Our Journey so far

[scorpionking674]

Hello all wonderful members of this community,

A little background of us is we met 8 years ago, purely out of lust for each other. We stayed at a hotel and we couldn't keep our hands off of each other during our entire stay. I think we only stepped outside the room for either food or the beach once. I've introduced very light bondage, outfits, roleplay, and naked photography in our early phases.

Last weekend, my gf and I were having sex when I started dirty talking to her (which hasn't happened in years) and asked "would you like 2 hands on your boobs or 4 hands?". In the heat of the moment, she was confused if that's what I asked and she asked me again what I had said. I repeated it and she said 4 and during that moment, I felt her get super wet. She's never been this wet. I kept talking dirty and we both came so hard. That evening, I tried dirty talking again and she popped me and said she was just entertaining me earlier lol. I don't know why I brought it up but the more I thought about it deeply, the more I was okay with having a MFM threesome. As the week progressed, we talked a lot about it and she has/had her doubts that I was not happy with her or I wanted to do this to get a free pass. It was a rollercoaster ride of ups and downs between our texts but now she finally understands on why I want it. Few days ago, she liked the idea but she told me how and why she would do it. I was surprised and more aroused after what she had said. My idea was to let her have threesome and enjoy the guy. She said she wants to treat me like a king. She wants me to be her focus, and wants to lust for me. She wants the guy to be there to fill her up while she blows me. I think that's the best reasoning that I could've heard from her. I suggested we get on an app and just look what's out there and we don't have to rush into anything.

After looking at couple of the guys I had been talking to, I did show her pictures of the guys and she said she'd like to talk to him as she doesn't want to be anonymous. She wants to have some kind of connections. Just to know him. So I setup a group chat and yeah... They talked. She told him our rules, and how she wants it. This whole week I've been horny and we're just gonna take it slow. She did tell him that she's still not on board with it totally but did compliment his body. She did say his D was large lol and then the night ended. Even after all this, she said it makes her want me more. So yeah... I'll try to post updates as time goes by.

[armyguyot1]

Welcometo the forum scorpionking. She sounds amazing. Depending on where you are there may be guys who have experience at this and be willing to play. BSEFS has not been on for awhile but he used to be part of a group who did gangbang for women. Men who knew how to fuck and got along well which is key. Just saying that someone who knows what they are doing with some experience might really be worth while. Seems like with the right mix of guys it is a great experience and the wrong mix can be a pain, You might post in the personals and see if someone who has done a few might answer and make sure you start on a positive note for her and you. It should be about her and for her and not some guys needs.

[scorpionking674]

Thank you armyguy for that. I let her control the conversation and her needs. So far, this guy she's been talking to seems very very laid back and humble. Not pushy at all and doesn't feel like he's expecting anything within a certain timeframe. He's 38 and well kept together. From the chats, I could tell his vibe kind of meets ours but it's still too early to make any judgement calls. Neither her or I are hoping anything anytime soon. The guy did say he has done this before and he prefers older women and body of all types. They have shared a picture or two but that's all I have so far.

[armyguyot1]

Sounds pretty good thou maybe a bit young. Yup young is great for stamina and lust but can come with emotional baggage. Just saying make sure. Many of us were a bit jealous as a young man and had to grow out of it or experience out of it. An older guy doesn't guarantee anything but your probability goes up. Give her a really good first one and you won't be able to stop her and a bad one could end it. Just make sure it's all about her pleasure and needs and it's a little less previlent in young guys. Get them to meet and make sure he cherishes her and is aware of her needs or her inhibitions and desires.

[scorpionking674]

I'm much younger than him

[scorpionking674]

Sounds pretty good thou maybe a bit young. Yup young is great for stamina and lust but can come with emotional baggage. Just saying make sure. Many of us were a bit jealous as a young man and had to grow out of it or experience out of it. An older guy doesn't guarantee anything but your probability goes up. Give her a really good first one and you won't be able to stop her and a bad one could end it. Just make sure it's all about her pleasure and needs and it's a little less previlent in young guys. Get them to meet and make sure he cherishes her and is aware of her needs or her inhibitions and desires.

