing You squirm. I see Your cock start to leak pre cum. I know You are very close to cumming. I just stop. Maybe I take Your wife in front of You. You watch. Still tied. Now maybe I take a Hitachi to Your cock. Running it up and down Your cock. Swirl it along the head of Your cock. I can do this for long time without You cumming. keeping You on the edge. Again I stop. Iwould repeat this for over an hour or more. One time I did this to a cuck over a whole weekend. By the end He was begging, even crying pleading to be allowed to cum. Telling Me He would do anything. Just let Him cum.

Think this may appeal to You? What would You do, just to cum?

Sounds great. A variant is to cage the cuckolds penis and then give him a small dose of Viagra. That way you don’t have to tie him or touch his dick. The situation will drive him mad with angst on its own.

[Fallenone38]

I have done this.

[bradisalpha]

How would You feel if I tied You to a chair? Your arms and legs bound. In able to move. I put lotion on Your cock. Then very slowly stroke You. You get very hard. I know You get closer to cumming, Now I stroke You very lightly. I love seeing You squirm. I see Your cock start to leak pre cum. I know You are very close to cumming. I just stop. Maybe I take Your wife in front of You. You watch. Still tied. Now maybe I take a Hitachi to Your cock. Running it up and down Your cock. Swirl it along the head of Your cock. I can do this for long time without You cumming. keeping You on the edge. Again I stop. Iwould repeat this for over an hour or more. One time I did this to a cuck over a whole weekend. By the end He was begging, even crying pleading to be allowed to cum. Telling Me He would do anything. Just let Him cum.

Think this may appeal to You? What would You do, just to cum?

Sounds great. A variant is to cage the cuckolds penis and then give him a small dose of Viagra. That way you don’t have to tie him or touch his dick. The situation will drive him mad with angst on its own.

I am not sure what a small dose is but I enjoy giving him 50mg and watch him struggle as I restrain him to a chair
In pink panties as he watches his wife and I fuck and tease him mercilessly. The urge to touch his dickie is very strong.. sometimes bouncing in the chair.. humping the air as if it will stroke him .. lol !!

I also enjoy giving him viagra with his wrists restrained behind him and make him kneel at the side of the bed in his pink panties while we laugh at him as he humps the side of the mattress.. cumming in his panties.. but his dickie will not go down !!

I also enjoy giving him viagra when we go out to dinner or a club together and watch him struggle as his wife and I flirt and make out while we tease him.

Viagra and a cuckold can be very enjoyable !!

Just sayin…

Brad

[maxbud]

We do not currently have a Bull (unfortunately), but our vacation Bull (lives at Myrtle Beach) has a very assertive personality, with a powerful cock to match. He isn't shy about taking control in the bedroom, having me caged, and ordering me to my knees to watch as he passionately makes out with my wife and feels up her big breasts. He instructs me to suck his big cock in front of her, to include licking all over his balls, to get them nice and tight for her enjoyment. Even though I am 100% straight, I GREATLY enjoy the sexual humiliation of performing this act in front of her. He will then begin fucking her, frequently pulling his cock out, telling me to lick her married pussy juices off his hard cock, before reinserting it back inside her. Of course when he fills her with his cum, I am ordered to lick them both clean. As all this is happening, they are both telling me what a superior lover he is and how inadequate and undeserving I am.

Imagine if the bull came over, with another very sexy woman... who joined in your cuckolding. The extra humiliation of another untouchable beautiful sexy bitchy woman... watching your bi-sub-humiliation; first a threeway makeout session between both women and the bull,..as you kneel naked . She makes you suck his dick while your wife kisses him. She also dominated you and fucked your ass with a strapon whilst whispering sexy degrading things to you, as you both watch the bull ravish your wife. then she joins them for the threeway

[tightslider]

Once, a bull came in her. Afterwards, without losing a drop of his cum (it was all in her) i had to fuck her with a strapon to push the bulls sperm deeper in her....

This is hot!

