Quite so. LOL
It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
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venus-can99 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 16, 2025 10:33 amThanks for the wonderful "wedding" update W. Hopefully you and Lana have resolved any issues caused by her college friend. Hope to hear more detail from you when you have the time
I feel like we're in a good place now as it pertains to her college friend, but as much as we've resolved whatever feelings we had about him, I don't think we'll be exploring anything with him. The women's group chat had mentioned him a few times about how good he looked, and they teased Lana about the scandalous stuff Lana would do with him behind her boyfriend's back in college. But for the most part, their conversation was mainly about Conner.
Update: My meeting was pushed back a bit so I'll include a few other details I forgot or didn't have time to go into earlier.
- Bart asked about the order of Conner blowing his loads - In her pussy the first time as he took her from behind, while he held her upright and as they kissed, his hands cupping her breasts with one of her hands holding the back of his head to pull his face closer to hers. The second time was in her mouth. The third time was in her pussy while they made love in missionary the morning after. He was softly kissing her neck as he blew his load too, causing her to orgasm uncontrollably during. So yes, I was tasting his cum that same morning.
- After his first orgasm, Lana and Conner laid in bed as he told her about his work as a male stripper (part time, as he's in grad school at the moment for business) and how about half of the time, the bride to be cheats in some capacity with one of the strippers whether it be oral or sex. He says that married women are his favorite at these sorts of things as a lot of the times, they have a lot of built up sexual frustration as bedroom life with their husbands have become stale.
- Conner also reminded Lana of the possibility that I might be turned on by the idea of her stepping out, as quite a few husbands do. She played dumb and said that she didn't think I would ever be into it, but he told her to consider it as he has a lot of experience of being a bull for couples and attests to the fact that a few of these arrangements have been born out of the wife cheating, feeling guilty and confessing to the husband, which leads to the husband coming around and even enjoying either watching or even participating. He reminded her that all of her friends already knew and it's likely a matter of time before word gets back to me, so he advised her to tell me before I find out from someone else.
- Lana's also confessed that she can't stop thinking about her night/morning with Conner. With other guys since Shawn, she's been pretty good at bifurcating her encounters with them and our regular life, with maybe the exception being Adam. But she says that Conner was basically a perfect lover.
- The husband that sent me the short video of Lana walking with Conner to her hotel room wants to know if I want to talk at some point. He says that his wife admitted that the ladies got a bunch of strippers for the bachelorette party and that Conner was one of them. I might take him up on it since it would be interesting to hear it from his perspective.
Okay, boss is calling. Bye for now.
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Whatever line you two draw, it’s simply there for Lana to step over it. She always does. I’m totally excited and comfortable about her planned time with Conner, whatever they got up to.
But even though it’s so trivial, I think you should be very upset about her dancing with the old flame - not an acceptable way to excite or wind you up. At that moment, I’d have insisted on taking her home and ruining the rest of her evening. That’s just me and my view on it. I’d ban her from having any further contact with him (if that’s even possible with Lana!!).
Also, she’s flaunting a lot in public, very dangerously amongst friends; it’s not just Cara anymore. You’re a truly out there cuckold now amongst a wide group. That’s fine if you agreed up front. I know I’d be excited by that. But are you truly up for it and okay with it?
But even though it’s so trivial, I think you should be very upset about her dancing with the old flame - not an acceptable way to excite or wind you up. At that moment, I’d have insisted on taking her home and ruining the rest of her evening. That’s just me and my view on it. I’d ban her from having any further contact with him (if that’s even possible with Lana!!).
Also, she’s flaunting a lot in public, very dangerously amongst friends; it’s not just Cara anymore. You’re a truly out there cuckold now amongst a wide group. That’s fine if you agreed up front. I know I’d be excited by that. But are you truly up for it and okay with it?
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It's a couple of times now that Conner has mentioned being a bull. I'm surprised that you two (well, Lana in charge) haven't taken him up on that, especially after this intimate chat they had after full-on sex, when he offered it again. Why didn't Lana take up the idea? I suspect is because she doesn't want you there herself ... perhaps you should ask her.
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parmaham55 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 16, 2025 12:16 pmWhatever line you two draw, it’s simply there for Lana to step over it. She always does. I’m totally excited and comfortable about her planned time with Conner, whatever they got up to.
