Getting close?

[CuriousOne36]

Good luck.

Can’t wait to hear how this develops.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Good luck.

Can’t wait to hear how this develops.

Thanks, CO. That makes two of us!

Incidentally, we are still away on vacation until tomorrow. My wife told me about something our friend “D” posted on Facebook yesterday, so she is clearly paying attention to him. I am not on social media at all, so I thanked her for letting me know but said nothing else at that time. I told her before we left on vacation that I was planning to meet “D” for lunch next week sometime and I asked if she was comfortable with that. Her response was, “Of course,” so I am encouraged that she will eventually want to get closer with him again. Moreover, when we had sex last night I told her how much ”D” and I want to fill her with our sperm and she orgasmed pretty quickly. What does all of that mean? I honestly have no idea, but I will remain positive!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Good luck.

Can’t wait to hear how this develops.

Thanks, CO. That makes two of us!

Incidentally, we are still away on vacation until tomorrow. My wife told me about something our friend “D” posted on Facebook yesterday, so she is clearly paying attention to him. I am not on social media at all, so I thanked her for letting me know but said nothing else at that time. I told her before we left on vacation that I was planning to meet “D” for lunch next week sometime and I asked if she was comfortable with that. Her response was, “Of course,” so I am encouraged that she will eventually want to get closer with him again. Moreover, when we had sex last night I told her how much ”D” and I want to fill her with our sperm and she orgasmed pretty quickly. What does all of that mean? I honestly have no idea, but I will remain positive!

[bbarnsworth]

Moreover, when we had sex last night I told her how much ”D” and I want to fill her with our sperm and she orgasmed pretty quickly. What does all of that mean? I honestly have no idea, but I will remain positive!

I think there's a struggle going on inside of her. She body desperately wants to have "D" inside her, putting his sperm in her. Her mind, her out-of-bedroom mind, is telling her the opposite.

More baby steps perhaps are needed. Perhaps something as simple as the two of them sitting together, sides touching. Nothing much else going on, just light touching. There are probably similar things too, just to get her more comfortable with him touching her, being physically in touch with him.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Moreover, when we had sex last night I told her how much ”D” and I want to fill her with our sperm and she orgasmed pretty quickly. What does all of that mean? I honestly have no idea, but I will remain positive!

I think there's a struggle going on inside of her. She body desperately wants to have "D" inside her, putting his sperm in her. Her mind, her out-of-bedroom mind, is telling her the opposite.

More baby steps perhaps are needed. Perhaps something as simple as the two of them sitting together, sides touching. Nothing much else going on, just light touching. There are probably similar things too, just to get her more comfortable with him touching her, being physically in touch with him.

Thanks, BB. I agree. I have backed away from any discussions about the three of us getting together in the immediate future. Instead, “D” and I are going to have lunch this coming week, and my wife is okay with that. She doesn’t mind me keeping the connection with him going; she just isn’t ready for the three of us to meet again - yet. Hopefully, when the time seems better, she will be open to the three of us meeting again in a low pressure setting. That may help her start thinking again about something more intimate. I appreciate your thoughts, BB!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

There have been some very interesting developments since my last post two weeks ago. At the time of that writing, I was intentionally refraining from talking with my wife about getting together with "D" since she seemed spooked by the idea. However, as mentioned in my last post, I was planning to meet "D" for lunch this past week and did so. My wife was aware of our lunch and was acting very nonchalantly. Before I went to lunch I asked her if she minded me seeing him and she assured me it was okay. I also asked her if she wanted to join us but she declined.

"D" and I had lunch two days ago. We really enjoyed catching up. At first, he sounded pretty disheartened since he had the impression that he somehow scared off my wife. I explained my theory that my wife scared herself. When she and "D" were last together and had some passionate kissing, I strongly suspect she scared herself because her resulting feelings were very contrary to the way she was raised. I told "D" that my wife continues to get very excited when I talk with her during sex about having both him and me cumming inside of her. "D" seemed to take some comfort knowing that I don't think he is in any way responsible for my wife's reticence.

