My hopefully-hotwife-to-be and out journey towards hotwifing

[SmallTownGuy]

Going out to do what with him?

Have some drinks and enjoy the summer. Nothing more unfortunately I think

[sandy691196]

Neither of you will really know how each of you will react. Based on what you've said, I think it seems very likely you will, like me, find it intensely erotic to know your wife is having sex with another man. Her? I don't know I think she's struggling internally with herself, and may or may not find it erotic.

This is very well said, thanks. your interpretation is probably correct.

Some women find it difficult to consciously let go. They can't even accept it in their own minds - that they may enjoy tasting other fruits outside marriage. The sexual monogamy kinda defines them in terms of their identity.

There are ego defence mechanisms at play here..

Something has to snap inside them for the switch.. the transition. Direct verbal reasoning won't do it.
Do you guys watch cuckold porn?
Her seeing your arousal when imagining another man doing her is helpful.. That needs to happen a lot more.
And if you can add a long, disappointed face whenever she says she sees the guy as a platonic friend.. repeated show of non verbal disappointment.. Will also be helpful.

We don't watch cuckold porn and I think we should still do some talking about what turns me on. I would especially want to better understand what turns her on, but she doesn't really open up about her fantasies or kinks. Or perhaps she doesn't have any? She enjoys sex a lot, but perhaps for her it is just sex and a way to get physical pleasure and she doesn't have such complex set of kinks, fantasies and nasty thoughts about it.

From the way your narratives have gone, I feel that she feels and things a lot more than she lets on.
It somehow doesn't add up if it's all platonic. She never takes this much effort with women friends. So this is not just a curiosity towards human contact.

I suggest you go explicit with your kink now. Make it sound a matter of fact, common kink. Show her hotwife/cuck stories and sites. Bookmark stories where wife sharing leads to deeper intimacy in a marital relationship.

As of now she perhaps things your kink is just a casual fantasy. She needs to know that you are seriously committed to this LS..

[SmallTownGuy]

Haven't had that much to update lately. This is an interesting week as they'll meet on Friday and Saturday. Her official opinion is still that they are friends and nothing more. She hasn't opened up about her feelings and I haven't been asking lately. I'm a bit disappointed about her being this non-talkative about it but then again
1)That's just how she is
2)Perhaps she has zero other plans than hanging out with a friend
3)Perhaps she has not gone through it in her mind
4)Perhaps she is too shy to discuss it
5)Something else.

Anyways, there's still couple of days and I think I'll let her start the discussion if she wants to. If she doesn't, perhaps she'll tell me afterwards if there is something to tell.

The good thing here is that they'll spend the Friday night together, so if she comes home for the night there may be a good time to talk before their Saturday meeting. If she doesn't come home for the night, it means she's sleeping with him

[AZguy425]

All of us followers have been waiting eagerly for this weekend!

[SmallTownGuy]

Had a bit of a chat about this weekend yesterday. I initiated it by asking if all is set. She has planned them at least an escape room, some sightseeing, spa, dinner and drinks. She was mostly interested in the practical arrangement; she's taking a bus there to meet him and she said she probably comes home from work and then goes to meet him because she doesn't want to haul all her things to the work. What gets pretty interesting is that she said she prepares to spend the night there with him Some time ago she said she's coming home for the night. She even asked me about my Sunday schedules and said it might make sense to come home on Sunday morning as it would be late if she takes the bus home. She anyways wanted to emphasize that "she is not interested in anything more than sleeping and a hotel breakfast" I said that is OK but she knows she has my permission. I also asked her how she feels about the weekend and she said at least it will be something different.

I think she hasn't made up her mind yet and she can also take the late bus home if she doesn't want to stay there. This is a date with a guy she's only seen once and hasn't seen in months. It is very possible they don't click this time and it gets awkward or the mood is not right.

Anyways, so far she had told me she is not going to
1)share the room with him when visiting him
2)stay in his room fri-sat when he is visiting our country here
3)stay with him sat-sun anyways, def coming home
4)do anything more than sleeping there.

...and now her thoughts about numbers 1-3 have already been changed. We'll see about #4

[SmallTownGuy]

We had sex yesterday. Nothing spectacular, no dildo play or cunnilingus, but some nice fucking still. I'm not sure if she actually came but was at least close.

It's intriguing to think that may have my last time fucking her before she becomes a hotwife. Also thinking I may not be the next one fucking her.