[MaybesoonACuck]

How would You feel if I tied You to a chair? Your arms and legs bound. In able to move. I put lotion on Your cock. Then very slowly stroke You. You get very hard. I know You get closer to cumming, Now I stroke You very lightly. I love seeing You squirm. I see Your cock start to leak pre cum. I know You are very close to cumming. I just stop. Maybe I take Your wife in front of You. You watch. Still tied. Now maybe I take a Hitachi to Your cock. Running it up and down Your cock. Swirl it along the head of Your cock. I can do this for long time without You cumming. keeping You on the edge. Again I stop. Iwould repeat this for over an hour or more. One time I did this to a cuck over a whole weekend. By the end He was begging, even crying pleading to be allowed to cum. Telling Me He would do anything. Just let Him cum.

Think this may appeal to You? What would You do, just to cum?

Wow. This is hot as hell.

[stubbyhubby]

One of my favorite humiliations is after a guy fucks Lisa and I clean her, she will get turned on and say "I need to do this", grab my head and smash my face into her pussy and thrust and grind her pussy on my face until she orgasms. After she is done and let's go she will say "I needed to cum one last time and I knew that was the only way you could do it for me."

[dinoo]

For those of you that are into it, did you ever set limits as to the humiliation? Have you experienced humiliation that you ultimately didn't enjoy or didn't wish to have repeated? If so how did you handle that? For others of you that have no limits, does the humiliation have to escalate to maintain the thrill?

My wife didn't like the word "humiliation".
She translated humiliation as hurting and that was the last thing she wanted.
‘We love each other too much for that.’

On the other hand, she knew damn well that I got very aroused when I had to witness her having sexual intercourse with other men. But as she put it,
"It's a voyage of discovery I wouldn't have liked to have missed. I myself can really enjoy sex with other men. So sure of that. So I'm not doing it for you alone. However, I must confess that it really turns me on when you watch and especially when you jerk off in the process. It works as an encouragement and almost automatically I push boundaries then. I enjoy it even more then and I think so do you. Limits? I'm very happy that we don't have rules."

In reality, she loved being very close to me while she sucked cocks, fixing her eyes on mine, surrendering completely to another man and letting me watch as cum spurted into her mouth. She also loved cum kissing me and letting me eat cream pies.
Last but not least, she introduced me to sucking her lover's cock so she could watch, too.

I could handle it easily because it was what we both wanted.
And yes, my 'humiliation' escalated step by step.
Once, her black lover commanded me to put his unprotected cock in her pussy.
After that, putting cocks in her pussy became a regular occurrence.
She loved that.
She said, "For me, it's a sign of unconditional love."

[davecarnality]

Just an observation, but the humiliation seems so much more meaningful when brought on by the wife. "... she introduced me to sucking her lover's cock so she could watch, too" is a case in point.

[surry]

My wife has me take Viagra before I fuck my left hand. Since I am her boy-husband, I do not get pussy. She explained that my hand is my pussy.

[sherulestherooster]

We didn’t do a lot of humiliation play but I definitely wanted to explore that more. My interest stems from having an older siblings that would over power me at will, think of the scenario where they would pull my arm behind my back and force me to say humiliating things like “My sibling is so much smarter and better than me, I only wish I could one day be in the same league”. As a child of the 80s, I’d watch pro wrestling (WWF and GLOW) and I felt “funny” when one wrestler would dominate and humiliate the other, like put them in awkward positions for the pin (grabbing their tights and pulling them down, putting their crotch right in their face, or my favorite Colonel Ninotchka’s humiliating pins with her victim in a fetal position as she smoked a cigar). Other times the wrestlers freely cheating, kicking the other guy in the nuts, verbal trash talking, even the guy that cut the loser’s hair or placed the snake across their helpless defeated loser.

That kinda thing really turned me on, but I was too naive to realize they were sexual feelings related to a dominance and submission theme. It’s a very strong fetish for me. My ideal bull would be one that would understand this need and pushes the envelope during a scene, then afterwords we would be more or less equals, friends: “hey man that was really creative when you forced me to wear your dirty sweaty jockstrap on my head when you fucked my wife silly”, things like that.

[canadianwittol]

My wife is just like yours in that respect; she hates the word humiliation and says she'd never enjoy seeing me humiliated.

However...she says she loves seeing me feeling embarrassed and that I'm cute when I'm vulnerable. It's a very strange distinction that might come from her native tongue which likewise has two different words for embarrassment and humiliation.

