My gf is cucking me tonite

[FLR_fan]

I have been a long time follower here, but have never posted. Some users here despise me I feel, based on how they have strongly reacted to my comments. So tbh I feel a bit nervous sharing my story.

Anyway, long story short -my ex gf returned back after a long hiatus got back and started living with me the past week. She is going through job changes and dealing with a lot of personal stuff and apparently has a lot of bills to pay. Anyway, she has a deadline for a large amount tomorrow. I didn’t feel comfortable paying, as we have hardly been back and I am not sure whether she is hustling me or not.

Anyway, after a lot of back and forth- she set an ultimatum and said she is going to hookup with a random guy tonite for “money”. Right now she is getting ready and seems pretty much set upon doing this.

As much as messed up as this is, I can’t help but keep getting hard with this whole situation.

Any advise is appreciated.

[patw3268]

She’s going to end up with a STD and you will too.

[FLR_fan]

I understand your concern. And it is totally valid. But I doubt if I can change her mind, once she has set her mind to it. She has this youthful free spirit and bloody mindedness that is indefatigable.

[FLR_fan]

She said that she will give a blow job only on a condom clad dick. She said it might just be a heavy petting session or something. Idk. This is all new territory me. She also pitched about buying a hot new dress, so she can look nice. But I kinda shot that down.i am hoping she is just fibbing and it’s her way to put pressure on me to cough up the money.

[FLR_fan]

Ok so she sneaked out right now. I think this is for real!

[FLR_fan]

Quick update - so she actually didn’t do it yet. There is still today for payment deadline, so we will see. Is it weird, that she chose to return last week and she has all these money issues at the same time? Anyway, despite all of her flaws, I am deeply in love with her and can’t quite get her out of my mind (trust me-I tried this past 7 years).

[FLR_fan]

Btw I did move last month to a spanky new place with a sweet pool and huge backyard that her dog loves - so that could be partly it. as to why she chose to return. The woman’s mind (and heart) is an absolute mystery that I have abysmally failed to unravel so far, lol.

[elina]

...... The woman’s mind (and heart) is an absolute mystery that I have abysmally failed to unravel so far, lol.

Dear FLR_fan

I think that your statement above to some extent is true for all Ladies, albeit some more than others.
Given the limited amount of information you have shared, it is difficult to offer any advice as of now.

The fact that you are still madly in love with Her and find it difficult to break with Her does indicate a strong bond.

I think your best approach is the one that you are currently taking, see where this will lead, and maybe see if it is possible for you to have some conversations with Her where you don't hide your feelings but also invites Her to share what She is thinking intermediate and longer term.

Did you have an FLR before the break-up and if so was She in complete control of everything or just of some aspects of the relationship?

Sincerely
elina

[wannabecUKold]

Btw I did move last month to a spanky new place with a sweet pool and huge backyard that her dog loves - so that could be partly it. as to why she chose to return. The woman’s mind (and heart) is an absolute mystery that I have abysmally failed to unravel so far, lol.

“So, Miss X, what, after all these years, made you fall back in love with flr-fan with his solvent bank account and his spanky new place with pool?”

[UrbanSin]

“So, Miss X, what, after all these years, made you fall back in love with flr-fan with his solvent bank account and his spanky new place with pool?”

Love a Mrs Merton reference.

[maxbud]

She said that she will give a blow job only on a condom clad dick. She said it might just be a heavy petting session or something. Idk. This is all new territory me. She also pitched about buying a hot new dress, so she can look nice. But I kinda shot that down.i am hoping she is just fibbing and it’s her way to put pressure on me to cough up the money.

