Reignite the Flame

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by BallSpanking » Sat Sep 20, 2025 12:29 pm

Your state of mind is not a mystery, you obsess over S becoming a HW.
Now you achieved that, the question is, 'What is S's state of mind regarding hotwifing?'

I think there are two questions there.Her disposition toward HW'ing in general, seeing as she is (by your description), flirting.
Alternately, how she feels about HW'ing in regards to NYCBullForHW's specifically. I think we all have some sense of the answer to that, but not directly from S.

So how about it, does her flirting give you an opening to broach the topic with her? 😉
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by ducati boy » Sat Sep 20, 2025 2:31 pm

QuietHope wrote:
Sat Sep 20, 2025 8:47 am
The cuck kink is powerful.
It certainly is very powerful. I just am loudly hoping that you do not lose her in the process....

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by ducati boy » Mon Sep 22, 2025 6:08 pm

Anything to share?

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by ducati boy » Wed Oct 01, 2025 6:35 am

*sigh*

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by QuietHope » Sun Oct 05, 2025 2:09 pm

Hey all...I appreciate everyone's concern for me and I'm sorry for not posting recently. Life's been fine, just not a lot to post.

We did have a talk and it was good. A few points:
1) She didn't lie about not exchanging contact details with NYbull. However, they spent enough time together that night and exchanged enough personal information that it was easy to look each other up soon after. The texting seems to have died down.

2) She has no current plans to go to NYC, although that might change. Frankly, she's a busy person and has lots of pressures and she doesn't have the time. She said she has good friends that she hasn't seen in a while and she'd much rather spend a free weekend with one of them. Or have a weekend away with me.

3) She is irritated with me for not being happy. She feels like she did something big that I wanted her to do and shared every detail with me. What more do I want? She said that I should have expected to lose some control and she reminded me of the warnings she gave and my promises to ride through any waves.

We did have make up sex and true to cuck form, I orgasmed very early and she needed to masturbate herself to orgasm.

We do have a weekend away coming up next weekend. A quiet place up in wine country, just the two of us.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by BallSpanking » Sun Oct 05, 2025 2:59 pm

Sophia seems content to have her HW experience be a one-off, thinking you would be satisfied.
Unfortunately, it only whetted your appetite for more, and have her become an actual practicing HW.
In return, she is offering vanilla sex, which had already been the norm in your marriage.
She appears unwilling to entertain HW'ing as anything more than a vehicle to appease you, and can't be bothered
to sacrifice valuable free time on your fraught, complicated endeavors, when she has so little time available.

All are reasonable points, but fail to satisfy a cuckold's impulse, particularly after learning how amazingly successful her first experience was. What now?

I noticed that the tenor of S's tone when communications with her Bull was full of desire and longing, aching for him. My guess is that a request from NYCBullForHW would be met by much more consideration than from anyone else ... It is a completely different voice she uses to speaks to her husband on this topic. I believe the texts with her Bull are a truer expression of her feelings than what she may 'justify' for her husband, but we may never know.

It is difficult to say whether S's rejection is final, or is waving a red cape at a bull saying, last chance, exit here?
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by Midnight Joker » Mon Oct 06, 2025 5:51 am

QuietHope wrote:
Sun Oct 05, 2025 2:09 pm
Hey all...I appreciate everyone's concern for me and I'm sorry for not posting recently. Life's been fine, just not a lot to post.

We did have a talk and it was good. A few points:
1) She didn't lie about not exchanging contact details with NYbull. However, they spent enough time together that night and exchanged enough personal information that it was easy to look each other up soon after. The texting seems to have died down.

2) She has no current plans to go to NYC, although that might change. Frankly, she's a busy person and has lots of pressures and she doesn't have the time. She said she has good friends that she hasn't seen in a while and she'd much rather spend a free weekend with one of them. Or have a weekend away with me.

3) She is irritated with me for not being happy. She feels like she did something big that I wanted her to do and shared every detail with me. What more do I want? She said that I should have expected to lose some control and she reminded me of the warnings she gave and my promises to ride through any waves.

We did have make up sex and true to cuck form, I orgasmed very early and she needed to masturbate herself to orgasm.