But even though it’s so trivial, I think you should be very upset about her dancing with the old flame - not an acceptable way to excite or wind you up. At that moment, I’d have insisted on taking her home and ruining the rest of her evening. That’s just me and my view on it. I’d ban her from having any further contact with him (if that’s even possible with Lana!!).
Also, she’s flaunting a lot in public, very dangerously amongst friends; it’s not just Cara anymore. You’re a truly out there cuckold now amongst a wide group. That’s fine if you agreed up front. I know I’d be excited by that. But are you truly up for it and okay with it?
I should say that when Lana and I first discussed the idea of her being amorous with the stripper in front of all of the women, that we were taking a big step into becoming more public about this lifestyle. We knew that of a group of 10 women, there would likely be at least one that would tell her husband or boyfriend and soon after, word would get out. That's the point I believe that started off a conversation between us as to why exactly are we trying to keep things so secretive. Social standing amongst our close friends? Her fear of people seeing me as somehow less of a man? Loss of respect perhaps?parmaham55 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 16, 2025 12:33 pmIt's a couple of times now that Conner has mentioned being a bull. I'm surprised that you two (well, Lana in charge) haven't taken him up on that, especially after this intimate chat they had after full-on sex, when he offered it again. Why didn't Lana take up the idea? I suspect is because she doesn't want you there herself ... perhaps you should ask her.
After some time of discussing it, we realized that these were all silly apprehensions we were having as as a couple, we were always seen as the perfect couple amongst our friends, and I was always seen as the husband that the other women in the group wished their husbands were more like. And if those perceptions of us were to change because of this, we ultimately realized that we didn't really care that much because we didn't want our friends, or at least the fear of their reaction to have control over us anymore, whether they knew it or not.
Needless to say, I was not that surprised when I got the text message from one of the husbands as Lana and I are prepared for me to spill the beans to him when him and I eventually speak.
Regarding her college friend, Lana has apologized repeatedly for dancing with him while I was gone. She said that the second I stepped away to the bathroom, he approached her and promised it would only be one dance. I'm glad her and I worked through it and he's gone back into the subject of things we don't talk about again.
As it pertains to Conner becoming a regular bull - we both think that that may be the likeliest of outcomes and so the question would be at what point we transition from the cheating wife to the bull/cuck relationship.
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Was he less verbal and/or degrading than the previous guys who fucked your wife?
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Was he less verbal and/or degrading than the previous guys who fucked your wife?
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It is kind of a head-scratcher that Lana can’t dance with one guy, but have full-blown sex with another.. I think I get it though. That was some bad water under the bridge when you two were just starting out together.
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It sounds like exciting times ahead. Good luck and enjoy the ride:
1. Knowing that her/your friends know now is a rollercoaster!! Such a buzz from that, and potentially more relaxing relationships in future with them, once you've got over the initial encounters. Hopefully, her girlfriends will view you with renewed respect, just like Cara did, and express their envy, and the husbands, too, will be secretly so intrigued, and, of course, look at Lana in a new way. I hope you both embrace and have fun with it!
2. Lana having a relationship with a stripper, with you involved, has such potential adventures! I can imagine you accompanying Lana to a show of his, perhaps? - a mixed audience show so you can be there too - where she secretly acts as a plant and gives him one of her special blowjobs in front of a select audience, you feigning surprise. Wow, so hot. Plus all the sex to witness in various ways...I'm getting hot thinking about it.
1. Knowing that her/your friends know now is a rollercoaster!! Such a buzz from that, and potentially more relaxing relationships in future with them, once you've got over the initial encounters. Hopefully, her girlfriends will view you with renewed respect, just like Cara did, and express their envy, and the husbands, too, will be secretly so intrigued, and, of course, look at Lana in a new way. I hope you both embrace and have fun with it!
2. Lana having a relationship with a stripper, with you involved, has such potential adventures! I can imagine you accompanying Lana to a show of his, perhaps? - a mixed audience show so you can be there too - where she secretly acts as a plant and gives him one of her special blowjobs in front of a select audience, you feigning surprise. Wow, so hot. Plus all the sex to witness in various ways...I'm getting hot thinking about it.