Later that afternoon, my wife and I were running errands and I spoke with her about the lunch. I told her that "D" felt like he scared her and she immediately said that he did nothing wrong. She said she knows he is a "good man" and she likes him. She ultimately said that she would like to get together again, but that her cultural upbringing prevents her from having sex with him. I told her that "D" understands and respects that (he specifically told me so) and she said that she believes that.

Our conversation then turned to consensual non-monogamy. As you know, that is a difficult conversation to have between most couples that speak the same language. Imagine what it is like using Google Translate in the hopes that it translates some of the nuances that kind of a discussion requires? My wife's English is getting better every day, but she is nowhere near being able to have that kind of discussion without technological assistance. In any event, my wife and I had a good and productive discussion. As before, my wife said she could never cheat. I explained that cheating is dishonest. Consensual non-monogamy cannot be cheating if the spouses are honest with each other and are not hiding anything. I further explained that "D" and I really want to have sex with her together but that if we did so, all of that would be open and above-board. However, I told my wife that I would consider it cheating if she and "D" got together without my knowledge or if they lied about it. That distinction seemed to resonate with her.

I realize, by the way, that some men get very excited by the idea of their wives cheating, and I am certainly not making any judgment about that or criticizing anyone. To each their own! This just happens to be my personal view of the issue.

In any event, my wife has been hornier than usual since we had that discussion. We have played a couple of times since then with me telling her in the midst of sex that I know she wants me and "D" cumming in her and she goes wild! As she orgasms she says, "I want that," or growls "Yes, Yes!" It is very erotic, to say the least.

This afternoon, my wife asked me if I told "D" that we are taking off on another trip for a couple of weeks starting tomorrow. I told her that I let him know. I told her that the three of us will hopefully get together again shortly after we get back. She seemed to like that idea. I then told her that "D" has informed me that he has not had sex for 18 months, that the last time he had sex it was with another couple where the husband is a Caucasian man with a Korean wife in her early 60s. The three of them got together periodically for about two years, but they have since moved out of state. I let Anya know that "D" explained the Korean wife was new to hotwifing when they first met and that, like my wife, she didn't think she could go through with anything given her very conservative upbringing. But, once she experienced it, there was no looking back! I further explained that "D" is in a sexless marriage and that he and his wife have not had sex for more than a decade. My wife said, "That is so sad." I agreed of course. "D" has told me that he loves his wife and accepts the fact that their sex life together is over.

A couple of hours later, "D" coincidentally sent an email to me, wishing us well on our trip tomorrow and saying he is looking forward to seeing us when we get back. He was RV camping with his wife this weekend and said it was very hot. He didn't sound too thrilled, particularly since the camping was not his idea. When I translated the email for my wife, she asked if we could video call with "D" right then. She was worried that he sounded like he was feeling down and she suddenly wanted to comfort him. I told her that I would ask him but not to get her hopes up since he is with his wife, who I am pretty sure does not know about the developing friendship between the three of us. My wife's sudden increased interest in renewing personal contact with "D" gave me a hard on as we discussed this. So, I walked over to my wife and placed her hand on my bulge. She giggled and rolled her eyes. I think things are looking up! What do you think?

[zorro]

In any event, my wife has been hornier than usual since we had that discussion. We have played a couple of times since then with me telling her in the midst of sex that I know she wants me and "D" cumming in her and she goes wild! As she orgasms she says, "I want that," or growls "Yes, Yes!" It is very erotic, to say the least.

My wife's sudden increased interest in renewing personal contact with "D" gave me a hard on as we discussed this. So, I walked over to my wife and placed her hand on my bulge. She giggled and rolled her eyes. I think things are looking up! What do you think?

Yep. Both your cock and her interest sound definitely up! Just a matter of time before it happens, IMHO.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Thanks, Zorro! I hope you are right about that.