We do have a weekend away coming up next weekend. A quiet place up in wine country, just the two of us.
Great update, QuietHope. Thank you. It is fully understandable how you want more after having a taste. I have a feeling that it will happen again, only when the time is right. She more than enjoyed the experience and while the texting has died down, the experience is in the back of her mind. She may want more of that later, but at the right time with the the right person. I'm sure she is still processing it too, so your being cool about it is paramount.

Although she may be annoyed, the fact that you're not upset will work in your favor since she knows you approve and handled her last affair perfectly. When she said you weren't happy, did you let her know that you were happy and grateful?

In the meantime, your a lucky man who got his wished to be cucked fulfilled. She took another man's cock. His cum ended up deep inside her womb and she swallowed him cum, too. Just image his cum in her belly whenever you look at her!

As for make-up sex, do you do dirty talk about what happened or what you both want to happen, or is she disinterested? It sounds like she wants some romance and connection time. She cucked you to make you happy, but she wants you as her husband...not as a cuckold. Unless you want to push her away, keep that connection going.

Again, thanks for the update!

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by QuietHope » Mon Oct 06, 2025 3:06 pm

Midnight Joker wrote:
Mon Oct 06, 2025 5:51 am
When she said you weren't happy, did you let her know that you were happy and grateful?
100% I did.
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As for make-up sex, do you do dirty talk about what happened or what you both want to happen, or is she disinterested? It sounds like she wants some romance and connection time. She cucked you to make you happy, but she wants you as her husband...not as a cuckold. Unless you want to push her away, keep that connection going.
No, I didn't do any dirty talk. I agree with your read of what she wanted. It was totally in my mind, however. I'm curious, when you have sex, is it ever NOT in your imagination?

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by BallSpanking » Mon Oct 06, 2025 4:59 pm

I think it is very healthy that you and S had a good conversation about it, in a good space, even if the outcome was somewhat disheartening. If you are able to engage her going forward in a way where you are able to express your feelings openly, you can confess to her this is something you've wanted for her for a long time. Not as a one time deal, to tease her or reject her. No, quite the contrary, to provide her with outstanding sexual self realization with her Bull, safe within the context of a loving supportive marriage. Tell her you want her to have her cake, eat it too, crave more, or see him often, if she likes ...

Again, if you had the persuasiveness of her Bull working toward that same end, she would likely come around sooner. 😉
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by Midnight Joker » Mon Oct 06, 2025 8:39 pm

QuietHope wrote:
Mon Oct 06, 2025 3:06 pm
Midnight Joker wrote:
Mon Oct 06, 2025 5:51 am
When she said you weren't happy, did you let her know that you were happy and grateful?
100% I did.
Midnight Joker" wrote:
Mon Oct 06, 2025 5:51 am
As for make-up sex, do you do dirty talk about what happened or what you both want to happen, or is she disinterested? It sounds like she wants some romance and connection time. She cucked you to make you happy, but she wants you as her husband...not as a cuckold. Unless you want to push her away, keep that connection going.
No, I didn't do any dirty talk. I agree with your read of what she wanted. It was totally in my mind, however. I'm curious, when you have sex, is it ever NOT in your imagination?
When you told her that you were indeed happy, what was her reaction/response? As for me thinking about it, it is in my mind for sure, even if just for a moment. She has to be in the mood for dirty talk and especially the cuckold talk. I can tell when she isn't into it and keep it to myself. I wouldn't be surprised if she knew I was still thinking about it, though.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by Bingy+1 » Sun Oct 12, 2025 3:13 pm

OK so they had enough personal information to track one another down but which of them took the time and trouble to get the other's cell number?

If it was NYC Bull perhaps it was to massage his ego or perhaps to encourage her to make another visit.

