Reignite the Flame

[vb23456]

Any more invitations for a date at the opera?

[QuietHope]

A little disappointed that nothing happened on the last night of the cruise. Tucker did find her on the cruise ship app (which only works while on board) and pinged her a few times asking to meet up but she ignored him. We stayed up late together, past midnight, to enjoy the near 24 hours of daylight and drank cocktails at a bar, but just us.

We did see him at breakfast but it was crowded and we were with kids. I think he’d been on the lookout for her. When she was at the buffet, he approached her and she said it was just a nice quick conversation. Was so nice meeting you, but I need to get back to my family. He had been sharing a cabin with two boy cousins, younger than him, and I saw them looking over several times. I loved that those boys were looking at me like I’m an unwitting cuck.

We spent a couple of days in Anchorage, participating in the solstice celebrations, and now we’re home. I haven’t mentioned what happened, not even once. A few weeks ago, after talking about her opera date, she was so negative that I really thought about giving up the cuck dream. Then Tucker happened. I don’t understand the workings of the female mind but I seem to be best off not pushing at all. I’m guessing I play a key role in the “good Sophia” persona that she wants to be most of the time and she doesn’t want to be reminded or thought of as someone else.

[QuietHope]

We saw an old friend of S over the long weekend. Her divorced naughty girl friend, a Korean gal. I felt comfortable telling her about S's cruise exploit and she was very encouraging. They went out just the two of them later and apparently they talked about it in more detail and S came home turned on and, I hope, feeling like she should continue down this path...

[Long Lurker 34]

QH
- I think you experienced one of those "yes it happened - no it didn't" events. You could speak of it until you are blue in the face (not that you are going to) but it will get denied every time.

[QuietHope]

Do you all think this really needs to be a "lifestyle"? Is this something she could do and be one and done? Or do you think that once she tastes the fruit of the forbidden tree, she'll forever desire its sweets?

[Wifesharing]

Do you all think this really needs to be a "lifestyle"? Is this something she could do and be one and done? Or do you think that once she tastes the fruit of the forbidden tree, she'll forever desire its sweets?

Definitely does not have to be a lifestyle. Many wives are one and done. Actually a lot of people take this all too seriously. We have been enjoying my wife having other lovers for 15 years of our 23 years together. There have been times when we were playing often times where we were not even talking about it. We actually never refer to this as a this as a lifstyle this is something we do to enhance our sex life it definitely is not our life it doesn’t control us nor does it consume our life’s.


So yes you can do this and not have to make it your lifestyle

[Dream Weaver]

Do you all think this really needs to be a "lifestyle"? Is this something she could do and be one and done? Or do you think that once she tastes the fruit of the forbidden tree, she'll forever desire its sweets?

As the poster above says, my wife was one and done, for sure. She was never truly into it, I look at it like she had this "slutty" period in her 20's (she married me young), where she had a open mind, but effectively nothing happened (she tried a couple times), and it had to be organic, none of this weird swinging stuff (sorry swingers). Finally a friend SEDUCED her and I encouraged her to let it happen. After that... effectively over.

[leggysman]

As the others have said above, I guess for some women it could just be a single experience or person that scratches that itch satisfactorily and forever.

I'd be inclined to think that for many women, however, "breaking the seal" and becoming a married woman who has fucked someone else, would create something of a persistent change in the way she views monogamy within the bounds of marriage. Particularly if she enjoyed it, and you handled it deftly.

Other VHWs here have said that taking the leap required a change in their self-identification as a loyal, traditional, sexually faithful wife. But once that change happened, the barriers came down. I'm certain that's true for my wife. She has embraced her inner slut, and it's been wonderful.

[BallSpanking]

Do you all think this really needs to be a "lifestyle"? Is this something she could do and be one and done? Or do you think that once she tastes the fruit of the forbidden tree, she'll forever desire its sweets?

Let's see ... Sofia is offered a free Hall Pass, redeemable at any time and place of her choosing, with ZERO repercussions/down side.
Every day reduces her window of opportunity to experience anything like this again. She can still command the attention and erections of most males around her. Her children are grown/off to college. She deserves to be rewarded for the wonderful job she's done as a mom, and her husband knows there is a dormant tigress waiting to be unleashed, and that will take a virile Alpha lover who can bring this out of her.
What does she gain by monogamy at this point? If she'd only let down her hair, take a deep breath. and take the plunge ...

[Long Lurker 34]

Do you all think this really needs to be a "lifestyle"? Is this something she could do and be one and done? Or do you think that once she tastes the fruit of the forbidden tree, she'll forever desire its sweets?

QH
- I would say there is a huge margin between being in the LS and "one & done". There's nothing to say that as along as she knows she has a 'unlimited' hall pass, usable anytime then it could months or years in between uses.

[QuietHope]

Not much to update...but I will say that since the adventure on the cruise, things have been very good for us which I think bodes well for potential future events. I've always found her to be attractive but in recent weeks, there's definitely been a reinvigorated spark and I think its both ways. We're having more frequency for sure, and more often than in the past, initiated by her. I think she's feeling sexier. There's been almost no mention of what happened and during sex, I don't bring up other guys or any of that. Of course, in my head, I imagine all kinds of things and I don't know what's in her head. Outside of sex, we've been more "lovey dovey" and affectionate. Romance rekindled.

I think she's getting more of what she has said she wanted from our relationship. I'm hoping she makes the connection that her having fun outside of us leads to that.

[vb23456]

Is Aaron around this summer? Does S still keep in contact with him?

[leggysman]

Do you two talk much during sex? We didn't used to, but it has definitely come along with the advent of hotwifing.