[bbarnsworth]

As before, my wife said she could never cheat. I explained that cheating is dishonest. Consensual non-monogamy cannot be cheating if the spouses are honest with each other and are not hiding anything. I further explained that "D" and I really want to have sex with her together but that if we did so, all of that would be open and above-board. However, I told my wife that I would consider it cheating if she and "D" got together without my knowledge or if they lied about it. That distinction seemed to resonate with her.

I further explained that "D" is in a sexless marriage and that he and his wife have not had sex for more than a decade. My wife said, "That is so sad." I agreed of course. "D" has told me that he loves his wife and accepts the fact that their sex life together is over...

...I told her that I would ask him but not to get her hopes up since he is with his wife, who I am pretty sure does not know about the developing friendship between the three of us.

There's some dichotomy here.

I completely agree with your stance on consensual non-monogamy not being cheating. I had to explain this one time to a very close friend who couldn't wrap her head around the idea. It's an odd truth, but a truth all the same, that people are much more offended by the idea of consensual non-monogamy (CSM) than they are about someone cheating. You'd think it'd be the reverse, but it isn't. People have a very hard time with CSM I think in part because it upends the concept of marriage, whereas cheating is openly viewed as bad and not allowed, therefore not upending the concept of marriage. Odd, I know, but there it is.

So, your wife may still have problems with accepting that CSM is ok, and that it isn't upending your marriage or her values. An upbringing of hers may scream "NO CHEATING" but then have a hard time accepting that it doesn't cover CSM. It may take a long time for her to accept that.

Now for the dichotomy part...

Assuming your wife knows "D" would in fact be cheating on his wife, and not a CSM situation for him too... she might balk at that. It creates a dichotomous situation where she may come to accept CSM, but then not be able to have sex with "D" because he would be cheating.

My wife has never had sex with a married man who was playing without permission. We never wanted to embroil ourselves in the potential drama, and we didn't want to stick knives into the back of his wife, even if she didn't know it. For us, that went back to respecting marriage, and not just our own. We can have CSM and respect our marriage (it's in fact enhanced our marriage considerably). But, to have CSM but then not have it from her partners? Too much of a dichotomy for us, and it might be too much of a dichotomy for your wife.

You could also end up in a scenario where she does finally have a threesome with you and "D", but then in the afterglow think that she committed a horrible sin because "D" cheated, and forever close up to the idea of CSM ever happening again.

Thoughts to consider.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

As before, my wife said she could never cheat. I explained that cheating is dishonest. Consensual non-monogamy cannot be cheating if the spouses are honest with each other and are not hiding anything. I further explained that "D" and I really want to have sex with her together but that if we did so, all of that would be open and above-board. However, I told my wife that I would consider it cheating if she and "D" got together without my knowledge or if they lied about it. That distinction seemed to resonate with her.

I further explained that "D" is in a sexless marriage and that he and his wife have not had sex for more than a decade. My wife said, "That is so sad." I agreed of course. "D" has told me that he loves his wife and accepts the fact that their sex life together is over...

...I told her that I would ask him but not to get her hopes up since he is with his wife, who I am pretty sure does not know about the developing friendship between the three of us.

There's some dichotomy here.

I completely agree with your stance on consensual non-monogamy not being cheating. I had to explain this one time to a very close friend who couldn't wrap her head around the idea. It's an odd truth, but a truth all the same, that people are much more offended by the idea of consensual non-monogamy (CSM) than they are about someone cheating. You'd think it'd be the reverse, but it isn't. People have a very hard time with CSM I think in part because it upends the concept of marriage, whereas cheating is openly viewed as bad and not allowed, therefore not upending the concept of marriage. Odd, I know, but there it is.

So, your wife may still have problems with accepting that CSM is ok, and that it isn't upending your marriage or her values. An upbringing of hers may scream "NO CHEATING" but then have a hard time accepting that it doesn't cover CSM. It may take a long time for her to accept that.

Now for the dichotomy part...

