Ladies...would you recommend your son?

[dreamer72]

To the Hotwives of the community I have a curious question. Given that you have come to appreciate value of good cock and the enjoyment that comes from men other than your husband for whatever reason that is for you, and also that good cock is sometimes difficult to find......If you had a son of legal age who seemed to be good Bull material, would you recommend your son as a potential Bull to another HW, or even perhaps just a single more mature MILF friend in need of some good cock? Or if you don't have any other HW or single friends would at least encourage him to experience the lifestyle and the unique pleasure that is married pussy? Would you feel proud to know your son was a good Bull to other HWs or your friend?

ETA: I would kindly ask that you don't divert this discussion with "incest" stuff. I made it very clear that is not what I'm asking about. Thank you!!

[hiker]

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[Mustang1]

Incest….

[dreamer72]

Incest….

I would kindly request we don't divert the discussion in that direction. That's clearly not what I'm asking about.

[Husband7]

I can almost guarantee you will not get a (real) woman on here to speak to whether she thinks her son would be into kink or not, and whether he'd make a good bull. You might find a man pretending to be a woman talking about it.

To your comments above, it's not at all clear that you're not asking about incest. In fact, it really seems like you're alluding to some sort of incestual thing by asking women to think about their sons in a sexual way. I'm not even sure how this question could be answered without making a woman think about how good her son would be in bed.

[dreamer72]

I can almost guarantee you will not get a (real) woman on here to speak to whether she thinks her son would be into kink or not, and whether he'd make a good bull. You might find a man pretending to be a woman talking about it.

To your comments above, it's not at all clear that you're not asking about incest. In fact, it really seems like you're alluding to some sort of incestual thing by asking women to think about their sons in a sexual way. I'm not even sure how this question could be answered without making a woman think about how good her son would be in bed.

I guess people will see what they want to see then. But I know what I was asking. I very clearly was not talking about any sexual contact between family members.

My questions comes more from a perspective of "sex education" if you will. Most parents raise there kids with some sort of guidance (albeit most do a very poor job of it), be that conveying some sort of "social norms" or "moral/religious" guidelines, etc. So it's not like there is never any "sexual talk or education" between parents and children, so to insist that any talk or guidance is tantamount to incest is just stupid. But I would surmise that most people do not come into the hotwife/cuck lifestyle through the guidance or exposure from someone they know. They usually find there own way there by research and exploration of emerging fantasies over time. But it then takes the decision the put aside "social norms" and/or "religious morality, repression and boundaries" to step into a more open minded view of sexuality.

So perhaps the better question to start with is: Since finding this more open view of sexuality, how would that change your "teaching/guidance" of sexuality to your children? If you found this openness after your children are grown, do you perhaps regret teaching them more repressed views of sexuality? If you could do it over what would you want to teach them?

But then: Lets say you found out that a single MILF friend of yours, or another HW has seduced your adult son, would you be upset about it? Would seem kinda hypocritical, cuz every man a HW fucks is someone's son right? Since we all here (HWs, cucks, Bulls) agree that married pussy is a pinnacle of sexual experience, and this is a lifestyle that you advocate for at least as a choice for consenting adults, then why would you not want your son to have that awesome experience? Are you really going to say you should be free to enjoy this lifestyle and all the men you choose (who are someone's sons) but YOUR son should live in repression?

I remember noticing the attractive wives of my parents friends or just married women in general, how amazing would it have been to come into young manhood knowing it was ok to experience desire for a married woman and that if her and her husband were agreeable to openly experience the pleasures that only a married woman with permission to play can offer?

[Cdncuck]

We are pretty kinky but we draw the line at discussing any part of our personal lives with family. So we wouldn't be recommending family members to anyone.

[Cdncuck]

We are pretty kinky but we draw the line at discussing any part of our personal lives with family. So we wouldn't be recommending family members to anyone.

[dreamer72]

We are pretty kinky but we draw the line at discussing any part of our personal lives with family. So we wouldn't be recommending family members to anyone.