We don't pillow-talk about her other guys all the time (I usually let her take the lead on that) but when we do, it's a real firestarter.

But here's the other bit: I explicitly gave my blessing for my wife to fantasize about other men when we have sex. That was something of a revelation for her, I think. I mean, we probably all fantasize about others during sex from time to time -- but rarely are we encouraged by our partners to do that. And even to openly talk about it during sex. My wife seems to love it.

Picture it: she's just about to come, and she blurts out that she's thinking about that time when so-and-so fucked her in this position and made her come, and I say that's fucking hot, and that pushes her over the edge ...

[BallSpanking]

Do you two talk much during sex? We didn't used to, but it has definitely come along with the advent of hotwifing.

We don't pillow-talk about her other guys all the time (I usually let her take the lead on that) but when we do, it's a real firestarter.

But here's the other bit: I explicitly gave my blessing for my wife to fantasize about other men when we have sex. That was something of a revelation for her, I think. I mean, we probably all fantasize about others during sex from time to time -- but rarely are we encouraged by our partners to do that. And even to openly talk about it during sex. My wife seems to love it.

Picture it: she's just about to come, and she blurts out that she's thinking about that time when so-and-so fucked her in this position and made her come, and I say that's fucking hot, and that pushes her over the edge ...

[QuietHope]

So I may be a cuck for real now, I'm not sure.

I'm in my nyc hotel right now, alone.

A week ago, I reached out to a gentleman on this forum. Nycbullforhw. I told him that she'd never agree to meet a bull. We'd have to meet ‘naturally’ and he'd have to seduce her. My god was he effective.

We went to the bar after dinner. She actually was in a bad mood and we almost just went back to the hotel but I got her to go. She had a little wine at dinner and was a little tipsy but not a lot. She was wearing a long black dress. Bare shoulders. A light sweater because of the air condition.

We sat near him but a stool away. He saw us take a selfie and he smoothly offered to take our photo and he complimented her beauty. He is a handsome dude by the way, Indian heritage. 50s. Confident. Obviously a successful (wealthy I'm guessing) man. Divorced.

He kept up the chatter and had her laughing and entertained. Then he had a line about kissing the bride to be at Bachelorette parties. I was stunned to see them kissing next.

It was very tense then. I decided to use the bathroom. When I returned, s told me that they were going to another bar. Some roof top place on. Fifth Avenue. I said that I was tired, they left together and I haven't heard from either of them since.

My god.

[FNQLivin]

Keep us updated

[playwifeplease]

Wow, a real cliffhanger. Can't wait to hear what happens next.

My money's on that she is a fully fledged Hotwife now. How close does he live to you, is there a chance of him becoming regular?

[danevans309]

I sit here cock in hand edging waiting for your post confirming your wife is now a hot wife. I’d really like to blow my load while reading your confirmation. Please update.

[CuriousOne36]

I cannot wait to hear what happened after they left the bar!!!

[nycbullforhw]

Hey - Thank you.
And it was awesome to
meet you and S. You are a perfect cuck.

I will let S tell you the details on what happened.

Feel free to share.

[myoralannie]

She is beautiful and sexy. I hope nyc was able to close the deal. From what I have read, she is ready. Can’t wait to read everything. Thx

Suggestion: Can you link the pics to your account so they are at the bottom this way it is easier to review her sexy pics?

[BallSpanking]

Congratulations, Karl.
I look forward to reading about Sophia's HotWife baptism.
Let us hope this leads to more adventures once you return home.

[QuietHope]

I don’t yet have many details. She came home early this morning and was exhausted and passed right out. I didn’t get to do any reclaiming. When I left for work meetings, she was still fast asleep. I only gathered a few facts from a brief conversation at lunch.

NYCbullforhw was nothing short of “amazing”. She said she “never knew it could be like that”. I asked if she meant that he had a huge cock and she said yes, he’s huge, both thick and long, but it was a lot more than that. He knew how to touch her. When to touch her and where. She felt like he was controlling her body, guiding it to achieve ultimate pleasure and eventual leg shaking orgasm. She couldn’t believe that she could be so in synch with someone she had just met.

After her first mind-blowing orgasm, he held back his own orgasm and made her cum several more times before he finally did. I don’t know how he could do that because I know how sexy she is when she cums. He didn’t wear a condom and came inside her.

He fucked her in several positions. He’s so much bigger than me that it just made him better at positions like doing it from behind. She confessed that she and I have never had a sex session that lasted so long.

She admitted to having an immediate emotional attachment and connection.

They napped a little afterwards before she woke to leave but she said he looked so sexy asleep in bed that she couldn’t help herself and she got back into the bed and sucked him. He woke and fucked her mouth hard. She admitted that she’s never had an oral experience like that. Yes, she swallowed.



As for me, I am in a daze. It happened so fast. I guess I didn’t expect it was really going to happen. I am feeling totally cucked by NYCbullforhw. He obviously gave her a night that I never have. I’m sure I will have more to share in coming days.

[BallSpanking]

I would not be surprised if Sophia wants to see him again before returning home ...

BTW, you realize OHW will have to relocate your main thread now you are no longer a wannabe ...

[myoralannie]

It sounds like she really enjoyed nyc’s big cock. I think we all were hoping someone would touch S in a way that would make her finally relent as an official HW. Exciting.

From your retelling, it would seem obvious that she would like to see him again. Did you discuss that? Also, we don’t often get a chance to read both sides of this lustful event, are you ok w/ nyc chiming in? How about a pic of nyc’s big cock to give us an idea of what S enjoyed? Just a few thoughts. Lastly, once you get the whole story of how he got her back to his place, etc, we would love to read it.

Congrats and thanks.