I like how you said to make sure about her pleasure and her needs. Surprisingly, she is making sure about my pleasure and my needs while enjoying the ride so far. I'm not so much into the communication and breaking their vibes but I do tap in every now and then so it doesn't feel like it'll be just between him and her. I'm not sure what label we'll be if this happens but def not cuck as I want to be present in the play. She doesn't want to play without me being in the play. For her, my body does it. So, our third knows what she/we are expecting. She wants to be touched and feel multiple things at the same time but focusing on me. I told her it's all about her but she's very kind and considerate and it gives her pleasure that I enjoy this as much as her.

[armyguyot1]

She needs to be treated like a queen and pleasured. She is thinking of blowing you while being fucked by another. That should be near sexual overload for her and able to she you pleasure but giving you the blowjob of your life while she is totally into another cock. I still feel that a blowjob with feeling and she swallowing all is special. For mine she takes that as special also as she can taste the love.

[scorpionking674]

I'll drop parts of our group chat convo for the readers. My gf had to do the chores so she told me to take over the conversation.

Him: "... She said she hadn't branched out before, but do you have experience with couples/MFM, or is this uncharted territory?"

Me: "Uncharted all the way. How about yourself?"

Him: "I've connected with couple to do solo play, have had guys that just want to watch her take it, some threesomes, and then some more involved stuff like DP. I've met some great people and that rearranged my ideas on healthy relationship."

.....

Him: "It really is about a good time. I respect you guys' relationship and am just happy to have a good time with good people. I'm ok with any boundaries and there's no reason we can't team up and give her the best sexual experience she's ever had, if everyone is openly communicating."

.....

Sometime later when she looked at her phone and read the texts, she texted me this:

Her: "His descriptions are something. Like when he said the two of you could give me the best sexual experience ever.

Dang

I like this point of view.

He will treat me right"

Me: "For us, you are our focus."

Her: "I want to kiss you while he's behind me"

Her: "It's getting hot in here. lol"

Me: "I hope he takes that pussy and ravages it properly. Then I will fuck your brains out."

Her: "It could be amazing. It's sexy AF "

Me: "He sounds like a giver, has the equipment, loves eating pussy."

Her: "It's such a temptation"

[armyguyot1]

Sounds like she is onboard. Need to meet him and see if he is what he says but she is getting anxious now that she has somewhat made her mind up. She now can begin to fantasize some of what it might be like. What he might be like and what it might be like to have him and you both in her at the same time. She might be fantasizing about her female skills to take 2 cocks and please them both and get cum from both. She may not admit it but I would bet it is something she thinks and fantasizes about. She wants to please you and wants the challenge of pleasing him and you both while beigng almost sensory overload for her.

[scorpionking674]

Sounds like she is onboard. Need to meet him and see if he is what he says but she is getting anxious now that she has somewhat made her mind up. She now can begin to fantasize some of what it might be like. What he might be like and what it might be like to have him and you both in her at the same time. She might be fantasizing about her female skills to take 2 cocks and please them both and get cum from both. She may not admit it but I would bet it is something she thinks and fantasizes about. She wants to please you and wants the challenge of pleasing him and you both while beigng almost sensory overload for her.

So, the thing is we've never done anal. She said that's off limits. When the sex gets hot, I will put a finger in her and eat her out like a caveman. She orgasms like crazy. But only some times she'll let this happen. So I doubt she'll let a stranger fuck her ass. I have asked her multiple times if she fantasizes him and stuff. She's said multiple times that his cock isn't what makes her horny, it's mine. She'd just liked to be filled and blow me. During the week, I made her look at his cock while I ate her out. I was watching and she did look maybe a time or two till she put the phone down. She doesn't want to blow him or kiss him. She'll allow him to cum on tits. But she def wants the sensory overload.