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W, if this thing goes full cuckold mode and you are “outed”, the possibilities are endless. Imagine going on trips together ( or Lana alone) and not freaking out about what anyone thinks! His profession however leaves questions.Would Lana be possessive about her bf being with other women, or would it excite her to be part of his harem? I’m not sure you two have even gotten that far in your discussions. The fact that he’s getting his Masters probably means he won’t be stripping forever. Exciting times! I can’t wait to hear about your being outed(so erotic!) and Lana’s desires about how this unfolds.
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W.. if you can get Lana to stay true and loyal to you when push comes to shove (staying married and staying true are two different things) then this Connors binge can yield rich dividends in multiple currencies!
Lana's friend's hubby can be recruited by you as a fellow cuck and the friend can be then coopted as a hotwife comrade of Lana.
All it needs is for you to ''confide' in this guy that you don't know how to cope with Lana's "infidelity" with Connors and have been reading up about other men's coping mechanisms.
That's how you came across this "new" concept of cuckold angst, eroticising the pain and blah blah blah..
Ask him if he has ever experienced any inexplicable turn-on when other men hit on his wife.
If things go well, you can recruit him in your cuck commando!
If he doesn't bite the bait, the whole conversation can be written off and rationalised as the desperate attempts to cope- of a victim of infidelity!
If they as a couple join you and Lana in the LS... then lots of interesting stuff can happen.
The other aspect is Connors sharing Lana with other strippers.. ergo variety for Lana!
And the last frontier that Lana and you can breach is- if Connors can get her to try being a stripper at bachelor parties or male bonding events...
Imagine the taboo.. the rush and the entirely new gear shift!
Cheers.
Lana's friend's hubby can be recruited by you as a fellow cuck and the friend can be then coopted as a hotwife comrade of Lana.
All it needs is for you to ''confide' in this guy that you don't know how to cope with Lana's "infidelity" with Connors and have been reading up about other men's coping mechanisms.
That's how you came across this "new" concept of cuckold angst, eroticising the pain and blah blah blah..
Ask him if he has ever experienced any inexplicable turn-on when other men hit on his wife.
If things go well, you can recruit him in your cuck commando!
If he doesn't bite the bait, the whole conversation can be written off and rationalised as the desperate attempts to cope- of a victim of infidelity!
If they as a couple join you and Lana in the LS... then lots of interesting stuff can happen.
The other aspect is Connors sharing Lana with other strippers.. ergo variety for Lana!
And the last frontier that Lana and you can breach is- if Connors can get her to try being a stripper at bachelor parties or male bonding events...
Imagine the taboo.. the rush and the entirely new gear shift!
Cheers.
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Just had a very enticing thought - could this ever evolve where Connor brings Lana to a bachelor party to serve as “entertainment”?
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Amazing to read all about these new developments. Very brave of you to open up on the lifestyle regardless of what others might think of you. I can imagine this will be difficult sometimes but also offers new unexpected adventures.
You've become quite experienced in eating her cum filled pussy, I wonder do you have a preference which of her lovers tastes the best?
You've become quite experienced in eating her cum filled pussy, I wonder do you have a preference which of her lovers tastes the best?
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Not necessarily, although he did mention me a few times. Namely when he grabbed Lana's phone from her - he hung up and after which said, "Enough talk, I'm about to fuck your wife." That, and the morning after, after the initial thrust into Lana's pussy while they were in missionary, Conner asked Lana, "is this how you and hubby make love?" When Lana said yes, he kept kept asking her with almost each thrust, "like that?" "like that?" He would then spend the rest of the time until they both came for each other kissing her on the lips and the neck.
This guy in particular has caused so many problems for Lana and myself that any interaction with him has been a really sensitive subject, so that extends to "merely" dancing.
parmaham55 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 12:47 amIt sounds like exciting times ahead. Good luck and enjoy the ride:
1. Knowing that her/your friends know now is a rollercoaster!! Such a buzz from that, and potentially more relaxing relationships in future with them, once you've got over the initial encounters. Hopefully, her girlfriends will view you with renewed respect, just like Cara did, and express their envy, and the husbands, too, will be secretly so intrigued, and, of course, look at Lana in a new way. I hope you both embrace and have fun with it!
2. Lana having a relationship with a stripper, with you involved, has such potential adventures! I can imagine you accompanying Lana to a show of his, perhaps? - a mixed audience show so you can be there too - where she secretly acts as a plant and gives him one of her special blowjobs in front of a select audience, you feigning surprise. Wow, so hot. Plus all the sex to witness in various ways...I'm getting hot thinking about it.
