Vanilla reminders of wife's previous lovers?

[Greywolf and Vixen]

There's a coffee mug in her Starbucks collection that was from a 'date' weekend. A nice one to pull out every now and then. Near the house there are a couple of parks that hold some special memories too, always fun to drive past those and see her little smile. On the flip side, there's a 'bad' park too that we try to avoid.

[bufaker]

She never deleted her old chats from gmail chats with her lover. It's so hot to go back and read them

[MarknSusan]

We did a lot of vanilla things including sports and travel with Susan’s FWB’s and Facebook automatically brings up images as memories from years ago.

[MartasBoy]

Recently, my wife invited a church friend over for coffee. She pulled out a mug for her friend, and her friend commented on the mug. Turns out, the mug was a gift from her long-time lover—it was from his army reserve unit. My wife's friend mentioned that she was also in the army reserve and served in the same unit. My wife just vaguely mentioned that a friend had given her the mug. Now, when I use the mug for coffee, it reminds me of her lover. He did buy her sexy outfits, but she doesn't wear them.

Are there any other vanilla-type items around your house that remind you of a wife's previous lovers?

Oh my gosh, there are many. My wife has a couple of decorative masks that she and I love her would wear sometimes when having sex. I think of it often, when I go downstairs to the family room and see them hanging on the wall.

My wife's boyfriend has taken her as his New Year's Eve date to New Year's Eve parties the last 3 years. Each time she buys a new dress, shoes, and a purse. I see them whenever I go into her closet to fondle her shoes, and I can see the dresses hanging in the spare closet.

Her boyfriend asked to take some sexy photos of her, in various sexy outfits, sitting on his motorcycle. She has a couple of them hanging on the wall. Whenever friends ask about them, she just says it was something she did for fun on a friend's motorcycle we borrowed. She doesn't tell them that the owner of the bike took the photos, and took her sexually on the bike as well.

She has some bikini photos they took on a romantic weekend getaway. People ask when it was, and where we went when the photos were taken, and she just pushes off the questions by saying, that she doesn't remember which trip that was.

She often likes to steal a shirt from her boyfriend, one that he has worn. She likes to put a splash of his cologne on the collar so she can sleep in the shirt, smell his signature fragrance, and masturbate. Some mornings I will hug her at breakfast, and I can smell his cologne on the shirt she slept in the night before.

[Very Hot Wife]

By coincidence, we walked by a nearby beach hotel this very evening that invoked memories for us both.

Becky has met two lovers at that hotel, both times for 2-3 nights. Every time we pass by, we exchange smiles...

Just prior to the first meet at that hotel, Becky had decided she was going ditch condoms forever and always have bareback sex. So it's been nicknamed by us at the "Bareback Hotel".

They have been fucking her weekly since those nights in the hotel, never a condom in sight.

So it's not just a case of a hotel reminding us of previous lovers, it is a mark of her change to a love of spunky sex.

[Mr Selene Sevant]

My hot wife has a Burberry (sp?) scarf a boyfriend gave her over a decade ago. He was an asshole but fucked her soo well. Introduced her to rough sex. And that’s what she likes. We have done much energetic work around him and her. Cleared a metric shit ton.

So now I use it to tie her up.

[zorro]

My former wife was given a pair of lizard-skin boots while at a business meeting with a professional colleague she had met at national events. They had fucked several times and at least once spent the night in a motel by the water in Laguna Beach.
Their romantic/sexual relationship eventually ended, but she kept the boots in our closet. Whenever i saw them, I thought of them fucking, and until I worked through my HW hubby issues they left me with feelings of a punch in the stomach and intense erotic arousal.
We eventually split after more than 11 years, and she took his boots with her. Their having fucked definitely does not bother me in the least now.

So it goes.

[AdamGunn]

When she was first hotwifing, Mary would buy different bra and pantie sets for her lovers, saying a new set made her feel very sexy. Whenever I watched her dressing for work in the morning, and she'd put on one of those, I would get an instant hard on thinking of the escapade.

[weluvtoodoit]

There is a campground about 1.5 hours from us that was the starting point for my wife when we spent a weekend with another couple and the husband reached across and touched my wife while his wife and I were fast asleep. That was 50 yrs ago and yet to this day when we are driving by that particular campground, I might have her vibrator along and she will masturbate with it, or possibly will give me a blowjob or use her fingers on herself. Fun times to think back for us when we occasionally drive that way. The name has not changed in all those years and it is still called "Breeze".

[rohan094]

For all practical purposes she had no previous lovers which funnily enough is why we started on this journey lol

[Parsifal]

My wife (Gala) began hotwifing with one of our neighbors who was a parent of one our daughter's elementary school friends. When the neighbor's wife left him, he became chummy with us, one thing led to the next, and as it worked out we all had mutual needs for it happening, which for a year or so it did. The neighbor has long since moved away and will remarry soon, but we stay in touch. I still pass his house depending on how I access our neighborhood, and every time I look at the bedroom window and imagine my wife on a king bed on other side, her legs open, raised apart, in anoesic bliss.