But on the outside do you profess traditional social/religious norms about like monogamy, etc while being/doing something else in private? Or do you just avoid the topic all together? If you have children what "norms/morals" of conduct and belief do you teach them?

I grew up in a very religiously oppressive environment and some I've always had a disdain for is hypocrisy, and those that usually preached the loudest about "immorality" in public usually ended up being the biggest pervs behind closed doors.

[leggysman]

We certainly aren't planning to teach our kids any repressive ideas about sexuality. They're still young, but they get curious about bodies and baby-making and whatnot, and we answer openly and honestly (age-appropriate).

I'm sure we'll both be more than happy to answer any other questions the same way, as they get older and become more aware of, and curious about, sex.

I hope they have sex lives as fun and rewarding as we do (and kinky too, if that turns out to be their thing) but I'm pretty sure I don't want to think or know about the specific details of that. Just as I'm pretty sure, our parents don't want to know any details about our sex life. Some boundaries are good.

[dreamer72]

We certainly aren't planning to teach our kids any repressive ideas about sexuality. They're still young, but they get curious about bodies and baby-making and whatnot, and we answer openly and honestly (age-appropriate).

I'm sure we'll both be more than happy to answer any other questions the same way, as they get older and become more aware of, and curious about, sex.

I hope they have sex lives as fun and rewarding as we do (and kinky too, if that turns out to be their thing) but I'm pretty sure I don't want to think or know about the specific details of that. Just as I'm pretty sure, our parents don't want to know any details about our sex life. Some boundaries are good.

Not saying you'd want or need play by play details. But just like parents might set up their son to meet the daughter of their friends or aquatintences for a regular dating relationship possibly leading to marriage, why is it much different to set up a meeting for your son to meet a MILF friend or other HW, for them to enjoy each other for other activities? Why would you recommend them to a friend's daughter for regular dating but not to another HW for play dates? Does it really seem a whole lot different is it really?

[Wifesharing]

We certainly aren't planning to teach our kids any repressive ideas about sexuality. They're still young, but they get curious about bodies and baby-making and whatnot, and we answer openly and honestly (age-appropriate).

I'm sure we'll both be more than happy to answer any other questions the same way, as they get older and become more aware of, and curious about, sex.

I hope they have sex lives as fun and rewarding as we do (and kinky too, if that turns out to be their thing) but I'm pretty sure I don't want to think or know about the specific details of that. Just as I'm pretty sure, our parents don't want to know any details about our sex life. Some boundaries are good.

Not saying you'd want or need play by play details. But just like parents might set up their son to meet the daughter of their friends or aquatintences for a regular dating relationship possibly leading to marriage, why is it much different to set up a meeting for your son to meet a MILF friend or other HW, for them to enjoy each other for other activities? Why would you recommend them to a friend's daughter for regular dating but not to another HW for play dates? Does it really seem a whole lot different is it really?

For us we raise our children in a way that they have morals and standards of behavior that are socially excepted and also teach them that in life as long as you are not harming others of course you should try new things.

Now when it comes to sex we would never discuss our kinks with them. If as adults they found out and asked us questions because they found out things we would respond that sorry but we have no interest in discussing our sex life with them. This goes for Vanilla sex or more kinky stuff.

Setting our son up with a friend that is a HW for sex is not at all the same thing as suggesting he date a Girl, at least to me. Dating suggestion is not just about sex. Of course I don't really remember ever doing that. I just would prefer not to know anything about my sons' sex life , at least not more than knowing he had it because I have a grand kid.

I hope that they and my daughters have a great pleasing to them sex life. I have raised them in a way that they know they can enjoy things out of the norm. They also know that sometimes you need to have things that are kept to yourselves and those involved and not needed to broadcast to the world.

So to your original answer I could not see doing such. I think the amount of real honest parents that say they would are going to be very low, and amongst mom's I would say rare. People just don't want to think about their children and sex as I think our children don't want to think about us and sex.