Why is hotwifing so exciting?

[PhilSwe Couple]

I met my wife when she was only 23. She only had one boyfriend before. She was the hottest girl I ever met and fell for her so much we got married and lived together for 2.5 years now.

Last year I had to go back to my home country for 3 months and my wife Mrs Eden did not have a visa to join me, unfortunately. She did not have a job and was feeling so bored and lonely waiting for me. For that reason I allowed her to meet a nice IT guy she was meeting once before (they used condom themn). She got so happy about it.

Mrs Eden was very young and not using any birth control. I suggested that she will run an ovulation test so she can keep track of her cycle, which she did. I was thinking she can be careful during her most fertile period (like she was before) and wait when she is ovulating or ask her lover to use a condom. However, Mrs Eden becomes so horny she is insatiable when she is ovulating. She invited her lover to come over. They both got so excited they had sex for the whole night. Mrs Eden made long videos about their love making. She was moaning constantly and its the best sex video I ever seen. They both got so excited so they were not able to be careful. The lover was cuming inside her several times and its the best thing I have ever seen. The lover lived with another girl, but was able to come back every second date and repeated their maraton love making. I was asking my wife why she was not more careful. Was it so nice or did she want to get pregnant? She replied "both my love". According to AI the risk to get pregnant after getting filled with sperms so many times during the most fertile time is 60-80%. However, she did not get pregnant.

Now this year we were in the same situation. She could not stay longer in my coungtry and had to travel alone. She was feeling so bored again since she was all alone in a new country. I was suggesting she can meet another guy again. She was hesitant and said she need to spend time to carefully choose another lover. I said its up to her. She downloaded Tinder today in the morning. Now in the evening she met another guy. Mrs Eden said she just wanted to meet him for talking to see if she is nice and nothing more. However, after talking for 2 hours they end up in hour aparment and had the most mind blowing sex and she is moaning constanly againg. My wife is most likely ovulating and feeling extremely horny (he pussy jouice is super sticky). The new lover (a pilot) is coming inside her again and filling her with lots of sperms - again..... I wonder what will happend this time? Will they meet again for new sessions? Will she get pregnant this time? Any advice for us?

[chard]

I don't believe any man can accurately answer your question. My wife was a hotwife for many years, she was fucked by dozens of men and I loved it. I got so horny watching her leave the house knowing that she was going out to get fucked by some lucky guy. It was a drug, I got high on it, no matter how many times she got fucked I wanted more. Yet, I had no idea why, I love my wife to bits but I have never been jealous of her activities, I loved my sloppy seconds, I loved sliding my cock into her warm slimy pussy knowing that another cock (or Two and a couple of times, three) has been there earlier.

[ferrisandrews]

It's slightly different for everyone but I wrote a book about it. See below

[BT2]

I believe you'll find many claims on this forum about why hotwifing is so exciting to husbands. A common reason is that men in general like to see a woman naked, like to watch sex taking place, and like nakedness and sex action more if they know the woman, even though she may not be a perfect 10 like in most porn videos. So, how much more will a man enjoy seeing or hearing about it if the woman is his wife? There must, however, be honesty, good sense, good and open communication, etc. for it to be good and exciting. Some husbands claim getting a turn on if their wife cheats, but I believe that is a minority. Also, some hotwife activities work out poorly, but you may not hear about them because those husbands no longer frequent this forum.

Thats my take. But as a previous poster stated, there are many different reasons for it to be exciting. My take on it will not be shared by everybody - maybe only a minority.

[BrunetteLover]

Not that there is anything wrong with that (as they said on Seinfeld) but I cannot explain the reasoning for couples in the midst of childbearing years to be into the Lifestyle.

What I can explain is the reasoning of couples in their post childbearing years to be into it.

The logic is as follows:

All living beings exist to continue their biological legacy, if they didn't there would be no new trees, no new animals, and no children. There would certainly be no sex, which is based on this legacy.

Males of the species (including humans) want to know that the female is having THEIR children as opposed to busting his ass for the kids of someone he does not know. Yes there are wonderful exceptions, such as adoption or marrying someone with children, but the general rule applies.

So chastity on the part of the female is paramount during these years as is the male defense of such. Literature (and prisons) are full of stories of men who took this responsibility past the societal red line in defense of chastity.

That all goes away as their children are reaching maturity of their own.

Combined with the fact that people in general (especially the upscale market where this lifestyle is most popular) are more active, healthier, more vibrant (translation: hotter and hornier) than ever before...

What you have is sort of a second adolescence, where the couple's sexuality enters a new (post childbearing years) phase, one not based on exclusivity, but on whatever the hell they decide they want.

For men, the instinctual defense of exclusivity may vanish, leaving a very open minded person who is open to accepting his wife in roles he would previously thought of as impossible to accept.