Assuming your wife knows "D" would in fact be cheating on his wife, and not a CSM situation for him too... she might balk at that. It creates a dichotomous situation where she may come to accept CSM, but then not be able to have sex with "D" because he would be cheating.

My wife has never had sex with a married man who was playing without permission. We never wanted to embroil ourselves in the potential drama, and we didn't want to stick knives into the back of his wife, even if she didn't know it. For us, that went back to respecting marriage, and not just our own. We can have CSM and respect our marriage (it's in fact enhanced our marriage considerably). But, to have CSM but then not have it from her partners? Too much of a dichotomy for us, and it might be too much of a dichotomy for your wife.

You could also end up in a scenario where she does finally have a threesome with you and "D", but then in the afterglow think that she committed a horrible sin because "D" cheated, and forever close up to the idea of CSM ever happening again.

Thoughts to consider.

Thanks for your astute comments, BB. I agree that unless and until my wife accepts that CSM is not cheating, we are unlikely to progress much. That said, I find that most of us find a way to rationalize what we need to in order to achieve a desired end. If, as I suspect, my wife would really like to experience a threesome, that may help her more readily accept my explanation of what cheating is and is not.

As for your correct observations about the dichotomy, I agree that if we were damaging another person's marriage, it would make no sense to play with a married man. However, I think I failed in my earlier descriptions of "D's" background to note that he explained from the very beginning that he and his wife have an "understanding." Since they stopped having sex more than a decade ago, he doesn't tell her how he is satisfying his sexual needs and she does not ask. He is sure she knows he is getting his sexual urges met elsewhere. Of course, "D" could be lying to us about that, but I think we have gotten to know him well enough to believe that he has integrity and would not do anything to hurt his wife or put us in a position of damaging his marriage. If we felt otherwise, we would not have continued our discussions with him.

If we eventually have a threesome, I am obviously hopeful that my wife will have no regrets. I think if we get to that point, she will be more than okay. But then again, we won't know unless we try! Thanks again for your thoughts.

[aztd]

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[AdventurousCoupleAA]

It has been a little more than two weeks since I last wrote here. My wife and I were on a vacation out west for two weeks, but while we were away we stayed in almost daily contact with “D.” My wife wanted to send him pictures and videos of the great areas we were visiting, and we had a video call with him about one week into our trip. “D” continues to exhibit great interest in maintaining contact with us as well. We hope to see him again in the next week or so, although all of us have pretty busy schedules coming up. I will keep you posted on any new developments. I don’t know if my wife has thought a lot about having an actual threesome with “D,” but we continue to fantasize about having a threesome with him while we are having sex and she continues to orgasm quickly when we do that. What’s next? Who knows?

[aztd]

It has been a little more than two weeks since I last wrote here. My wife and I were on a vacation out west for two weeks, but while we were away we stayed in almost daily contact with “D.” My wife wanted to send him pictures and videos of the great areas we were visiting, and we had a video call with him about one week into our trip. “D” continues to exhibit great interest in maintaining contact with us as well. We hope to see him again in the next week or so, although all of us have pretty busy schedules coming up. I will keep you posted on any new developments. I don’t know if my wife has thought a lot about having an actual threesome with “D,” but we continue to fantasize about having a threesome with him while we are having sex and she continues to orgasm quickly when we do that. What’s next? Who knows?

I would bet in 90 days. Daily calls sending pictures she knows where it will lead. Good luck

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

“I would bet in 90 days. Daily calls sending pictures she knows where it will lead. Good luck”

I hope you are right, AZTD!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

After our return from our vacation this past Sunday, I made arrangements to meet "D" for lunch yesterday (Thursday). I hoped - but wasn't sure - if my my wife would join us. I let her know earlier in the week that I was having lunch with him, but she was non-committal about whether or not she would join us, so I did not push the issue. Yesterday morning, while we were having coffee, I let her know that I would be leaving the house at 11:30 a.m. for the lunch meeting. I didn't ask her to join me, but it prompted her to say that she didn't know what to do. I let her know that she was welcome to join us and that our friend was pretty worried that he had scared her off and that was why she did not want to see him. She insisted that was not true and she said she wanted to "support his feelings," so she said she would go to lunch. Within the hour, she had showered, put her makeup and fake eyelashes on, and a very nice simple black dress, and looked stunning. She was clearly excited about seeing "D," whom she had not seen in person since they shared a passionate kiss almost seven weeks ago.