Hey man... me with my FMF fantasies... I cant help but fantasize about the following ...with your GF




Her SEXY good friend, say... LISA... (has been a private high class escort for rich men for a while). Your GF tells Lisa that shes looking to hook up with some rich guy that can pay her bills. (lisa is super sexy, flaunts her body in front of you; realizes that you check her out.... but generally ignores you and barely notices your presence; you privately have a huge lustful crush on lisa, but you hide it. ... as you have no chance in hell of touching her)

Lisa is amused and excited, and happily tells her about Dan ( a suave, rich playboy ladies man who is sooooo good in bed, and super alpha radiant and confident) Lisa wants your GF to join her for an FMF threesome as a gift to Dan;

Dan hears about it, thinks your GF is hot... and wants to take them on a weekend getaway; dan gets even more interested when Lisa hints to him, that GF is cucking you.

Lisa actually comes to your place to pickup your GF for a friday night outing with Dan; she gushes about Dan and his lifestyle as if you are not there; and from their gossip and innuendo, she clearly wants Dan to fuck your GF and Lisa wants to watch. They leave for a club night, skimpily dressed, and you stay home with a rock hard erection till morning. When she returns at 5am, you can tell that shes been totaly fucked; you asked how her evening was, and she blows you off and goes to sleep.

The next afternoon she is packing for a 3 day weekend trip with dan. she tells you not to worry, she will be fine and she will send you pictures.

....
Dan ends up in a super sensual FMF threeway with GF and lisa,.... slow deep makeout; the condom rule goes out the window, and he creampes BOTH women EACH night for 3 days. ALso makes your GF have her lesbian experience with Lisa.


Lisa secretly had used her phone to film some sensual moments, with your GF missionary with dan,.. deep soulful moaning and orgasms; you end up seeing the video accidentaly on your GF's phone. GF let you discover it, so as to cement the FLR relationship and put you in your place in the pecking order. GF also denies you sex for a while.

GF makes clear to you, that men like dan are sexy womanizers and she loves giving herself to them; she cannot date him, but she would fuck him anyday he calls... and she enjoyed sharing such a man with a super sexy girl like lisa. Dan has many girls and GF is just one notch in his belt.

. GF laughs and tells you that she is dan's submissive whore, whilst being your dominant queen.

dan gets both women ; GF denies you for a while. and you are super horny with the femdom cuckolding;

[sconesy73]

Btw I did move last month to a spanky new place with a sweet pool and huge backyard that her dog loves - so that could be partly it. as to why she chose to return. The woman’s mind (and heart) is an absolute mystery that I have abysmally failed to unravel so far, lol.

“So, Miss X, what, after all these years, made you fall back in love with flr-fan with his solvent bank account and his spanky new place with pool?”

Brilliant

[FLR_fan]

Quick update - sorry the day was non stop. Anyway, I think she did it! She ended up mentioning it in passing. And then refused to share anything further.

The convo went along these lines, while we were in the car. Me after a long day and quite drained and she in fact a bit extra affectionate when I got back.

Me: so you paid off the loan installment for today’s deadline?
Her: yes, I had to do what I had to do
Me: what do you mean?
Her: I don’t want to talk about it
Me: but didn’t we say we will share everything
Her: No I don’t want to talk about it. You told me you can’t pay. So I had no alternative. It’s not something I want to discuss.
Me: but didn’t you have a busy day with your hike and job applications?
Her: Honey, the hike is only 20 mins. I had plenty of time. You were gone all day.

So anyway, by then we had reached the place to pickup my just teen son and that was that. After that the evening was a blur- hearty dinner at an authentic Mexican restaurant, playing hoops in the dying light, and my gf and son having fun ribbing me and making fun of my oh so many flaws. She is tired and sleeping now. So we didn’t have any sex but she was affectionate (albeit a bit moody) as usual.

Btw she did mention, that she can’t leave me now as I give the best oral she has ever had, and she feels my dick grew 2” bigger than last time she was with me, lol

Appreciate all the comments. Have energy to text so much only. But will get back with more answers tomorrow, time permitting, I promise!

[sconesy73]

She isn't cuckolding you, she's taking the piss out of you.

[FLR_fan]

Ok, so we had the talk today morning. She admits she was just fibbing and didn’t sleep with anyone or anything like that. She said she got some of the money from her ex and then took an advance on the cash app and paid her emergent bill. She says she will start working any job this week so she can payoff all her loans. She insists that she would be with me regardless of whatever (even if I were bankrupt). I clear cut told her that- “you cannot milk me financially dry. We can be in this together and plan or our finances and spending”.