Jujube wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 5:30 amW, if this thing goes full cuckold mode and you are “outed”, the possibilities are endless. Imagine going on trips together ( or Lana alone) and not freaking out about what anyone thinks! His profession however leaves questions.Would Lana be possessive about her bf being with other women, or would it excite her to be part of his harem? I’m not sure you two have even gotten that far in your discussions. The fact that he’s getting his Masters probably means he won’t be stripping forever. Exciting times! I can’t wait to hear about your being outed(so erotic!) and Lana’s desires about how this unfolds.
I know my predictions have been wildly off for this entire journey, but I'm entirely confident that Lana would never be a part of Conner's shows. It just doesn't seem like her personality to do anything like that but again, I've been almost completely wrong in my assessment of this stuff so who knows.sandy691196 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:32 amW.. if you can get Lana to stay true and loyal to you when push comes to shove (staying married and staying true are two different things) then this Connors binge can yield rich dividends in multiple currencies!
Lana's friend's hubby can be recruited by you as a fellow cuck and the friend can be then coopted as a hotwife comrade of Lana.
All it needs is for you to ''confide' in this guy that you don't know how to cope with Lana's "infidelity" with Connors and have been reading up about other men's coping mechanisms.
That's how you came across this "new" concept of cuckold angst, eroticising the pain and blah blah blah..
Ask him if he has ever experienced any inexplicable turn-on when other men hit on his wife.
If things go well, you can recruit him in your cuck commando!
If he doesn't bite the bait, the whole conversation can be written off and rationalised as the desperate attempts to cope- of a victim of infidelity!
If they as a couple join you and Lana in the LS... then lots of interesting stuff can happen.
The other aspect is Connors sharing Lana with other strippers.. ergo variety for Lana!
And the last frontier that Lana and you can breach is- if Connors can get her to try being a stripper at bachelor parties or male bonding events...
Imagine the taboo.. the rush and the entirely new gear shift!
Cheers.
I'll go into being officially outed in the update.
Well, I don't know if it's the fact that have a particularly bad sense of smell, thereby impacting my ability to taste very much, or if the fact that in the heat of the moment, I'm more focused on the act and what Lana is retelling me, but I can't really differentiate between any of her lover's cum.Regit wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:42 pmAmazing to read all about these new developments. Very brave of you to open up on the lifestyle regardless of what others might think of you. I can imagine this will be difficult sometimes but also offers new unexpected adventures.
You've become quite experienced in eating her cum filled pussy, I wonder do you have a preference which of her lovers tastes the best?
Update: So I texted our friend's husband back, and he responded that he would rather speak on the phone. He started the conversation off with the expected, "I don't even know how to tell you any of this..." and from there, went on about how his wife confessed to interacting with one of the strippers on Saturday night. Although the most she did was get on the ground as the stripper grinded up against her, simulating missionary while she felt his bare chest. He also demanded that she show him her phone, and upon doing so, found videos that she had taken during that night, and went onto describe everything that Lana had told me. I asked if he could send me the videos, which he did after our conversation. He also told me that Lana behaved in a way that "no man would be okay with," specifically describing her making out with Conner as he picked her up after grinding up on her, how she gleefully "skipped over to him" when he beckoned her over to go into the bedroom, and finally, how she was very audibly she was in the bedroom. According to his wife, not only was there the sound of Lana screaming out that Conner was going to make her cum, but she also claimed that there was the sound of the bedpost pounding against the wall.
This was the interesting part, as Lana claims that her and Conner only performed oral on each other that night, and seeing as they were the ones that occupied the bed, there was something that didn't add up. Anyway, I let him finish, and acted like a distraught husband, just now finding out about his unfaithful wife. We've decided that we will ultimately come out to our friends, but the angle we are going to run with will be that Lana cheated on me at the bachelorette party, confessed, and that I've come to accept it.
After I got off the phone with the husband, he sent me the videos and it was almost exactly like Lana had described - from the time Conner and the other strippers put whipped cream on their cocks and then covered up the women who were on their knees with a towel, eventually unveiling them to show their cocks cleaned off, to the simulated sex, to other such silly bachelorette games. The one video in question however, was a video of the outside of the bedroom door, where the other women were laughing, gasping in horror, and/or telling the others to quiet down in an attempt to hear the sounds emanating from the room. I could very clearly hear Lana screaming out "Oh God, right there! Oh God..... Don't stop!" to her shaky but full of lust exclamation that she was cumming. The notable part of this video however, was that I could also make out the sound of what sounded like a repeated thud against the wall.