[armyguyot1]

Mine isn't into anal either. We tried it once and she didn't like it. We were dumb and didn't prepare her and I quite large. Oh Well. She is really really good at oral and loves it. She will swallow any time and I do it occassionally. Even thou I still find it special I love both pussy and mouth. She loves it and if I get her off a time or two first she can cum from me cumming in her mouth. No I meant him in her pussy and you in her mouth. One thing you migh to thou if she allows it is to trade off occassionally to prolong cumming for the two of you and more times for her. Cumming usually makes a woman horny instead of satisfied like a man. Make her cum hard a couple times which should be easy given how hot the situation is and then she may allow things you have never dreamed of once she gets orgasm sex hungry. Mine has a personality change after really good orgasms. A little booze and a couple hard orgasms and she is ready for the football team. Not to play football either. Maybe basketball 5 is plenty.

[scorpionking674]

Mine isn't into anal either. We tried it once and she didn't like it. We were dumb and didn't prepare her and I quite large. Oh Well. She is really really good at oral and loves it. She will swallow any time and I do it occassionally. Even thou I still find it special I love both pussy and mouth. She loves it and if I get her off a time or two first she can cum from me cumming in her mouth. No I meant him in her pussy and you in her mouth. One thing you migh to thou if she allows it is to trade off occassionally to prolong cumming for the two of you and more times for her. Cumming usually makes a woman horny instead of satisfied like a man. Make her cum hard a couple times which should be easy given how hot the situation is and then she may allow things you have never dreamed of once she gets orgasm sex hungry. Mine has a personality change after really good orgasms. A little booze and a couple hard orgasms and she is ready for the football team. Not to play football either. Maybe basketball 5 is plenty.

That's some great advice specially about the personality change part. Also, I would like to ask how do ya'll make sure everything goes safely? I'm a big safety guy and I don't want to be caught blindsided if anything goes south.

[armyguyot1]

I am a 6foot 2 230 lb combat veteran. I don't worry about safety nor take any shit. That's Stag not cuck.

[scorpionking674]

I am a 6foot 2 230 lb combat veteran. I don't worry about safety nor take any shit. That's Stag not cuck.

Oh yeah, I don't have any doubts in my skills either lol. I have custom AI cameras that run off a locally hosted server all over the property with face detection and custom automations.

[armyguyot1]

There is no way to have no risk. Safety is about getting it done at the lowest possible risk and there are guys on here who have better ideas than me but usually if you vet them properly and take reasonable precautions you will be fine. If you use a hotel find a good one. Embassy Suites has their happy hour which is a great place to get acquainted and primed and lubricated. Probably buy some Long Island Ice tea instead of the free stuff but it gives few hours to get aquainted and make sure you are on the same sheet of music. if a few drinks and a strange man make her wet and horny you have done two things at once. Gives him time to compliment her and flirt and work for his prize and not be entitled.

[scorpionking674]

There is no way to have no risk. Safety is about getting it done at the lowest possible risk and there are guys on here who have better ideas than me but usually if you vet them properly and take reasonable precautions you will be fine. If you use a hotel find a good one. Embassy Suites has their happy hour which is a great place to get acquainted and primed and lubricated. Probably buy some Long Island Ice tea instead of the free stuff but it gives few hours to get aquainted and make sure you are on the same sheet of music. if a few drinks and a strange man make her wet and horny you have done two things at once. Gives him time to compliment her and flirt and work for his prize and not be entitled.

That's some great advice. Thank you!

[scorpionking674]

I know it’s been a while. After a long time with our conversations, we’ll be going to Secrets resort next month and we have planned on her getting into fun. Fingers crossed if we find the right third.

[BallSpanking]

Best of luck there!

She needs to understand this as fun and relaxing.
Make it a game, no expectations, no requirements, all fun outcomes are encouraged.

[katslover]

Does she still text with the guy who you mentioned earlier or has that fizzled out? Seemed like she enjoyed texting with him. Did they swap naughty pics with each other?

[scorpionking674]

It fizzled out. She taking things at her pace rn.