So, it's sort of the duality we all experience here. I don't want her actually humiliated or feeling bad. That's not a turn on. But being in submissive and slutty situations in front of people that we would think of as humiliating? Love it. Sort of like I get turned on by her cheating on me, but she can't really cheat because that's what I want, and I would be devastated if she actually cheated on me.BrunetteLover wrote: ↑Thu Jun 26, 2025 10:50 amI do not believe that mutually agreed-upon (ie consensual) sexual activity is humiliating. Words can be, violent acts, however slight, can be.
Love watching her humiliated
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This is exactly the same way I feel. I get very turned on by the thought of her being submissive to another guy. She trying to resist at first but slowly giving in until she is doing anything he wants. She would be a little embarrassed and humiliated by having so little control, and I would be also embarrassed and a little humiliated as well, but not in a direct way. Rather as a consequence of seeing my wife being put in her place and becoming submissive to someone else.SammySigns wrote: ↑Sat Jun 28, 2025 4:20 amSo, it's sort of the duality we all experience here. I don't want her actually humiliated or feeling bad. That's not a turn on. But being in submissive and slutty situations in front of people that we would think of as humiliating? Love it. Sort of like I get turned on by her cheating on me, but she can't really cheat because that's what I want, and I would be devastated if she actually cheated on me.BrunetteLover wrote: ↑Thu Jun 26, 2025 10:50 amI do not believe that mutually agreed-upon (ie consensual) sexual activity is humiliating. Words can be, violent acts, however slight, can be.
Re: Love watching her humiliated
My wife had a gangbang and all 5 of us we came on her face and tits! It was a great experience for me and for of her, especially as she loves watching ganbang porn and she always had fantasies to be covered with cum by many men. Does this count as humiliation? Not sure…
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I would not use the word humiliate. But often Heidi will say to her lovers, “Use Me”. And she means it. She wants to Fucked hard , and have all her holes used. Pussy, mouth, ass! She loves to be restrained, whipped, and have her ass and tits slapped. She has be been called a slut and fucktoy. Doesn’t look at it as humiliating or degradation but as making herself and the bull happy.
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The word “humiliation” can be a strong one that doesn’t fit well with some people’s self-image.
I recently renewed correspondence with a couple I enjoyed as playmates several years ago. They are now moved farther away and time has taken tolls, but it was surprising to have Louise recounting how thrilling it was for her to acquiesce to my lewd - shall we say “suggestions” - to pose and expose herself in ways she would not and will not do for Don her husband. She told him (again) that she could never touch and penetrate herself “there” as she had done at my “suggestion”.
Clearly this was intended for Don to read in her email, and I’m sure he enjoyed being reminded of the ways she whimpered and begged and did as I “suggested” - all to earn some time with my cock. I was a bit surprised that she lofted that particular topic, but she did.
She wouldn’t have called it humiliation. I’d not require that word either but her immersive arousal certainly had notes of embarrassment that drove her arousal - and very erotically I must say.
I recently renewed correspondence with a couple I enjoyed as playmates several years ago. They are now moved farther away and time has taken tolls, but it was surprising to have Louise recounting how thrilling it was for her to acquiesce to my lewd - shall we say “suggestions” - to pose and expose herself in ways she would not and will not do for Don her husband. She told him (again) that she could never touch and penetrate herself “there” as she had done at my “suggestion”.
Clearly this was intended for Don to read in her email, and I’m sure he enjoyed being reminded of the ways she whimpered and begged and did as I “suggested” - all to earn some time with my cock. I was a bit surprised that she lofted that particular topic, but she did.
She wouldn’t have called it humiliation. I’d not require that word either but her immersive arousal certainly had notes of embarrassment that drove her arousal - and very erotically I must say.
"The more you love, the more you can love - and the more intensely you love. Nor is there any limit on how many you can love. If a person had time enough, he could love all of that majority who are decent and just."
R.A. Heinlein - Lazarus Long
R.A. Heinlein - Lazarus Long
Re: Love watching her humiliated
don't like humilation at all, neither hubby