I don’t know. I hope it is real. I feel I am missing something or not seeing clearly.

[FLR_fan]

Elina, thanks for your kind reply. Sorry I couldn’t get back earlier with a reply. I have always been attracted to strong domineering personality types for sure. But haven’t been in a full fledged FLR yet, but have experienced FLR to some degree in previous relationships and marriage. Having said that, it has been a challenge to completely let go and tbh I have been more alpha and headstrong all my life and especially the nature of my work.

Anyway, in regards to my current situation, unfortunately it looks like it may come to an end. She keeps going back to vaping and cbd and I fear even stronger stuff (even though she vehemently denies) and I have no choice but to ask her to leave rn. I don’t see her breaking her habits and I have an impressionable teen at home that I want to protect to the best I can. So that’s that. Oh well. It was good with some spicy stuff till it lasted.

[dannyvee]

You're a dad first and a cuck second. Dump her if she's a druggie. You'll feel better and your daughter will turn out better.

[OldChap]

Vaping & CBD aren't drugs. CBD is specifically made to not get you high.

[FLR_fan]

Yes, I agree with Oldchap. She states that she was into more hardcore drugs before, but quit last year. Of course, I worry that she might relapse or something.

Update: anyway my soft heart couldn’t let her go and I melted to her charms and so yes, she is still going to be here for the time being.

This weekend, we attended a sip n show event for her friend. It was a fun party with plenty of food and very chill vibe. Anyway, her best friends uncle, come s over to her table, sits right next to my gf and starts bombardung her with compliments. This is a much older guy, previous swimmer and a charmer with a way with words. There was a lot of flirty and forward things said, that maybe I might post if I have more time. Anyway, when we were going back home, my gf told me that he did squeeze her thigh once while he was asking her “if she had the biggest dick in the house”. Also, he ended exchanging numbers with me and was like let’s stay in touch and mentioned his nice ranch style place not far from the beach and was like we love to party, lol.

[FLR_fan]

My apologies for the typos and grammatical error filled update from last time. My gf who has a habit of going to sleep with random shows playing on her phone with AirPods on. Last night, for some reason I decided to check her phone. It confirmed my worst fears- she has been texting and messaging her ex and even met up with him earlier this week in the guise of saying she needs to pick up her old stuff. But worse, she has regularly been in touch with her dealer for prescription pills, which she has admitted she was hooked on to previously but told me she had quit. Clearly she continues to do them. For me the deceit is gut wrenching. As much as I love her, I don not see any healthy way forward. Any thoughts or advise?

[FLR_fan]

We had “the talk”. She’s going to clear up her stuff and then leave. I am headed out for work for the rest of the day.

[Aureus]

My apologies for the typos and grammatical error filled update from last time. My gf who has a habit of going to sleep with random shows playing on her phone with AirPods on. Last night, for some reason I decided to check her phone. It confirmed my worst fears- she has been texting and messaging her ex and even met up with him earlier this week in the guise of saying she needs to pick up her old stuff. But worse, she has regularly been in touch with her dealer for prescription pills, which she has admitted she was hooked on to previously but told me she had quit. Clearly she continues to do them. For me the deceit is gut wrenching. As much as I love her, I don not see any healthy way forward. Any thoughts or advise?

Drop her like a hot potato. If she's using she will find a way to get money out of you. Kick her out, change the locks, secure your valuables. Check that no stuff of yours is missing.

[johnswan]

I'm sorry, but did I miss the bit about cuckolding?
Or maybe it's in another thread.
I'd search FLR_fan's posts, if only the search function worked.

[wannabematt]

thanks for sharing your story

[FLR_fan]

Thanks for the kind words. She is hounding me to get back and blowing up my phone rn. But I know I cannot answer, even though it takes every fiber of my being not to. As much flawed and self destructive she is - I still love her. But then I look at my son and know I have to do the right thing.