I asked Lana about it, and she still claims that it was only oral that they did, and surmised that the metronome pounding sound was likely from her motions as she was squirming and going crazy for Conner as he was giving her oral. I already know that a lot of people might believe that Lana did in fact fuck Conner that night but I'm choosing to believe her in this instance. Also, I saw the messages with Conner afterwards and how he wanted to "finish what they started" which would make sense if Lana's account of the story is true.
Anyway, the plan for us moving forward is that Lana is going to tell he that she confessed to me, and that he was right in that I'm "surprisingly" curious and turned on by it. We haven't decided yet the extent of my participation, whether I want to be there for it the next time they fuck, whether I want to listen on the outside of the bedroom, watch, or even participate, as I'm sure we'll hammer out those details eventually. Until then, we have a lot of packing to do and moving this weekend. We also thought that it might be particularly hot if Conner was the first to fuck Lana in our new home, so there's that.
Otherwise, everything is good. Hope everyone is well.
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Conner didn't make any payments on the new house, didn't go through all the plans for consideration or negotiations with the contractors for the new house. He shouldn't get to be 1st for anything important other than a routine fucking of your wife!! He's just a contemporary meat of the month. YOU, however, were an integral part of all those things to make a better place for YOUR family. You and Lana should be the 1st for anything in that house. He can wait to do her 2nd, if not, tell him to hit the highway. Now if that thought of him being 1st gets you hot, then do what you wish. Jmho for what its worth!!
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Given Lana's past, how certain are you that she didn't also fuck the guy from college that night (or since).
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Given every detail we've read in your 230 pages of story, I suspect we're all a bit suspicious of Lana and her truths. Keep digging on that night. I see tears from her ahead.
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The two of you are just plain awesome! I wish you the best in all your adventures!
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The two of you are just plain awesome! I wish you the best in all your adventures!
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The two of you are just plain awesome! I wish you the best in all your adventures!
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Thanks for the updates W and wish you the best for a smooth move to the new house. Perhaps Conner can help you guys move
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Appreciate the updates. Hopefully the move goes well. It is hot that you got those videos --- if it doesn't show any faces I think you should post the one of her getting oral so we can all judge for ourselves
Oh and hear her cum of course....
Can't wait to hear what happens next and how much of a regular conner becomes. If you can - have him or Kevin be the first to fuck her in the new house rather than you!
Can't wait to hear what happens next and how much of a regular conner becomes. If you can - have him or Kevin be the first to fuck her in the new house rather than you!
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
If you don’t understand how hot it would be for Connor to be the first to fuck Lana in W’s marital bed in their new home, you don’t fully grasp the cuckold intensity and angst, ie, pleasure that would provide to everyone involved - especially W. It’s over-the-top 

. And I think it would be more intense if it’s done with Connor still thinking Lana is cheating…


. And I think it would be more intense if it’s done with Connor still thinking Lana is cheating…- rascalnvixen
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You're right!!! I'm not a cuck. I understand the desires to some point, but I am a strong advocate for the original couple. I think that is the basis of the lifestyle. The couple give each other the rudder they need to get through life together with all of their individual needs. The couple is primary and that is why I think they should do the first sex in the house on their own. They could have Connor on standby out in the living room waiting to have his way with her and he could watch or go mow the lawn when Connor gives her a good one, or two, or three. That's all up to them. They don't have to follow my thoughts, I'm just sharing an opinion, as you just did!!!Bart77 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 20, 2025 4:30 amIf you don’t understand how hot it would be for Connor to be the first to fuck Lana in W’s marital bed in their new home, you don’t fully grasp the cuckold intensity and angst, ie, pleasure that would provide to everyone involved - especially W. It’s over-the-top. And I think it would be more intense if it’s done with Connor still thinking Lana is cheating…
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Not only can Connor be the 1st to fuck Lana in there new house with W watching. Maybe he can guide Connor's cock into Lana and have his 1st creampie from Connor
This can establish W as the secondary sexual person in the house with Lana's lover being the 1st. The possibilities are endless.
This can establish W as the secondary sexual person in the house with Lana's lover being the 1st. The possibilities are endless.