She wanted to surprise "D" and asked me not to let him know that she was going to lunch. I kept her promise. She also said that she could not have a threesome with him, but that maybe if I died she could have sex with him.

I laughed and said, "Let's not plan on that any time soon." She said that she really does like "D" and she wants him to be our friend. I let her know that the only reason that I am interested in her having sex with him (and me) is for her pleasure, which is something she still hasn't fully wrapped her head around. And I said, "Look, you know that "D" and I really want to fuck you together, but neither of us will ever pressure you to do anything you don't want to do. He is a good guy and he will be very happy and relieved to see you. At least he will know that he has done nothing wrong or scared you by kissing you a few weeks ago." My wife seemed satisfied with that statement.

We arrived at the restaurant 30 minutes later and "D" was waiting for us in the parking lot. My wife ducked down in the car so he would not see her and I greeted him and walked into the restaurant. Moments later, my very cute and playful wife came in the door behind us while we were waiting to be seated and she hugged him, saying "Surprise." She was very happy and he was as well. Come to think of it, me too!

We had a very nice lunch and talked a lot about our recent trip. As we stood up to leave the restaurant, my wife suggested that we all go to a local coffee shop so that we could continue talking. "D" and I were both very pleasantly surprised. We spent at least another hour together, and my wife wanted to get pictures of her sitting with each of us. She loves taking pictures (G-rated ones, that is) and she is very particular about them. So, we must have sat through 20 or so pictures until she was satisfied with them. We talked over coffee about the fact that I am going to be away on another trip alone for about five days later this month, so the two of them will try to get together while I am gone. It may only be coffee, but at this point the more time they spend together the closer my wife will get to where I think she really wants to be. I have also encouraged both of them to communicate directly since using me as a middleman seems to take the steam out of their relationship.

Last night, my wife suggested that we have sex and I happily obliged. Once again, as we had sex I told her how much "D" and I want to cum in her and, as she has many times before, she had a powerful orgasm. And then, a short while ago, "D" suggested that we meet tomorrow morning again for coffee and my wife readily agreed. So, this is all very positive. I have no doubt that my wife will continue to tell me that she really can't have sex with anyone but me, but I know she is excited by the prospect. I will not pressure her, but I will keep the flame alive by encouraging the two of them to meet and to keep the dirty talk going when we have sex. I don't know if that will ultimately prompt my wife to become a hotwife, but I will be sure to let those of you following this journey know regardless.

If any of you fellow travelers have any other ideas, I am all ears!

[leggysman]

Even though she says she can't have sex with him, she does seem happy and willing to go along with obvious set-ups that walk her closer and closer to crossing that line. Maybe you can think of more? Such as: asking her whether D could watch, or film/photograph you two having sex?

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Good idea, LM! Thanks much. Before we first met in person, “D” opened up a few pictures of his package on the SLS website, where we initially met. So, I think he would probably be willing to do something like that on a video call with my wife at some point, which might also excite her. I may suggest that he think about that. In any event, thanks again for the idea!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Things continue to progress! We had breakfast yesterday morning at a restaurant with "D." My wife dressed casually in shorts and a tee-shirt, but she did her makeup and looked very sweet and sexy. We spent about an hour with "D" and once again my wife wanted to take pictures with him and me. Later in the day, he sent me a message saying he had to masturbate when he got home from our meeting because he had an erection during most of the time we were together. He said he didn't want to shock my wife by sending pictures of him jerking off. I shared the message with my wife and she said she would not be offended by the pictures! I let "D" know and he sent three pictures of himself: one of him naked in a full frontal standing position, one with him holding his erect cock, and one with cum running over his cock and splashed on his stomach. I showed those pictures to my wife and she tried to act like she was not interested but she studied each one for a second or two.

