Share wife with much older guy

[alex91601]

Hello everyone

We are a couple in our mid-thirties and have only met two guys thus far, both of whom were of a similar age and we had a great time.

She is so beautiful and youthful which is why I am greatly excited when I envision her being admired by an older man who appreciates her physique, among other things .

I know most people prefer younger guys but I wonder if some on the forum share the same fantasy and have acted on it?
I would love to see them flirt in a bar and have people look at the them and notice the age gap before they go back to the room...

[Southerncuckboy]

Hello everyone

We are a couple in our mid-thirties and have only met two guys thus far, both of whom were of a similar age and we had a great time.

She is so beautiful and youthful which is why I am greatly excited when I envision her being admired by an older man who appreciates her physique, among other things .

I know most people prefer younger guys but I wonder if some on the forum share the same fantasy and have acted on it?
I would love to see them flirt in a bar and have people look at the them and notice the age gap before they go back to the room...

we haven't acted on it yet, but Hannah wants a much older guy

[The Owl]

Age is relative...

Alex91601... how old is "older" for your "beautiful and youthful" partner?

Southerncuckboy... How old is a "much older guy" for Hannah?

A nice quality of older men is stamina. When I was younger, I had an orgasm very quickly. As I aged, I was able to enjoy orgasm for a longer time and could decide when to allow myself to enjoy orgasm.

Older men (and women) are less likely to get overwhelmed with emotions... less drama and more 'in the moment' fun!

[Maddie_Hippychick]

On the other hand…

As men age, many tend to spend less time taking care of themselves, they get stressed, they over eat and drink too much, etc. A disproportionate amount of older men will start to develop ED, lose over-all stamina, as in they get winded and need to slow down, and have a long recovery period, one and done. This is just my personal anecdotal experience. Wonderful men, just need to embrace new ways of being sexual.

[sconesy73]

but I wonder if some on the forum share the same fantasy and have acted on it?

Yeah I have. First guy I ever shared S with was 39 to her 17. Another time was when we were on holiday in Cuba, she was about 28-29 and spent most of the 2 weeks fucking a 62 year old.

[sconesy73]

On the other hand…

As men age, many tend to spend less time taking care of themselves, they get stressed, they over eat and drink too much, etc. A disproportionate amount of older men will start to develop ED, lose over-all stamina, as in they get winded and need to slow down, and have a long recovery period, one and done. This is just my personal anecdotal experience. Wonderful men, just need to embrace new ways of being sexual.

I'm almost 52 and can completely relate to that!
I was starting from a pretty low bar anyway but prostate cancer surgery at 49 ended my "normal" sex life with S in regards to getting erections etc. If my tongue and fingers ever fall off I'm doomed

Luckily S has very recently reconnected with a past lover so we're all happy to be moving in the right direction

[Southerncuckboy]

Age is relative...


Southerncuckboy... How old is a "much older guy" for Hannah?

Her ideal age range is mid 40s and up

[SmallTownGuy]

Don't know if that is much older to you, but my wife (who is not a hotwife, at least not yet) has always had a thing for older men. She is 37, I'm 39 and she has told me most men she finds attractive are around 50 years old. As those who have read our thread know, she has lately kissed the first "other guy" and she is going to meet him again and he is 48 yo.

I find this setting very exciting and like it a lot. To us older guys seem more confident, more stable, more experienced, more classy and all that. For older men, compared to women their age, she is young, fit, beautiful, tight and sexy.

[CuckedbyNikki]

We entered this lifestyle with a 60yo guy fucking my wife and he still does.

[AZPainter]

My former wife, had sex with a variety of men ranging from same age to older gentlemen. For instance the owner of several nightclubs and bars locally was in his early 60's. He was fucking my wife for the entire time she worked for him. I think the last time I saw him with my wife he as 72 or 73 if memory serves (I'm 84 now) She was 22 when she first went to work for him. This was before we met and later married. She continued getting with him any time he wanted while we were dating and for awhile without my knowledge after we married. She also was having sex with other men who were both same age and older during this time, but I think her boss, the owner was the oldest . After I found out that our marriage had not stopped her playing the field and quite a few hour of talking between us after I found out, we came to an agreement that she could continue but I was to be told all about her adventures quickie's and all. I've told the gang here about finding out about her cheating and how I realized how turned on I became during the talks she and I had.