I also bought a pack of condoms. I'm not sure if I have the courage to do it but was thinking about putting them in her purse or suitcase and texting her while she is on her way to meet him that I hope she has a pleasant and enjoyable mini vacation with him and in case she changes her mind it's good to have those available. Though I also think he probably has high enough hopes to get to fuck her that he'd taken care of that as well. Not that I wouldn't like the thought of her getting creampied but at least for the first times condoms most likely will be needed and used.

...if anything happens at all, which is still unclear

[SmallTownGuy]

She's packing the suitcase. Had a quick look at what she is bringing. Two pairs of the nicest three panties she has. High heels, most likely for their dinner and drinks. Not the highest most seductive ones but the ones she can comfortably walk with. Skirts and dresses. Night gown, not revealing or seductive but not a bad one neither; this one is satin and the type you wrap around and tie with a belt. No see through or anything like that though. Toothbrush, medication and such.

Interesting times

[AZguy425]

With any luck one of those pairs of panties will end up on a hotel room floor.

[SmallTownGuy]

Still a quick chat about the weekend. They'll dine tomorrow and I guess drinks are on the menu too. I said I'm preparing for her coming back home on Sunday morning and she said that it's probably the most realistic scenario if they have a good time. Also she said her main concern is not having a good time because her trip to meet him in the winter would then get pretty damn awkward. She said most likely they will have a good time. I also told her to not get too drunk, not because I'd be worried about something happening but because if something happens I want her to do it intentionally. She replied she always makes everything intentionally

I told her I am curious to know all is well and if she is having a good time, I think she understood I want to hear from her a bit more often than when I'm out and she is living her normal life.

[Tryn]

What type of bras are packed? If nude or plain black, not a good sign. If none… well then! If matching to panties, that’s a great sign! Also, what type of coverage is packing for her top half? Low cut or modest?

[SmallTownGuy]

What type of bras are packed? If nude or plain black, not a good sign. If none… well then! If matching to panties, that’s a great sign! Also, what type of coverage is packing for her top half? Low cut or modest?

Nice black bra with a bit of black lace. I think my favourite ones

She rarely dresses very revealingly on her upper body, she has very small breasts so she prefers to cover her upper body quite much but luckily she enjoys showing her long legs

Okay, she went. I asked if she'd like to put on the anklet but she said she doesn't want to damage her pantyhose and perhaps wasn't the biggest fan of the idea in general.

When she had left I sent her a message:
"Have a nice weekend, honey <3 I slipped a pack of condoms to your bag, just to be sure, in case you have the urge to do something else than sleeping I appreciate it if you keep me a bit updated so I know you are fine and having a good time, but don't let me bother and concentrate on having a good time. And feel free to send pics, too! Love you!"

She replied:
"You're cute and evil Love you too "

[Tryn]

She definitely has the idea in my of some extracurricular activities. Now it’s an exciting wait and see time. You must be super excited! Your challenge is now patience, shown by not texting her very much. Incredibly difficult!

[SmallTownGuy]

I'm starting to think she actually might become a hotwife this night Exciting times. She shared her location with me until midnight so I should be able to know when they are and where.

I hope they keep each other awake during the night, but I also think I won't be sleeping much

[SmallTownGuy]

They are now walking towards the restaurant where they will be dining

[AZguy425]

Sounds like she might not be coming home tonight!

[Tryn]

Did she dress for dinner at the hotel or was she already dressed for it when she left home? Wondering what she chose to wear on the outside and underneath!

[SmallTownGuy]

Got a real quick phone call to say the kids good night. She seemed happy, was smiling and I asked if the mood and company are good and she confirmed.

I think the next time I see her she will be a hotwife

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

If you could give a brief recap of the gentleman she is with tonight. When they met, where etc...

[wittol]

If you could give a brief recap of the gentleman she is with tonight. When they met, where etc...

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[SmallTownGuy]

From her location I can see they had the dinner, then went for some drinks, and are now heading somewhere which I think could be the hotel

[FNQLivin]

Fingers crossed!

[AZguy425]

I'm checking this about 5 times an hour right now.

[Chubbychase]

As a long-time wannabe I'm rooting for you man! Keep us posted. I think you've played this expertly so far.

[SmallTownGuy]

They had some drinks and then went to the casino, but apparently now they are heading back to the hotel

[AZguy425]

Well either she's going to just share the room like she planned originally, or she's about to get laid!