Later on during the day while we were running errands I told my wife that she gets both me and "D" and probably many other men very excited because there is just something very naturally sexual about her. She does not dress or act like a slut, but something about her is very sexy. She loved hearing about how she turns me and "D" on. I have long believed that most people, particularly women, thrive on attention and validation. My wife loves both, and in this setting I think it gets her very turned on.

The two of them proceeded to email with each other during the day and night. My wife wanted "D" to join us and another couple who were coming over for dinner last night, but he was not available. In one of his emails to her, "D" said he hoped she wasn't offended by him sending the naked pictures and my wife assured him she was not offended. He confessed the obvious to her - that he is very sexually attracted to her - and she told him that she understood that sexual attraction was "natural."

After our company left, we were both too tired to have sex, but at 6 a.m. this morning, my wife woke up and proceeded to give me a blow job for the ages! It was amazing. She wanted to get fucked and as we did so I told her (as is now our routine) how much "D" and I want to fuck her and cum in her. As always when we fantasize about a threesome with "D," she had one powerful orgasm followed by another.

As you all know, it is very exciting (and sometimes frustrating) to watch our wives evolve - two steps forward, one (sometimes two) steps back.

I think "D" is going to slowly raise the ante in his direct communications with her, making some of them increasingly sexual, possibly sharing more intimate pictures with her and maybe even trying to initiate some sex video-calling with her. I can't wait to see how it develops, particularly when I go out of town in less than three weeks and the two of them get together while I am away! I will let you know how it goes.

I am curious as to what all of you think about the importance of attention and validation in this lifestyle. Do you feel the same way I do , i.e., that hotwifing is probably the ultimate form of a wife getting attention and validation?

[Tryn]

Your wife seems to like the attention! She also has her brain telling her not to move forward. Perhaps if D gives her some occasional justification as to why being a hotwife is good for a marriage, it will resonate differently with her. They could Chatgtp questions on it together. At a minimum, D should be asking her, on their private texts, about sending her pics like that without your involvement. Letting her know how much she turns him on.

Love your thread!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Your wife seems to like the attention! She also has her brain telling her not to move forward. Perhaps if D gives her some occasional justification as to why being a hotwife is good for a marriage, it will resonate differently with her. They could Chatgtp questions on it together. At a minimum, D should be asking her, on their private texts, about sending her pics like that without your involvement. Letting her know how much she turns him on.

Love your thread!

Thanks, Tryn! My wife definitely loves the attention. It's like catnip for her. I have encouraged "D" and her to communicate with each other without my involvement. I think "D" is a sensible guy who will know how to seduce her slowly and (hopefully) surely. It is all very exciting!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

I can't believe it has been ten days since I last posted here. We have been very busy with regular life. My wife and I met "D" this past Sunday for lunch. As usual, my wife looked great in her dress and with her make-up (although she looks great without make-up too). All morning, my wife was on the phone with one of her girlfriends in Thailand. The call continued during our 20 minute car ride to lunch, and once we arrived, my wife's friend called again and the conversation continued. After about 15 minutes of making small talk with "D," interrupted at one point by my wife putting her friend on video to introduce her to "D" I finally asked my wife in the gentlest way I could, "Please join me and "D" and talk with us," i.e., end the phone call. That was not well-received. My wife, God love her, is not a wall flower, and she shot me a look like I had crossed a big red line! Candidly, it was pretty awkward for both me and "D," but after a few minutes, things settled down and the two of them started to talk with each other, using Google Translate since I suspect some of what was being discussed went beyond basic English. I just sat back and watched.