Anyway, back on the focus of this thread. She told me a number of times that she enjoyed most of the older men she fucked more than the younger men. Older men seemed to last longer and their experience on top of the endurance gave her the likelihood of more and better orgasms. Of course she wasn't saying that all older men had these capabilities, but most of the ones she was with were better lovers than the young men she did. This, with younger men also had good lovers but fewer than the 40's and above. She also told me that the older ones were more understanding about not becoming to emotional and just having fun sexual experiences with her. Some younger guys, her words, to clingy. Older men had more experience, as I mentioned, and had often had more with various positions and varieties of sex. She learned a lot from older men as they were open to more things often considered kinky by many younger men. All this made our sex life better in many ways. I loved hearing about her adventures.

[surry]

We got married at ages 18 and 17. We were poor and moved into the basement of an old man's home. Mr Mullins was in his 60s. I think the rent was $75 a month. It had sheets for walls and a hot plate, a couch, a small TV, and one toilet. The sink was a laundry sink. We were both virgins. We were embarrassed to be naked in front of each other. So we knew NOTHING about sex. Right after getting married by the justice of the peace, we moved in. We had clumsy sex and fell asleep. The next morning, I woke up, and Mr. Mullins' arm was under the covers, and he was finger fucking my new wife. My wife had a look of shock. Mr Mullins talked to us about us being new at marriage, and we admitted we knew nothing. He said he was a sex therapist and taught couples how to have a happy sex life, which makes a happy marriage. We agreed, and he had me expose my wife, and his finger was slowly fucking my wife. He named and showed us every part of my body and her body. I was amazed when I witnessed my wife's first orgasm. It was HUGH! Then he had me jerk off on my wife's tits. I liked my mess. My wife loved this! I stayed hard. He fucked my wife, and he lasted a long time. I cleaned her up. I found out my wife has a father complex. They were fucking all the time with blow jobs, tit fucking, even though it was painful, my wife begged Mr Mullins to fuck her ass. He did, and I held and kissed my wife. She was very uncomfortable, and Mr. Mullins was gentle, offering to stop. She said no. He never did it again.
My wife never said no to him. She was in love with him and me. It was six months before I got to fuck her. Mr Mullins said I had to earn her body first. So I would watch them together and learned a lot. I was permitted to jerk off after they fucked. My wife moved upstairs when I was working. When I was off, she was with me. Looking back now, he was a predator. But being young, it was very exciting for us. Mr. Mullins was always polite, and we went out together. My wife was always holding his hand. I called him Mr Mullins, but my wife called him Daddy. She started calling him that on her own, the same week he started fucking her. Mr Mullins had no family and had never married. He left everything to us.

[surry]

Never mine

[Tryagain]

One of my wife's first guys after we were married was 45 yo and she was just 22 yo. She loved being with him. A good part of her enjoyment was that he was very, very well hung and could fuck her at least 2 pr 3 times whenever they met. I know because i saw them doing it.

[frank12]

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[frank12]

As one of those "older guys" my take is understandably slanted toward the very pleasant aspects of age differences - with emphasis on the older gentleman as playmate - and they are indeed intense and highly recommended. I started as the younger guy all those years ago, but as years went by there was a time when I realized I was decidedly taking the role of that older gentleman (with an authoritative, professorific tone where appreciated). Yes, a little bit of being called "Daddy" by one lovely woman who liked the way that comforted her, the more memorable age difference relationships were more of the flavor of being the experienced, capable, unhurried professor than of being the Daddy. I didn't discourage that, and the mild to more than mild authoritative tone made for great chemistry with cuckold couples as well as for the delighted divorcee.

Everyone is different in so many ways, and there were many more reasons than simply the age difference that contributed to the why and how of finding those chemistries and having fun with them, but I do firmly believe that many enjoy the gradient of age as much as of authority. Others above have listed reasons, and some downsides, but relationship stability is one of the better parts.

Prof Wood

[bltn1966]

The first swinger couple we spent the night with gave us the best experience imaginable. The couple was in their late fifties, while we were in our early thirties. I thought the guy didn’t have a chance in hell when he started flirting with my wife. I actually was about to run him off when my wife told me not to make a scene. I sat and watched as the guy slowly seduce my wife. When they went on the dance floor the man’s wife sat next to me. She told me she could tell by my wife’s body language that she was going to have sex with her husband tonight. She told me how much she loves watching her husband fuck young ladies like my wife.

Up until then my wife was only interested in guys her age or younger. This guy was old enough to be her father. So, I was absolutely shocked when my wife agreed to go back to the couples hotel suite. When we got into the hotel room me and the man’s wife sat on one bed as we watched our spouses go at it. We e sat and watch her husband fuck my wife all over the hotel suite. He had my wife eating out of his hands. It was by far one of the best nights of our lives.

