setting up a memorable pickup and date

[firef503]

Im a bull that's helped a lot of hotwives get started. A lot of husbands in that positions of talking to their wife already and wanting something to happen "naturally." A common approach to that is get the wife dressed up, psyched up, dancing shoes on, sit alone at the bar with the husband that thinks he's coy and watches her from across the room. He checks on her every 20 mins or so but everybody quickly figures out he is with him. Usually nothing happens but if a guy does talk to her the pressures on. She usually feels trolled, probably been a while since she's talked to a random in a bar. Generally speaking the bar clientele isn't always the best.

Then there's online. Selection is ample, prescreening from you home until you see someone you like then talk to them to see if things match up before you ever meet. My own experience with online meeting single women, both parties are usually looking for something to not like about the person so they can cross him/her off and move to the next one. This is opposed to meeting "in the wild" where you are looking to like about the other person so you can form a connection.

With hotwives or single women I like to set up meetings that make things memorable. Sometimes it's preplanned, sometimes it start with online chatting first with either the husband or the wife, sometimes it's a pre conceived plan to have me "bump into" the wife. The later usually only happens when wife gives husband full authority to find her a guy. However it starts I like to make things more memorable to form a better connection with the person. There is a certain safety factory in meeting for a drink in a public place and chat it out. To me that often feels too contrived. So I like to make memories out of meeting.

One such example is husband and I preplan taking a trip. We book tickets so all three of us are sitting together, I have the window, husband takes the aisle because his stomach isn't feeling the best and thinks he'll need to go to the bathroom (at least that's the story we up with together). Wife is in the middle. We strike up a conversation on the flight and essentially have a public date that feels mostly organic. The goal being we make plans to meet later. Ideally somewhere like vegas and I convince them to hang out once we get there. As bad luck would have it husband's stomach is feeling worse. Wife doesn't want that to ruin her trip but doesn't go out alone. So they agree to just her can hang out with me. once her and I hang out we go have some vegas fun, something a lot different than what she was planning with her husband. Not the classic drink and gamble kind of fun. But the kind of fun she isn't used to. Afterwards we hopefully form a much better connection than what you could possible ask for from your typical bar pickup type meeting.

[dohdoh]

Interesting to hear your point of view.

I like the ide of these memorable pickups, especially the topic of pre-planning things with the husband. When you say you preplanned to "bump into" the wife and planned the trip with the husband. Was this without the wife knowing, like, were you a complete stranger to her on the plane and she had no clue you and the husband had talked before?

I am still a "wannabe" but the thought have crossed me, if she evenutally wants to experiment, if it would be doable to "stage" her a date without her knowing that me and the bull have been talking. Maybe exchanges some tips for the bull to what she likes or what it would be hot for the bull to try that she will not do with me etc.

As I can see this balansing on the edge of going behind her back, have you experienced this, is it common or does it usually backfire if she realise it was all planned instead of a magical moment?

[firef503]

yes the wife did thing I was just a random stranger they were sitting next to on the plane.