I have had literally the exact same experience of her taking me shopping for panties when the first time I told her that I found it humiliating she instantly protested "No! Why do you have to be like that? I would never humiliate you." She was upset with me and felt I spoiled the shopping trip.

However, on a subsequent shopping trip I said I found it embarrassing to have my wife picking out panties for me and she was filled with glee and said "oh, you're so cute when you are embarrassed!"

I don't know what the difference is, but there is a clear distinction in her mind.

For those of you that are into it, did you ever set limits as to the humiliation? Have you experienced humiliation that you ultimately didn't enjoy or didn't wish to have repeated? If so how did you handle that? For others of you that have no limits, does the humiliation have to escalate to maintain the thrill?

My wife didn't like the word "humiliation".
She translated humiliation as hurting and that was the last thing she wanted.
‘We love each other too much for that.’

On the other hand, she knew damn well that I got very aroused when I had to witness her having sexual intercourse with other men. But as she put it,
"It's a voyage of discovery I wouldn't have liked to have missed. I myself can really enjoy sex with other men. So sure of that. So I'm not doing it for you alone. However, I must confess that it really turns me on when you watch and especially when you jerk off in the process. It works as an encouragement and almost automatically I push boundaries then. I enjoy it even more then and I think so do you. Limits? I'm very happy that we don't have rules."

In reality, she loved being very close to me while she sucked cocks, fixing her eyes on mine, surrendering completely to another man and letting me watch as cum spurted into her mouth. She also loved cum kissing me and letting me eat cream pies.
Last but not least, she introduced me to sucking her lover's cock so she could watch, too.

I could handle it easily because it was what we both wanted.
And yes, my 'humiliation' escalated step by step.
Once, her black lover commanded me to put his unprotected cock in her pussy.
After that, putting cocks in her pussy became a regular occurrence.
She loved that.
She said, "For me, it's a sign of unconditional love."

[Southerncuckboy]

We didn’t do a lot of humiliation play but I definitely wanted to explore that more. My interest stems from having an older siblings that would over power me at will, think of the scenario where they would pull my arm behind my back and force me to say humiliating things like “My sibling is so much smarter and better than me, I only wish I could one day be in the same league”. As a child of the 80s, I’d watch pro wrestling (WWF and GLOW) and I felt “funny” when one wrestler would dominate and humiliate the other, like put them in awkward positions for the pin (grabbing their tights and pulling them down, putting their crotch right in their face, or my favorite Colonel Ninotchka’s humiliating pins with her victim in a fetal position as she smoked a cigar). Other times the wrestlers freely cheating, kicking the other guy in the nuts, verbal trash talking, even the guy that cut the loser’s hair or placed the snake across their helpless defeated loser.

That kinda thing really turned me on, but I was too naive to realize they were sexual feelings related to a dominance and submission theme. It’s a very strong fetish for me. My ideal bull would be one that would understand this need and pushes the envelope during a scene, then afterwords we would be more or less equals, friends: “hey man that was really creative when you forced me to wear your dirty sweaty jockstrap on my head when you fucked my wife silly”, things like that.

I get that alot, I was bullied and picked on a bit. Took years to grasp that it caused seuxal feelings. I also used to fantasize about being hazed for a frat like in the movies, spankings, serving drinks etc. But my college didnt have much of a Greek life so never had a chance.

[sherulestherooster]

I get that alot, I was bullied and picked on a bit. Took years to grasp that it caused seuxal feelings. I also used to fantasize about being hazed for a frat like in the movies, spankings, serving drinks etc. But my college didnt have much of a Greek life so never had a chance.

Yes, good call out about hazing. When we were seniors we were talking about whether we would join a Greek system and this one classmate ( I happened to have a big crush on her) that lived local university said that she heard as part of sorority hazing, they would have the pledges strip naked and they’d critique their bodies, using markers and such, like small tits, overweight, etc. - that turned me on. I had the longest fantasy based off this, that I was a slave at auction and my partner would evaluate every part of my body, like Uncle Owen and the droids for sale in. Star Wars, lol.

Also there’s the Animal House “thank you may I have another” paddling. Very hot for me. I e not seen very good porn that portrays this well.