[The Owl]

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[luvwives999]

As an older man, I approved of this desire LOL

[alex91601]

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Hey

I was not ignoring you just did not have time to respond until now.
She does not have specific fantasy about the bull, she is more about doing it and that's it lol, she is eager to blow 2 guys while she looks at herself in the mirror or being touched in public.

She has not a type really besides her basic:being fit , respectful and being able to have a conversation.
It is mainly me when I look at her, she is beautiful and I am just turn on about the ideas of her pleasing an older dude, having her tight and smooth pussy being used by an older dick lol . Daddy issue / secretary boss type of role play.

This fantasy is really about me actually.

[The Owl]

If a younger woman wants to have sex with an older man, I'm guessing she'll find LOTS of volunteers.

Having hot sex with a young woman is almost every older man's dream "cum" true.

You could always place an ad on that dating site for older people - CarbonDating.com.

Now I've taken it too far!!!

[UrbanSin]

I’m in my sixties and am what is commonly known as a sugar daddy. I've had long term arrangements with younger women who I met on sites specifically for the sugar daddy dynamic.

I agree with Maddie, older guys may lack stamina but can make up for it in many other ways.

I never meet women under twenty five and thirty is more normal. I am constantly surprised by a) how many men try to hit on “my” woman at the bar, it’s as though I am not there and b) the knowing looks and sometimes comments (eg “have fun!”) you get in the lift to the hotel room.

[UrbanSin]

I’m in my sixties and am what is commonly known as a sugar daddy. I've had long term arrangements with younger women who I met on sites specifically for the sugar daddy dynamic.

I agree with Maddie, older guys may lack stamina but can make up for it in many other ways.

I never meet women under twenty five and thirty is more normal. I am constantly surprised by a) how many men try to hit on “my” woman at the bar, it’s as though I am not there and b) the knowing looks and sometimes comments (eg “have fun!”) you get in the lift to the hotel room.

[UrbanSin]

I’m in my sixties and am what is commonly known as a sugar daddy. I've had long term arrangements with younger women who I met on sites specifically for the sugar daddy dynamic.

I agree with Maddie, older guys may lack stamina but can make up for it in many other ways.

I never meet women under twenty five and thirty is more normal. I am constantly surprised by a) how many men try to hit on “my” woman at the bar, it’s as though I am not there and b) the knowing looks and sometimes comments (eg “have fun!”) you get in the lift to the hotel room.

[Caribwaters]

My wife's first lover was 60+ and she was only 25. He was her boss in a small office with only one other female F/T employee. He made his "move" one afternoon when the other, older woman employee was off. She immediately succumbed to his charms and they began an 9 month affair. He was very successful and though married for years had enjoyed a number of girlfriends. He took her to fine restaurants and spent money on her making her feel special. He had ED issues and there was Viagra in those days, but he more than made yup for it in bed. It was my discovery of this affair and our subsequent "sit down" that made me willingly become a chuck.

All her future lovers were older by number of years than she. Enjoyed their maturity, self confidence, sexual experience and financial stability. Only has one short term relationship with a younger man and it was generally disappointing for her.

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[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Maria has had two boyfriends over the past 18 years. Her first (and by far longest) was 14 years older than her. (We used to joke together, all three of us, that he was masturbating his way through puberty when she was born.)

She LOVES the older guys in her life. Her boyfriend taught her VOLUMES! Fucked her weekly (and often twice weekly) for more than 15 years. There is NOTHING she hasn’t done with him (except anal), and I was privileged to watch ALL of it at some point or another. It was wonderful to watch him teach her things. He was her “Daddy.” I learned a lot, too. He’s a good man, and we’re all still friends to this day. But she has moved on from him, sexually speaking.

Her current boyfriend is four years younger than her, and she’s having a lot of fun with him, too. A different kind of energy this time. I haven’t been invited to watch yet, but I’ve watched plenty of video. (He knows I know, and we’ve actually become pretty good friends over the three years they’ve been together. I feel like an invitation to watch is imminent, but we’re taking it nice and slow.)

He’s super fast with her. Eats her to orgasm, but cums within two minutes of sticking it in her. The second round is always fun to watch. He’s spent, and he lasts much longer so she can happily cum on his dick. Impressively, he’ll cum a second and even a third time if he’s given enough time. (No fucking way I can do that. Once I’ve cum, I’m done for the day!)

I just know that she’s loving it, and I’m glad she’s having a little fun on the side. She’s lovely to watch, and I know he’s having a blast, too.