Mature wannabees (50+)

[vrmtr]

Unfortunately since menopause she's lost almost all interest in sex.

Funny thing is that my wife's libido increased after menopause, and much more playful and direct with her comments, such as when she sees a nice looking older gentleman she says "I wonder how big his cock is".

mine is on HRT and it's helping...playful...teasing, nude beaches and resorts...just haven't crossed the line yet

[Tnex]

Mwm 57 here. I enjoy discussing real situations where I can ask questions. How many guys over 50 discovered a bi or bicurious side because of being a wannabe? Love to here from any of you by PM.

[davecarnality]

73 and still, regrettably, a wannabe. Although my wife's libido has increased some after menopause, she is hesitant to violate her preconceived social mores. Oh, we've talked about it, fantasized, viewed cuckold porn. But no clear way forward yet.

[fun_dip]

Anyone ever think about a wanna be get together? I think it might be cool to hangout with others in the same boat that you can talk to openly.

[Someone2love]

Mid 50's, wife going through menopause. I haven't directly raised it, casually mentioned a threesome with an extra guy to ensure her pleasure a while back. No bites. Wife is very sexy, but fairly reserved sexually. Gently working to open horizons, but not sure we'll get there. Who knows, encouraged by the many older couples on here, and ones who came to it late.

[Colliercuck]

My email is “cuck4chelle@yahoo.com”, if anyone wants to chat
Naples, FL

[okplayer]

hope all is well. Still interested in chat and fun adventure with mature wannabe husbands. Let's hope the summer brings fun, exciting adventures

[Mejillas]

Long-time Wannabee. Happy to chat over PM. Reach out if you still would like to chat.

[wannabe72]

Wife and both 51.

[vrmtr]

Mwm 57 here. I enjoy discussing real situations where I can ask questions. How many guys over 50 discovered a bi or bicurious side because of being a wannabe? Love to here from any of you by PM.

would love to chat about experience!

[pmate]

We've discussed it for 15+ years now. It remains a hard no. Is what it is at this point - OHW is a great resource to get my hotwife fix

[Sunray]

Great discussion! I'm not actually a wannabe, but a "liketorestart"

Two long term marriages. Still on no. 2. Different motivations on both wives but same patterns. Several years of cheating, followed by several years of open, but limited hotwifing. After a few years of closed down, some more cheating. Various reasons, with cock size being in the mix.

All hotwifing has been shutdown in marriage for perhaps 6 years. My wife revealed at last shutdown that she would like a new larger cock. I agreed, but she continued to require that she functioned solo. I had long wanted inclusion to watch and participate. So that never.got started.


We're 60's and 70's and I am attempting to revive something. Our personal activity is minimal but she recently admitted that she would enjoy at least doing BJ on 6 or 7 inches. Currently trying to increase libido and sexual interest with some lingerie and talk. Thankfully, Mrs. appears considerably younger than her age.

[sconesy73]

Wife and both 51.

Exactly the same here

[DrewRN]

Would love to meet a couple that would let me have to pleasure of the creampie cleanup. Central NJ here

[DrewRN]

I'm a wannabe...unfortunately. My wife's desire decreased post menopause due to increased dryness and adding on a few extra pounds. I still think she's sexy as hell and she gives great head. We use lube, but she just doesn't enjoy sex like she used to.

[DrewRN]

I agree. I'm in the same situation as you...hard no but this site is a hard yes

We've discussed it for 15+ years now. It remains a hard no. Is what it is at this point - OHW is a great resource to get my hotwife fix

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum DrewRN.

[Hopingshewill]

I'm in too 60 and still hoping pm me please

[ravenrogers]

51yo HW Husband would love to chat with you, or anyone about our experiences

[GreatPlains]

I'm 59, wife 56. She still looks great. She is very concerned about doing something "wrong" so this is a hard no from her. Still, I like to think about it and read others experiences.

[okplayer]

I'm 59, wife 56. She still looks great. She is very concerned about doing something "wrong" so this is a hard no from her. Still, I like to think about it and read others experiences.

Hey,

Thanks for replying to my ad. I'm 23, young professional who is interested in discreet exploring hotwife & cuckold dynamics with couples in their 50s. Is this something you and wife have discussed often? What do you like about the fantasy?

[okplayer]

I'm 59, wife 56. She still looks great. She is very concerned about doing something "wrong" so this is a hard no from her. Still, I like to think about it and read others experiences.

Hey,

Thanks for replying to my ad. I'm 23, young professional who is interested in discreet exploring hotwife & cuckold dynamics with couples in their 50s. Is this something you and wife have discussed often? What do you like about the fantasy?

[okplayer]

I'm 59, wife 56. She still looks great. She is very concerned about doing something "wrong" so this is a hard no from her. Still, I like to think about it and read others experiences.

Hey,

Thanks for replying to my ad. I'm 23, young professional who is interested in discreet exploring hotwife & cuckold dynamics with couples in their 50s. Is this something you and wife have discussed often? What do you like about the fantasy?

[GreatPlains]

Hey,

Thanks for replying to my ad. I'm 23, young professional who is interested in discreet exploring hotwife & cuckold dynamics with couples in their 50s. Is this something you and wife have discussed often? What do you like about the fantasy?

We haven't discussed it directly, as I am pretty sure she would not agree (and this is the "Wannabe" forum). As I said, she doesn't like to do anything that could be considered wrong, and so I don't see her going for this. However, I do have an attraction to it, not sure why. I like the idea of watching her, I like to watch her masturbate, so the next step is to watch her with another man. Ideally, someone with more of package than I have (which wouldn't take much). I'm the smallest of the three men she's been with in her life, but we've been married over 30 years so it's been a long time since she's been with anyone but me.

If we did get started, it would certainly have to be discreet. We would not be one of those couples where the wife is so obvious in pubic, like some I've read about.

[GBinSD]

I’m 57, wife 54. I’d be up to chat for sure.

Wife tells me she can take or leave sex it’s not a big deal to her - we only have sex once a week - but when we do she LOVES it, like way more than just about any other chick I’ve been with. She’s also the only chick who says “thank you” when we get done which is quite the ego stroke !

We’ll watch porn when we fuck which really gets her wet, talk dirty, dildos, spanking, bondage, I tell her how I want a guy to fuck her while she sucks me off etc.

She takes it all in her stride and is totally unfazed but also says she has absolutely NO interest in fucking other guys

I’m kind of OK with the situation but my fantasy about watching her with other guys also feels like I have a really bad itch I just can’t scratch.