New Here - We started to explore

[Tryn]

He’s hoping to see you grind your hot ass against some hard cock while hands are exploring your sensual body! Lucky Tim and lucky Ash!! I look forward to the update! Maybe you can share a pic, without any identifying details, of you dressed to thrill on Saturday night?!?

[Busboy]

Can't wait to hear what happens!

[ash_hotgf]

Morning

Last night was our third meetup with Jake at downtown club, and wow, did things heat up. I chose an ultra-short pleated skirt black, barely covering my ass , fizzing with every move and a cut-out V-neck mesh top sheer panels flashing just enough skin to turn heads. The skirt’s design was perfect for dancing and… other possibilities I paired it with strappy black heels. When I walked out, Tim’s jaw dropped Babe, you’re gonna kill it. We hit the club around 10 PM. The crowd was a mix of stylish twenty-somethings and seasoned players. Tim led us to a high-top table near the dancefloor, his hand on my lower back. Jake showed up right on time, looking like trouble. He greeted Tim with a handshake and pulled me into a hug. We ordered drinks to loosen up. Jake leaned closer, his knee brushing mine under the table "hard to behave", my response -"who said i want to". After our second round, Jake suggested the dancefloor. Jake took my hand, leading me to a dim corner where the R&B beat deep. I pressed against him, his hands went on my waist and his fingers brushing my skirt’s hem. I let it ride up slightly. He said I was playing dirty. Tim watched from the table. We danced through several songs. Jake’s hands browsing my hips, then my ass but respectful. arched into him, letting my skirt burst. I caught Tim’s look - part pride, part hunger. I felt him hard against me through his jeans.

After about 30 minutes of dancing, I was flushed. I glanced at Tim, who raised his glass with a wicked grin, asking us to take it further. I leaned into Jake and said wanna get some air. He nodded, grabbing my hand and leading me to the side exit. Tim stayed behind, giving us space but knowing he’d hear every detail. The alley was narrow, lit by streetlight. The cool air hit my heated skin like a shock. Jake pulled me close, his hands on my waist, and we were kissing. I sucked on his tongue, pressing myself against him. My mesh top shifted and his thumbs went just under my breasts. His hand slid under my skirt, fingers tracing my thighs then higher. Jake unzipped his jeans, pulling out his cock. He didn’t push inside, sliding himself against my pussy lips and clit, panties aside. He circled my clit, then pushed a little keeping me on edge without crossing the boundary. Jake’s free hand slipping under my top, my hips moved on their own and my skirt bunched up around my waist. Every move was a slow burn, pushing me closer to the edge but never quite there. I was so close to cumming. Finally, we slowed, pulling back with shaky laughs. I fixed my skirt down.

We rejoined Tim inside, my cheeks flushed, skirt slightly askew. He clocked it instantly. Jake laughed, saying she’s dangerous, man. You’re lucky. We grabbed one more drink. We wrapped up around midnight Tim and I barely made it home before we were tearing at each other. We were kissing, clothes hitting the floor, fucking hard on the living room floor. It was one of our wildest nights.

We'll debrief when Tim wakes up

[Seekingmore12]

Excellent start to your journey together….loved reading this last adventure…

Think it’s hot now, just the beginning, congratulations

G

[ash_hotgf]

Forgot to share :

David, the late-30s exec who had me blushing at my work event, took his sweet time to follow up! I was starting to wonder if he was super busy, playing it cool, or just hesitant. But Friday, he texted me at work: loved our coffee chat. How about dinner upcoming Wednesday night? My treat.” The way he said dinner felt loaded, like there’s more on his mind than just food. I didn’t wait to get home, I called Tim right from the office. Tim was thrilled, saying Fuck, that’s hot let’s make it happen. We checked our schedules, and Wednesday’s clear. I’m already picturing a sleek restaurant, me in a sexy dress, and that vibe from our coffee date. We’re keeping it flirty for now no explicit lifestyle talk. Tim’s totally on board, saying he’s turned to hear every detail afterward, and we’ve agreed I’ll be home before morning to keep things smooth.