I it was S then start looking for flight deals and we look forward to you posting part two.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by armyguyot1 » Sun Oct 12, 2025 7:58 pm

Welcome to the forum Bingy+1.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by QuietHope » Mon Oct 13, 2025 11:16 am

It was her not him but the temperature seems to have cooled a bit. Other things happening in life-regular mundane things. She gets stressed about her time, or lack of, and so weekends away aren't easy to come by. I am checking in here most days, even if I don't have any updates.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by Wife4Guys » Tue Oct 21, 2025 12:27 pm

Perhaps Sophia opening an account here, then getting herself verified to be chatting in the ladies private area. Now that she's taken the plunge in NY I believe she may be working through some of the same issues the other wives may have dealt with. The communication may be helpful for her.
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by QuietHope » Fri Oct 24, 2025 9:11 am

Appreciate the offer but she's really not one to engage in a forum like this. Besides, I've embraced this forum as a place where I can freely express my own feelings with this community. If I knew she was reading over my shoulder, I wouldn't get the same benefits. But thank you, truly.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by myoralannie » Fri Oct 24, 2025 9:53 am

Has Sophia opened up a little more about her experience? Has she been playful about it? Any more details? Thanks.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by QuietHope » Sat Oct 25, 2025 8:58 pm

Holy Shit! Holy Shit! HOLY SHIT! ITS HAPPENING AGAIN!

Like right NOW! In our guest room! HOLY SHIT!

I’m freaking out. I’m caught unaware. I don’t know what to do with myself. My wife is with another man in the other room and what am I supposed to be doing? Watch TV? Read a frigging book? What the hell am I supposed to be doing aside from freaking?!

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by 60dCommon » Sat Oct 25, 2025 10:05 pm

Same guy?

My wife brought many lovers home to fuck in our bed. Sometimes, she'd tell me she needed the house to herself for a few hours. Other times, I was allowed to be in the house, but always banished to the living room while they had their time together at the other end of the house (no snooping!). Even more rarely, I was allowed to lick her after he left, which was bliss (I was PF).

But, yes, sometimes I did try to read a book or a magazine while also straining to hear any sounds of their lovemaking over the bedroom radio.

You'll do great. They will finish, he will leave, and you will go to her and give her whatever she needs.
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by playwifeplease » Sun Oct 26, 2025 2:29 am

QuietHope wrote:
Sat Oct 25, 2025 8:58 pm
Holy Shit! Holy Shit! HOLY SHIT! ITS HAPPENING AGAIN!

Like right NOW! In our guest room! HOLY SHIT!

I’m freaking out. I’m caught unaware. I don’t know what to do with myself. My wife is with another man in the other room and what am I supposed to be doing? Watch TV? Read a frigging book? What the hell am I supposed to be doing aside from freaking?!


How exciting QH, Sophia really is a bit of a dark horse! Please tell more, who is it and did you know anything was afoot?

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by QuietHope » Sun Oct 26, 2025 4:39 am

Friend of ours is visiting for the weekend from out of state. Dale. He’s the widower of a very very good friend of Sophia. We lost that friend to cancer about five years ago. A tragedy. Kids the same ages as ours. Through Sophia we all became friends long ago and they were our best “couple friends”. Through their friendship, I became friends with Dale. Real friends, too. Good man.

Dale is huge. 6’5”, mid 50s, I’ll guess 240 pounds. He’s losing his hair and opts to shave it all although the grey shows on the sides. He was a very good athlete-played collegiate volleyball-but he’s older and he’s put on weight, especially since losing his wife, but I don’t think anyone would describe him as fat. Nice smile. We all first became friends when we were still dating our wives many years ago, before kids etc. We’ve really gone through adulthood together.

Kids gone for the night and just the three of us drinking wine after dessert. Having fun. Lots of reminiscing and catching up and talking politics and other bullshit. He’s funny. Nothing sexual, no flirting that I was aware of, although Sophia looked nice in a skirt and a red sleeveless sweater with a nice v neck.

I eventually asked him if he was getting back out there? Dating anyone? He said No. He didn’t think he could or ever would and that he was fine with that. I was surprised because I remember him in his twenties and he was popular with women, even though he was loyal to his girlfriend. He and I would enjoy checking out women at bars and beaches etc over the years.

And for the record, I was only asking him as a friend. The two of them together NEVER occurred to me.

He said that it's been decades since he’s been with a woman other than his wife and he didn’t have a lot of experience before his wife. He just didn’t think he could do it. He didn’t care. He’s made friends and he’s filling his time between work and hobbies.

That’s when Sophia asked, “Is it the intimacy that you’re worried about?”

“Yeah…” he said sheepishly, red-faced.