[vette19690]

my wife still wears a star sapphire ring with diamond chips one of her old boyfriends gave her before I met her. She was 17 and he was 21 at the time. She still wears it everyday. I know she had at least one 'encounter' with him after we were married (she doesn't know I know about that) and I can only suspect (or fantasize?) about what happened and what she did to earn that ring.. 21 year old guy and 17 year old girl? He also took her to both her junior and senior high school proms. Every time I see that ring (DAILY) my dick twitches. LOL!

[BCiym]

A couple of different pens from local hotels.

[zorro]

her legs open, raised apart, in anoesic bliss.

Tip o' the hat for your choice of an exotic but spot-on word to capture your wife's blissful passage into the zone. Very erudite.

[Parsifal]

her legs open, raised apart, in anoesic bliss.

Tip o' the hat for your choice of an exotic but spot-on word to capture your wife's blissful passage into the zone. Very erudite.

LOL. Only a true nerd gets off on the phenomenonology of his wife's round-the-corner romps in neighborhood bed chambers.

[zorro]

And how many HW hubbies are nerds?

[Parsifal]

And how many HW hubbies are nerds?

It goes with the territory, I'm afraid. We tend to conceptualize "reality" as our wives experience whatever reality exists for them in "real" time.

[carolinacuck]

Every time I pass a certain hotel in our city, my little guy gets rock hard. C had her second sexual encounter there with Jody, a man I was acquainted with from a work standpoint. He had placed an online ad as a man looking to help with with a married woman's pleasure in a threesome/cuckold type relationship. She was interested, so we responded and exchanged nude pics of her and him. C was very impressed with his big thick cock, and he was equally impressed with her hot shapely figure. When they traded face pics, I realized that I knew him....and I also knew he was an arrogant type who liked to brag about his sexual conquests. I didn't want to be outed as a cuckold by him within our circle of work acquaintances. Well, she wanted to meet him and since he didn't know her, I thought maybe they wouldn't hit it off and thus that would be the end of things.

They met and she invited him back to our place while I was conveniently "out of town." So after a couple of hours, he left and I came back home and C said the sex was great and she wanted to see him again. A couple of weeks later, he was in town with three other work colleagues and was staying in this local hotel. He invited her over one afternoon after they finished work early, and he kicked out his roommate and he and C had some mind blowing sex that she described as "even better than the first time." While they fucked, the three guys in the room next door got to listen through the paper thin walls to quite a loud sexual encounter, as he mounted her very successfully to two orgasms.

Long story short, the word eventually got out that she was my wife and was Jody's married side piece. They had a year plus relationship and I was fortunate enough to get to watch them in action numerous times.

[Thebestdays1]

One of my ex wife's lovers used to take her to a naturist club that he and his family were members of. One day she told me that she'd noticed nearly everyone there had at least one tattoo and that she was thinking of getting one too. I wasn't keen on the idea as I don't like them and said I hoped she wouldn't get one. It wasn't long after that, that she had a threesome with her boyfriend and his mum and she told me his mum had a small tiger head tattoo on her shoulder and that it looked sexy on her. I said I still didn't like them. The following monday, her day off, I came home and saw she had a dressing on her upper arm. Sure enough, she'd had a tattoo! It was a Cheetah's head, her favourite animal.
From that time on, whenever I saw her upper body, I was reminded of her going to the naturist club with her then, boyfriend. It's 27 years old now and now that we've started seeing each other again, I'm still reminded of her boyfriend and his mum when I see her undressed.

[Flavius]

Items around the house:
- mug
- sculpture
- Dutch (Delft) blue miniature houses
- a book
- a sofa on which she lay with several men in our office

Additionally there are quite a number of hotels in which, as Parsifal put it so nicely, she lay her legs open, raised apart, in anoetic bliss. Seeing these hotels brings that to mind from time to time.

[wulfenus]

Also, people reading/writing tend to be more literary, therefore I'd venture more likely to be nerdy or
at least nerdier than avg.

it's like venturing a guess that those that watch espn tend to be sports fans.

And how many HW hubbies are nerds?

It goes with the territory, I'm afraid. We tend to conceptualize "reality" as our wives experience whatever reality exists for them in "real" time.

[Parsifal]

Also, people reading/writing tend to be more literary, therefore I'd venture more likely to be nerdy or
at least nerdier than avg.

it's like venturing a guess that those that watch espn tend to be sports fans.

And how many HW hubbies are nerds?

It goes with the territory, I'm afraid. We tend to conceptualize "reality" as our wives experience whatever reality exists for them in "real" time.

Since you've put this topic in issue - consider:

https://www.thedailybeast.com/cuckoldin ... llectuals/

[wulfenus]

There you have it ! Never underestimate the powers of telling someone they are smart

[Swe_male]

I can today see from our house an other house that I know my wife have been fucking in just before we were start dating. It was a handsome and popular ice hockey player in the local team (which I represented at the same time as well) she went home with to fuck.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, in my wife and I family room we have a multitude of framed photos on display on the walls. The photos span numerous years going back to our wedding.

One of the photos is of my wife in her wedding dress with one of the men in our wedding party. They look happy together and occasionally friends and family ask who the handsome man is. The honest answer is that is an old boyfriend of hers who she fucked for years.

The generic answer we give people is, oh that is a mutual friend of ours we haven’t seen in years, yet my wife’s is friends with him on social media. My wife likes that photo and has no plans in taking it down.