[ash_hotgf]

Last night, curled up in bed, I offered Tim one last chance to stop everything. In the dark, I whispered that this was the final call if he wanted, I could tell David I was too busy, or admit we weren’t ready for this step. He stayed quiet for a long moment, and I could almost feel him turning it over in his mind, weighing the same fears I was. This was big once it happened, there was no undoing it.

Finally, he turned the question back to me, asking if I still felt certain. I could sense that he wanted me to take the responsibility for deciding, but I pressed back gently. It had to be our choice, not just mine. We needed to be sure, together, that we were ready to take this leap.

I kept wondering: what if David’s charm drew me in deeper than I expected? What if Tim’s feelings shifted after? But then I remembered the foundation we’d built our trust, our endless late-night talks, our wild nights that always pulled us closer. That is our safety net.

So I told him plainly that I was willing, as long as he was too. I admitted that part of me crave it, but it only made sense if we entered it as a team. Hearing that, he pulled me close and assured me we’d try it if it felt wrong, we’d stop, call it a one-time experiment, and move on. At the end of the day, we always had each other, and nothing could shake that.

I already know what I’ll be wearing. I’ve chosen a black evening dress, plunging neckline reveals just enough and jewel resting between my breasts.

[Busboy]

Can't wait to hear more!

[sandy691196]

We’re keeping it flirty for now no explicit lifestyle talk.

Lifestyle secrets may only be revealed after a certain level of trust, familiarity and intimacy is reached.
Otherwise if things go wrong then the guy may go around blabbering about your LS secret in the work circuit!

[Vin231]

It sounds like you two have a very strong foundation so no matter how it turns out you two will be good. But, It seems like it will be a great time. David sounds like a good guy and should be a good one to try this out on. He does know that you two are doing this for yourselves more than him. He just happens to be the lucky one that gets to enjoy you. I am wishing you two the very best and you and David have a Great Fun Naughty Night and it gets even hotter when you get home to Tim. Looking forward to the details.

[zorro]

This is getting very good!

[ash_hotgf]

It sounds like you two have a very strong foundation so no matter how it turns out you two will be good. But, It seems like it will be a great time. David sounds like a good guy and should be a good one to try this out on. He does know that you two are doing this for yourselves more than him. He just happens to be the lucky one that gets to enjoy you. I am wishing you two the very best and you and David have a Great Fun Naughty Night and it gets even hotter when you get home to Tim. Looking forward to the details.

David’s the lucky one getting to join our fun, but this is all about us as a couple. He seems respectful and chill, which makes him a great fit to test this out with.

[ash_hotgf]

Last night, Tim and I had one of those long conversations that left me lying awake after, staring at the ceiling and imagining what’s about to happen. We’ve been talking circles around this for weeks flirting, teasing, toeing the line but Tim finally said it straight: he wants me to go all in with David tomorrow night.

At first, I thought he meant just more flirting, maybe letting it get a little hotter than coffee shop touches and bar banter. But no he was crystal clear. He wants me to let myself go, to see where the night takes me without pulling back. To actually take that next step. Hearing him say it made my heart race in a way that’s hard to put into words.

We talked through everything, because that’s who we are. Tim admitted he’s been fantasizing nonstop about me in that black evening dress, sitting across from David with a glass of wine in hand, laughing and leaning closer . He confessed that it’s not just the tease that excites him anymore it’s the idea of me surrendering to the moment, letting David take me there, and then coming home to him wrecked in the best way.

I’ll be honest I felt a mix of fear and excitement when he said it. Fear, because once that line is crossed, there’s no undoing it. But also excitement, because I’ve never seen Tim so turned on by the idea of me being fully with another man. He told me he doesn’t just want the story this time he wants to know I’ve lived it.

We set boundaries, but they’re not about holding back anymore. They’re about making sure I feel safe to let go. I told Tim I’d text him at least once during the night something small, maybe just a heart emoji or a “thinking of you” to remind him I’m carrying him with me even while I’m with David. He said that little breadcrumb will be enough to keep him buzzing until I get home.

We also talked about the after. Tim wants tomorrow night to end with me walking through our door, still tasting David , maybe even his cum, and crawling straight into his arms. He wants to fuck me raw while I tell him everything. The thought of that had us both panting before we even touched each other.

So Tim wants me to step fully into the hotwife role we’ve been dancing around.

