Lack of cum

[bfl]

I'm wondering how common this is. My wife is going to see her friend tonight. She has meet this gentlemen F eight times over the last 3 years. He has only a 50% ejaculation rate. The good news is they can go at it for hours on end. But I don't get it - 4 times he hasn't been able to finish at all? The times he did, the volume was large. For me it's quite the opposite, I can cum very quickly and the volume is very small. That seems normal for us aging guys.

What's your experience personally or second hand?

Anyways there is a chance that I'll get a taste late tonight when she comes home.

[sconesy73]

I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm 51 now- I had my prostate removed a couple of years ago. Prior to that, when I was masturbating the amount of cum I'd produce would vary hugely as would the force at which it came out! Sometimes it'd barely be a dribble, other times it'd land on my chest.

The guy my partner is currently seeing does seem to produce a large amount of cum and his "recovery" speed is very impressive!

If he's lasting for ages but without actually cumming then I wonder if he's using some sort of numbing cream to remove sensation?

[bfl]

sconesy73 I'm just barely younger than you. Long gone are the days of shotting for distance. Yes I can do it occasionally but it depends on just how excited I get My wife is 37 and I believe this guy is 36, not totally sure but it's around there. As for numbing cream - no way to know. Doesn't seem to make sense if you are consistently not getting there.

[MartasBoy]

There are so many different variables. Our volume and force of ejaculate declines with age, particularly after 60. It can also take us longer to regenerate the next load, if we've masturbated. Can also be affected by stress, diet, sleep, drinking, recreational drugs, prescription medications, all kinds of things.

My wife maintains me and chastity. Whenever I am not in chastity, I tend to masturbate daily or at least three times a week. I don't have a large volume or much force, when I am masturbating regularly. But, when my wife denies me for 2 weeks or more it is much more forceful. And the longer she makes me go, the greater the volume and force. I don't know how many weeks it would take to Trail off to where it hits a peak. I know that it is increasingly larger and volume and force after 2 weeks, and more after 3 weeks, and more after 4 weeks, after that it seems to Plateau a little bit.

[bfl]

I got notice that tonight he "fully finished". It was relatively quick! That makes 5 out of 8.

[armyguyot1]

If he had sex with someone else or jacked off before fucking you wife it would account for it. He may have fucked someone else earlier in the day.

[surry]

Mine dribbles out for years now. Ever since my wife has taken a BF. I have a hard time not going soft when I try to fuck her. My wife smirks at me and finally tells me to jerk off.

[SlimScott]

As far as cum volume, things have diminished over time. It also dribbles.

[stubbyhubby]

I think if he only cums 50% of the time he may have some issues with sensation or he may just not be that into her. Kind of unusual, to be honest.

Cum volume seems to depend on the guy. Lisa has three regulars all in their mid-40s to early 50s. Two of them shoot pretty typical sized loads, one is a cum machine that pumps out 8 to 10 thick jets. Every time he pulls out of her I have to be ready to jump in and start cleaning right away because it immediately starts oozing out. He cums like that in her 3 or 4 times a week.

[Teensy1]

Much of it is age-related. I’m lucky to produce a teaspoon of cream at 76. When wifey rendered me permanently pussyfree five years ago and recommended that I suck cock as a substitute I discovered that almost all of the men I was sucking either couldn’t stay hard or couldn’t cum at all.

[hubudig2]

I'd say I'm probably similar to your wife's friend, not as low as 50% but it does take some effort to cum, especially in a cuckolding scenario.
With my wife it's easier, it's rare that I won't cum with her but we have the perfect chemistry and dynamic to get me there.
I can go for hours but the longer I go for, the less likely I am to cum because it basically loses sensation and she'll lose tightness etc.
I'll often not cum for a few days before meeting with a couple to make it easier, it'll also mean it's a big thick load which is usually appreciated.

[Teensy1]

As much as I do enjoy sucking cock — addicted might be a better word— fellating another elderly male does a number on my jaw muscles. Oh for the day of the quick spurters of my youth!

[Rip_isback]

... My wife is 37 and I believe this guy is 36, not totally sure but it's around there.

I don't know but it seems that he should be Cummings at well over a 50 % rate at that age. Some factors could be him having had sex recently before seeing your wife, or other distractions, such as, him having to get home soon or not having a relaxing place to spend time with your wife.
Just my thoughts.

[JRE2]

I had a vasectomy in my early thirties and it halved my normal volume. Now, in my eighties, the normal amount is about a teaspoon and it takes four days to fully resupply.

[jratt85]

I have issues shooting and I'm almost 40 (Oct 21) but I also have a cyst in lefty that likes to block my tube from time to time and righty doesn't seem to join the operation much. I think a lot of my issue is I also tore my abs right at my belt line back when I worked at Walmart and never had anything done about it because I didn't have medical insurance and didn't understand that Workman's Comp should've covered me seeing a doctor about it had I told anyone. (first job & autistic.. I had no clue about anything) I think that, combined with back issues, a brain defect, and emotional issues just keep me from having very strong orgasms... add to it never having had a gf to help me and it just means I don't really turn myself on and don't have good orgasms..

That said, I still can shoot sometimes, the biggest I've ever seen was when I got REALLY turned on talking to two sisters (not my sisters, they were sisters to each other) for over three hours one night and them teasing the hell out of me about them both being able to get laid, and the things I'd be willing to do to have a chance to even have sloppy seconds from them.. and I shot hard enough that it completely cleared me (and I was 6'7 at the time) and not a drop ended up on me, but it left a three foot stripe of cum on the floor behind my computer chair... I'm sure if I had a partner egging me on I'd probably shoot way better than just doing it myself.


So yeah, some guys have issues shooting because we're too locked into our heads and unable to stop thinking and relax and just let it happen. Another thing could be that he's taking Viagra to be able to be up for her and that's well documented to massively delay and reduce ejaculations.