Lunch ended after an hour, and my wife suggested that we continue over a cup of coffee at a local Starbucks, but "D" had told me before lunch that he had to take care of some business, so we ended our meeting. My wife was pretty mad at me on the ride home, saying that she did not like being "admonished" in front of "D" and I tried to explain that since we only had limited time with "D" it was best to complete the phone call with her friend at a later time.

Later that day my wife apologized and she apparently sent "D" SEVEN emails doing the same. She was clearly wanting to make sure that she had not upset him. He was absolutely fine, so it was a non-issue. I guess the point of this post is that my wife clearly wants to preserve the relationship with "D." They have written to each other a few times since, and we have all discussed the fact that I will be out of town for five days starting next week. So, they will probably get together. I doubt anything sexual will happen, but there is a slim chance.

We continue to role play about the three of us playing together and my wife really gets off doing that. Will she do that in real life? Stay tuned!

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Been following your story from the beginning. I love the slow burn progress you're making. Be patient and good luck .

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Been following your story from the beginning. I love the slow burn progress you're making. Be patient and good luck .

Thanks, CCG! As long as we have an ember, we might catch fire some day. :-)

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Quick update: I am heading out of town for five days on Thursday, and my wife and "D" are talking about getting together for coffee while I am away. I have told both of them that they have my blessing to do whatever they feel comfortable doing with each other in my absence. I don't know if my saying so will make a difference, but in case that was an obstacle for either of them I hope that obstacle is now removed.

My wife and I went out of town yesterday and stayed in a hotel for the night. Before we left home, we briefly discussed the possibility of her and "D" getting together and I half-jokingly mentioned that "D" was probably so excited by the prospect that he was likely jerking off thinking about it. She laughed and said with a sly smile, "Really?" Bear in mind that "D" has previously sent us some pictures of him naked, including a couple where he is holding his cock with cum running over his hand, telling us each time that he was thinking about her. So, she would not be truly surprised to know that he could be, in fact, jerking off while thinking about her.

Fast forward a few hours later. My wife took a very nice picture of herself wearing a cute summer dress, which very much flattered her large breasts. She asked me to send the picture to "D," so I did so. About one hour later, we were in the hotel bed, reading. My wife leaned over, grabbed my cock and started giving me a fantastic blow job. She told me that she wanted me to cum in her mouth so she could swallow it. As a dutiful husband I said, "No problem!" However, once we started fucking she changed her mind and asked me to cum inside of her. Was there a connection between that spontaneous blowjob and our discussion earlier or the picture she wanted sent to "D"? I don't know, but if I was a betting man....

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Another update: I have been traveling for a couple of days and will be home again on Monday evening late. “D” took my wife out for coffee today and they spent about 90 minutes together. He wrote to me later and said that they had a very nice time together, talking, holding hands and even hugging a little. After coffee, they ran to the food store and picked up some lunch for her son, who came home yesterday to stay with her for a couple of days. When they got back to the house, “D” helped her in with some groceries and then she walked him back to his car, where she hugged him and offered him her cheek for a kiss. “D”had the impression that she was flirting a little with him and lunch. After that, she sent him six different emails, but he did not describe what she said. I later talked to my wife and she was in a very good mood. I told her I was very happy that she and “D” got together and had a good time. She did not mention the after coffee emails at all. Perhaps she will show them to me when I get home. I am not quite sure what to make of all of this, but here is what is clear: (1) My wife knows that “D” and I both want to fuck her together, (2) She has continued to go to coffee “dates” with him while I travel, (3) She apparently wants to continue the relationship, evidenced in part by the multiple emails; and, (4) “D” (who has experience in the lifestyle) has the distinct impression that she is interested.

With all of that said, my wife has become a little coy about her feelings. She has said from time to time that she cannot have sex with another man, and yet she knows my clearly-expressed desire that she consider “D” as a threesome partner. Yet, she continues to keep in communication with him. I am hopeful that she is continuing to move, incrementally at least, toward becoming a hotwife. What do you all think?