[Restarting]

Sounds like it's all systems go!
Enjoy the ride. Looking forward to hearing about it!

[Greg_N_Shelley]

David’s the lucky one getting to join our fun, but this is all about us as a couple....

I like your mindset. That's exactly how my wife and I viewed our HW adventures. The other guys were "invited guests" in our circle of intimacy as a couple.

I'm eager to hear how things go tonight!

[leggysman]

In "Hello from Florida" you wrote

Young couple here - Me - Ashley and my partner - Jamie from Florida

I’m Ashley, 28, and Tim is 30. We’ve been together for three years, living in a cozy apartment in California.

[ash_hotgf]

In "Hello from Florida" you wrote

Young couple here - Me - Ashley and my partner - Jamie from Florida

I’m Ashley, 28, and Tim is 30. We’ve been together for three years, living in a cozy apartment in California.

Just to clarify - I meant to use a pseudonym, “Jamie,” and a different location, Florida, to keep things private while getting my account set up. Thanks for catching it, leggysman, In my rush to meet the 10-post requirement and get verified on the forum.

[joel68]

Heating up big time!

[superb101]

Im so excited to read the details of last night!

[ash_hotgf]

Last night’s dinner with David got intensely hot but hit my personal wall.

It was a rollercoaster. I was a nervous wreck getting ready, slipping into the black evening dress paired with a necklace Tim got me for our anniversary. It felt strange wearing something so special for another guy, and I checked with Tim, he was OK. David chose a hidden gem of a bistro in the suburbs, perfect for privacy, with incredible Italian food. The vibe was great from the start—his eyes on me, complimenting my dress, his hand brushing mine as we shared a bottle of Chianti. We laughed through work talk and flirty chat, his knee pressing against mine under the table.

After dinner, David invited me to his place for a nightcap. My pulse was racing, but I said yes, texting Tim at 8:30 from the restaurant bathroom "Having a blast, he’s a gentleman. Heading to his condo now. Love you". His place was nice, modern, and intimate. We had a cocktail in his living room, and things escalated fast. He pulled me close, and we crashed into a heavy makeout session, we kissed hard and deep. I was all in, my body buzzing, nipples hard, and soaking wet. We found ourselves on his couch, and it got wilder - his hands slid under my dress, tugging it up. I reached down, massaging his cock through his pants, feeling him rock-hard. He pulled my dress down to free my tits sucking and teasing my nipples. It was hot intense and his hands gripping my ass.

But then, I hit a wall. I couldn’t go further. Guilt and overwhelm hit me hard. I pulled back saying I need to slow down and I’m not ready for more. He was a total gentleman. Tim was waiting up. I spilled every detail—the dinner, the makeout, how I stopped short. I thought he’d be into it, but he was frustrated saying he was hoping I'd go further this time. I said I hit my limit, between the thrill and my own boundaries. hurt to see him disappointed, and our talk felt off. We cuddled but...

I’m worried we’re out of sync, and it’s weighing on me.

Today, David sent a stunning bouquet of flowers to my office with a note "Last night was unforgettable. Hope you’re okay. ". He also texted: “Had an amazing time, Ashley. You good? Let’s grab another dinner soon.” It was sweet and lifted my spirits, but I’m still processing last night and Tim’s reaction

Most likely this was not the update you're expecting as well

[BallSpanking]

Well, that sounded lovely ...
Think of it as a practice run. Next time you will probably have quieted your qualms.
(I hope, otherwise David's blue balls could be severe)

[Greg_N_Shelley]

... I thought he’d be into it, but he was frustrated saying he was hoping I'd go further this time. I said I hit my limit, between the thrill and my own boundaries. hurt to see him disappointed, and our talk felt off. We cuddled but...

I’m worried we’re out of sync, and it’s weighing on me.

...It was sweet and lifted my spirits, but I’m still processing last night and Tim’s reaction

Most likely this was not the update you're expecting as well

You did what you felt was right in that moment. Just as you should. And you also discovered something about yourself, an inner barrier or as you describe “a wall.”

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

All that we know about Tim is what you’ve shared about him. But I propose you may be reading a bit into Tim’s reaction. I have no doubt he was disappointed, but I am sure he only wants you to do what you feel comfortable doing. That’s the nature of love.