“That’s cute, you’re like a frightened teenager again,” she said. At that moment, there was something about how she looked at him. Like a spider wanting prey. I felt like I was hit on the head with a huge hammer out of no where. Holy shit, I suddenly realized, she’s thinking about fucking him…

I asked if he’s even tried. Dating apps etc? He said that some of his buddies got him to put a profile up but he doesn’t check it and doesn’t see himself as meeting anyone that way.

I was then surprised to hear Sophia tell him that we created a profile for her. Just for fun. He looked a little surprised. That’s when Sophia moved from sitting next to me on the couch to next to him on the couch where he was. She had her phone and told him to open the app. They both did it and both put on the settings for nearby and their targeted age range and they started scrolling. Sure enough, they got each other and laughed and matched each other.

Sophia then looked up at him in the eyes and asked what he wanted to do on their first date. He then looked over at me and asked what’s going on.

I shrugged, trying to act calm even though I was glued to every movement of her body. I saw exactly where her body was touching him as she sat there. Her legs were curled up on the couch and her bare knees were pressed into his thigh. Her chest was moving back and forth, touching the side of his arm. She was looking directly up at him, staring unabashedly. I calmly said that we had been experimenting and if Sophia was interested, I would be fine.

“I don’t know. I don’t think so. We’re friends…” he said.

“Hmmm…maybe just a kiss? To see how it feels? I’m curious too and you’re someone we can trust,” she purred.

He just nodded and looked down at her.

She leaned up and there was a small kiss. Then again. Then deeper. Mouths open a little. Then he abruptly pulled back.

“I’m sorry. You’re so hot. I’ve always thought so. But…” he looked over at me. “I can’t perform for Karl. I’m not some swinger. I’m too nervous to have an audience. Hope you guys understand.”

I quickly replied. “Dale, I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to stare. I don’t have to watch. At all. For me, this is about Sophia’s enjoyment. You guys can take things back to your room and just see what happens. Nothing has to happen at all,” I said.

As I spoke, I was trying so hard to sound relaxed but I felt like I was shaking. I’m sure I was. It was surreal.

Sophia nodded and took his hand and stood. He stood up next and they walked away holding hands. She whispered to him and he nodded and walked on alone and she came back to me and stood up close and I wrapped my arms around her.

“You sure you want this right?” she said looking up at me in the eyes.

“Yeah, of course, I want you to enjoy it. I’ll be very happy if you do.”

“I feel like he needs some help and I’ve always been attracted to him. I feel comfortable with him.”

“That’s great then.”

“OK, I don’t know how long it will be or what will happen.”

“No need to rush anything.”

“This is crazy. I’m glad he said that about you not watching, I think this will be better. Hope you’re OK with that?”

“Yeah, it's not about me anyway.”

“I don’t think you should even go upstairs. No sneaking around. He might freak out if he thinks you’re spying.”

“Of course, I wouldn’t do that.”

“OK then.”

“OK.”

“I love you.”

“I love you, too.”

And then she turned and went to our bedroom and then a few minutes later, I heard her walk over to his room.

Then I cleaned up the wine glasses and dessert plates. I messaged you all. I waited anxiously on the couch and then, to my surprise, I fell asleep.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by Mr1SexyGILF » Sun Oct 26, 2025 7:55 am

Holy Freaking WOW. Sounds life the perfect Segway. I am envious of how naturally and organically this unfolded.

Looking forward to the details.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by Midnight Joker » Sun Oct 26, 2025 9:27 am

Wow! What a turn of events. Sounds like she's embraced being a hotwife. I hope you have more opportunities like this. Please share all the details!

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by leggysman » Sun Oct 26, 2025 11:15 am

It sounds as if you have yourself a genuine hotwife now :D

It's not an action so much as a state of mind, right? Such that, when an opportunity presents, she could be inclined to pursue it :up: .

Can't wait to hear any details she shared with you. I have a feeling Dale might want to socialize with you more often now :mrgreen: .
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by BallSpanking » Sun Oct 26, 2025 12:55 pm

Finally! Sofia takes the initiative in becoming a HotWife!
Congratulations! May this be the start of a wonderful adventure for her ...

Next time you might graciously suggest they take the master bedroom.
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Post by SweDic » Sun Oct 26, 2025 2:44 pm

Congratulations!

Where you able to hear anything?

What has she said afterwards?

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