My wife blessed me with 14 years of amazing hotwife adventures. Those days came to an end when she went through early menopause, her libido tanked, and her values correspondingly changed. I was disappointed with those changes and it took me quite some time to let go of any desires about resurrecting those days, but I accept the present. And moreover, feel appreciative for the adventures we did enjoy and the woman she is today. Again, that’s the nature of love.

You’re just starting your journey. Give yourself time. From everything you’ve shared thus far, it’s clear you and Tim have a great mindset and I’m sure there are many incredible adventures coming in your future.

Based on your previous experiences with Jake, I suspect that “wall” will fall much more naturally if Jake joins both of you together. I'm sure it will crumble the moment you look over Jake's shoulder and witness Tim's enthusiastic encouragement!

[Greg_N_Shelley]

Double Post.

[Long Lurker 34]

Last night’s dinner with David got intensely hot but hit my personal wall.

It was a rollercoaster. I was a nervous wreck getting ready, slipping into the black evening dress paired with a necklace Tim got me for our anniversary. It felt strange wearing something so special for another guy, and I checked with Tim, he was OK. David chose a hidden gem of a bistro in the suburbs, perfect for privacy, with incredible Italian food. The vibe was great from the start—his eyes on me, complimenting my dress, his hand brushing mine as we shared a bottle of Chianti. We laughed through work talk and flirty chat, his knee pressing against mine under the table.

After dinner, David invited me to his place for a nightcap. My pulse was racing, but I said yes, texting Tim at 8:30 from the restaurant bathroom "Having a blast, he’s a gentleman. Heading to his condo now. Love you". His place was nice, modern, and intimate. We had a cocktail in his living room, and things escalated fast. He pulled me close, and we crashed into a heavy makeout session, we kissed hard and deep. I was all in, my body buzzing, nipples hard, and soaking wet. We found ourselves on his couch, and it got wilder - his hands slid under my dress, tugging it up. I reached down, massaging his cock through his pants, feeling him rock-hard. He pulled my dress down to free my tits sucking and teasing my nipples. It was hot intense and his hands gripping my ass.

But then, I hit a wall. I couldn’t go further. Guilt and overwhelm hit me hard. I pulled back saying I need to slow down and I’m not ready for more. He was a total gentleman. Tim was waiting up. I spilled every detail—the dinner, the makeout, how I stopped short. I thought he’d be into it, but he was frustrated saying he was hoping I'd go further this time. I said I hit my limit, between the thrill and my own boundaries. hurt to see him disappointed, and our talk felt off. We cuddled but...

I’m worried we’re out of sync, and it’s weighing on me.

Today, David sent a stunning bouquet of flowers to my office with a note "Last night was unforgettable. Hope you’re okay. ". He also texted: “Had an amazing time, Ashley. You good? Let’s grab another dinner soon.” It was sweet and lifted my spirits, but I’m still processing last night and Tim’s reaction

Most likely this was not the update you're expecting as well

AHGF
- There's nothing wrong with having doubts and second thoughts. Especially with a relationship in mind, your marriage.
- Making 'the leap' is not something that has to be done all at once. Best as we can understand David is a good guy, sending you flowers, a note.
- I believe if you have a sit down with David and just let him know you want to do this, but at your pace it will go well. And probably over all make for a better experience for both you. Do some more vanilla dating. Perhaps not all intensely romantic, mix it up a bit and I would bet you will find you will push your comfort level a little bit at a time. And it will just happen naturally, just like when you were single.

[skoot1958]

Take your time, small steps, you had a great time and by the sound of it where very turned on bu the whole experience

Once you ready your cross over to being a hot wife. After that you find it hard to stop, the freedom of exploring a new world

[zorro]

Ash, I will echo those who have advised you to not do what you don't want to do. Even if part of you is ready to go for it, there is a part that does not. I invite you to respectfully explore what those feelings are that led to your feeling you had to stop.

The answer to that will be major self-knowledge and personal growth. If and when you get to a point where you want to put both feet and additional important body parts into it, then you will know it is what you want to do and be confident that you truly want it and are not doing it to please Tim.